At 1 year most relationships really start to breakdown because you are truly past the honeymoon phase. This is probably the make or break moment for you. I would break it if I were you. It sounds to me like he doesn’t truly like you anymore, at least not enough to want you around for his birthday, which is crazy
Very crazy. He’s an ass. I could never see a birthday without my man, and he’s the same. We always go to each other first to make plans for really anything. That’s how relationships are maintained- through shared experiences
I wouldn’t say that, I would say break up with him for his birthday gift. Something’s along the lines of “you didn’t care to have me at your birthday so I don’t care to have you as a boyfriend anymore”.
Big hugs man. Your bf sounds like a jerk. For me it was the not wanting see you for the week part that tipped me into the "Yeah that guy really sucks" category. I hope you're doing okay in yourself.
Well, only you can say what you're going to do. Accept him like he is or break up if it makes you miserable. But I think you can't change his behaviour...
It seems like he's trying to push you away so that you'll break up with him. I could be wrong, but if my bf were making such an effort for me, I'd react differently. You need to decide for yourself if you're truly in a relationship or just calling it that.
This appears to be a one sided affair and you've chosen not to take the hint which yr bf has obviously given you in several ways. Seeing someone maybe once a week or less isn't much of a pairing. You're holding on too tightly to someone who's either playing you or ambivalent at best especially after a year. Take the hint, no matter how much it'll hurt and get out now.
At 1 year most relationships really start to breakdown because you are truly past the honeymoon phase. This is probably the make or break moment for you. I would break it if I were you. It sounds to me like he doesn’t truly like you anymore, at least not enough to want you around for his birthday, which is crazy
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Very crazy. He’s an ass. I could never see a birthday without my man, and he’s the same. We always go to each other first to make plans for really anything. That’s how relationships are maintained- through shared experiences
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I wouldn’t say that, I would say break up with him for his birthday gift. Something’s along the lines of “you didn’t care to have me at your birthday so I don’t care to have you as a boyfriend anymore”.
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Obviously we don’t have his side of things, but if what you’re saying is accurate then yeah, he doesn’t care as much about you as a boyfriend should
Big hugs man. Your bf sounds like a jerk. For me it was the not wanting see you for the week part that tipped me into the "Yeah that guy really sucks" category. I hope you're doing okay in yourself.
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Dms are always open if you need to vent bro
Dump him and move on.
Seems that he's trying that you get tired and finish things... you know what to do
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I'm sorry. I mean it looks like he doesn't have strong feelings for you anymore and he's trying to push you away until you get tired and break up.
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Well, only you can say what you're going to do. Accept him like he is or break up if it makes you miserable. But I think you can't change his behaviour...
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I wish i wasn't but that's what i would do. Slowly starting to reciprocate and being more cold and uninterested until the thing dies for both.
It seems like he's trying to push you away so that you'll break up with him. I could be wrong, but if my bf were making such an effort for me, I'd react differently. You need to decide for yourself if you're truly in a relationship or just calling it that.
i ain't reading all that. im happy for you tho, or sorry that happened.
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it's a meme bro it's not that serious
This appears to be a one sided affair and you've chosen not to take the hint which yr bf has obviously given you in several ways. Seeing someone maybe once a week or less isn't much of a pairing. You're holding on too tightly to someone who's either playing you or ambivalent at best especially after a year. Take the hint, no matter how much it'll hurt and get out now.