They've been friends for like 15 years, as I said on my post at one point I thought that my BF was cheating on me with him, tonight I was able to tell that his friend wasn't overly interested on my BF and he was a bit shocked when he found out that my BFs is on the larger side.
Did you use condoms for oral? If not, and you’re on prep, the unprotected anal puts you at roughly the same risk as the unprotected oral for nearly all STIs.
I don’t understand why people on prep are so insistent about condoms for anal but wouldn’t even think about using a condom for oral. Every STI except HIV has roughly the same transmission rate through oral sex as through anal sex.
Waaaiddaminute.... I think interpreted that wrong..
Your boyfriends bigger than his buddy, and he though after a larger tool being used, the smaller tool wouldn't get pleasure..
If he was worried about the friend not feeling anything he should have went first?
But either way, it's like.. He thinks he can speak and make decisions for you..
[this... ](https://youtu.be/7Gv1Vlx_S2k)
Utter bullshit for him not to talk with you about it first and get your thoughts on it.
Gono and Chlamydia are usually detectable after about a week. Syphilis after about a month. But if you're getting tested every three months for your prep then you might as well just wait for your next regular test unless you start experiencing symptoms.
Edit to add - apply lube before putting on the condom, then once it's on, and masturbate for like a minute after it's on, plus reapply lube at least once a couple minutes after penetration. Take those steps and unless the condom brand is utter trash the top guy should feel plenty.
Your boyfriend didn't ask you your thoughts and it doesn't sound like he has led his friend either.
Heads up to visiting tops - go ahead and ask the guy who is actually bottoming before taking their boyfriend's invitation to bb them.
If you're on PrEP, get tested as part of your regular check up.
Also do a gut check with your boyfriend. Ask him if he'd checked with his buddy for his most recent STI test results. If he had not, you should feel free to text the buddy and ask. You're an adult who is ultimately responsible for his own sexual health.
So he cared about his friend more than he cared about you. Wow. That's not a red flag, that's a red fucking airship.
That is a great point, I didn't see it from that perspective
Yeah, I find it so weird that your bf risked you getting an sti/std because his mates pleasure came first
They've been friends for like 15 years, as I said on my post at one point I thought that my BF was cheating on me with him, tonight I was able to tell that his friend wasn't overly interested on my BF and he was a bit shocked when he found out that my BFs is on the larger side.
Did you use condoms for oral? If not, and you’re on prep, the unprotected anal puts you at roughly the same risk as the unprotected oral for nearly all STIs. I don’t understand why people on prep are so insistent about condoms for anal but wouldn’t even think about using a condom for oral. Every STI except HIV has roughly the same transmission rate through oral sex as through anal sex.
What is he using for condoms to be "quite a bit thicker"? But yeah this whole scenario is fucked.
Waaaiddaminute.... I think interpreted that wrong.. Your boyfriends bigger than his buddy, and he though after a larger tool being used, the smaller tool wouldn't get pleasure.. If he was worried about the friend not feeling anything he should have went first? But either way, it's like.. He thinks he can speak and make decisions for you.. [this... ](https://youtu.be/7Gv1Vlx_S2k)
Utter bullshit for him not to talk with you about it first and get your thoughts on it. Gono and Chlamydia are usually detectable after about a week. Syphilis after about a month. But if you're getting tested every three months for your prep then you might as well just wait for your next regular test unless you start experiencing symptoms. Edit to add - apply lube before putting on the condom, then once it's on, and masturbate for like a minute after it's on, plus reapply lube at least once a couple minutes after penetration. Take those steps and unless the condom brand is utter trash the top guy should feel plenty. Your boyfriend didn't ask you your thoughts and it doesn't sound like he has led his friend either. Heads up to visiting tops - go ahead and ask the guy who is actually bottoming before taking their boyfriend's invitation to bb them.
If you're on PrEP, get tested as part of your regular check up. Also do a gut check with your boyfriend. Ask him if he'd checked with his buddy for his most recent STI test results. If he had not, you should feel free to text the buddy and ask. You're an adult who is ultimately responsible for his own sexual health.
I'm not sure why you allowed him to make that decision for you, but you should go for testing in a few weeks.