Shy guys cruising at the local gym?
I mean I don't doubt shy guys exist, but if you don't catch them glancing at you now and then, they probably aren't looking to get into it with you, even if they're shy.
It doesn't have to be full on eye contact, but OP hasn't said literally anything that would even remotely be a smoking gun they're interested in him at all.
He's just being a tad delusional and reading into things that aren't signs.
Op only described one interaction like this, so I wouldn't call it a pattern or several occasions.
Edit: I'll also add people wear weird ass shit to the gym sometimes. I don't go to one personally, but my friend tells me about some of the weirdest people ever. She recently saw a man in a full outfit. Pants, a shirt and vest, and a *hat.*
I go running in the park near my house, and I've seen people running in the dead of summer 30+ degrees in long sleeved hoodies and track pants, as well as jeans or other pants that aren't ideal for working out.
His mesh shorts are a weird choice, but idk how big the holes are. Maybe he's just a freak like that, ir didn't know how revealing it was until it was too late.
I wouldn't jump straight to "does he want me to suck his dick?" Because he sat next to me in them one time, and I walked in and he was peeing without closing the door a completely separate time.
Wearing no underwear to the gym means nothing. I never really wear underwear to the gym either. Does it mean I’m crushing? Nope. Just means I didn’t wear underwear that day.
It means you are ogling a stranger at the gym without him giving any indication he’s interested. People piss with the door open all the time, it’s not an invitation.
I've seen him around the gym since ages, and it was just like anyone else. I am here posting because, since that shorts incident, I've been perceiving him differently and wondering what others think. The fact he curled dumbbells next to me is not the significant point, it's more that him being there meant I could see his cock reflected in the mirror.
So you perving on hot gym bro means he wants you? He’s probably just trying to work out. If you want to know so badly compliment him once and see what he says
What sort of gym is this!!?? Cant believe someone would wear see thru circuit gear commando to a gym like that....hes just an exhibitionist and a pretty inconsiderate one if theres women, men or even other gays around. I / u maybe into it but not in a general gym space its kinda off....id just ignore him tbh
It means he's a dude focused on getting his workout in. He wears what is comfortable, because gyms and locker rooms are not sexual to straight guys. If the only interactions you have with other men is hookup apps and cruising, you're not going to have any idea what male nonsexual interaction is. Get off the apps, put down your phones, and go out and socialize.
If a straight guy talked like this about a women at the gym then he would be banned from a subreddit. For chrissakes if you can't go to a gym in a respectful manner then maybe take up jogging.
No underwear more comfortable. I doubt he thinks anyone's gonna notice.
If I use a cubicle to piss I don't like shutting the door tbh due to my OCD anxiety of imaging how dirty the lock is, I'm certainly not cruising. I really don't think he's trying to get your attention as much as you wish it true.
I wear as little as possible at the gym and what I wear is as breathable as possible. I work out hard and I sweat. I don’t care what other people think.
Try say hello or just "hay" in passing. Ask him about what he find effective for diet. Ask him how he does such a good job on a specific muscle group. Men like fixing things, ask him if he can tell you how to improve your routine. Complement him on his style even if its gross. Complement him on his ideas.
Yeah this is beyond offensive. Just because this guy goes commando in tight shorts and pissed with the stall door ajar IS NOT cruising for sex or an invite to unsolicited attention.
You should get your clues in check before you get checked yourself.
Classic attention whore seeking willing worshipers. The joy of feeling others lusting over him is probably worth more than hooking up with any one. I bet he has lots of mirrors in his place.
It means the guy is weird for not wearing underwear (and suprisingly bad at personal hygiene). It also means you are extremely creepy for constantly looking at his crotch area.
Just get your head out of the gutter OP.
I freeball at the gym all the time. Not because I'm cruising but because I always freeball and putting underwear or a jock on is just irritating. Oh, and I don't wear shorts that would show off my cock - though I admit I was once doing those leg butterfly things when I looked down and saw that my PA was poking out of the leg opening of my shorts. No one was anywhere near me so I didn't worry much about it.
I think you're overthinking it. But to hell with what I think. If you want to shoot your shot then by all means but do not try and cruise him at the gym or anything, you can be thrown out and banned.
If there's been no lingering eye contact or lingering looks from him he's not cruising you.
Yup. If they aren’t checking you out, they aren’t interested.
Thanks
Yup its the gym Life isnt porn
That’s not tru
It's a very good rule of thumb to keep when in very public places.
I said it’s not tru cuz shy guys exist
Shy guys cruising at the local gym? I mean I don't doubt shy guys exist, but if you don't catch them glancing at you now and then, they probably aren't looking to get into it with you, even if they're shy. It doesn't have to be full on eye contact, but OP hasn't said literally anything that would even remotely be a smoking gun they're interested in him at all. He's just being a tad delusional and reading into things that aren't signs.
Who doesn’t wear underwear and goes outta their way to lift right by u on several occasions
Op only described one interaction like this, so I wouldn't call it a pattern or several occasions. Edit: I'll also add people wear weird ass shit to the gym sometimes. I don't go to one personally, but my friend tells me about some of the weirdest people ever. She recently saw a man in a full outfit. Pants, a shirt and vest, and a *hat.* I go running in the park near my house, and I've seen people running in the dead of summer 30+ degrees in long sleeved hoodies and track pants, as well as jeans or other pants that aren't ideal for working out. His mesh shorts are a weird choice, but idk how big the holes are. Maybe he's just a freak like that, ir didn't know how revealing it was until it was too late. I wouldn't jump straight to "does he want me to suck his dick?" Because he sat next to me in them one time, and I walked in and he was peeing without closing the door a completely separate time.
Uh, someone who just wants to show off and nothing more.
Grindr is for the shy guy.
Wearing no underwear to the gym means nothing. I never really wear underwear to the gym either. Does it mean I’m crushing? Nope. Just means I didn’t wear underwear that day.
Yeh I freeball at times generally, but never in white
I’ve freeballed in white before too. Lol. Still means nothing.
Agreed. Dude wanted attention and he got it basing on this post.
Noooo please let me live out my delusional fantasy of a random ripped Chad thirsting after me *Cries in gaycel*
Now I need evidence 😄
It means you are ogling a stranger at the gym without him giving any indication he’s interested. People piss with the door open all the time, it’s not an invitation.
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Open Grindr at the gym. Is he there? Message him. Is he not there? Let him be and maybe jerk before the gym if it’s that distracting to you.
Yall gotta watch less porn and stop being creeps sheesh
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I go like that to the gym all the time. There no ulterior motive. I just do not care. Makes showering and changing quicker in the locker room
Love it Thanks for the response
It means the guy is weird.
Freakay*** Or weird. That work too.
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I've seen him around the gym since ages, and it was just like anyone else. I am here posting because, since that shorts incident, I've been perceiving him differently and wondering what others think. The fact he curled dumbbells next to me is not the significant point, it's more that him being there meant I could see his cock reflected in the mirror.
So you perving on hot gym bro means he wants you? He’s probably just trying to work out. If you want to know so badly compliment him once and see what he says
Yes, I would if he looked up. You'd look too if a random visible cock appeared in the mirror, especially attached to a muscle hunk.
If he didn’t look up then he’s probably not interested.
What sort of gym is this!!?? Cant believe someone would wear see thru circuit gear commando to a gym like that....hes just an exhibitionist and a pretty inconsiderate one if theres women, men or even other gays around. I / u maybe into it but not in a general gym space its kinda off....id just ignore him tbh
It did surprise me, yes. But definitely did not mind. Never seen anyone else dress that way, at any gym.
For real though...smh
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If he’s not on Grindr, he isn’t looking for u to mess around
It means he's a dude focused on getting his workout in. He wears what is comfortable, because gyms and locker rooms are not sexual to straight guys. If the only interactions you have with other men is hookup apps and cruising, you're not going to have any idea what male nonsexual interaction is. Get off the apps, put down your phones, and go out and socialize.
In straight bro talk..."go touch some grass".
Yeh, last part doesn't apply.
If a straight guy talked like this about a women at the gym then he would be banned from a subreddit. For chrissakes if you can't go to a gym in a respectful manner then maybe take up jogging.
>What does this mean You're a bit of a creep towards this random guy at the gym.
No underwear more comfortable. I doubt he thinks anyone's gonna notice. If I use a cubicle to piss I don't like shutting the door tbh due to my OCD anxiety of imaging how dirty the lock is, I'm certainly not cruising. I really don't think he's trying to get your attention as much as you wish it true.
This is a good point! Yeh it would be filthy.
He definitely wants some attention it just may not be from you
He’s not into you. Move on
Girl he is literally just existing. You're the one making it sexual
Honestly bro you need to reevaluate your life.
I wear as little as possible at the gym and what I wear is as breathable as possible. I work out hard and I sweat. I don’t care what other people think.
This definitely did not happen
You’re a little delulu
These troll posts are getting worse and less creative
Geez, let people work out in peace.
Might want to stop following randoms around the gym.
Try say hello or just "hay" in passing. Ask him about what he find effective for diet. Ask him how he does such a good job on a specific muscle group. Men like fixing things, ask him if he can tell you how to improve your routine. Complement him on his style even if its gross. Complement him on his ideas.
Yeah this is beyond offensive. Just because this guy goes commando in tight shorts and pissed with the stall door ajar IS NOT cruising for sex or an invite to unsolicited attention. You should get your clues in check before you get checked yourself.
No, it isn't offensive to ask people what it might mean on here. This is literally the subreddit to ask.
It doesn’t mean anything. He’s just a dude wearing tight shorts. Move along.
All it means is that you're fucking creep Sheesh
Classic attention whore seeking willing worshipers. The joy of feeling others lusting over him is probably worth more than hooking up with any one. I bet he has lots of mirrors in his place.
If you were straight you'd definitely tell a women in a crop top that she was asking for it. Be better.
Exhibitionist.
Surely a consistent pattern like this indicates he’s courting the interest of other men, if not the interest of the original post guy specifically.
Pattern of what? Going to the gym and pissing? Not talking to people?
White mesh with no underwear is at the very least kind of gross
The pattern of deliberately not caring how much of his intimate parts in activities the other men in this Jim see. That’s the pattern.
That's just comfort with yourself I think.
It means the guy is weird for not wearing underwear (and suprisingly bad at personal hygiene). It also means you are extremely creepy for constantly looking at his crotch area. Just get your head out of the gutter OP.
If you see something...say something...😈
I freeball at the gym all the time. Not because I'm cruising but because I always freeball and putting underwear or a jock on is just irritating. Oh, and I don't wear shorts that would show off my cock - though I admit I was once doing those leg butterfly things when I looked down and saw that my PA was poking out of the leg opening of my shorts. No one was anywhere near me so I didn't worry much about it.
I think you're overthinking it. But to hell with what I think. If you want to shoot your shot then by all means but do not try and cruise him at the gym or anything, you can be thrown out and banned.
Unless the “gym” is a bathhouse/Steamworks he would be told to change or be banned for life. It’s indecent exposure.
This is a creepy post wut