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fernsandshit

It’s nice to have but aside from that it did nothing for me in terms of relationships, dating, or increased sexual activity. It makes me feel good that it’s one less than to worry about in terms of physical insecurities, but nothing else tbh.


Michaelis92

The thing is that my dick is really small when flaccid, so I didn't realize I have an above-average size until I slept with different guys. 😂😂


jake_blake1

😍Beautiful Cock bro! 😍


Michaelis92

thank you man 😂


[deleted]

Same


Many-Concentrate-491

I actually didn't realize since I was never comparing it to anyone. lol


YosFan

Yeah, today's society much different than when I grew up when showers were mandatory at school, etc. You saw all kinds in your teens, at least you knew where you stood


MatthewDstantoN

I had no idea until I was sexually active. Obviously I'd seen porn so I thought mine was just average since there are less small or average guys in videos, and that's all I had to compare to


ikonoclasm

Same. I didn't realize I had a porn star dick until the first guy I hooked up with eyes bulged when he went to give me head. That was a fun realization. And a bit of disappointment when I realized average guys aren't hung. I've since adjusted my mindset, thankfully.


mrhariseldon890

I was short, skinny, with a big dick that grew before the rest of me did. Between 13-15 couldn't wear shorts cause my dick would pop out the bottom of them. And of course i wore long shirts because everyone would know if i had a boner in class. I dont care about communal showers now and prefer them but im sorta glad they stopped being a thing in my school district in the 80s otherwise i think the teasing woulda been nuts.


DukeOfGreenfield

I'm not a giant but comfortable above average, it was the same for me, when I got sexually active I had a guy straight up tell me "that's not going anywhere near my ass" cue a confused look from me... He had to tell me that. Since he was an early hook up I had no idea and like an above poster all the guys in porn where around the same so I thought it normal.


Tim22455

It was fine I guess. The real annoying thing though is my mother doesn’t have a filter so when you’re around like 14 or 15 and your mom would say things like well, Timothy, I need to go buy a bigger pants because I can see your dick at least you take after your father and since I didn’t come out till I turn 20 she would also throw in there you’re gonna make many women very happy🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️. I’m pretty noticeable flaccid, very noticeable, excited. At the age of 19 I topped a 35 year old daddy because of it😂😂😂


Aggravating_Cream_97

Didn’t realize till I started having sex.


Pinenuts37272

My straight friends always wanted to see it at the urinals, which led me to experiment a few times at 16/17


caffelion

I also didn't realize until I became more active. I have had multiple guys gradually (this was on par with my losing weight, which apparently defined my dick a lot more and the blood flow became more regulated, so it made my dick longer) tell me they love my dick. From above, I really couldn't tell, especially with thickness, but until one guy told me I was too big for him to bottom for me, I started to get the idea. There will always be guys bigger than me, and that's just a fact, however.


GaySharkTeeth

I never knew until after I graduated college and, if I’m measuring right, I’m about 8” (~20cm) and a beta male in just about every other respect. Before I measured, I thought that I was average or slightly above average. I’m so insecure regarding almost everything else about myself that I’m insecure about being such an insecure person. Also, still a virgin. I wonder if it would’ve changed me knowing earlier. Yes, I do know that I probably need therapy.


Shootingcomet

You can't be a beta male with such a big tool. Nature gifted you innate alpha status.


[deleted]

i couldn't wait to grow up. my dick was literally a third leg. now it is normal size.


[deleted]

Absolutley normal. Having a big dick isn’t a trait of your personality, so it’s pretty irrelevant and it didn’t help me with my confidence or relationships. It’s just cool to be appreciated by other guys but really nothing more than this. The annoying thing is that you can’t wear a speedo at the beach without showing off your shapes and it feels weird wearing it next to friends or family.


DonIslay

I realized it was big when I was 15. I was on a vacation with my father at a resort, he came out of the bathroom suddenly while I was getting dressed, and he made an impressed comment 😅 Then my main boyfriend of my teenage years was an Artsy type with a group of hipster friends who basically lived their lives in a way that was liberated from societal taboos and rules. I learnt at some point the whole friend group saw my dick pics & they were joking that my dick was used as excavator for undersea subway construction that was going on back then 🫠That tickles a man’s ego for sure.


OddRevolution6244

7.5 in, girthy too Constantly thinking this wasn't going to be enough or it was just average. And not being able to wear sweat pants in school didn't help.


Stunning-Resort-4204

Had no idea I was big at all till I started messing around lol still feel a bit unsure to this day thanks to porn but since finding out it's been a huge confidence booster for sure.


ultimateguy95

Before I was out, I assumed I had a smaller than average dick based off of how my straight guy friends talked about their dick, but after I started to sleep with other guys, I realized very quickly that I was above average 😂


Puzzleheaded_Copy_40

Nice dick dude.


ultimateguy95

Thanks bro 😘


vieweer

Pretty great. Lots of attention, confidence. Only bad part is bulging everywhere in the summer, but I got used to it. I realized I was big when I was 16


Dry-Debate6167

I'm 14 years old with a 6 inch penis BUT ITS VERY WIDE! And the worst thing is I'm always horny and get random boners in FUCKING BIOLOGY CLASS🥲.If my dick was long I would have a much easier time trying to hide it but MY BONERS ARE FUCKING ROCK SOLID 🪨 AND ITS POINTED STRAIGHT FORWARD SO I CAN'T EVEN HIDE IT EVEN I TRIED SO I WOULD JUST PRAY THAT THE TEACHER DOESN'T CALL TO THE BOARD EVERYDAY. PLEASE HELP ME ! I'm gay and my guy best friends who claimed they are straight and dating girls are always grabbing it and trying to invite me to sleepovers and parties. I'm still a virgin and haven't ripped anyone's asshole yet but if there is any experienced Tops that have a wide dick please respond