If it's his sense of humor and she laughs at it, you'd 100% want to be with someone like that. Imagine spending the rest of your life with someone who doesn't share your sense of humour
You have to remember women on dating apps get a lot of sexual messages as openers. So they get fed up of them.
You thought this was a funny joke. Her inbox is full of 500 other guys sending sex related opening messages.
No, she absolutely doesn't. It's stupid and controlling to tell someone they need to find things they don't find funny, funny. Just like it's stupid and controlling to tell someone they need to enjoy (insert anything) more if they don't enjoy them. Stop trying to change people to fit what you like.
It’s a shitty joke I didn’t funny but it’s just a half assed attempt at flirty humor. It’s not even that crude. Idk. I wouldn’t write off a person for one shitty joke. I have three strike rule
They obviously have different characters. Sticking to his imo is better than accomodating another personality just to get a date that won't increase their compatibility anyway.
I'd probably have unmatched after that and not given it another response, if I were in her mindset (which, for the record, I don't feel I am). But I'm not saying he's right and she's wrong. My point is that there's no shame in accepting that someone isn't a match afterall.
But it's three messages that show an incompatibility about a very basic thing like humor. They are not and can't be a perfect match in real life. Not sure what kind of answer you wanna hear from me at that point.
Exactly, a 69 joke can be funny but the way OP said it shows he has the emotional maturity of a 12 year old. I can't imagine typing this to a woman I'm seriously trying to date.
My girlfriend used to be like this. Some people need a little more time and “intimacy” before feeling comfortable with this type of jokes.
She still hates it sometimes tho
You guys just have different senses of humor and are likely not compatible. Why does someone have to be right? Just move on and find someone who will bend over laughing at your 69 joke
You come off pretty immature here OP but I’m assuming you’re under 25. It’s a silly eyeroll joke that will be less successful the older the person is but not really a right or wrong. Some people would’ve been into it
I don't get what's so sexaul about the number, i get its the position but its mainly just a funny number and not really more then a joke. Shes uptight fs
You’re saying that the number is funny on its own, aside from the sexual position?
I don’t think that’s why he said “nice.”
It’s about the sexual position.
There's no universal wrong or right here, but you two clearly don't click. Just mitigate your waste of time and unmatch.
You gotta start asking yourself “where do I expect things to go from here” before making moves like this
You can only go immediately to sex adjacent talk if you’re a 10.
I find it funny as well but agree that it's not really a joke you want to crack as the first line when talking to a potential partner
If it's his sense of humor and she laughs at it, you'd 100% want to be with someone like that. Imagine spending the rest of your life with someone who doesn't share your sense of humour
You have to remember women on dating apps get a lot of sexual messages as openers. So they get fed up of them. You thought this was a funny joke. Her inbox is full of 500 other guys sending sex related opening messages.
yeah she might find this funny if it wasn’t the first message from a stranger
She's right
She's definitely right.
Eh. She needs to lighten up a bit. It’s ok to be stupid sometimes
She also doesn't need to find it funny.
It's just an armless joke.
And a lame joke, and a weak first impression.
Idk, feels like my joke went over everyones head, im proud of that lol
Tough when the joke is indistinguishable from a typo.
That's the beauty of it, honestly.
No, she absolutely doesn't. It's stupid and controlling to tell someone they need to find things they don't find funny, funny. Just like it's stupid and controlling to tell someone they need to enjoy (insert anything) more if they don't enjoy them. Stop trying to change people to fit what you like.
It’s a shitty joke I didn’t funny but it’s just a half assed attempt at flirty humor. It’s not even that crude. Idk. I wouldn’t write off a person for one shitty joke. I have three strike rule
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They obviously have different characters. Sticking to his imo is better than accomodating another personality just to get a date that won't increase their compatibility anyway.
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I'd probably have unmatched after that and not given it another response, if I were in her mindset (which, for the record, I don't feel I am). But I'm not saying he's right and she's wrong. My point is that there's no shame in accepting that someone isn't a match afterall.
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But it's three messages that show an incompatibility about a very basic thing like humor. They are not and can't be a perfect match in real life. Not sure what kind of answer you wanna hear from me at that point.
You immediately make a sex joke and you think the problem is her?
Do 10 year olds actually understand 69 jokes?
How old is a fifth grader? 10-11ish? Pretty sure that's when I learned what it was.
I’m too old to remember, like I’m aware of finding 69 jokes funny, but probably before I actually understood what it actually was.
Tom Segura didn't understand but he was still obsessed with it
These are one of those jokes where it's a dead giveaway that you're someone on reddit who parrots the same old jokes over and over again
Exactly, a 69 joke can be funny but the way OP said it shows he has the emotional maturity of a 12 year old. I can't imagine typing this to a woman I'm seriously trying to date.
I really didn't think people wanted to hear that but I'm happy to see that most agree lol
My girlfriend used to be like this. Some people need a little more time and “intimacy” before feeling comfortable with this type of jokes. She still hates it sometimes tho
Reddit humor
Idk man I’m 44 and my wife is 38 and anytime one of us mentions the number 69 the other says “nice.”
Yes, but you already know each other. The context on a dating site to a new person is quite different.
You guys just have different senses of humor and are likely not compatible. Why does someone have to be right? Just move on and find someone who will bend over laughing at your 69 joke
Bend over. Nice.
maybe the 69 would be better a bit further in the convo ?
You got cooked
I think she probably gets lots of guys sending creepy sexual messages and is tired of it. It isn’t a clever joke.
Forget about it, she has no arms anyway..
Sorry, she's right
She is definitely uptight and boring.
You come off pretty immature here OP but I’m assuming you’re under 25. It’s a silly eyeroll joke that will be less successful the older the person is but not really a right or wrong. Some people would’ve been into it
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Yikes, incel alert.
Because 1000 men are exactly 69km away and she matched with each one of them, and its not even really sexaul its just a funny number
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It IS sexaul in nature but its MAINLY just funny, its just sex-adjacent, and in a playful way.
She is definitely uptight and boring.
I don't get what's so sexaul about the number, i get its the position but its mainly just a funny number and not really more then a joke. Shes uptight fs
You’re saying that the number is funny on its own, aside from the sexual position? I don’t think that’s why he said “nice.” It’s about the sexual position.
its funny BEYOND that, its immortalized itself as a funny number, its sexaully-adjacent to the position.
Well, you’ve lost me.
Its like 420, 420 isn't funny anymore because its connected to weed it's just funny because it's 420 just like 69
No that's not how that works at all.
Respond with, “I hope you don’t entertain children romantically, because then you would be a child molester.”
Ok, why did you know about 69 at 10?? Is much better than “guess I’m 10”
L rizz you fumbled a baddie