Experiment with wearing a small / medium sized butt plug for a few hours. During that time, work on getting a couple of erections. Like 20 minutes after the plug is in, stimulate your cock to the point of erection. Repeat a few times. Then jerk off. Wait a day or two and repeat the cycle. You can train yourself to get hard and cum hard when there’s something in your ass.
It’s actually very common for btms to be soft during anal. Porn depicts otherwise, but it’s not the case. Our hole has so many nerves, that it can override the sensation and blood flow from the penis to the anus. Most tops aren’t bothered by this as they have your hole to use 😜 I can orgasm stronger while being fucked with a soft cock. It’s intense
If it's not over masturbation or porn, perhaps it's pain from not being experienced? I'm not a bttm but I think the less it hurts the easier it'd be to get hard
When I am in too much pain or I have to concentrate to hard to avoid any pain, I won’t stay hard. When the top is making sure I am enjoying myself there is no problem staying hard.
Stop jacking off. Why is it so hard for people to get that if you go without touching yourself for a long enough time (while being healthy) you will get stronger erections??
I masturbate a ton, yet I'm always hard as a rock when using a penetrative toy or fucked. I've noticed in a lot of the porn I see the bottom is soft.
Seems common and I'm not sure if there's a trick to overcome it, if it's more a physiological vs psychological effect.. Can/do you cum (not just pre, full orgasms) while soft & bottoming? Or do you have to wait until you get hard after to have orgasms?
Are you healthy? Do you eat enough fruits and vegetables and healthy acids and drink enough water? Do you get enough exercise? Do you eat junk food/damaging or toxic stuff too often?
I jo 3times a day and I don't have erectil dysfonction. I do sex like 1/2 times per week and have no problem either. This porn thing / numbness is a 4chan myth. Everybody is different, everyone has not the same blood pressure / dick sensibility / mind arousal, etc...
We’re all different.
For me it depends on the start point, if I’m soft when he goes inside then I’ll remain soft. But if I’m hard when he goes inside I can stay hard for a bit, bi to will need constant stimulation to on like him jerking me to stay hard, otherwise I will go soft after a while, but still able to cum soft
I think it comes naturally. I will be very hard when the dick go in, and always stay hard (fully or semi) until I cum (real or dildo). Maybe bc I don't do that often so when it happens, the thought of me being fucked (aside from the real sensation) makes me so aroused that I'll never be soft. Do you get soft with time or have you always been like this?
I’m consistently hard pre cum the entire time all on his chest lol. I’ve never understood how guys go soft during it 🧐 when I was a teen I always thought when the bottoms had soft dicks they just didn’t enjoy it and were doing their job
Experiment with wearing a small / medium sized butt plug for a few hours. During that time, work on getting a couple of erections. Like 20 minutes after the plug is in, stimulate your cock to the point of erection. Repeat a few times. Then jerk off. Wait a day or two and repeat the cycle. You can train yourself to get hard and cum hard when there’s something in your ass.
It’s actually very common for btms to be soft during anal. Porn depicts otherwise, but it’s not the case. Our hole has so many nerves, that it can override the sensation and blood flow from the penis to the anus. Most tops aren’t bothered by this as they have your hole to use 😜 I can orgasm stronger while being fucked with a soft cock. It’s intense
I think a very many bottoms go soft. I know that so busy concentrating on the pleasure in my ass, I tend to forget about my dick.
Totally agreed. Top here and love my bottom soft as I know he is enjoying my cock.
If it's not over masturbation or porn, perhaps it's pain from not being experienced? I'm not a bttm but I think the less it hurts the easier it'd be to get hard
why do you need to be hard while bottoming?
When I am in too much pain or I have to concentrate to hard to avoid any pain, I won’t stay hard. When the top is making sure I am enjoying myself there is no problem staying hard.
Stop jacking off. Why is it so hard for people to get that if you go without touching yourself for a long enough time (while being healthy) you will get stronger erections??
I'm not sure if that is what's going on... at least for me... I dont masturbate as much as other people do
I masturbate a ton, yet I'm always hard as a rock when using a penetrative toy or fucked. I've noticed in a lot of the porn I see the bottom is soft. Seems common and I'm not sure if there's a trick to overcome it, if it's more a physiological vs psychological effect.. Can/do you cum (not just pre, full orgasms) while soft & bottoming? Or do you have to wait until you get hard after to have orgasms?
Are you healthy? Do you eat enough fruits and vegetables and healthy acids and drink enough water? Do you get enough exercise? Do you eat junk food/damaging or toxic stuff too often?
I jo 3times a day and I don't have erectil dysfonction. I do sex like 1/2 times per week and have no problem either. This porn thing / numbness is a 4chan myth. Everybody is different, everyone has not the same blood pressure / dick sensibility / mind arousal, etc...
It’s normal. I go soft if he’s not jerking me while fucking me. Doesn’t matter. He actually prefers when I’m soft
I agree + stop watching porn very often.
Viagra
Did you try cock ring?
I am really confused, some say, it is the nerves and blood, some say pain and concentration. Idk, tbh...
We’re all different. For me it depends on the start point, if I’m soft when he goes inside then I’ll remain soft. But if I’m hard when he goes inside I can stay hard for a bit, bi to will need constant stimulation to on like him jerking me to stay hard, otherwise I will go soft after a while, but still able to cum soft
I fully understand, makes sense. It should be a great turn on for you as well even though you're soft...
Everyone is different. We all can't be porn stars.
I think it comes naturally. I will be very hard when the dick go in, and always stay hard (fully or semi) until I cum (real or dildo). Maybe bc I don't do that often so when it happens, the thought of me being fucked (aside from the real sensation) makes me so aroused that I'll never be soft. Do you get soft with time or have you always been like this?
I’m consistently hard pre cum the entire time all on his chest lol. I’ve never understood how guys go soft during it 🧐 when I was a teen I always thought when the bottoms had soft dicks they just didn’t enjoy it and were doing their job