I don't like pain, but I like bottoming bareback with only saliva and that is a poor lube tbh, so regularly there's a fair amount of pain. I know how to evade this, with lube, fingering and putting it in at my own pace, but sometimes I prefer to take a bit of pain and let go, I think it makes for a better experience.
This is one of the main reasons I feel I was 100% ment to be gay and ment to be a bottom... it's pure pleasure for me fully body experience... nothing gets me harder nothing turns me on more nothing sexual satisfies me more than bottoming for a nice big dick took me until 24 to fully realize and embrace it
None for me
If pain is there it doesn't tell me it's painful.
Lol , but I'm 52 and my first anal I had was when I was 9.yrs old .
Don't worry it was ME and a toilet 🪠plunger handle , lol I can remember that right now it was my first time I stuck something in my butt lol
I guess I wanted to see what it felt like,
And NO I didn't give it a name .
I don't feel pain but some discomfort is normal and likely to always be present at some level. I mean our holes were'nt meant or designed to be fucked the way we like. Its a small trade off if you ask me.
I always douche, lube and put in a butt plug in advance. I’ve had over excited tops that put in too fast and caused me pain or given me an anal tear. So i just won’t put myself in that position again. If he has a monster cock and is wearing a condom - yeah it hurts a little. But if he is not my husband - i want the condom on. And i want his cock. So i put up with it.
The only other time i might feel pain is if there is not enough lube. Every so often a top will not like lube. But i have to have at least a little bit or i’d close up my legs and walk away. Normally i always have lots of lube and it is no issue.
Minimal discomfort at the beginning is okay with me when we're just getting started, but I don't want pain nor do I find it enhances things at all. My husband doesn't always get as deep as I'd like him to, and I find if penetration is too shallow, it's more uncomfortable. When I read accounts of guys who get railed without any preparation or lube and talk about how bad it hurt, but after a while they started to like it, it's a turn off—painful sex is a big reason why I spent most of my life despising it, so figuring out how to enjoy my body and not be in pain was the start of my journey towards acceptance and self-love. To each their own, though.
I usually have some discomfort or a little pain at the start / initial entry. But it eases off after a minute or two. After that, I'm usually good to go. If someone is pounding extra hard or is too large, I might have some mild discomfort toward the end, too.
When I know I’m going to have anal sex (or hope to), I douche and then use a dildo for a little bit. It’s usually my 2 inch thick dildo. This way my initial penetration is completely under my control and more than likely larger than anything I will encounter, whether FWB’s or hookups at a bathhouse or gay bar. All this gives me time to relax when the penetration begins. I’m not saying I never feel pain. But when I do, it’s because of an odd angle or a guy plowing in too quickly.
When my wife pegs me, there are times there’s a little pain when she first enters but her cock doesn’t actually feel anything. So she doesn’t realize unless I say something.
When I was younger and less experienced I often experienced discomfort or pain trying to get it in. I used to think this was normal. Now, a decade later, I understand this as a combination of going too fast due to eagerness, not relaxing, and *not* part of the package "some pain but overall good". A lot of this was also fueled by older people who never learned how to relax and properly bottom having similar experiences, making me think it's just how it was.
I'd also normally get sore after an hour or so. That went away rather quickly, like a year or two of regular bottoming.
I don't feel any pain these days with **routine** bottoming but I do often feel pressure, discomfort, or I can feel a sharp pain if I have a hemorrhoid or something. I never ever experience this "going in" pain and I always listen to my body. Once I was very over excited to get back into bottoming and I took a dildo without any warmup and I felt fine at the time but I was out of commission for a month due to tearing.
I don't like pain, but I like bottoming bareback with only saliva and that is a poor lube tbh, so regularly there's a fair amount of pain. I know how to evade this, with lube, fingering and putting it in at my own pace, but sometimes I prefer to take a bit of pain and let go, I think it makes for a better experience.
This is one of the main reasons I feel I was 100% ment to be gay and ment to be a bottom... it's pure pleasure for me fully body experience... nothing gets me harder nothing turns me on more nothing sexual satisfies me more than bottoming for a nice big dick took me until 24 to fully realize and embrace it
None for me If pain is there it doesn't tell me it's painful. Lol , but I'm 52 and my first anal I had was when I was 9.yrs old . Don't worry it was ME and a toilet 🪠plunger handle , lol I can remember that right now it was my first time I stuck something in my butt lol I guess I wanted to see what it felt like, And NO I didn't give it a name .
I don't experience any pain. Sometimes when I'm getting fisted, the feeling is very intense, but it's not pain.
I don't feel pain but some discomfort is normal and likely to always be present at some level. I mean our holes were'nt meant or designed to be fucked the way we like. Its a small trade off if you ask me.
I always douche, lube and put in a butt plug in advance. I’ve had over excited tops that put in too fast and caused me pain or given me an anal tear. So i just won’t put myself in that position again. If he has a monster cock and is wearing a condom - yeah it hurts a little. But if he is not my husband - i want the condom on. And i want his cock. So i put up with it. The only other time i might feel pain is if there is not enough lube. Every so often a top will not like lube. But i have to have at least a little bit or i’d close up my legs and walk away. Normally i always have lots of lube and it is no issue.
Minimal discomfort at the beginning is okay with me when we're just getting started, but I don't want pain nor do I find it enhances things at all. My husband doesn't always get as deep as I'd like him to, and I find if penetration is too shallow, it's more uncomfortable. When I read accounts of guys who get railed without any preparation or lube and talk about how bad it hurt, but after a while they started to like it, it's a turn off—painful sex is a big reason why I spent most of my life despising it, so figuring out how to enjoy my body and not be in pain was the start of my journey towards acceptance and self-love. To each their own, though.
Usually, there's no pain unless it's an agreed upon thing with my top for him to be aggressive in a way. Or the guy just has a huge cock.
I have a bit of a masochistic streak, which seems to be growing, so I love being pounded really hard to them point where it's uncomfortable/painful.
I usually have some discomfort or a little pain at the start / initial entry. But it eases off after a minute or two. After that, I'm usually good to go. If someone is pounding extra hard or is too large, I might have some mild discomfort toward the end, too.
When I know I’m going to have anal sex (or hope to), I douche and then use a dildo for a little bit. It’s usually my 2 inch thick dildo. This way my initial penetration is completely under my control and more than likely larger than anything I will encounter, whether FWB’s or hookups at a bathhouse or gay bar. All this gives me time to relax when the penetration begins. I’m not saying I never feel pain. But when I do, it’s because of an odd angle or a guy plowing in too quickly. When my wife pegs me, there are times there’s a little pain when she first enters but her cock doesn’t actually feel anything. So she doesn’t realize unless I say something.
When I was younger and less experienced I often experienced discomfort or pain trying to get it in. I used to think this was normal. Now, a decade later, I understand this as a combination of going too fast due to eagerness, not relaxing, and *not* part of the package "some pain but overall good". A lot of this was also fueled by older people who never learned how to relax and properly bottom having similar experiences, making me think it's just how it was. I'd also normally get sore after an hour or so. That went away rather quickly, like a year or two of regular bottoming. I don't feel any pain these days with **routine** bottoming but I do often feel pressure, discomfort, or I can feel a sharp pain if I have a hemorrhoid or something. I never ever experience this "going in" pain and I always listen to my body. Once I was very over excited to get back into bottoming and I took a dildo without any warmup and I felt fine at the time but I was out of commission for a month due to tearing.
Rarely have pain unless it’s girthy as hell
None when everything is going right.