Oh, he knows... we broke up once because of it, and we are now in an open relationship, I still try to keep up with him but I can't keep douching, it just takes so much work
How often is he asking for sex?
Edit: I’m actually astounded people just get into open relationships because one is more horny than the other. If it were me, waiting for when my bf is comfortable would just make the sex better. If I’m with you I don’t need anyone else.
But still crazy stuff
Why can't you ? 4 times a week is honestly not that much. Douching takes 20 minutes and stretching 10-15 minutes at most. That makes 30 minutes a day (that you could reduce to 20 if you take supplement fibers). And I don't think tops have a higher sex drive.
What exactly are you asking? Whether tops are usually the partner with the higher sex drive, or whether most relationships have a desire gap?
Idk the answer to the first question—that’s probably the subject of intense debate. But I think it’s true that most couple have at least some desire gap.
>I think it’s true that most couple have at least some desire gap.
It's also the case that this can shift throughout the relationship - that you can find your partner more or less attractive at some points than others and vice versa.
What do you mean keep up? Like sex?
Yep
I mean let him know you can’t do it at his rate
Oh, he knows... we broke up once because of it, and we are now in an open relationship, I still try to keep up with him but I can't keep douching, it just takes so much work
How often is he asking for sex? Edit: I’m actually astounded people just get into open relationships because one is more horny than the other. If it were me, waiting for when my bf is comfortable would just make the sex better. If I’m with you I don’t need anyone else. But still crazy stuff
I think he is happy with four times a week. For a while, I was keeping up when we first got back together but I just can't
Yes but this have your cake and eat it too is just rarely ever a good thing
I was very hesitant, so far so good... I've seen ltr go to shit because of it but that's where we were.
Why can't you ? 4 times a week is honestly not that much. Douching takes 20 minutes and stretching 10-15 minutes at most. That makes 30 minutes a day (that you could reduce to 20 if you take supplement fibers). And I don't think tops have a higher sex drive.
If douching is the reason you can’t keep up, take fiber, and make sure you don’t douche too deep. It takes me less than 10 minutes most of the time.
What exactly are you asking? Whether tops are usually the partner with the higher sex drive, or whether most relationships have a desire gap? Idk the answer to the first question—that’s probably the subject of intense debate. But I think it’s true that most couple have at least some desire gap.
Yes, I wonder if tops are the partners with the higher sex drive
NOPE
Nope?
NOPE...its not the case w most relationships
*in
I don't think so. The bottoms in my area are absolutely insatiable.
>I think it’s true that most couple have at least some desire gap. It's also the case that this can shift throughout the relationship - that you can find your partner more or less attractive at some points than others and vice versa.
NOPE
How much sex are you having
Enough to keep up