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Kathyschaotic

I must have background noise that i can control type of neurodivergent


Corvaknight

Same. Noise cancelling headphones have made my quality of life so much better


[deleted]

And worse can damage to ears.


ijustsailedaway

I have been looking for some kind of evidence of this. I have suspected from the beginning that if a sound wave is created to cancel out another audible noise then the decibel level is still going to cause damage and you won’t even notice. It was just a theory though and I’ve yet to find any corroborating research or studies.


Blapor

If they're cancelling out that would mean they're destructively interfering, which means their amplitudes are subtracted from one another - so, zero. Basically it shouldn't cause damage to your hearing if you can't hear it. Idk if there's some other reason noise-cancelling is bad, but it wouldn't be some sort of inaudible sound.


Fuuufi

In an ideal scenario, yes. But in reality there are always sound fragments (audible or not) depending on the headphones and the cancelled noise. Just like no headphones can reproduce the sound to be EXACTLY like the original they also can’t reproduce anti sound in real time to be exactly the same. Real noise is much more complex than sin waves and is rarely cancelled completely. Though as damage to the ear is related to amplitude rather than frequency it’s highly unlikely it would cause major damage to the human ear, but even inaudible low/high frequency sound remnants might cause discomfort if your ear is sensitive and/or the exposure is longterm. I can only speak from my own experience with the Bose QC35 over-ear and the beyerdynamic free Byrd in-ear where the first cancels a lot and has a remnant sound pressure that becomes uncomfortable after a while where the latter cancels less but I can wear them until they get physically uncomfortable rather than auditive.


UnknownCape7377

The inaudible sound is felt as a sort of static pressure which can over time build up and cause discomfort.


[deleted]

I didn’t mean it in that way. I meant if you still listen to your music on blast like I do, you’re still doing damage to your ears and even more now since you’re canceling outside noise, so the music is that much more louder. So my comment was more about volume level in relation to noise canceling.


bornwithlangehoa

In a perfect scenario i would not need the controlled noise if there weren‘t the terrible and no good random bad sounds. There are so many. Bad frequency coil whine, neighbors screaming, laughing, rummaging, banging, car doors, sneakers squeeking, the cats licking themselves - it‘s a long list. Music, Headphones, TV help.


SenkoToast

yeah i like backround noise but NOT people chewing at all, it makes me want to punch them and if they're doing it right next to me then i have to keep my arm pinned down to keep it from catapulting into their face, however that nice backround noise, i've been sleeping on the floor next to my computer because 1 i sleep like a rock on the floor 2 i love the hum from my pc fr


[deleted]

What is it about chewing noises?? When my dogs do it = aww cute 😍 ☺️ 💕 When people do it = violent thoughts.


SenkoToast

same except i have a cat and my brain is disabled when i feel like a B O Y so i can't really feel how cute a cat eating is but i can a little bit and i agree


FalkFyre

Not me. Any dog noise is too much for me, too. I have three, unfortunately, and have to leave the room whenever they are doing anything other than sleeping or laying there. I spend a lot of time in my noise canceling earbuds.


catculus

My dog makes adorable yum yum noises when she is eating. It would be disgusting if a human did it. Also, snoring. Cute when it’s the dog, anger-inducing when it’s the juman.


[deleted]

Yes!! Can't sleep when my partner snores. But feel adoration for my dogs when they snore ❤️


Alaska-TheCountry

It's called misophonia. I have it, and I hate it. It's usually worse when there's overstimulation / when I'm more stressed.


ohfrxkinghxck

This is also my answer. My TV with background noise? Good. My mas TV with high volume? Bad. Music while cleaning? Great. Music while talking? Horrible.


flibbyjibby

Yepppp. I wouldn't survive working in a noisy office if I wasn't allowed to have my headphones on and my music playing.


Licorice_Devourer

I have buildt in background noise, it's called tinnitus.


HiddenMasquerade

This is why I gotta sleep with a fan on. I cannot sleep with tinnitus 🥲


skeletons_asshole

Have you heard about th -*reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee*?


Portal471

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE


BrunetteThrasher

Now this is all I hear, fuck lmao


Portal471

As someone with tinnitus, not much new.


LordBaikalOli

Its better then VRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRŔRRRRRRRRMMMMM in my opinion. And I have tinnitus...


MachoMachoMadness

It’s funny, I used to be the “there has to be no background noise or I go insane” ND and then I got tinnitus which made the no background noise make me insane cuz the tinnitus is too loud. Now background noise is a comfort cuz it drowns out the tinnitus lol


NeurodiverseTurtle

Same. I smoke to dull my over-sensitive sense of smell & taste and used to do dumb stuff to damage my hearing (like neglecting ear-protection when using firearms/explosives at work) in the hope it would dull that sense too, kind of like how smoking worked for me… little did I know; that’s not how hearing works. Now silence to me is like the D-day beach scene from saving private Ryan. Sounds like there’s a big old CRT TV on at all times in my head… I’m a dumbass.


cocogate

Oh my god i never tied my very sensitive sense of smell (usually to stank...) or hearing to my asp/autism... I can be deaf AF when occupied but ill hear the dog breathing downstairs when trying to sleep. Dont care im walking through a field of shit but open a can of dogfood and ill retch


SgtCocktopus

And when you get bored you can easily summon an earworm. Dental plan. Lisa need's braces. Dental plan. Lisa need's braces. Dental plan. Lisa need's braces. Dental plan. Lisa need's braces.


SenkoToast

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE


[deleted]

I'm listening to music when I work, when I'm driving, when I'm doing yard work, when I'm in the shower and when I sleep. And I don't like repeating my music too much. I find my brain goes into rumination if it gets quiet, I like to keep something going to distract it. Sometimes I'll sing or whistle if I can't have music. Also I hate my goddamn sports fan neighbors, I can hear them going wooo from inside their house, inside my house.


KaileyMG

Same, I even got accommodations to listen to music in class. I am currently listening to my library alphabetically by artist. It's been 4 months and I just got to S.


[deleted]

I have 22,000 songs, I do a star rating for each song. I listen to unrated songs on shuffle. I've been rating new songs for 2 years and I still have 3000 to go. /r/musichoarder


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Opijit

Does "both depending on the circumstances" count? I can't stand the TV randomly on, but I also can't stand the fan not running while I'm working or trying to sleep.


bennetticles

I believe it does. It is a rare day when i deliberately choose complete silence. I generally have red noise or rain sounds on low around the clock, and pair that with instrumental music at night. Beyond that, it depends on the brain space required for the task at hand. Sometimes “the zone” demands vocal background noise, like investigatory podcasts. But other times, like when I’m reading and writing, I opt for silence. A repetitive but arrhythmic noise, however, will bring me to my knees.


jlozada24

I'd say you're the latter then... fan noise is similar to white noise which masks all other frequencies. It technically is noise, but there's no discernible auditory information in it, so sensory wise id consider it closer to silence


rionaster

it's really fun when you're both


Bot_X_Noob

I'm both and i cannot choose when i become which one


3xactli

Fan at night, tv/radio at day, otherwise i hear my friggin pulse in my ears? ugh


RAiNbOwS_PuRTy

I can feel my pulse in my feet, like if you line your ankles up


Dreem_Walker

"Are you 'I must have background noise at all times' neurodivergent, or are you 'background noise drives me literally insane' neurodivergent?" Yes


Massive_Environment8

"Once you go cray, you will never stray!"


petermobeter

i prefer NO backgrnd noise srry


TheInvisibleJeevas

I desire only the sound of the blood rushing through my ears


MarTheMenace1

Background noise at all times to drown out the “e e e e e e e e e e e”


AntisocialAspie

Autism hates it ADHD loves it


ThatGoodCattitude

Big oof. 🥲


xXxindicaxXx

Same for me


CrimsonPresents

I gotta have background noise or I will got insane


lalaquen

Both? Uncontrolled background noises - especially things like yardwork and machinery make me want to literally murder someone just to make it stop. But if I'm working, reading, or even playing a game, I generally have to have something. It can't be voiced if what I'm doing otherwise involves words or I can't concentrate on them. But chill instrumental music, storm sounds, etc all make great deliberate background.


BlueTressym

This is also me.


Athyrium93

I'm the must have total silence to focus *or* very intentionally sound, like a podcast or audio audiobook that requires active listening. Anything in between is a nightmare.


sleepystinkmuffin

Exactly! And if there's music playing in the background in a restaurant or shopping mall, that's the only thing I listen to. Can't focus on the conversations or anything else.


One_Acanthaceae9174

where is this place where there is no background noise? You don't have a refrigerator? cars passing by? anything that makes noise?


randomhumanbeings

That's not consistent, I like background noise as long as it doesn't stop and start constantly. That's why I have the fan on all the time.


HuntingCrimson

I mean in nature theres no noise. But that’s usually a bad thing.


martinaylett

You maybe don't have a hundred rooks nesting within a short distance of your house?


largestcob

i dont think ive ever in my life gone outside into nature without there being significant background noise pretty much at all times


[deleted]

It depends, if I’m having a conversation absolutely not, anything else I neeeeeed it


[deleted]

Usually the former. If I’m trying to sleep through I demand absolute silence


martinaylett

I prefer that too (but it does make sleeping on a train / plane / boat more difficult).


EyesAreMentToSee333

litterally got charged at becuse some asshole was offended i dared walk out of my apartment after being woken up at 2:00 in the morning because the same jackass decided to start blaring his music so loud I can feel the rhythm of his base in my bones. So to answer your question depends if someone high drunk fuck wanting to die at 2:00 am by charging at a man 3 times his size. Hes lucking a warned his ass.


ZombieBrideXD

I’m autistic with tinnitus so both 🙃


Haui111

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Hopeful-alt

Yes


redditor40987

I prefer foreground, like directly in my ears.


iamacraftyhooker

I need a fan to sleep to keep the background noise steady. There is always background noise no matter what. Traffic, electricity, bugs, breathing, wind, even in complete silence I start hearing my heart beat and blood pumping.


TorakTheDark

Both unfortunately…


UltraCarnivore

I'm a "I must listen to a theme music for my current thought train" neurodivergent


Amythyst369

If everything's completely silent, part of me instantly assumes I must be dead


Hopperkin

Well, my physician actually prescribed noise canceling headphones, it's sad that some Uber driver named Genesis who drives a blue Honda Civic with Texas license plate PYM6470 decided to steal them though.


BrokenBouncy

I only like the white noise machine when going to bed. As soon as I wake up I have to turn it off or I will go insane


Halasham

Background noise if I need time to pass, otherwise everything has to shut up.


GaryRegalsMuscleCar

I’m the “Muzak I can control brings me peace whereas your Muzak sucks” type


ripmations-ld

I purposefully don’t feed some of my crickets to my gecko because I like the chirping noise throughout the day


[deleted]

Bro, I need background noise when I'm actively trying to watch/listen to something else. The silence of 1 source is DEAFENING.


Gengar_49

Both


[deleted]

I prefer dead silence but if there’s any chance of random noises, especially voices, then I need brown noise to shut it out.


CheesecakeRacoon

Both. I like to have background noise, but if I can't choose said noise, or stop/avoid it whenever I like, then it starts to drive me nuts.


Shot-Goose

Somehow I’m both


SkyeSpyder

both


jmills03croc

I have built in background noise called tinitus lol.


SnowLancer616

Both. It's pure horror


Sir-Peanut

I need it if I'm calm and focusing on one thing or there's nothing going on, but the second there's multiple things to keep track of or the rest of my environment is getting hectic i need silence


sir-morti

i need background noise but only a certain kind + volume. yes i know it's really particular of me but my brain works in funny ways. the wrong noise will keep me awake at night


Toxopid

I need background noise. My bedroom sounds like a runway


AlicnWondrlnd

Why not both! Also it really just depends on the type of noise in the background for me some is overwhelming while others are calming


cha_boi_john120

Noise makes me blink and the day is gone but I'm productive. No Noise makes me cherish the day but have little energy for the day


ShinyGallinule

My fiancé always has to pack my Honeywell fan when we travel or else I won’t sleep at night.


PJ_2005_01

Yes


GaryRegalsMuscleCar

Yes


ZucchiniWide6755

Depends on how I'm feeling in that moment


[deleted]

Both, it depends on how I feel at the moment


0_Shinigami_0

Background music whenever I'm out of the house. Otherwise, a show or YouTube video. I'd like having no background noise but It's just not possible so I like having some I can control


theftnssgrmpcrtst

I prefer to have white noise on at all times. Background noise does not drive me insane but it does distract me to a debilitating degree.


Cyan_Light

If I hear myself breathe I might kill someone, so definitely the former. Gotta agree that the wrong kind of background noise is maddening too though, neighbors blasting bassy music or someone gathering up plastic bags down the hall is also a recipe for inevitable homicide. I'm starting to think people with omnipresent misophonia aren't "meant" to survive, like if I were born to a tribe of cavemen would I just be the dumbass that goes insane and runs off to fistfight a tiger because they can't regulate their emotional response to anything? This feels like being born with one of those terminal baby illnesses but somehow living for decades anyway just because technology has kinda sorta made it possible but at a fairly low quality of life.


thedarklord176

It depends. Music is on whenever possible, but if I’m doing something that requires intense concentration like programming have to stop it.


Dodgimusprime

Depends on how my day has been and where my emotions and sensitivity are. Sometimes I can even hear the blue light of my sleep-mode monitor going on and off and I can’t sleep until I shut it off completely. Other times I’m not even aware I left my fan on


Wilhelm126

Mmm having a 3 second video of a dude and his cat on loop for 10 hours my beloved


Prestigious_Goose645

I have a playlist on youtube of stream highlights and letsplays i use just to sleep every night, lol. I still watch them for fun all the time too.


-skeleton_juice-

It rotates on the hour


[deleted]

It depends on the day. Or the hour.


Fluffy-Weapon

I literally can’t sleep without earplugs


Useful-Bad-6706

If my white noise machine isn’t on at all times I go insane


mairnX

Anyone else like me and are both of these? Like sometimes i NEED the background noise, but other times background noise is literal hell


greaserpup

i draw, write, and sleep so much better with the TV on it's not even funny i'll put on a 4-hour youtube video i don't even care about just to fall asleep to it


lordofseattle4

Addicted to audiobooks


RagAndBows

Noise cancelling headphones with white noise playing whenever I'm home neurodivergent.


Mr_WAAAGH

Both


ComfortablyNumbat

Yes


vegemouse

Both.


mq1coperator

I am must have background noise at all times tinnitus. Wait, what was the question?


sog_log

Either a sleep mediation on YouTube, or a movie I know really well


Substantial_Dog_9699

I can't sleep without the fan on. Similar to white noise. Ironically, it drowns out all of the other background noises that are bothering me.


maybe_Lena

Yes


HuskyBLZKN

I am both at the same time


StarrySky339

Music. Whether it’s normal or sleep music, I need it.


[deleted]

The silence makes me lonely.


radial-glia

Silence is not quiet enough.


Princess_Jirachi

I can’t concentrate or sleep with background noise


bearofbutter

fan go BRRRRRRRRRRRR


H010CR0N

I’m “I fall asleep listening to either How it’s made episodes or Lore videos about Warhammer 40k”.


idontcareyouranswer

If there is no noise i rethink about my whole life; masking, getting forced to lying, exams etc. But if there is any kind of noise, then i can hopefully shut my brain a little with little suffering.


AdUseful2765

Both


[deleted]

Yep! I’m both and it is infuriating. 🙃


NyraMoonbeam

I am both. Sometimes simultaneously. It's fun.


sethzard

Mostly background noise drives me mad. I've got a wireless charger, I can't use it at night because it has a little fan in that drives me up the wall. When it's hot I can just about deal with an actual fan because I'm very temperature sensitive though. Sometimes I need noise, but I need to control it.


A_Redditor2

Both tbh


NieMonD

This is entirely dependent on the situation


Lady_Ishsa

I could probably count the number of times I've fallen asleep without YouTube playing in the last decade on one hand


Leoz_MaxwellJilliumz

If I’m trying to use my whole brain on something I can’t have any noise at all. The other 99.9% of the time I need noise in the background.


PilotPossible9496

Depends on time of day


amblp_3922

depends on the context, i'm both lol


Daminica

I’m the I need background noise and at the same time it might drive me insane type.


SCP_D-CLASS

At all times or I go absolutely batshit insane


Ratanonymous_1

If I don’t have background noise I will die


[deleted]

yes


skeletons_asshole

Depends on the minute of the day. It’s never the same. Which sucks because I have tinnitus.


femtransfan

it depends on the noise


Many-Operation653

Both :))))


Tastyravioli707

Both…


Blue-Arrow13

I can't be comfortable doing chores or hobbies without music on the background


super_salty_boi

I must be able to control the background noise, and if I have to focus the background noise should not have voice


gvidas2

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Jeffotato

I am very picky about *what* background noise


Educational-Year3146

Anything to avoid that barely noticeable high pitched ringing noise.


PorkyFishFish

Depends. I'm okay with white noise. Music is sometimes okay but it depends on the music on the context. Other than that I absolutely hate background noise


SgtCocktopus

yes


Ok-Education-5390

Yes


DzRythen

Nope, need absolute silence. Which is really difficult with my Tinnitus but what can you do lol.


SarahLae

Both :)


Fariesinabottle

Depends on the day, stress level and/or mood.


BrunetteThrasher

Depends on the time of day; if head is empty or BUMPIN never know


gGiasca

Second. Definetly


Stacharoonee

Depends on if I’m in control of the background noise and what it is.


Reddit_user_robbie

first one if I don't have the constant whirring hum of a fan on at night, I'm way more grumpy lol


Bitter_Marsupial3694

Yes.


Daksh_Rendar

Both 😭


LivyDC_KASS

Literally keep my fan on even in the winter time


Tommy_Dro

I’m a, “If the air is stagnant, I feel like I’m suffocating” ND. Got a ceiling fan AND a desk fan in my bedroom.


swalabr

Yes to both


Some-Panda-8168

Both lol


EmberOfFlame

Yes ;-;


theburnix

Yes


AirLight1646

I gotta have a YouTube video playing whenever I sleep :)


Batata-Sofi

Background noise is a must, but not too much. Too much noise drives me insane...


tiphoni

Both, fan at night or else I can't sleep but no sound all day.


RedditsAdoptedSon

podcast only.. literally need talking or my brain will do the talking and i don’t need that at all! best if it’s normal tone talking like daily conversation.. ghost science or like economics is nice


ThatFamiIiarNight

both


Where_serpents_walk

Yes.


DamnDamien33

Background noise good if i am in control. Like a gaming video and music at game time good cause I'm in control. News and music, bad. Cause I'm not in control.


Liandra24289

Both I’m both


certainlystormy

i have a massive fan in my room for the purpose of white noise. i cannot live without it


LisaBlueDragon

Depends what background noise.


shelflife103

How about both? It depends. If it's people talking I'm gonna go insane but if it's just music or a yt it's fine.


pietersite

Does music count as background noise or regular noise?


Admirablelittlebitch

I’m kind of both?? I *need* white noise to study but if there’s a lot of noise from people talking or cars and stuff like that it drives me crazy


Sp0olio

Music: good. Noise: bad. I think, that about sums it up.


TopAlps6

Background noise drives me insane.


alasw0eisme

Depends. I'm both at different times.


SubnauticaFan3

Background noise, I am the polar opposite of misophonia


empathyboi

Yes


[deleted]

Depends on the day! Some days, I need the background sound at all times and others I literally can't because it's too much.


Quantineuro

It fluctuates from needing background noise to needing to not have background noise depending on so many variables. Quite depends if sound is part of the application. Falling asleep can be a chore once in a while lol


Stairwayunicorn

I need silence. The Hum keeps me up at night


No_Office_168

Somehow both


TexasMonk

I hate noise. The fan is not noise. The fan is the glorious giver of moving air that regulates the temperature to proper sleep levels. It sings the song of its people and I sleep.


18galbraithj

Both


Sky_pups

The later. Part of my nightly routine is turning off power strips and unplugging certain things. Some power bricks are so noisy, my TV sound bar power brick is the most egregious offender but once unplugged and the capacitors drain it's nice and quiet. I can't wait to get old and lose my hearing enough to not hear it anymore 😭


FishyDruid

Both :I


GastonBastardo

Yes.


Nimuwa

Any sound drives me mad, especially if I cannot control it. Sounds made by other people are the worst somehow.


NeurodivergentDuck

Depends, I can be either one