I’d say many tops also prefer you be inventive and take initiative. If I have to direct literally everything I’m going to wonder why I didn’t just lube up my fleshlight.
Hmmm, but the question is asking what I do when I give head. Sure, I take initiative but I’m being honest when I say that I tailor my head to whatever the top wants.
Not sure how your personal take on what you like can be a foundation for “many tops also prefer you be inventive and take initiative” lol.
As a bottom and being very fond of sucking cock, I personally try to make the entire bj all about my mouth and avoid using my hands other than to play with the balls or ass. I don't mind a little bit of hand pressure on my head but I won't tolerate forceful face fucking.
I’m a top who likes getting head, but I also like giving head a lot.
Hands, lips, throat, gratuitous amounts of spit. Not neglecting the balls and taint. Feeling other parts of the man’s body (legs, abs, chest, nipples). Playing with and licking hole.
Make love to a man’s penis and the rest of him, no matter the sex act you’re performing.
There is no reason to be reserved.
If a man wants something particular in the moment, he can take it.
Otherwise give him the works.
I want to use my hands, on and off, as well as my mouth. Feeling the girth of the cock in my hands and gently playing with his sac is really important for me. I use primarily the mouth, of course, to get him off. I ask sometimes before meeting how he likes it and if he insists no hands, I’ll usually pass. If we meet and he insists on it, I do what the top wants, but “no hands” oral tops don’t get invited back. Also, gentle pressure on the back of my head is fine, but won’t tolerate forceful face fucking. Tops, If you want the best blow job, stay passive and let the sucker do his thing like he wants.
Lol, only ORAL tops, who should just relax and let the bottom show their servicing talents. When it comes to fucking, that’s a whole different story - no passive tops there.
I usually starts hand free with a few licks here and there, then use my hands to maximize the pleasure, then I allow the top to use my face as a fleshlight and out my hands on my lap lol
Whatever he wants. I personally like using my hands on bigger guys, but it has to be in rhythm with my mouth. As long as he cums or fucks me, I'm happy.
I don’t care but I do want some time without hands. I don’t enjoy using him like a fleshlight by guiding his head but I do like throatfucking
And this is a weirdly biased question. I’m a top who loves sucking dick.
I like to surrender totally. Love it when a Man supports my head and guides me with his hands while my focus is purely centred in his Dick and pleasuring Him.
It’s always hands free for us - normally starts with my boyfriend lying or sitting back and using my mouth and tongue on his cock, but usually ends with him holding my head and taking control for a face-fucking - either way we don’t often have our hands on his cock….
The only time I don’t want to is if they come hang out with a load already in them, I just don’t really want to put my mouth on that honestly. But have no problem putting my dick in it
I'm a top. I only got a few blowjobs in my life so I have yet to find out more.
But last time I got blowed told the bottom to use his hands more, his mouth wasn't bad but I like some jerk chicken action in there. I never tried mouth fucking someone but I think it's not really my thing.
Depends, are we fuckin? If so I wanna go mostly hands free and take my time working his dick down the back of my throat to get that good spit in the back. If I’m just sucking his dick and we’re not having sex after then I’ll use my hands a bit more to help him get there a bit more efficiently
I go with whatever the top wants. Every top is different
I’d say many tops also prefer you be inventive and take initiative. If I have to direct literally everything I’m going to wonder why I didn’t just lube up my fleshlight.
Hmmm, but the question is asking what I do when I give head. Sure, I take initiative but I’m being honest when I say that I tailor my head to whatever the top wants. Not sure how your personal take on what you like can be a foundation for “many tops also prefer you be inventive and take initiative” lol.
OK and you previously said that hundreds of tops haven’t complained, so congrats I guess?
Same
As a bottom and being very fond of sucking cock, I personally try to make the entire bj all about my mouth and avoid using my hands other than to play with the balls or ass. I don't mind a little bit of hand pressure on my head but I won't tolerate forceful face fucking.
Good boy
Why, thank you.
I’m a top who likes getting head, but I also like giving head a lot. Hands, lips, throat, gratuitous amounts of spit. Not neglecting the balls and taint. Feeling other parts of the man’s body (legs, abs, chest, nipples). Playing with and licking hole. Make love to a man’s penis and the rest of him, no matter the sex act you’re performing. There is no reason to be reserved. If a man wants something particular in the moment, he can take it. Otherwise give him the works.
good man.
You're my kind of top. I love it
Taint?
The area under the balls
The area between your legs from your nutsack to your anus
all of the above and more. why restrict yourself to doing it just one way?
Good boy
😋
I want to use my hands, on and off, as well as my mouth. Feeling the girth of the cock in my hands and gently playing with his sac is really important for me. I use primarily the mouth, of course, to get him off. I ask sometimes before meeting how he likes it and if he insists no hands, I’ll usually pass. If we meet and he insists on it, I do what the top wants, but “no hands” oral tops don’t get invited back. Also, gentle pressure on the back of my head is fine, but won’t tolerate forceful face fucking. Tops, If you want the best blow job, stay passive and let the sucker do his thing like he wants.
Asking tops to be passive… good luck finding good tops
Lol, only ORAL tops, who should just relax and let the bottom show their servicing talents. When it comes to fucking, that’s a whole different story - no passive tops there.
I usually starts hand free with a few licks here and there, then use my hands to maximize the pleasure, then I allow the top to use my face as a fleshlight and out my hands on my lap lol
Whatever he wants. I personally like using my hands on bigger guys, but it has to be in rhythm with my mouth. As long as he cums or fucks me, I'm happy.
+1 for hands on hung guys _especially_
I definitely play with his balls, rub his thighs, run my fingers through his bush…anything! But if he wants hands free, then thats what you do!
I prefer face fucking to put it mildly. But hold my balls and or my ass. Fingets in my ass for extra points
I don’t care but I do want some time without hands. I don’t enjoy using him like a fleshlight by guiding his head but I do like throatfucking And this is a weirdly biased question. I’m a top who loves sucking dick.
My top hits my hands away when I use them to hold his dick. It is either my mouth on his dick or my ass. No hands....
i would have done the same thing to you.. no hands!
I prefer hands free but I also don’t force the bottoms head up and down
I like to surrender totally. Love it when a Man supports my head and guides me with his hands while my focus is purely centred in his Dick and pleasuring Him.
I don’t use my hands much, but I like to use them a little. Play with his balls, pinch his nipples. Things like that.
Whatever the top wants. If I’m getting head tho I let him do what he wants
The top I play with he like hands free, just mouth. Anything more he corrects me
It’s always hands free for us - normally starts with my boyfriend lying or sitting back and using my mouth and tongue on his cock, but usually ends with him holding my head and taking control for a face-fucking - either way we don’t often have our hands on his cock….
I use my hands, mouth, tongue.
if i'm giving a top head, he's in control. i follow his instructions to give him head just the way he likes it.
I usually hold his cock with one hand and play with his nipples with the other
Both
Depends on the bottom’s skill level. I’m also bad about playing with the hole when getting sucked. Start to warm him up for more 😈
Have him sit on your face and rim him while he sucks you
My boy has done it. Sometimes he hops into a “69” as a way of saying he wants ass eating
Haha bottoms never have to ask for ass eating. If anything they have to tell me not to. One of my fave things to do.
I’ve only had a few boys not wanting me to eat them out. I’m a big ass fan. Eat and breed.
The only time I don’t want to is if they come hang out with a load already in them, I just don’t really want to put my mouth on that honestly. But have no problem putting my dick in it
Oohh that's hot love my hole getting played with when I have a mouthful of coxk
I generally prefer not to use my hands aside from guiding him in. It's a blowjob not a handjob. Though if he wants to fuck my mouth I don't complain.
I'm a top. I only got a few blowjobs in my life so I have yet to find out more. But last time I got blowed told the bottom to use his hands more, his mouth wasn't bad but I like some jerk chicken action in there. I never tried mouth fucking someone but I think it's not really my thing.
Both.
Depends, are we fuckin? If so I wanna go mostly hands free and take my time working his dick down the back of my throat to get that good spit in the back. If I’m just sucking his dick and we’re not having sex after then I’ll use my hands a bit more to help him get there a bit more efficiently
I don’t like tops to touch my head. I know they love doing it but It annoys me greatly.
My boyfriend likes to guide my head and fuck my throat gets me so horny everytime it happens 😍😍😍
i don’t use hands.
My boyfriend prefers hands free loves head before sex
I can't recall ever using my hands. Maybe to hold it while sucking.
Depends for me.. like at night time I’ll just do my thing.. but like if he wants it quick or somewhere he usually fucks my face