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dan_jeffers

You are wrong. But. Jake told you what you did was wrong and explained his boundary. You apologized. I believe, from what you say that your apology is genuine and you won't repeat this. Given that, the further responses of Jake and Kate are excessive and if they don't want to be friends anymore, good riddance.


FuzzyRedPandaBare

Thank you for your response. Yeah, the thing is, Kate said that the only way she'll forgive me is by punching me repeatedly in the face and then when I was apologizing she was calling me a liar and telling me that I'm omitting/not acknowledging MAJOR DETAILS that make me more in the wrong and then goes on to say that if I come near her ever, she won't stop at punching me in the face repeatedly.


Endakk

What? Wasn't Kate in on the whole thing? The dynamic here is confusing me. She liked it even when he was in call, as long as he wasn't looking but as soon as Jake sees it now she hates your guts?


FuzzyRedPandaBare

Exactly. I made a joke earlier in the day that I had forgotten about.


PoliteCanadian2

Yep you’re wrong. This is all very weird but I’m a guy and guys don’t do this weird shit with each other. If you’re going to be flashing people on a video call you 100% need to be sure you know exactly who is on that call.


FuzzyRedPandaBare

I knew who all was in the call. I just thought he left the room.


FuzzyRedPandaBare

Update... So I came on here to get some insight of how bad I messed up. Since coming on here, all I know is yes, I was wrong. But then a couple of my group members saw this and said that I "deserve what's coming to me." and said maybe I should just let her deck me several times wherever and whenever she wants and then still expect her not to forgive me because what I did was fucked up no matter the circumstances at play. So, should I just let her bludgeon me as she pleases?


elm-mango

No, absolutely not. Everyone in this situation needs to grow up. You were wrong, but you sincerely apologized. If Kate and her/your "friends" feel that the only way to forgive you is to assault their pregnant friend, then cut off contact immediately and move on. Lessons learned. Focus on your pregnancy


Paleinthedark

Yo real talk. I’ve seen most of my friends parents boobs, and they’ve seen mine. It’s just tits. But it’s because we all respect and trust each other, but more importantly we’re honest. I love my best friends wife like a sister, seen her naked, tell them she’s had a smoking hot body, congratulations, it stops there. Your friends are being juvenile. Real friends never judge or try to control. They’re your tits, she’s your friends, they always comment on your tits, so I’m assuming g they’re big, which means it’s no secret. And you should be able to flash or walk around naked with your friends because they don’t care. It’s like they both are in love with you, but won’t admit it and make you the bad guy.


Paleinthedark

You’re you, find people that respect and don’t judge yiu


[deleted]

>Kate says that the only way she's going to forgive me is if she... well... you can guess I can't honestly guess? I don't see why you're off base here. It's not all for you all, but ebchsee Jake was there one time I knowingly it's an issue? Who gives a fuck?


Quiet_Maintenance173

I know most people here think you are in the wrong, but if you and that friend often flash each other as a joke and you flash them and the BF you are friends with happens to see and it wasn't your intention I don't see the problem. They are just tits. People in general need to calm down about nudity. If you intentially flash somone who you don't know wants you to for sexual gratification then this is wrong. if you flash in a situation where children etc might see, this is wrong. If you intentially flash somone who is in a relationship evan for without knowing that both them and their partner is fine with it this is wrong. apart from that who cares if ppl see other people flash or naked by accident.