Time to start investigating for all you are worth. Do not confront him until you have actual evidence saved.
If you jump the gun he will just delete it all and lie to the bitter end.
Signs of infidelity we usually ignore until it is much too late.
1) You aren't kept in the loop about their schedule. Or locations.
2) They work hours that don't make sense to you.
3) They make excuses when you try to plan for future events.
4) They consistently flake on your plans.
5) They avoid eye contact.
6) They avoid taking you to family events.
7) Or they find excuses to avoid your family.
8) They constantly complain about being "bored." Unhappy etc
9)They have no social media presence.
10) Or they won't post any photos with you on social media.
11) Or they have a secret email account.
12) They tend to overexplain where they were. Is a sign of lying.
13) Or they never have an explanation for where they were or Good explanation.
14) They're inundating you with gifts. Love bombing. Suddenly sex is over the top excellent.
15) They can't stop smiling at their phone. And guarding it with their life. You find a second phone.
16) They criticize how you dress etc.
17) Or they're dead set on making you more like them.
18) They're daydreaming more often. Distracted
19) Their eyes wander when speaking to others.
20) Your dates always seem to take place in a bar.
21) They need longer stints of "alone time."
22) They're constantly trying to please everyone.nother than you.
23) Or they're obsessed with how others perceive them.
24) They seem "irresistible." Brag about being good in bed. As stated by exes.
25) They exhibit signs of entitlement.
26) They stop calling you pet names.
27) They're no longer interested in intimacy with you. Dead bedroom.
28) Or they quickly become distant after sex.just wanting to get it over with.
29) They're keen to explore more personal fantasies. They have suddenly developed new skills between the sheets.
30) They compare you to others. Like an ex.
31) They ridicule you for requesting more time together.
32) Or they start to withdraw from shared activities.
33) They forget about a special occasion.
34) They no longer discuss dreams the two of you once shared.
35) They stop making progress in the relationship.
36) Your mutual friends seem uncomfortable around you. Hiding what they know is happening.
37) Their credit card has started to rack up strange expenses. Cash taken from accounts.
38) You don't have to remind them to get haircuts anymore. They change their dress style.
39) They're suddenly hyper-cautious about turning their phone off when they go to bed. You detect gaps and deleted messages.
40) They always seem to need to take a quick shower once they get home. Wom't kiss you until teeth are brushed mouth wash is used.
41) They defend friends who've cheated in their relationships.
42) Or they've cheated previously themselves. Said until you they had never been in love. Are always the one to break up in the past. And have an extensive past, high body count. Lots of exes.
43) You notice changes in the amount of PDA they're comfortable with you.
44) They're telling more fibs than usual.
45) Their cell phone is the most important thing in their life. New password.
46) They suddenly pick up a new hobby.
47) They pull away from you when you reach out.
48) Or they're showing "negative cluster cues." Physical excuses to avoid physical intimacy. Headache, pulled muscle, feeling sick, etc., in groupings.
49) They talk badly about their exes. Shows disrespect for an ex. All the exes were bad and why they broke up. Never their fault.
50) They have low self-esteem. Need for attention, are naturally flirty.
51) They're doing the laundry out of the blue. Likely so you do not see what they are washing nor the stains or odors they are trying to mask.
52) They're uncomfortable about making large purchases together. Getting ready to dump you.
53) They don't want you to look in a certain drawer. Or elsewhere, like in their car, console, trunk space etc.
54) They accuse you of cheating—even though you definitely aren't. Projecting onto you their own cheating.
55) Or they're gaslighting you when you bring up their suspicious behavior.
They will have fake reasons to no longer wear jewelry or clothes special to you, like wedding rings.
Anything you want to add. Just add it. But to get the full effect, go to 'best life on line' to see the entire article.
And sure, serial cheaters do breath a lot. And loudly at that.
Like someone else said, it could be junk e-mail or spam from a site he used before you. I was still getting emails from I think tinder when my now wife and I first started dating. Those things are hard to unsubscribe from and a lot of the time I personally am too lazy to even bother. One thing to look for is to see if they’re trying to login, on pretty much every app or social media platform I have to log into, it sends a code to my email or my phone to get into my account. If it’s that then it means he’s using the site/app actively. If it’s just spam I wouldn’t worry too much about it. But be sure about anything before jumping to conclusions.
Might have been a site he was on before you. Something it's hard to unscribe the email from the site. So he could just be getting junk
Oh FFS… just ask him. Good god.
Time to start investigating for all you are worth. Do not confront him until you have actual evidence saved. If you jump the gun he will just delete it all and lie to the bitter end. Signs of infidelity we usually ignore until it is much too late. 1) You aren't kept in the loop about their schedule. Or locations. 2) They work hours that don't make sense to you. 3) They make excuses when you try to plan for future events. 4) They consistently flake on your plans. 5) They avoid eye contact. 6) They avoid taking you to family events. 7) Or they find excuses to avoid your family. 8) They constantly complain about being "bored." Unhappy etc 9)They have no social media presence. 10) Or they won't post any photos with you on social media. 11) Or they have a secret email account. 12) They tend to overexplain where they were. Is a sign of lying. 13) Or they never have an explanation for where they were or Good explanation. 14) They're inundating you with gifts. Love bombing. Suddenly sex is over the top excellent. 15) They can't stop smiling at their phone. And guarding it with their life. You find a second phone. 16) They criticize how you dress etc. 17) Or they're dead set on making you more like them. 18) They're daydreaming more often. Distracted 19) Their eyes wander when speaking to others. 20) Your dates always seem to take place in a bar. 21) They need longer stints of "alone time." 22) They're constantly trying to please everyone.nother than you. 23) Or they're obsessed with how others perceive them. 24) They seem "irresistible." Brag about being good in bed. As stated by exes. 25) They exhibit signs of entitlement. 26) They stop calling you pet names. 27) They're no longer interested in intimacy with you. Dead bedroom. 28) Or they quickly become distant after sex.just wanting to get it over with. 29) They're keen to explore more personal fantasies. They have suddenly developed new skills between the sheets. 30) They compare you to others. Like an ex. 31) They ridicule you for requesting more time together. 32) Or they start to withdraw from shared activities. 33) They forget about a special occasion. 34) They no longer discuss dreams the two of you once shared. 35) They stop making progress in the relationship. 36) Your mutual friends seem uncomfortable around you. Hiding what they know is happening. 37) Their credit card has started to rack up strange expenses. Cash taken from accounts. 38) You don't have to remind them to get haircuts anymore. They change their dress style. 39) They're suddenly hyper-cautious about turning their phone off when they go to bed. You detect gaps and deleted messages. 40) They always seem to need to take a quick shower once they get home. Wom't kiss you until teeth are brushed mouth wash is used. 41) They defend friends who've cheated in their relationships. 42) Or they've cheated previously themselves. Said until you they had never been in love. Are always the one to break up in the past. And have an extensive past, high body count. Lots of exes. 43) You notice changes in the amount of PDA they're comfortable with you. 44) They're telling more fibs than usual. 45) Their cell phone is the most important thing in their life. New password. 46) They suddenly pick up a new hobby. 47) They pull away from you when you reach out. 48) Or they're showing "negative cluster cues." Physical excuses to avoid physical intimacy. Headache, pulled muscle, feeling sick, etc., in groupings. 49) They talk badly about their exes. Shows disrespect for an ex. All the exes were bad and why they broke up. Never their fault. 50) They have low self-esteem. Need for attention, are naturally flirty. 51) They're doing the laundry out of the blue. Likely so you do not see what they are washing nor the stains or odors they are trying to mask. 52) They're uncomfortable about making large purchases together. Getting ready to dump you. 53) They don't want you to look in a certain drawer. Or elsewhere, like in their car, console, trunk space etc. 54) They accuse you of cheating—even though you definitely aren't. Projecting onto you their own cheating. 55) Or they're gaslighting you when you bring up their suspicious behavior. They will have fake reasons to no longer wear jewelry or clothes special to you, like wedding rings.
Jesus, anything else you want to add to that list? Maybe breathing?
Anything you want to add. Just add it. But to get the full effect, go to 'best life on line' to see the entire article. And sure, serial cheaters do breath a lot. And loudly at that.
And snore as they shameless sleep through the night while BP lies awake traumatized
Add: they bring their phone to the bathroom. (To take photos) Scary list.
Like someone else said, it could be junk e-mail or spam from a site he used before you. I was still getting emails from I think tinder when my now wife and I first started dating. Those things are hard to unsubscribe from and a lot of the time I personally am too lazy to even bother. One thing to look for is to see if they’re trying to login, on pretty much every app or social media platform I have to log into, it sends a code to my email or my phone to get into my account. If it’s that then it means he’s using the site/app actively. If it’s just spam I wouldn’t worry too much about it. But be sure about anything before jumping to conclusions.
Try digging more into it, monitor his behavior. Remember, remain calm, we are here for you ❤️