Hmmm
It could be hot but only if all three of you are into this.
Being a sub shouldn't be about doing things you have absolutely no intention and will to do. It's about doing things you have no courage to do but you find the idea of doing it at least a little bit interesting.
If you find the idea of having sex with women absolutely repulsive, it gives you anxiety or anything like it, it's just not worth it.
If you're 100% gay but you find it hot, be it because of your curiosity or because of the fact you're being told to do it, go for it.
If you have a healthy relationship with your Dom, just talk to him about it. Tell him about your doubts, discuss what options you have. Tell him that there's a possibility that you won't be able to get hard and fuck her and what would he expect if this happend. Maybe he will tell you to pleasure her in other ways, do oral, fingering. Or maybe he sees this as an opportunity to show you that you're less of a man who can't even fuck a woman, and when you fail he is going to show you how it should be done.
Discuss this.
Also bringing in a woman in tricky. You should make sure she is into this as well. Make sure she is okay not only with participating in this but also she is comfortable about the fact that you're gay and she is aware and comfortable with the possibility of you not being able to fuck her.
Another thing is obviously the risk of a pregnancy. You don't want to become a daddy with a random woman because of a sub-Dom play like this. Discuss this as well.
Personally I think it can be a really fun experience for all three of you, if it's well prepared and all three of you are comfortable with it and into this.
Just talk about it. If I was in this situation (I wish) I would set up a meeting for all three of you, out of the sub-Dom setup, and just talk about it, about your expectations and doubts and about how you all want this to be like.
If your Dom is a good Dom he shouldn't have a problem with it.
Also, where do I find a Dom like this?
It sounds like you are aroused at the idea of being forced to do something you don’t want to do and would be degraded by. If this excites you, then why not?
It's hot in the same way the other scenario is, straight guy to bottom. The issue is whether or not you can stay hard while you fuck her. Not hot to have a flaccid dick trying to do the job. Might need to make it clear that's a possibility if you aren't able to treat the situation like a sub order/masturbatory hole, if that makes sense.
I suggest taking the time to discuss all of the aspects that would make you really enjoy this scenario with your Dom and the other sub. "Sub solidarity" while serving a Dom is definitely a thing and can be super fun! How about wearing a strap-on over your cage (if you're supposed to penetrate her) to emphasize your submissive role during the session?
Not at all. If it was say "i know youre a top but i want you to bottom for me" fuck yeah. But... When it comes to guys vs girls, unless youre bi, why would you agree to it? For me, im into guys and seeing a woman or having to fuck her would ruin the entire thing.
I’ve been looking for this genre of porn recently. Like we’ve all seen the videos where the “straight” guy gets invited to the Bait Bus and gets promised a bj from a woman, only it turns out to be a guy. I wanna see a gay guy get promised a gay bj, but when he takes his blindfold off it’s a woman
Nope, negative. 🤮 I’m not aroused by the female body and have no desire to be forced into faking it. There are too many gay doms out there to be tied down (no pun intended) to a dom who wants both at once.
Kind of similar situation. I had a top some time back who had what he called a stable of bottom subs, about 3 or 4 of us. He only used one at a time so didn't know exactly how many others he had. Anyway, one of the other bottoms wanted to try topping for some reason so he had me bottom for them both. Initially the top used both bottoms first then he let the other guy use me. It was fun, not as good as with an experienced top but ok.
This is one of those things where it’s considered “hot” fantasy wise, but IRL is a horrible idea especially if the other person on the receiving end of this hasn’t consented/not open to this.
Well, I personally thought I was bi for a hot two seconds because of porn/the idea of pussy is not repulsing for me, but when I saw women getting fucked at a mixed sex club I was so turned off, that sealed the deal for me that I'm definitely gay and not bi (the women were young and conventionally attractive too, so it definitely wasn't that they just weren't attractive). Something can sound good in theory but when you're doing it, it might be completely different.
Others have also pointed out that you staying hard might be an issue. Some gay bottoms even have trouble staying hard when they should top and they want to but can't. So unless you're willing to take stuff like viagra/kamagra (which you absolutely shouldn't mix with poppers), that could very well be an issue. But just because you might stay hard it doesn't mean you're not gay, the dick can just respond to external stimuli and lots of gay guys have fucked women in the past.
At the end of the day, you do you. It could be fun, or it could be weird. Make sure you discuss everything before and have a plan B ready, like others have suggested that he humiliates you that you can't even fuck a woman and then he shows you how it's done.
Hmmm It could be hot but only if all three of you are into this. Being a sub shouldn't be about doing things you have absolutely no intention and will to do. It's about doing things you have no courage to do but you find the idea of doing it at least a little bit interesting. If you find the idea of having sex with women absolutely repulsive, it gives you anxiety or anything like it, it's just not worth it. If you're 100% gay but you find it hot, be it because of your curiosity or because of the fact you're being told to do it, go for it. If you have a healthy relationship with your Dom, just talk to him about it. Tell him about your doubts, discuss what options you have. Tell him that there's a possibility that you won't be able to get hard and fuck her and what would he expect if this happend. Maybe he will tell you to pleasure her in other ways, do oral, fingering. Or maybe he sees this as an opportunity to show you that you're less of a man who can't even fuck a woman, and when you fail he is going to show you how it should be done. Discuss this. Also bringing in a woman in tricky. You should make sure she is into this as well. Make sure she is okay not only with participating in this but also she is comfortable about the fact that you're gay and she is aware and comfortable with the possibility of you not being able to fuck her. Another thing is obviously the risk of a pregnancy. You don't want to become a daddy with a random woman because of a sub-Dom play like this. Discuss this as well. Personally I think it can be a really fun experience for all three of you, if it's well prepared and all three of you are comfortable with it and into this. Just talk about it. If I was in this situation (I wish) I would set up a meeting for all three of you, out of the sub-Dom setup, and just talk about it, about your expectations and doubts and about how you all want this to be like. If your Dom is a good Dom he shouldn't have a problem with it. Also, where do I find a Dom like this?
Ew, no!
It sounds like you are aroused at the idea of being forced to do something you don’t want to do and would be degraded by. If this excites you, then why not?
It's hot in the same way the other scenario is, straight guy to bottom. The issue is whether or not you can stay hard while you fuck her. Not hot to have a flaccid dick trying to do the job. Might need to make it clear that's a possibility if you aren't able to treat the situation like a sub order/masturbatory hole, if that makes sense.
I suggest taking the time to discuss all of the aspects that would make you really enjoy this scenario with your Dom and the other sub. "Sub solidarity" while serving a Dom is definitely a thing and can be super fun! How about wearing a strap-on over your cage (if you're supposed to penetrate her) to emphasize your submissive role during the session?
Not at all. If it was say "i know youre a top but i want you to bottom for me" fuck yeah. But... When it comes to guys vs girls, unless youre bi, why would you agree to it? For me, im into guys and seeing a woman or having to fuck her would ruin the entire thing.
Exactly. Even as a sub, you’re getting sexual gratification during sessions… so adding a chick to the mix would kill the entire mood!
I’ve been looking for this genre of porn recently. Like we’ve all seen the videos where the “straight” guy gets invited to the Bait Bus and gets promised a bj from a woman, only it turns out to be a guy. I wanna see a gay guy get promised a gay bj, but when he takes his blindfold off it’s a woman
Nope, negative. 🤮 I’m not aroused by the female body and have no desire to be forced into faking it. There are too many gay doms out there to be tied down (no pun intended) to a dom who wants both at once.
Kind of similar situation. I had a top some time back who had what he called a stable of bottom subs, about 3 or 4 of us. He only used one at a time so didn't know exactly how many others he had. Anyway, one of the other bottoms wanted to try topping for some reason so he had me bottom for them both. Initially the top used both bottoms first then he let the other guy use me. It was fun, not as good as with an experienced top but ok.
Just close your eyes and make-believe it's an asshole.
This is one of those things where it’s considered “hot” fantasy wise, but IRL is a horrible idea especially if the other person on the receiving end of this hasn’t consented/not open to this.
Well, I personally thought I was bi for a hot two seconds because of porn/the idea of pussy is not repulsing for me, but when I saw women getting fucked at a mixed sex club I was so turned off, that sealed the deal for me that I'm definitely gay and not bi (the women were young and conventionally attractive too, so it definitely wasn't that they just weren't attractive). Something can sound good in theory but when you're doing it, it might be completely different. Others have also pointed out that you staying hard might be an issue. Some gay bottoms even have trouble staying hard when they should top and they want to but can't. So unless you're willing to take stuff like viagra/kamagra (which you absolutely shouldn't mix with poppers), that could very well be an issue. But just because you might stay hard it doesn't mean you're not gay, the dick can just respond to external stimuli and lots of gay guys have fucked women in the past. At the end of the day, you do you. It could be fun, or it could be weird. Make sure you discuss everything before and have a plan B ready, like others have suggested that he humiliates you that you can't even fuck a woman and then he shows you how it's done.