For me personally it is most a mental thing like I have a man using me and I fucking love that however my bf has gotten so fucking good at find where all my spots are he's just gotten amazing and fucking me till I can't function properly it is pure bliss how he's learnt my body in summary I believe for anyone just starting out it is just a mental thing but find someone who knows your body better than u do and all of a sudden u have a bussy and a mental longing for cock
The first dozen times or so it felt weird and I wasn't enjoying it much. It's overwhelming to suddenly have another person inside you and no matter how much you might have practiced with toys, it's still very different when it's the real thing. Especially if they also don't know what they're doing. It took some practice and getting used to the sensations and then bottoming for a guy who DID know what he was doing and cared about making it fun for me too. And now I have a better idea of how to make sure I'm always enjoying it.
Lots and lots and lots of foreplay, including fingering and rimming. Lots of lube, and he went very slow at first and kept checking in and watching me to know when I was ready for more. Up until then guys had been just rushing to get it in and then pound away. He was the first one who tried to make a bigger connection than just having his dick inside me, and as a result I was all woozy and thought we were boyfriends after he was done (we were not lol)
For me the physical sensations are that important, I don't want to cum or be touched etc. It's the psychological aspects that matter.
Having a man inside me blows my mind. Mentally and emotionally it feels like, while he's in me, he's trying, either, to rob me if my masculinity or fill me with his own. There's a weird kind of peace or contentment I get while he's fucking me hard or abusing and degrading me. It's the only time I feel validated as a person.
First, my hole and my prostate are the center of my sensations. If you jerk my cock I barely feel it. I have never cum in the usual sense and getting fucked has me in a sort of "gooned" state where I'm just horny af and overstimulated without a release, which comes later.
Then there's the mental aspect of having another man inside you. It's unlike anything else. Part of it is having a penis myself and knowing what the top is feeling. He's feeling the pleasure of stroking in and out of another's body and it's mine.
I'll cum a couple hours later after my prostate returns to a normal state. If he bred me, I'll cum with the sensation of his load starting to seep through my hole.
For me itās absolutely incredible. The initial penetration feels great - the slow opening of my hole to receive him, the gradual insertion and stretching wider and wider, deeper and deeper, until heās finally as deep as possible. Sometimes I can feel my muscles contacting rapidly around the dick, gripping and releasing. I feel when it hits my prostate and itās like the most satisfying itch getting scratched that I didnāt even know I had but itās inside and it causes so much pleasure. Sometimes I can cum from the insertion alone. Then when things get moving itās like this insatiable hunger inside that causes waves of pleasure everywhere, toes twitching, legs shaking, gasping for air. Itās like I lose myself. I can have dry orgasms, wet orgasms, full body shivering orgasms, multiple orgasms but itās all super hard to predict - I just gotta let myself go and trust my body to do the rest. If youāre too in your head or after something specific I find it generally doesnāt feel as good. So thereās both a physical and mental component to it. It also took YEARS of training and learning about myself but it was worth it.
After the initial slight pain of stretching my hole, its heaven. Even if it slips out or switching positions, it feels hot! The though of me being used for his pleasure give mes pleasure beyond words. The way he looks at me, his grunts, his moans, his sweat, I can almost read his mind that he is enjoying me as much as Im enjoying him. Feeling him inside me and every rub/thrust of his hard cock in and out builds up pleasure.
I'm all over the sensation spectrum depending on the top and also me that day. But I see one top about once every six to eight weeks who knows how to reliably deliver a truly sensational 20-minute-or-so fuck. He's about 8 inches and thick but not super-thick. We always do doggy -- me on the bed at the edge on top of several pillows and him standing up.
The initial entry and first minute usually hurts a little. He's not into rimming or even fingers. But considering his size, it's not bad. And he slowly goes in all the way to the base. But really slow. And then he just holds it there until he feels me relaxing. Then he pulls almost all the way out, leaving just the head and a tad more in there.
Then he slides in again, this time a bit faster. Again to the base. Holds it there again, but this time not as long. And after about five or six times of that, I can handle anything he wants to do.
And it feels really good. I feel very relaxed. My guts feel stretched, tingly. His thrusts shoot little electrical sensations into my legs and sometimes up my torso.
Toward the end when he starts pounding hard, the last inch gives a very enjoyable pleasure/pain mix, like a 80/20 ratio. Just enough pain to feel truly fucked/bottomed out but not enough to interfere with the pleasure at all. And he loves the sensation on his dick when I'm in that 80/20 zone. It puts him into a different plane. He becomes much more verbal then and you can tell he's no longer trying to pace himself on my account.
Even though he's 100% top, he's really good at intuitively knowing when I can take the full pounding and he's rarely started it up too hard too early. When he's doing all of this, I feel 100% relaxed and have no worries or concerns letting him totally take over the fuck, which he likes to do. I just mentally surrender my hole to his dick and enjoy whatever the sensation his dick is providing. I lose track of time and space for bit and just go into a mental state where I really think of nothing but his cock and the next thrust.
I could easily go another 10 to 20 minutes of that, but he just can't last much longer than 20 minutes. And he is wearing a condom -- I can't imagine how fast he'd bust without one! But once he moves into pounding mode, he's got about five minutes in him -- 10 at the very most -- and he's got to bust.
For me, sticking with a few of the same tops and learning their rhythms makes a big difference. The sex was good from the start, but got better the more times we met. I told him I thought our last fuck was the hardest and the best one yet.
I remember in the US version of Queer as Folk (I think?) the twink character described it as feeling like a balloon was expanding/stretching inside you. That always stuck with me as a kid... then I grew up, had my first experience and was like... yeah! Accurate, lol
Usually as he goes in, it feels like really soft yet firm fingers inside me. Until he starts fucking too deep then it feels weird. Like he hit my wall or something.
For me personally it is most a mental thing like I have a man using me and I fucking love that however my bf has gotten so fucking good at find where all my spots are he's just gotten amazing and fucking me till I can't function properly it is pure bliss how he's learnt my body in summary I believe for anyone just starting out it is just a mental thing but find someone who knows your body better than u do and all of a sudden u have a bussy and a mental longing for cock
Waiting for this!
The first dozen times or so it felt weird and I wasn't enjoying it much. It's overwhelming to suddenly have another person inside you and no matter how much you might have practiced with toys, it's still very different when it's the real thing. Especially if they also don't know what they're doing. It took some practice and getting used to the sensations and then bottoming for a guy who DID know what he was doing and cared about making it fun for me too. And now I have a better idea of how to make sure I'm always enjoying it.
Amazing! Need to find a guy like that haha. I wonder what he was doing?
Lots and lots and lots of foreplay, including fingering and rimming. Lots of lube, and he went very slow at first and kept checking in and watching me to know when I was ready for more. Up until then guys had been just rushing to get it in and then pound away. He was the first one who tried to make a bigger connection than just having his dick inside me, and as a result I was all woozy and thought we were boyfriends after he was done (we were not lol)
I feel you š¤£. Sounds like the prep and mental side are equally important
For me the physical sensations are that important, I don't want to cum or be touched etc. It's the psychological aspects that matter. Having a man inside me blows my mind. Mentally and emotionally it feels like, while he's in me, he's trying, either, to rob me if my masculinity or fill me with his own. There's a weird kind of peace or contentment I get while he's fucking me hard or abusing and degrading me. It's the only time I feel validated as a person.
Being filled by his masculinity. That sounds so hot. Exactly what someone who hasn't yet found his place with his sexuality needs to hear š„°.
Patience gotta find the perfect man to care for ya it'll come in time
Thank you, that's very encouraging to hear āŗļøš¤¤š¢
First, my hole and my prostate are the center of my sensations. If you jerk my cock I barely feel it. I have never cum in the usual sense and getting fucked has me in a sort of "gooned" state where I'm just horny af and overstimulated without a release, which comes later. Then there's the mental aspect of having another man inside you. It's unlike anything else. Part of it is having a penis myself and knowing what the top is feeling. He's feeling the pleasure of stroking in and out of another's body and it's mine. I'll cum a couple hours later after my prostate returns to a normal state. If he bred me, I'll cum with the sensation of his load starting to seep through my hole.
Amazing! So it does actually dribble out?
Well, it has to go somewhere. So, yes, that's what it does. You don't actually feel it inside you, but you can once it starts trickling out.
Well fucking said. This got me hard af lol
For me itās absolutely incredible. The initial penetration feels great - the slow opening of my hole to receive him, the gradual insertion and stretching wider and wider, deeper and deeper, until heās finally as deep as possible. Sometimes I can feel my muscles contacting rapidly around the dick, gripping and releasing. I feel when it hits my prostate and itās like the most satisfying itch getting scratched that I didnāt even know I had but itās inside and it causes so much pleasure. Sometimes I can cum from the insertion alone. Then when things get moving itās like this insatiable hunger inside that causes waves of pleasure everywhere, toes twitching, legs shaking, gasping for air. Itās like I lose myself. I can have dry orgasms, wet orgasms, full body shivering orgasms, multiple orgasms but itās all super hard to predict - I just gotta let myself go and trust my body to do the rest. If youāre too in your head or after something specific I find it generally doesnāt feel as good. So thereās both a physical and mental component to it. It also took YEARS of training and learning about myself but it was worth it.
After the initial slight pain of stretching my hole, its heaven. Even if it slips out or switching positions, it feels hot! The though of me being used for his pleasure give mes pleasure beyond words. The way he looks at me, his grunts, his moans, his sweat, I can almost read his mind that he is enjoying me as much as Im enjoying him. Feeling him inside me and every rub/thrust of his hard cock in and out builds up pleasure.
I'm all over the sensation spectrum depending on the top and also me that day. But I see one top about once every six to eight weeks who knows how to reliably deliver a truly sensational 20-minute-or-so fuck. He's about 8 inches and thick but not super-thick. We always do doggy -- me on the bed at the edge on top of several pillows and him standing up. The initial entry and first minute usually hurts a little. He's not into rimming or even fingers. But considering his size, it's not bad. And he slowly goes in all the way to the base. But really slow. And then he just holds it there until he feels me relaxing. Then he pulls almost all the way out, leaving just the head and a tad more in there. Then he slides in again, this time a bit faster. Again to the base. Holds it there again, but this time not as long. And after about five or six times of that, I can handle anything he wants to do. And it feels really good. I feel very relaxed. My guts feel stretched, tingly. His thrusts shoot little electrical sensations into my legs and sometimes up my torso. Toward the end when he starts pounding hard, the last inch gives a very enjoyable pleasure/pain mix, like a 80/20 ratio. Just enough pain to feel truly fucked/bottomed out but not enough to interfere with the pleasure at all. And he loves the sensation on his dick when I'm in that 80/20 zone. It puts him into a different plane. He becomes much more verbal then and you can tell he's no longer trying to pace himself on my account. Even though he's 100% top, he's really good at intuitively knowing when I can take the full pounding and he's rarely started it up too hard too early. When he's doing all of this, I feel 100% relaxed and have no worries or concerns letting him totally take over the fuck, which he likes to do. I just mentally surrender my hole to his dick and enjoy whatever the sensation his dick is providing. I lose track of time and space for bit and just go into a mental state where I really think of nothing but his cock and the next thrust. I could easily go another 10 to 20 minutes of that, but he just can't last much longer than 20 minutes. And he is wearing a condom -- I can't imagine how fast he'd bust without one! But once he moves into pounding mode, he's got about five minutes in him -- 10 at the very most -- and he's got to bust. For me, sticking with a few of the same tops and learning their rhythms makes a big difference. The sex was good from the start, but got better the more times we met. I told him I thought our last fuck was the hardest and the best one yet.
Thanks for the detail! Definitely something I'll ask some tops to try!
I remember in the US version of Queer as Folk (I think?) the twink character described it as feeling like a balloon was expanding/stretching inside you. That always stuck with me as a kid... then I grew up, had my first experience and was like... yeah! Accurate, lol
Usually as he goes in, it feels like really soft yet firm fingers inside me. Until he starts fucking too deep then it feels weird. Like he hit my wall or something.
Depends with who. Sometimes it feels like they kind of tickling me from the inside in a good way.