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I want that feeling back. I have sat here for a month nearly and everytime a car goes down the alley or someone walks by I wait to see if it is you. I gave up checking the phonrs because they are hacked to fuck. Sometimes I swear though that I see notifications that instantly disappear and I get riled up. I miss her so fucking much. So many things I wish I did say and so much I wish I didn't. 💚💙💚
I still get this feeling too… it’s like my heart can hear her. I pick up my phone to check if she somehow messaged me, but nope, just more silence since I ignored the last 2 she sent months ago after I started no contact to process and heal. Who knows, maybe I get that feeling when she’s thinking of me, because I know she is. I wish things could just be simple…
We've gone no contact for a reason. Keep at it, hon, we deserve happiness too and we'll get there. There were good times before our people, and there will be good times after.
I promised myself I wouldn’t break no contact until her birthday next week, I’m not expecting any miracles to happen if/when I do but I think it would hurt me just as much as it would hurt her if I didn’t at least wish her a happy birthday.
After that, I may enter no contact again if I feel I’m not ready to let her back into my life as a friend. Hell, maybe I never will be ready. But I’ve gone through so much pain in my life already that I think I’d be able to bear it, key word is think ðŸ˜
Relate. It's difficult to feel it when it's unwanted and not feel it when it is... Also tired of feeling like I've lost my mind, lol. This is a beautiful letter and I hope one day you find that kind of love again.
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I want that feeling back. I have sat here for a month nearly and everytime a car goes down the alley or someone walks by I wait to see if it is you. I gave up checking the phonrs because they are hacked to fuck. Sometimes I swear though that I see notifications that instantly disappear and I get riled up. I miss her so fucking much. So many things I wish I did say and so much I wish I didn't. 💚💙💚
I can only be happy with u
Limovomrkdjdhjf. Love u so so much sorry I much.. I can change so much please give love a chance
I still get this feeling too… it’s like my heart can hear her. I pick up my phone to check if she somehow messaged me, but nope, just more silence since I ignored the last 2 she sent months ago after I started no contact to process and heal. Who knows, maybe I get that feeling when she’s thinking of me, because I know she is. I wish things could just be simple…
We've gone no contact for a reason. Keep at it, hon, we deserve happiness too and we'll get there. There were good times before our people, and there will be good times after.
I promised myself I wouldn’t break no contact until her birthday next week, I’m not expecting any miracles to happen if/when I do but I think it would hurt me just as much as it would hurt her if I didn’t at least wish her a happy birthday. After that, I may enter no contact again if I feel I’m not ready to let her back into my life as a friend. Hell, maybe I never will be ready. But I’ve gone through so much pain in my life already that I think I’d be able to bear it, key word is think ðŸ˜
And that's too bad. Really it is.
Relate. It's difficult to feel it when it's unwanted and not feel it when it is... Also tired of feeling like I've lost my mind, lol. This is a beautiful letter and I hope one day you find that kind of love again.
OP impossible to love when all she does is hurt me
Real love is never impossible. Seems like it at times but that's why it is so unique and rare