Incidental body contact, e.g., legs touching under a table.

I’d add to this, like you know when you’re standing in a line or something and they grab your waist to move past you. THAT makes me horny 🥺

Moans in my mind after the shock lol

Went to get new eyeglasses today. The guy who was working there is super hot and he put the glasses on my head a couple of times and looked at my face while being really close to me. I was really uncomfortable cause I didn’t know where to look, but it was also really hot lol

He probably doesn’t even realize it. Stare into his eyes like you’re attracted to him and it will freak him out lolol.

I'm an optical dispenser, you just described my everyday life 🤣

Yup, examples like legs touching sitting next to each other on the couch, or just casually has its arm behind you. (I’m so touch starved)

Getting a haircut from the barbershop and their hand brushes against your neck or side burn..... 😵

I love having a gay hairstylist, rub his crotch up against my hands or knees or whatever while his maneuvering around me to look and cut my hair! It doesn’t matter if it’s accidental/unintentional or if he means to do it I love it no matter why!

Arm hairs touching when sitting next to eachother on a plane ride 🥰

The hair on a guy's arms has always been a major turn-on for me. Just rubbing the hair on my bf arm, and I am either completely comforted or horny asf.

When a man stretches and his shirt lifts a little - I die everytime

A sneak peek at the happy trail. I disintegrate.

I am FERAL for this😭

Especially with a thick happy trail!

The removal of hoodies in the gym is a particularly rewarding viewer experience. The treasure trail and abs combo being unbeatable in my book.

Same bro

I agree, this makes me super horny. 👅

And then seeing the happy trail 🫨

Trying to teach me something.

THIS

One guy I dated stood up for a stranger in a public place. The stranger was getting harassed with racial slurs by some drunk bros. He confronted the bros and shouted at them in way that made them look stupid. So sexy.

Ah yes, the ol’ ‘you’re getting whatever you want tonight’.

What did he say?

Existing

I was going to say working out at the gym, but that’s the same as existing I think.

Beat me to it 😂😂

When they roll up their sleeves. Not sure why but I fall for them every time a little more.

Yes! Nice forearms sticking out of a rolled up sleeve is so sexy. Especially, a dress shirt. He loosens his tie and rolls his sleeves up. Yum! LOL

Cooking. I couldn’t keep my hands off my ex’s ass when he was in the kitchen

Same, I’m horny for baked goods.

You're a sucker for some hot, fresh buns?

My partner’s fresh buns are the hottest and tastiest. I could just faceplant right into them.

Let him cook!

Oh god, this

A guy that dances really well

Or.. Confidently dances poorly. I love me some goofy dancing that men do.

Oh you would love me then. I’m the most confident terrible dancer I’ve ever met. Something comes over me when the mood is right and just get into a flow state. Knowing that I look completely ridiculous does not stop my body from moving. It’s a great headspace to be in - truly carefree

I’m the same way lmao, my friends will be just kind of awkwardly dancing around next to me meanwhile I’ll be jumping up and getting down on the floor 😭

I had an ex like this, and it still makes me grin ear to ear when I think of it. Thanks for that little trip down memory lane.

I’ve been a nasty girl 🕺

I LOVE when a guy knows how to move his hips while dancing. So so sexy

Stretching and showing treasure trail...🤤

"..completely non-sexual.." Aha....

stretch, look lost, be muscular with body fat and eat a lot

When a man is in a dress shirt , tie and nice slacks wearing a nice “ barbershop “ type cologne that smells masculine and manly.

Stretching or using the edge of tee shirt to wipe mouth, thus showing off lower belly hair and trail

My boyfriend likes building and fixing things in the house. Watching him building, repairing, painting, drives me crazy.

Being good with kids. Maybe horny isn’t the exact word, but you gain a solid 4 whole points on the scale just for being good with children.

Gays are such women.

A glimpse of armpit hair

Omg. YES!!!

That’s a real plus!!

When they wear cute short shorts and show them upper thighs. Bonus points if they have thigh tats

Just remind me of a podcast well the video version these two Australians and someone from the US they were all serving leggs

Stretching and showing a little bit of their belly

physical touch

Sweat and musky scent.

Absolutely, after a day of heavy work!!

I find it hot when a dude is standing with his arms crossed. But I guess that’s considered sexual

That’s usually an indicator of the opposite

Just walk around in socks. My eyes are always drawn to it lol.

Messy hair… once had a guy at work that had medium length hair and always had it pulled back or up. One day he had a headache and he took it down while we were talking. I was looking away when he did it so when I turned around he had his hair down, messy and had one wavy strand hanging in his face while making eye contact…OMG , I melted.

Reach in their pants and adjust themselves! Nice

I knew a guy who would put his arm up to his elbow to adjust. Felt like saying where the hell is it?

Blue jeans with no shirt, no shoes/socks. Gets my motor running just thinking about it.

Winking 😉

A cute guy reading in public. (Bonus points if he’s wearing glasses!) Something about the sight just makes me absolutely FERAL.

Flex their feet or calves.

i love hunky calves as well!

Noice 🥰

Omg yes to this! Especially if they have nice feet 😍

Amen!

Confidently using a urinal

how does one meekly use a urinal?

As someone who currently lives with touch starvation, I'd feel so comfortable with moments of occasional cuddling and him being all for kissing, hugs and attention, and would provide lots of affection aswell (asuming he enjoys being that physically intimate, that is.) Also totally unrelated but I got something for the looks of this particular guy who has messy curly hair and who often wears oversized clothes

Crossing their arms makes it seem like they're flexing. I love forearms a lot and that just makes it so much hotter. Eye contact too, especially from a guy I find attractive. 

I don’t know how to describe it properly. But having a great time playing silly buggers. Basically, exuberantly enjoying themselves and laughing out loud at innocent, silly goofy stuff. Like, confidently doing absolutely silly, harmless, childlike stuff and finding it hilarious. I can’t really think of any concrete examples of what I mean. But, like, non-mean, non-humiliating goofy pranks that everyone (even the person who gets pranked) can’t help but laugh and enjoy it. Or just getting involved in something completely lame and random, but enjoying the shit out of it.

Omg this people these days don't know how to have fun or dance doesn't matter if he's good at it or not. I was photographing a night club and the owner was like telling me like take a photo when the beat drops It was full but everyone was just standing I did take a photo I made sure of that and it was transferred to my phone all 45 of them and he was disappointed I just said the beat did drop and when I saw all those people just standing there in light It creepd me out and then realized that I had no idea why and how I got there and why I had my camera with me. My friend was djing but I don't remember her asking me to come. I like it when weird stuff happens and someone just goes along with it or has a similar sense of humor and a senese of adventure everybody just stays inside these days because of covid I mean I get it people had gotten used to staying at home but it's over get over it people.

Kindness. Specially towards me. I know… I starve for it.

I used to be basically afraid of it in my first relationship I was just thinking what is this what's going why is he being so nice to me I really thought he was fake but it turned out he wasn't fake

Awwww, I’d love to experience that. I still have the untrusted feeling there

Yikes… I hope everyone here learns really fast that they deserve to have a partner that’s nice to them. If you think you don’t, please find a good therapist as soon as you can and start the journey to acceptance of your worth.💗

Makes me feel safe, but in a very subtle smooth way where he doesn't make a big deal out of it. If he does it in a macho testosterone induced way it's such a turn off.

Men that wear socks and slides and gym shorts makes me go crazy hahaha

Play guitar or own a sailboat

Would you faint if they played guitar on their sailboat?

A guy who has exactly ZERO shame about the fact that he's flirting with me and enjoying it. No being subtle, shy, or timid about it. He's just being bold and goin' for the gold.

creativity

Probably when they fix their hair and flex their biceps, or when the stretch and reveal a little bit of their stomach Or when guys who just finished working out their chest uses their hand to feel their pecs(this one gets me so hard and horny every time)

I don’t know about ‘doing’ something specifically but, you know when a guy has just had a fresh hair cut / skin fade and there’s almost no hair just bare neck with perfectly done edges. 🫠

When a man smiles, when they’re gaming and their legs are open on the couch and eyes focused on the screen, when they’re trying to mansplain something even though I already know what it is, so I just still smile and listen, the way their lips purse as they speak.

Messy hair/bed head

Also when they wear those gym shirts that are totally open on both sides. So that even he's wearing something I can still see everything. 😜🥵😘

Kindness kills me.

Scratchin their tits and talking homoerotic with other straight dudes

Booty shorts, oversized shirts on smoll guys

Stretch so their tummy is exposed. Yumm

Just showing kindness or trying to genuinely help in some way for no personal gain

Body contact for sure. Or guys that wear decent underwear or seeing their waistband

When he’s wearing shorts and his legs are toned and slightly hairy

Smile at me.... actually just acknowledging my existence....

Adjusting their junk. 😛

Exist

Existing.

Telling me about his day in a silly voice

I love watching my bottoms cooking

My husband in the garden, watering the plants. A bit sweaty. Tank top and short shorts commando.

When they can play an instrument especially drums. Guys that are drummers are my weakness

Bullying me (in a cute way) 🙈😂🥺

Lifting their shirt to wipe sweat from the face. Rolling up sleeves to reveal tattoos. Standing/walking so close that they brush up to my leg hair.

When a guy is driving a motorcycle in front of you and the wind lifts his shirt up- exposing his lower back and underwear’s elastic band…

Being nice to me. Being emotionally open to me.

Stretching out is a good one. Guys with great legs walking, running, just sitting, with short shorts on. Totally love men's legs, all the way up to the butt.

Suits!!!!! Suits suits SUITS My own wedding will be a disaster

Swiping his card 🤤

Not having slept with half the country

Thank you for this. Like actually.

Ok so body count in the tens of millions just not hundreds of millions. Check lol

Sitting down in short shorts 

Confidence. Just walk around like you own the place (not in a bad way though).

Being emotionally unavailable, apparently. My therapist and I have a lot to deconstruct.

Take off or loosen their tie. Even hotter when its hanging around their shoulders.

Being polite has landed me a lot of love for some men. Especially when it is in addition to them being masculine. Something about the white knight being humble is a big turn on.

as much as I wanna pretend I'm not one of those guys, sometimes I'm one of those guys, because sometimes a dude casually touches my mid back or shoulder and something in my brain says "we can have an autumn wedding"

Stretching out or scratching and letting some of their stomach show

When I see armpit hair or chest hair in public

Stretching so their shirt lifts up, revealing a toned stomach (better is there’s some fur). Related: absentmindedly lifting their shirt to scratch or rub their tummy. 🥵

Being kind The second a guy is genuinely kind I'm floored

I am a foot freak. Seeing men’s feet really turn me on.

Being kind

concentration face. like when a guy is driving or playing a video game etc

Good deep genuine conversation with a guy, even if by the looks he might not have been my pick.

1 When a guy stretches and you see his happy trail, pit hair, and / or top of his pubes poking out of his pants. 2 When he gets close, in an elevator or on a bus for example, and you can smell his scent. Combination of musk, sweat and even a little cologne or old spice... 3 When a good looking guy has no idea how hot he is and carries himself humbly. 4 tan lines, at the beach when you can tell they usually wear long board shorts and they have a smaller trunk or speedo on and you can see the tan line

Exist…. 😮‍💨

Emotional vulnerability

My late partner used to just lightly place his hand in the middle of my back and pat me or just place it there for a moment or two when we would be out at a restaurant sitting at the bar. It wasn't a sexual touch, but an "I-see-you-and-you're-with-me" pat. It drove me absolutely wild. Miss that immensely!

Fix shit, drive boats, treat people well, care for older people or children, smile. Idk a decent human that is resourceful gets me going.

Stretch 😍

My bf shaves my head for me in the shower.....oh hold on that's sexual now I think about it

Texting back. Sending me pictures of what you are doing or wearing for the day. Just being cute. Doing something nerdy or silly, like he forgot you are with him and just acts 100% himself. Showing me your favorite things. I like Latin men so sometimes their English isn't great or accent is heavy. I love when they get words wrong or confused how to translate into English. It's cute and fun trying to figure out what they mean and the looks they make trying to think is so sexy and cute. We always get to the meaning and we both learn how to communicate. :)

Play with my hair

Cracking my back. I often get a very stiff back and getting it cracked often releases most of the tension. I always get weird looks the first time I ask a fwb/fuckbuddy to do it to me, but they always end up enjoying it too.

Raising their arms and seeing their pit hair … or wearing shirts that show that little tuft of chest hair peeking out at the neck… or bedding over and their shirt lifting just enough to see that patch of hair above the crack…👅👅👅👅👅

Wear flip flops

Touching my shoulder from the back, especially if I’m sitting down. Lounging around, masculinely Maintaining eye contact and smiling a lot while talking . But that’s just me a touch starved barely gets actual awkward introvert g@y

Touches. Can range from accidental touches like brushing up against someone while moving, affectionate touches like hugs and leg pats, cuddling, etc

Well groomed. Especially hands and feet. Love seeing a man that takes care of himself.

Being good with kids

Doing mechanic work. Had a mobile mechanic over last week and it was 95 degrees out. Came out to offer some cold water and he was shirtless and covered in grease/oil. Nothing sexual about, just functional but it had me on sniffies as soon as he was gone.

I love messy eaters for some reason. Not even because it’s sexual but I find it attractive when someone just doesn’t give a shit. Like I’m here to eat, not look cute. I love when a guy is expressive about something they are interested in too. Like I’ll purposefully bring it up just to see them get gleeful about something they enjoy. Pure joy. It’s hot.

Body contact and natural odor

Accidental body contact, and weirdly, when giys are generally nice to me. 😂 That's why it's hard for me to makw friends with guys because i always end up wanting to suck and ride their dicks. 😂

When you can sing

Call me buddy, pat my head, manspread, grab their crotch,

Listening to me with genuine interest

Accidentally lifting their shirts while scratching their stomachs.

Washing dishes, cooking, and driving when they’re super focused

Warm personality and (I can’t believe I’m saying this) the smell of beer on his breath.

Messy hair and tired eyes

When they don’t put much effort into their clothes

Anytime any guy is nice to me I literally want to fucking marry him on the spot.

A confident, kind vibe

Intelligent conversation that doesn't revolve around their sexuality being their identity.

Lift weights

when a guy stretches or sighs

Unintentionally showing their belly.

A whip smart sense of humor

If they can hold eye contact. I go feral and slutty for eye contact.

The men who are polite and often are lost with the grey side burns.

that smile/ smirk he makes when he’s aware of how much he’s turning you on. jeebus 🥵🥵

My young dentist leaning over me have to close my eyes at times and keep my hands over my cock area to disguise my semi boner

Exist lol

showing hairy arms already gets me hard.

When they put their arm on the back of the passenger seat headrest to reverse their car. (A musky armpit is a bonus.)

I have this super attractive coworker who comes to my office at the end of our workdays so we can clock out and walk to our cars together. Straight, good looking, and has a gf but I melt every time lol. He’s a nice dude.

When he's driving and he's resting his hand on my leg and gives it a Lil squeeze

Smile

1. WORK CLOTHES. Guys wearing a button-up shirt (especially with sleeves rolled up) tucked into slacks or dress pants (preferably khakis) is a huge weakness for me. 2. Physical touch in a friendly manner - a hug, pat on the back, or hand on shoulder

Be nice to me. ASDFGHJJLQWERTYUIOP

When they stretch and put their hands behind their head and little bit of armpit hair shows 😝

Whisper in my ear or honestly just existing I’m down bad for men

Little bit of chest hair popping out from a button up 😍😍

Rearranging their bulge.

Backing out of a parking space with one hand

Omg there’s a guy I work with who constantly cleans his glasses with his shirt…lifting up the bottoms and revealing his treasure trail and V…multiple times a day. I’m sure I’ve been caught staring!

A cute little smile. When he pulls his hair up in a ponytail and also wears glasses. When he is just being goofy

Smelling his own armpits and decided to himself that he needs a shower. Or just anything masculine.

Moments of nerdiness or passion about something, but NOT in a know-it-all fashion

Great smile and laughing a lot. Joy is a big turn on. Also being respectful and kind to others. ☺️

A man in a suit will always turn me on

Head scratches and body caressing 😩

Watching blue collar guys eat on their lunch break.

Or watching guys eat meat

Feet

Accent for sure, I swear everything I hear a Russian accent my dick gets instantly hard.

Make fun of me

Sit with their legs kinds open, hands on the thighs.

Compete with me in Trivia and win.