That’s just your body’s way of telling you to take a break. There really isn’t a “tip or trick” for that. You can do things like stretch yourself out with a butt plug before the actual sex so there’s less friction to cause soreness and damage. That’s about it tho…that I can think of.
Sore where? If it's your sphincter you are probably not getting opened up enough. You might want to work on opening yourself up with bigger dildos and, especially, butt plugs.
If the pain is deeper and the guys aren't huge, inadequate lubrication is what I'd suspect. Try something slicker or apply more, more often.
If the pain is deep and the guy has a seriously long dick (like maybe 10% of guys have, or less, you may be getting bruised up at the top end of the rectum, where it folds to the side into the sigmoid colon. Repeated banging against that hurts during fucking (but is also hot), so you'd likely know if it's happening. I know of no magic solution aside from asking him to not fuck so deep.
If his cock is beyond enormous (a percent or two of all guys) he may be able to pop right through that fold (second ring/sphincter/hole) and fuck you into the lower reaches of the sigmoid. That can feel amazing, but it can also be messy, as that fold often holds back shit. A basic douching doesn't clean up.that far, and the kind of douching that does is a bit complex.
Of course, it may just be that you're sensitive to discomfort down there, so will always be a bit sore, but it is most likely one of the above issues, assuming you don't have a specific medical issue like anal fissures or hemorrhoids.
This is great, the BF is hung but after seven years, I believe I have got used to it.... I use an enema the bulb doesn't do the trick. The ring is red and a bit swollen
One other thing you might consider is whether you've developed a latex allergy. That can cause a burning, itching sensation. Latex isn't just condoms, but also gloves and some sex toys (especially older ones). Stick with silicone dildos and nitrile gloves, if gloves are ever used. You can also get non-latex condoms.
That could be either wrong lube or it could be that you’re just an inexperienced bottom. Used to happen to me. After a while it was no longer an issue. As for lube I recommend Pjur Back Door. Miracle stuff.
Agree with the others use more lube, spend more time opening up, take more fiber.
Id also recommend you get a bidet. Personally, the toilet paper was causing my butt to be more raw and thus more susceptible to tears. Actually have quicker recovery and generally less tears or soreness. Also, it feels wayyyy nice. Make sure to get one with heated water
Eat a lot more fiber than you think you need and this
[https://www.amazon.com/Bathroom-Handheld-Showerhead-Vaginal-Cleaning/dp/B077RXHSC9/ref=sr\_1\_6?crid=313BFVSKMDKAW&keywords=shower+enema&qid=1669790686&sprefix=shower+enema%2Caps%2C207&sr=8-6](https://www.amazon.com/Bathroom-Handheld-Showerhead-Vaginal-Cleaning/dp/B077RXHSC9/ref=sr_1_6?crid=313BFVSKMDKAW&keywords=shower+enema&qid=1669790686&sprefix=shower+enema%2Caps%2C207&sr=8-6)
Taking a daily fibre supplement will help massively. Pysillium powder for example.
Metamucil is great, I probably should use it a bit more
What’s your biggest issue that’s stopping you?
I get sore if I bottom a few days in a raw
That’s just your body’s way of telling you to take a break. There really isn’t a “tip or trick” for that. You can do things like stretch yourself out with a butt plug before the actual sex so there’s less friction to cause soreness and damage. That’s about it tho…that I can think of.
That might be quite a good tip (thanks)... I am still hoping that someone will have a soothing cream or a magic lube
Sore where? If it's your sphincter you are probably not getting opened up enough. You might want to work on opening yourself up with bigger dildos and, especially, butt plugs. If the pain is deeper and the guys aren't huge, inadequate lubrication is what I'd suspect. Try something slicker or apply more, more often. If the pain is deep and the guy has a seriously long dick (like maybe 10% of guys have, or less, you may be getting bruised up at the top end of the rectum, where it folds to the side into the sigmoid colon. Repeated banging against that hurts during fucking (but is also hot), so you'd likely know if it's happening. I know of no magic solution aside from asking him to not fuck so deep. If his cock is beyond enormous (a percent or two of all guys) he may be able to pop right through that fold (second ring/sphincter/hole) and fuck you into the lower reaches of the sigmoid. That can feel amazing, but it can also be messy, as that fold often holds back shit. A basic douching doesn't clean up.that far, and the kind of douching that does is a bit complex. Of course, it may just be that you're sensitive to discomfort down there, so will always be a bit sore, but it is most likely one of the above issues, assuming you don't have a specific medical issue like anal fissures or hemorrhoids.
This is great, the BF is hung but after seven years, I believe I have got used to it.... I use an enema the bulb doesn't do the trick. The ring is red and a bit swollen
One other thing you might consider is whether you've developed a latex allergy. That can cause a burning, itching sensation. Latex isn't just condoms, but also gloves and some sex toys (especially older ones). Stick with silicone dildos and nitrile gloves, if gloves are ever used. You can also get non-latex condoms.
That could be either wrong lube or it could be that you’re just an inexperienced bottom. Used to happen to me. After a while it was no longer an issue. As for lube I recommend Pjur Back Door. Miracle stuff.
I'm 30 being doing this for 15 years now, what lube do you use?
Pjur Back Door. The only lube I will use 🤌🏼
Thanks
Find more tops.
I got a bf with a high sex drive and a daddy that I am trying to keep satisfied but failing because I can't keep up
Agree with the others use more lube, spend more time opening up, take more fiber. Id also recommend you get a bidet. Personally, the toilet paper was causing my butt to be more raw and thus more susceptible to tears. Actually have quicker recovery and generally less tears or soreness. Also, it feels wayyyy nice. Make sure to get one with heated water
Eat a lot more fiber than you think you need and this [https://www.amazon.com/Bathroom-Handheld-Showerhead-Vaginal-Cleaning/dp/B077RXHSC9/ref=sr\_1\_6?crid=313BFVSKMDKAW&keywords=shower+enema&qid=1669790686&sprefix=shower+enema%2Caps%2C207&sr=8-6](https://www.amazon.com/Bathroom-Handheld-Showerhead-Vaginal-Cleaning/dp/B077RXHSC9/ref=sr_1_6?crid=313BFVSKMDKAW&keywords=shower+enema&qid=1669790686&sprefix=shower+enema%2Caps%2C207&sr=8-6)
stretching before and Kegels as well i use a butt plug an hour before sekks and I clench on it every five minutes for 30 seconds.
Fiber supplements. Take at least 3 fiber pills that have psyllium with every meal.
Dildo urself