Yeah I planned on cutting contact with them a while ago. I don’t go out of my way to contact them because they’ve done shitty things to me in the past when I was a kid. (Nothing that can get them arrested, don’t worry). They just happen to be out there when I visit my grandmother before leaving to go back to school.
This is called projecting. They did it and are trying to project the guilt to someone else. They are the thieves and to avoid suspicion falling on them.
Go off on them and then cut contact
Small Update:
No confrontation happened, not because I didn’t want to, it’s because Sarah didn’t bother showing up. I guess she thought my dad would be out there and she’d get yelled at. What she doesn’t realize is that it’ll come from me when I do see her again. Christmas Eve dinner was cordial and Jake dropped me off before he went out to doordash. Apparently my other aunt just scoffed at him when he told her merry Christmas which is disgusting. They asked where he went and I told them and then had to explain what doordash is.
Erin didn’t say anything to me and we were all focused on her foster kids not doing anything stupid. I went outside with them and my cousin and as far as I know nothing else was said. My grandmother talks to me like nothing happened and like I didn’t hear her say she didn’t trust my brother. She asked if Patty was mad and I was like yes and she said, “I can’t help it. It’s the truth.”
Sarah has another thing coming to her when I see her.
I will give more updates if anything does happen. Enjoy your Christmas and Happy Holidays to those of you who don’t celebrate it!
Do it and then end contact. There would be no point in keeping them in your life at all. NTA
Yeah I planned on cutting contact with them a while ago. I don’t go out of my way to contact them because they’ve done shitty things to me in the past when I was a kid. (Nothing that can get them arrested, don’t worry). They just happen to be out there when I visit my grandmother before leaving to go back to school.
This is called projecting. They did it and are trying to project the guilt to someone else. They are the thieves and to avoid suspicion falling on them. Go off on them and then cut contact
Small Update: No confrontation happened, not because I didn’t want to, it’s because Sarah didn’t bother showing up. I guess she thought my dad would be out there and she’d get yelled at. What she doesn’t realize is that it’ll come from me when I do see her again. Christmas Eve dinner was cordial and Jake dropped me off before he went out to doordash. Apparently my other aunt just scoffed at him when he told her merry Christmas which is disgusting. They asked where he went and I told them and then had to explain what doordash is. Erin didn’t say anything to me and we were all focused on her foster kids not doing anything stupid. I went outside with them and my cousin and as far as I know nothing else was said. My grandmother talks to me like nothing happened and like I didn’t hear her say she didn’t trust my brother. She asked if Patty was mad and I was like yes and she said, “I can’t help it. It’s the truth.” Sarah has another thing coming to her when I see her. I will give more updates if anything does happen. Enjoy your Christmas and Happy Holidays to those of you who don’t celebrate it!