The first pussy was like dark chocolate and the licking with the ice & fluid spilling everywhere is the maddest thing I’ve seen on Reddit today. Man is that a wet pussy.
If it actually went well then she probably found someone else or something like that. I wouldn't take it too personally. Usually if someone is that immature then you dodged a bullet, my friend.
That is immature. Like how hard is it just to say “Sorry you were great but we don’t vibe the way i’m looking for rn”. it’s a No Risk situation is not like she have Anything to lose.
She's definitely not an idiot. But if I wanna give her the EXTREME benefit of the doubt I could say that her phone got stolen Friday so she didn't have my number when I texted her the first time. And then she backed up her phone from an old iCloud backup so everything was cleared before I texted her the second time. However, I’d put all my money on the fact that she’s just timid.
I've read about some women having such negative experiences when turning down guys that they just ghost to avoid the harassment, stalking, vitriol, etc.
She kind of ghosted, right? She hasn't replied to your message asking what happened, you just double messaged.
I'm sorry, it looks like you met a free food hunter. Not worth your time.
Having a negative experience before is no excuse to treat people like shit. We've all had bad experiences before and nobody gets the right to punish innocent others for them. If that flew I'd be slapping women all over the place because one broad once lied to me. This girl's behaviour is immature, dehumanising, and extremely dishonest. Dodged a bullet. She's proof that the very worst ones eliminate themselves.
That’s barely over 3 hours, no way to mistake it for 4, and that’s being generous and assuming both parties have only a 20 minute commute and immediately parted ways at 45, the “are you home” 13 minutes later is a really quick follow up to be sending
bro i went on a date the other day and it felt like it went great and we talked about what we were gonna do next and texted after and said gn and all and ain’t heard from her since. straight up ghosted. i wish the girls had more balls…wait no i don’t
Yeah my dates do the same thing, I had a guy take me out to the beach we ended up making out holding eachother, second date it went amazing and no communication after that wtf
When stuff like that happens, I have a hard time even getting mad about it. I'm just super confused.
I just assume that anyone who ghosts me after a couple of really fantastic dates like that must just be an absolute nutcase
Your sanity will appreciate it. You just have to understand that the people who do stuff like this aren't mentally or emotionally well.
You're better off without a guy like that in your life.
I just assume either nuts, was married/serious relationship and fighting and cheating, or dropped the phone in the toilet and lost my contact number in those situations. But yes getting ghosted after a couple of good dates and at length conversations is more confusing than anything else.
Yeah, I guess I just have a hard time understanding why so many people struggle to be authentic. It’s really bizarre.
When I think about all the things I struggle with in life, being authentic and not forcing others to suffer my damage aren’t on the list. I guess that’s a tall order for a lot of people though?
I would just like to say that I’ve been on numerous dates where it appeared to go really well. Great conversation, laughing and even mention of a second date. And then nothing ever happened. Here’s what I figured out. It has less to do with you and more to do with the fact people have a ton of options via online dating. This applies to everyone, but women get far more attention. I dabble with online dating still, but the golden age sure seems to be over.
From my experience when dating, absolutely this. I was quite surprised how common this is.
It’s a bit upsetting, but luckily these are not the girls you want to end up with.
Y’all have an iPhone, your contacts don’t delete after you replace your phone since your Apple ID keeps everything… that trick may have worked 15 years ago..
All my texts transferred the last time I did it but none of the names of any of my contacts. The transfer system is definitely not fool proof. Luckily I was able to deduce who people were based on our previous conversations because I’m sure my partner would not have been happy if I asked ‘who is this’ 🤣
That’s funny because I had the opposite when I had to get a new phone. I lost all of my text history, but my contacts were saved. And somehow I ended up with more contacts than before.
The bizarre thing was after like 5 months they suddenly all reappeared cause I only updated the ones I could piece together and then they were all back.
Unless all of your contacts are saved on your device and not on your iCloud. But realistically, she probably just didn’t save his number yet and lost her text history when she got a new phone
I went on Hinge and went in super bold and my goal was to ask her on a date within maybe 5-10 messages and set it up within a few days. If you give too much away, what’s the need for a date. If you wait too long, they lose interest. This was the way to do it, just got expensive fast.
I’m no model, just an average guy. I went dates multiple nights every week. Did it for a few weeks. Married one of them.
Just a numbers game.
You said it correctly. The way I've explained it is, there's basically a limit of time when you catch their interest and they lose your interest in you. So you gotta make the move before that time stops, then you lose your chance.
Bingo. Also, pay the $10 for one month and swipe right on everyone and filter out later. If you filter out before you swipe, you might miss out on someone with a shitty profile picture or is low-key "girl next door"
First step to a convo is matching. Simple really.
Why agree to a second date if you're not really interested? I hate women who do this shit. Just be honest and communicate. Don't lead guys on and then treat them like they are not even people. If you're not interested, politely tell him you're not interested. Don't play games.
I’ve agreed to second dates, genuinely interested in the moment, but then either time will pass as I process how it went or I’ll go on a “more compatible with me” date then realize I’m a no go on that other second date. I agree though, if you’re not interested, to politely communicate regardless. It’s good practice to be honest with tact, plus treating people like people.
I’ll add though, from a gal’s perspective, sometimes seemingly nice guys take it as a “try harder”, get obsessive, or get aggressive and that’s a little nerve wracking to navigate sometimes. I’ve had guys I’ve had to block after the initial turn down and spam, where they get new numbers and start trying to call or text me from those.
ETA: I enjoy your username haha
I came here to say the same thing. I’m a guy and I had many dates that during the moment seemed good. But as I reflected on it afterward I decided not to pursue. Maybe I was caught up in physical attraction and then realized there wasn’t more to it than that. Or maybe I had initially ignored a few minor things but when looking back they were too much for me.
Regardless of reason, I always politely clarified I wasn’t going to pursue.
This is a really good point that isn’t ignored but sometimes conveniently forgotten. A lot of guys get very obsessive. Not everyone mind you but it only takes one or two bad experiences to stop trying all together to communicate such feelings.
She’s clearly entertaining multiple guys and doesn’t have your number saved. You’re just another guy she’s talking to and you’re not her priority.
If she gave a shit she’d be messaging you first
Hmm sounds like she's doing something more than what you are implying. She would literally have to delete the messages to say who is this twice. Idk I bet she's cheating.
“She’s clearly entertaining multiple guys”
Yea they met on a dating app, why do yall think a person is talking to one person on a dating app, especially after one date
Idk maybe because 1/2 of us will “talk” to multiple people but when we get to a first date we will drop the others if the date is good, or drop the one we went on a date if it wasn’t good?
Why would I want someone who wasn’t 100% into me and actively looked for something else, while we were “dating”. If the first date goes well, why are you still entertaining other options?
There is a huge perspective difference. As a guy we’re happy if we can get a date a month. For a girl, most of them, can easily get a date the same day.
If you have a date a month, you ‘appreciate’ it more. If it’s a day, it’s just a ‘disposable good’.
It’s quite interesting, because the dynamic of dating is different if you dating in your 20’s or in your 30’s. (At least for me)
What if you went on 4 first dates this week and 3/4 were good? If I had 4 first dates lined up and one was on Monday and it went well I'm not cancelling the other 3.
I don’t understand people who have the energy to do that and quite frankly I doubt that person is someone who would be willing to dedicate time for a committed relationship.
That’s not my point and it doesn’t detract from my point either. But nice try Ace. How about adding a useful and different point to the discussion instead of scoring internet points with generic drivel.
It was just an example. I'm trying to say I'm not cancelling opportunities with others just for one person. I would be exhausted with 4 dates that close. I don't even like talking to like 3 people on Tinder at once.
Who knows maybe the first date wasn’t great? Actually happened to me once where I spent pretty much all of high school liking this one chick, super smart, beyond beautiful, funny, down to earth, I mean if there was ever an 11/10 she was it. So like two years after we graduate highschool I finally landed to go out with her one night, and I thought it was great we spent HOURS talking until like 2 AM. Then she’d always answer my texts but the next time I tried taking her on a date she just let me know it probably wasn’t gonna work out. Was tough but we are pretty good friends til this day. Later asked about it and it turns out she also had fun but not nearly as much as myself.
Yeah he uses the fact it was long as evidence it was good. I went on a 4 plus hour date once because I was so not attracted to him but I was young and felt guilty and obligated
But it wasn’t 4 hours long at all. The time stamps from the conversation are there. He arrived at 5:30 and texted her at 8:55 to ask if she was home.
So it went about 3 hours, not even 4. And they likely didn’t stay well past restaurant close unless it closed at 8.
Yeah I don’t think time is necessarily an indicator.. what I wanted to imply was that one might think it was the best thing ever, but to the other person it wasn’t the same at all.
Absolute pleb behavior from her end. Would've tossed in the towel after that second who's this? Phones do get stolen but in this case that's just so fucking lame.
I thought that as well, but he said they spent 4 hours on the date and closed the restaurant down. That doesn't sound like she was just in it for the free meal.
(Although time stamps show it couldn't have been much more than three hours and ended by 9:00, so maybe he is misremembering)
Hey, just because she was in it for a free meal doesn't mean she wasn't enjoying herself. OP was probably treating her like a queen and buying her drinks, so why not stay and milk it for all she can?
See this is the part of dating women don't understand what we go through. Getting used to buy em dinner and clearly leading us on. So immature she couldn't tell you she wasn't interested... As the Kids say: SHE FOR THE STREETS!.. Good luck man we all been there too many times...SMH
Did you pay for her food and drinks? I quit doing that on dates. Nothing sucks more than buying her food and drink and getting rejected or friend zoned. 🫠🫠
Anxiety around rejection isn’t necessarily mental illness. There are plenty of people who freak out with rejection and she may have experienced it before
I never save numbers at first but I even if I was entertaining other guys and like you, I'd know who it is. What she's probably doing is deleting the messages and when you text her again she doesn't know who it is. What a way to tell you she doesn't like you though.
She should have just came right out and said she didn't have the same fun time you did so no to the second date, but I guess "who's this" was easier for her.
She lacked the balls to say she wasn’t interested, like it’s really not that hard to type it out. Anyways, hope you eventually get a successful match, dude!
It can only be either
1) using you for a free chipotle dinner
2) she’s cheating and keeps deleting your contact details so main guy doesn’t catch her
3) both 1 & 2
Sorry brother. I once had a great buddy of mine tell me “women will do absolutely ANYTHING but tell you how they feel” and I have to say I agree with him. For some reason a simple explanation, reason, or response is just too much to ask from some them. They’d rather ask you who you are 3 times in a row and pretend like it’s not awkward AF than explain they just aren’t interested.
I once had a girl tell me she didn’t want to go on another date because “I didn’t really like her or find her attractive” I stood there befuddled and said “I promise you *****, I’m really attracted to you and would like another date”. She says “nooo you don’t really like me, I can tell”. So I was like huh okay weird way of saying you don’t want to go on another date, just blame me instead of saying how you really feel, I guess if that’s easier for you whatever.
Like I say. Sometimes they’ll do absolutely anything but say what’s actually going through their mind
The amount of people in this thread responding with "hey, sorry who is this?" Has me in tears man, that shit is so funny 😂 fr though sorry dude that sucks, she seems childish.
Sorry, who is this?
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It’s expired you con man.
Hi sorry who is this?
first date was fun but okay I got the hint Edit: This man’s profile is full of pussies, no wonder why it’s NSFW.
Jesus that's a lot of pussy.
The first pussy was like dark chocolate and the licking with the ice & fluid spilling everywhere is the maddest thing I’ve seen on Reddit today. Man is that a wet pussy.
Haha, you got me!
Hilarious you’re at 69 upvotes with *that* comment
You had me prepared for how many I'd see, but I didn't expect them all to be so... *hairy*
What got me was the one where they went wild when the train was being run.
Choo. Choo. Meower fucker.
I can't believe I got off my job's Wi-Fi for this
I guess their username checks out
It’s an exciting result.
Got exactly what I expected 😂😂😂
#New phone, who dis
New phone who dis? U up?
Lmfao
Did she ever reply to that last message ?
Nope
Are you sure she didn’t reply or was your phone just dead?? I know chicks dig bad boys, but 2%?! Damn you’re living on the edge homie
How can a phone be dead if it was never **alive** bro
I heard he woke up dead.
That’s some quantum shit
U mean he went to sleep alive and woke up dead? (Sad to see not many got the reference)
Hey sorry who is this??
You gonna reply to the other 122 messages?
It's a weak way of her saying she isn't interested. She's hoping you get the msg because she doesn't have the courage to tell you she isn't into you.
Yeah I figured. Just such a weird/rude way to do it. Also I could have sworn the date went well (4+ hours and stayed after the restaurant closed)
If it actually went well then she probably found someone else or something like that. I wouldn't take it too personally. Usually if someone is that immature then you dodged a bullet, my friend.
That is immature. Like how hard is it just to say “Sorry you were great but we don’t vibe the way i’m looking for rn”. it’s a No Risk situation is not like she have Anything to lose.
She could just be a vapid idiot....
She's definitely not an idiot. But if I wanna give her the EXTREME benefit of the doubt I could say that her phone got stolen Friday so she didn't have my number when I texted her the first time. And then she backed up her phone from an old iCloud backup so everything was cleared before I texted her the second time. However, I’d put all my money on the fact that she’s just timid.
hi sorry who is this
Ouch!
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She was just hungry and broke that night. Sorry
That's not timid. It's immature, dehumanising, and extremely dishonest. Dodged a bullet. The very worst ones eliminate themselves, brother.
Seems like the most probable answer
I've read about some women having such negative experiences when turning down guys that they just ghost to avoid the harassment, stalking, vitriol, etc.
I’d prefer being ghosted ahah
I would prefer a nice, brief acknowledge about incompatibility. Simple closure. No wondering if you screwed up or something is wrong. But I get it.
I’ll take what I can get hahaha
She kind of ghosted, right? She hasn't replied to your message asking what happened, you just double messaged. I'm sorry, it looks like you met a free food hunter. Not worth your time.
Having a negative experience before is no excuse to treat people like shit. We've all had bad experiences before and nobody gets the right to punish innocent others for them. If that flew I'd be slapping women all over the place because one broad once lied to me. This girl's behaviour is immature, dehumanising, and extremely dishonest. Dodged a bullet. She's proof that the very worst ones eliminate themselves.
You do that 10 times and 8 times it's okay and the other few times, they are totally unhinged and freak out on you.
You're texting not even in person and it's not like new number who dis is less hurtful.
It looks like she was just in for a free meal. If she was interested, she would at least be respectful and not use these lame lines.
4+ hours? Time stamps from the first conversation prove y’all were done before the 3 hour mark.
Someone must be bad at math because 1723-2058 is more than 3 hours. Say she was there at 1735 and left at 2045 that’s over 3 hours still
Over three hours but not 4+, read it again
So someone's bad at math and someone's bad at reading lmfao
That’s barely over 3 hours, no way to mistake it for 4, and that’s being generous and assuming both parties have only a 20 minute commute and immediately parted ways at 45, the “are you home” 13 minutes later is a really quick follow up to be sending
bro i went on a date the other day and it felt like it went great and we talked about what we were gonna do next and texted after and said gn and all and ain’t heard from her since. straight up ghosted. i wish the girls had more balls…wait no i don’t
Yeah my dates do the same thing, I had a guy take me out to the beach we ended up making out holding eachother, second date it went amazing and no communication after that wtf
When stuff like that happens, I have a hard time even getting mad about it. I'm just super confused. I just assume that anyone who ghosts me after a couple of really fantastic dates like that must just be an absolute nutcase
I need to start thinking like that because I'm confused
Your sanity will appreciate it. You just have to understand that the people who do stuff like this aren't mentally or emotionally well. You're better off without a guy like that in your life.
Yeah you are right 😓 I ended up messaging him and im glad I got to say what I needed, I'm walking away
I just assume either nuts, was married/serious relationship and fighting and cheating, or dropped the phone in the toilet and lost my contact number in those situations. But yes getting ghosted after a couple of good dates and at length conversations is more confusing than anything else.
Yeah, I guess I just have a hard time understanding why so many people struggle to be authentic. It’s really bizarre. When I think about all the things I struggle with in life, being authentic and not forcing others to suffer my damage aren’t on the list. I guess that’s a tall order for a lot of people though?
Move to Bangkok?
You're in luck welcome to the new world lol
Im gonna be the King of the Pirates
Calm down Luffy
gum gum masterbate!
I would just like to say that I’ve been on numerous dates where it appeared to go really well. Great conversation, laughing and even mention of a second date. And then nothing ever happened. Here’s what I figured out. It has less to do with you and more to do with the fact people have a ton of options via online dating. This applies to everyone, but women get far more attention. I dabble with online dating still, but the golden age sure seems to be over.
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My guess would be she has a bf and is cheating on him with you
Obligatory “hey sorry who is this?”
She wanted a free meal
she seems brain dead if this is her method of communicating her disinterest lol
Or or maybe she's got short-term memory loss like in that Adam Sandler movie /s
She deleted your number…a couple times
She never saved the number in the first place
But she did delete the text threads after every chat.
Likely meaning she's already in a relationship and hiding the evidence lol
And there are multiple unsaved contacts who might be texting her to “get drinks” lol
Just thought of that. Like she should know because the texts are still there. Then I thought, " Now wait a minute"
She probably has a main guy she's seeing. Deleting your number and messages multiple times to not get caught. Big red flag, OP.
this exactly
From my experience when dating, absolutely this. I was quite surprised how common this is. It’s a bit upsetting, but luckily these are not the girls you want to end up with.
Man this is depressing. Being out the AI gfs
100%
Y’all have an iPhone, your contacts don’t delete after you replace your phone since your Apple ID keeps everything… that trick may have worked 15 years ago..
It means his number was never saved
I'm sorry who is this ?
Mr 2%
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It means she deleted the chat history
I had to get a new phone recently and I lost all of my text threads
All my texts transferred the last time I did it but none of the names of any of my contacts. The transfer system is definitely not fool proof. Luckily I was able to deduce who people were based on our previous conversations because I’m sure my partner would not have been happy if I asked ‘who is this’ 🤣
That’s funny because I had the opposite when I had to get a new phone. I lost all of my text history, but my contacts were saved. And somehow I ended up with more contacts than before.
The bizarre thing was after like 5 months they suddenly all reappeared cause I only updated the ones I could piece together and then they were all back.
Just switched iPhones and my most recent contacts weren’t backed up. Apple backups have a data limit
Unless all of your contacts are saved on your device and not on your iCloud. But realistically, she probably just didn’t save his number yet and lost her text history when she got a new phone
Nor do they delete on android. Save you contacts to you account instead of sim and they are saved in the cloud..
Your number was probably saved as "Friday Chipotle dinner" 🤣🤣
What was the chipotle thing
I thought she was shit testing me to see if I could take a joke. Its was a working code though lol
I guess that’s the silver lining
The shit testing is a red flag
My exact thought, Rubmustar.
Dating is like job interviews. You just gotta go on dates and keep trying until a person gives you the chance for the long haul
I went on Hinge and went in super bold and my goal was to ask her on a date within maybe 5-10 messages and set it up within a few days. If you give too much away, what’s the need for a date. If you wait too long, they lose interest. This was the way to do it, just got expensive fast. I’m no model, just an average guy. I went dates multiple nights every week. Did it for a few weeks. Married one of them. Just a numbers game.
You said it correctly. The way I've explained it is, there's basically a limit of time when you catch their interest and they lose your interest in you. So you gotta make the move before that time stops, then you lose your chance.
Bingo. Also, pay the $10 for one month and swipe right on everyone and filter out later. If you filter out before you swipe, you might miss out on someone with a shitty profile picture or is low-key "girl next door" First step to a convo is matching. Simple really.
Why agree to a second date if you're not really interested? I hate women who do this shit. Just be honest and communicate. Don't lead guys on and then treat them like they are not even people. If you're not interested, politely tell him you're not interested. Don't play games.
I’ve agreed to second dates, genuinely interested in the moment, but then either time will pass as I process how it went or I’ll go on a “more compatible with me” date then realize I’m a no go on that other second date. I agree though, if you’re not interested, to politely communicate regardless. It’s good practice to be honest with tact, plus treating people like people. I’ll add though, from a gal’s perspective, sometimes seemingly nice guys take it as a “try harder”, get obsessive, or get aggressive and that’s a little nerve wracking to navigate sometimes. I’ve had guys I’ve had to block after the initial turn down and spam, where they get new numbers and start trying to call or text me from those. ETA: I enjoy your username haha
I came here to say the same thing. I’m a guy and I had many dates that during the moment seemed good. But as I reflected on it afterward I decided not to pursue. Maybe I was caught up in physical attraction and then realized there wasn’t more to it than that. Or maybe I had initially ignored a few minor things but when looking back they were too much for me. Regardless of reason, I always politely clarified I wasn’t going to pursue.
This is a really good point that isn’t ignored but sometimes conveniently forgotten. A lot of guys get very obsessive. Not everyone mind you but it only takes one or two bad experiences to stop trying all together to communicate such feelings.
She’s clearly entertaining multiple guys and doesn’t have your number saved. You’re just another guy she’s talking to and you’re not her priority. If she gave a shit she’d be messaging you first
Hmm sounds like she's doing something more than what you are implying. She would literally have to delete the messages to say who is this twice. Idk I bet she's cheating.
“She’s clearly entertaining multiple guys” Yea they met on a dating app, why do yall think a person is talking to one person on a dating app, especially after one date
Idk maybe because 1/2 of us will “talk” to multiple people but when we get to a first date we will drop the others if the date is good, or drop the one we went on a date if it wasn’t good? Why would I want someone who wasn’t 100% into me and actively looked for something else, while we were “dating”. If the first date goes well, why are you still entertaining other options?
There is a huge perspective difference. As a guy we’re happy if we can get a date a month. For a girl, most of them, can easily get a date the same day. If you have a date a month, you ‘appreciate’ it more. If it’s a day, it’s just a ‘disposable good’. It’s quite interesting, because the dynamic of dating is different if you dating in your 20’s or in your 30’s. (At least for me)
What if you went on 4 first dates this week and 3/4 were good? If I had 4 first dates lined up and one was on Monday and it went well I'm not cancelling the other 3.
4 dates in a week wtf? Maybe one a month.
I was just using it as an example. I would be exhausted doing that lol.
I don’t understand people who have the energy to do that and quite frankly I doubt that person is someone who would be willing to dedicate time for a committed relationship.
“Someone doesn’t do something the exact same way I do so they are wrong.”
That’s not my point and it doesn’t detract from my point either. But nice try Ace. How about adding a useful and different point to the discussion instead of scoring internet points with generic drivel.
It was just an example. I'm trying to say I'm not cancelling opportunities with others just for one person. I would be exhausted with 4 dates that close. I don't even like talking to like 3 people on Tinder at once.
If you plan 4 first dates in a single week, you aren’t looking for a real relationship you’re looking for attention.
So what about 4 in one day? Breakfast Lunch Dinner Evening bar hopping ? Seems reasonable
That was an exaggeration. I would probably do 2 max.
Yeah man, she dropped him, she just didn’t tell him. That’s why his number was never saved
Why are you expecting exclusivity after one date? 🌝
Why are you still sleeping around if you find someone you connect with?
Pack it up
Yea sorry buddy, you were unfortunately used as a free meal ticket
122 unread texts. My god man clear out your spam texts.
Who knows maybe the first date wasn’t great? Actually happened to me once where I spent pretty much all of high school liking this one chick, super smart, beyond beautiful, funny, down to earth, I mean if there was ever an 11/10 she was it. So like two years after we graduate highschool I finally landed to go out with her one night, and I thought it was great we spent HOURS talking until like 2 AM. Then she’d always answer my texts but the next time I tried taking her on a date she just let me know it probably wasn’t gonna work out. Was tough but we are pretty good friends til this day. Later asked about it and it turns out she also had fun but not nearly as much as myself.
Yeah he uses the fact it was long as evidence it was good. I went on a 4 plus hour date once because I was so not attracted to him but I was young and felt guilty and obligated
But it wasn’t 4 hours long at all. The time stamps from the conversation are there. He arrived at 5:30 and texted her at 8:55 to ask if she was home. So it went about 3 hours, not even 4. And they likely didn’t stay well past restaurant close unless it closed at 8.
Yeah I don’t think time is necessarily an indicator.. what I wanted to imply was that one might think it was the best thing ever, but to the other person it wasn’t the same at all.
Larry David could write a whole curb episode on this
I love curb lmao
I'd keep texting. You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villian
😆🤣
Brutal
Should of said oh shit wrong number lol
Bro went on a date with the thief of her phone
Absolute pleb behavior from her end. Would've tossed in the towel after that second who's this? Phones do get stolen but in this case that's just so fucking lame.
You were free food that night that’s all. This person is trash who did it to you.
Maybe the real answer to "who is it?" Is the friends we made along the way.
I think she just wanted a free meal and is also a complete waste of oxygen consumption.
Sorry that happened, people can really suck, I loved your communication though… Also I just tried to click on your 122 unread messages.
"Thank you for dinner" presumably she didn't split the bill. This is a red flag alone tbh. Sounds like she might use people for a free meal.
Did you pay for the meal? She might just be in it for the free meals. She got what she wanted from you, now she is moving on to the next first date...
I thought that as well, but he said they spent 4 hours on the date and closed the restaurant down. That doesn't sound like she was just in it for the free meal. (Although time stamps show it couldn't have been much more than three hours and ended by 9:00, so maybe he is misremembering)
Hey, just because she was in it for a free meal doesn't mean she wasn't enjoying herself. OP was probably treating her like a queen and buying her drinks, so why not stay and milk it for all she can?
See this is the part of dating women don't understand what we go through. Getting used to buy em dinner and clearly leading us on. So immature she couldn't tell you she wasn't interested... As the Kids say: SHE FOR THE STREETS!.. Good luck man we all been there too many times...SMH
Did you pay for her food and drinks? I quit doing that on dates. Nothing sucks more than buying her food and drink and getting rejected or friend zoned. 🫠🫠
Anxiety around rejection isn’t necessarily mental illness. There are plenty of people who freak out with rejection and she may have experienced it before
I never save numbers at first but I even if I was entertaining other guys and like you, I'd know who it is. What she's probably doing is deleting the messages and when you text her again she doesn't know who it is. What a way to tell you she doesn't like you though.
She should have just came right out and said she didn't have the same fun time you did so no to the second date, but I guess "who's this" was easier for her.
Ppl are so fkn odd I stg lol
Jesus. What an ass.
Oof I'm sorry. That's cold af.
She doesn't deserve anything from you
One way phone conversation that at best will lead to a one way long term miserable relationship. Let some one else deal with it, move on.
Who is this
That is an immature human who can’t say they aren’t interested like an adult.
New phone, who dis.
She lacked the balls to say she wasn’t interested, like it’s really not that hard to type it out. Anyways, hope you eventually get a successful match, dude!
Really? Chipotle offers?
It was the highlight of the conversation tbh
When your phone is stolen, you don’t suddenly become a restaurant text message?? 😂
She’s being rude and vague because it’s (in some women’s eyes), a way to let you down easy. She not that into you. Sorry 😕
Sorry you got seemingly used for a free meal. Happens to the best of us. Keep your head up.
As a neuro-spicey person... I don't get the hint. If I didn't read the comments, I would never have gotten the hint.
This is why dinner on ther first is dumb, never go over 30
Why does every person who posts on here have 150 unread text messages!?
The real question Who paid for the date?
I mean you have 122 unread messages. They probably saw that lol
It can only be either 1) using you for a free chipotle dinner 2) she’s cheating and keeps deleting your contact details so main guy doesn’t catch her 3) both 1 & 2
Chipotle was a random joke text. We did it Italian. But yes I agree with u
Sorry brother. I once had a great buddy of mine tell me “women will do absolutely ANYTHING but tell you how they feel” and I have to say I agree with him. For some reason a simple explanation, reason, or response is just too much to ask from some them. They’d rather ask you who you are 3 times in a row and pretend like it’s not awkward AF than explain they just aren’t interested. I once had a girl tell me she didn’t want to go on another date because “I didn’t really like her or find her attractive” I stood there befuddled and said “I promise you *****, I’m really attracted to you and would like another date”. She says “nooo you don’t really like me, I can tell”. So I was like huh okay weird way of saying you don’t want to go on another date, just blame me instead of saying how you really feel, I guess if that’s easier for you whatever. Like I say. Sometimes they’ll do absolutely anything but say what’s actually going through their mind
It’s the 122 unread text messages (top corner) for me.
That's just a weird way of going about it, unless they were cheating and got caught.
122 unread texts?!! Clear your texts lol. New phone, who dis?
The amount of people in this thread responding with "hey, sorry who is this?" Has me in tears man, that shit is so funny 😂 fr though sorry dude that sucks, she seems childish.