The nerve centers in that region aren’t designed to be an erogenous zone of the body, so you have to train yourself to direct your focus of pleasure to that area so the body recognizes it’s supposed to feel good. It’s not an immediate feeling to some people. It may start subtle and slowly get better and better. The rhythm and angle are more important than the size, power, and depth of the thrusting penis. It may be easier for you to ride it, so you’re in control. Also, be aware that bottoming pleasure is a wide spectrum. Some just aren’t able to cum hands-free, and some are able, but they don’t do it because they won’t have an orgasm attached to the ejaculation. They either cannot enjoy bottoming without jerking off or there is an under stimulation or over stimulation they don’t enjoy when they are bottoming hands-free. Just experiment and get to know what kind of bottom you are.
The first time for me was on my back with my legs in the air. He was fucking me and after about two minutes I came all over my chest. I ound in that position, his cock had a bend in it anyway, hits the right spot.
You seem to be asking about cumming hands-free. Here is our FAQ entry about "[How do I Cum Hands Free?](https://www.reddit.com/r/TopsAndBottoms/wiki/faq#wiki_how_do_i_cum_hands_free.3F)"
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Don't be afraid to use your dick, you can actually use it to retrain your brain to cum from anal only. Also, you're already aware of how to have an orgasm so don't worry about it. Just enjoy the sensations and learn it as something you're able to cum from.
posted about it here earlier: https://www.reddit.com/r/TopsAndBottoms/comments/13bikew/cummins_handsfree/jjd3sb2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
I find personally I need to be extremely horny and not have cum for a few days. Plus it’s about finding the right rhythm too - my last top had this way of thrusting that started slow and sped up as he went… it was perfect for me
yeah that's why it's easiest for me when i'm riding him, and i can basically just treat his cock like my personal sex toy and control the pace and grind his dick on my sweet spot 😈
we've gotten better and better at syncing up our technique though, by now he kinda knows the right positions and angles, he knows the noises i make when it's happening, and it's super-hot when he fucks the cum out of me on his own terms 🥵 he gets so proud of himself too lol it's cute af
It also just takes time to recognize it’s a very different orgasm, and one that focuses on your sweet spot. I even cum differently, when it’s hands free, my cum pours out instead of shooting. It’s not always better than a penis orgasm, and it takes time to get used to the feelings, but man it is something hot
yup agreed on everything you said. for me it gets to a point where the cum kinda just gets "pushed out" from my dick with each thrust, so the peak lasts longer than a typical orgasm. there's something almost frustrating about the way it feels, like i can't tell if it's an overstimulated or understimulated feeling, but it's not quite like the "explosive release" satisfaction of a nice messy cumshot. but at the same time i kinda feel it in my whole body, and the buildup to it feels reeeeeeally good.
Don’t cum unless you’re bottoming.
This is the way. If you stop jerking off with your dick eventually your body will adapt and learn to cum from your ass instead.
Can you elaborate on this? So, NEVER jerk off by yourself or cum via your cock ever?
Ideally, both. If you stop associating pleasure with your cock (due to not using it) then your ass/prostate will take over for it.
The nerve centers in that region aren’t designed to be an erogenous zone of the body, so you have to train yourself to direct your focus of pleasure to that area so the body recognizes it’s supposed to feel good. It’s not an immediate feeling to some people. It may start subtle and slowly get better and better. The rhythm and angle are more important than the size, power, and depth of the thrusting penis. It may be easier for you to ride it, so you’re in control. Also, be aware that bottoming pleasure is a wide spectrum. Some just aren’t able to cum hands-free, and some are able, but they don’t do it because they won’t have an orgasm attached to the ejaculation. They either cannot enjoy bottoming without jerking off or there is an under stimulation or over stimulation they don’t enjoy when they are bottoming hands-free. Just experiment and get to know what kind of bottom you are.
The first time for me was on my back with my legs in the air. He was fucking me and after about two minutes I came all over my chest. I ound in that position, his cock had a bend in it anyway, hits the right spot.
A top who can last for a long time like a long time and put on a chastity cage. Don’t take it off until you can cum hands free
You seem to be asking about cumming hands-free. Here is our FAQ entry about "[How do I Cum Hands Free?](https://www.reddit.com/r/TopsAndBottoms/wiki/faq#wiki_how_do_i_cum_hands_free.3F)" This is an automated reply. If it's not relevant, just ignore it and wait for some humans to reply to you. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/TopsAndBottoms) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Don't be afraid to use your dick, you can actually use it to retrain your brain to cum from anal only. Also, you're already aware of how to have an orgasm so don't worry about it. Just enjoy the sensations and learn it as something you're able to cum from.
Practice with toys first and be patient the toys don't need to be that big or go that deep.
posted about it here earlier: https://www.reddit.com/r/TopsAndBottoms/comments/13bikew/cummins_handsfree/jjd3sb2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
I find personally I need to be extremely horny and not have cum for a few days. Plus it’s about finding the right rhythm too - my last top had this way of thrusting that started slow and sped up as he went… it was perfect for me
yeah that's why it's easiest for me when i'm riding him, and i can basically just treat his cock like my personal sex toy and control the pace and grind his dick on my sweet spot 😈 we've gotten better and better at syncing up our technique though, by now he kinda knows the right positions and angles, he knows the noises i make when it's happening, and it's super-hot when he fucks the cum out of me on his own terms 🥵 he gets so proud of himself too lol it's cute af
It also just takes time to recognize it’s a very different orgasm, and one that focuses on your sweet spot. I even cum differently, when it’s hands free, my cum pours out instead of shooting. It’s not always better than a penis orgasm, and it takes time to get used to the feelings, but man it is something hot
yup agreed on everything you said. for me it gets to a point where the cum kinda just gets "pushed out" from my dick with each thrust, so the peak lasts longer than a typical orgasm. there's something almost frustrating about the way it feels, like i can't tell if it's an overstimulated or understimulated feeling, but it's not quite like the "explosive release" satisfaction of a nice messy cumshot. but at the same time i kinda feel it in my whole body, and the buildup to it feels reeeeeeally good.