I would tell the restaurant I’m not even gonna pay for *my* food, just so they can call the cops and throw me in jail if that’s what it takes to get away from a woman like that.
I just assume that everything is staged lately. I am correct 90% of the time. I believe fiction should be labeled as such and pretending something is real that you know is not should be illegal.
It's always been a safe assumption, but with the proliferation of this brand of social media, it's almost a foregone conclusion. But I still get suckered.
I bet it’s more than 90% of the time. I always ask myself why the cameraman was filming and that eliminates most of them because there is just no reason. Some (like this one) are a little craftier by starting in the middle but yeah nothing on the Internet is real.
This is the right damn answer!
I had a woman try something similar with me. I was supposed to just buy a third meal for her roommate, take it back to their place, *then* we were to go on with the rest if the date.
This was back before smartphones, so I stood up, went to the waitresses station, paid for our 2 meals, and then went right to my car and sat there for about 10 minutes before she came outside looking for me. I drove her 30 min home in silence and that was that. One date and done.
Would have stood up and excused myself to the restroom... Go straight to the host booth to pay your meal and leave her their ordering everything to her hearts content for herself to pay for.
Edit: Changed "extent" to "content" cuz I'm a big dumb
When working as a cashier at a pizza chain I did not care what the other person was saying. I listened to the person who was paying for the final decision. They wanna argue I just ask who is paying and thats who I will listen to when placing the order.
Worked at a gas station for a while, people do argue about money like that at the register. I found it mostly people disputing shit like cigarettes and beer, who owes who etc. They try to be like "buy this!" other person argues then they insist. In that situation you just listen to whoever is paying like they said above.
To have this happen on a date though at a restaurant is pretty wild.
Worked there for 7 years and only happened like twice. One of those times I literally walked away. Told them when they are ready I will be back. I just went to the back to cut some pizzas that were coming out and went back to see if they were ready. Only took like 30 seconds.
This happened to me working retail. Dude comes up with body wash, condoms, some snacks and two movies. His date brings up her cart and starts unloading. Dude stares at me and lightly shakes his head no. He asks her to go grab a bag of chocolate. She leaves and he says "I'm sorry she's ignorant.. just ring up my stuff" and he dropped a 50 and said keep the change. It was just a few bucks, but that was cool. He said "she has no money and she's trying to get food for her kids.. I'm just trying to hit that and go."
He turns putting his bags in his cart and waits for her. Seeing her he says "sorry baby, I thought I had more money than I did. The dude at the register is holding onto your stuff." She looks pissed and said " you know I ain't got no money on me!"
He took the bags of candy and placed them on my register. He apologized for what seemed like 30 plus items she left, turned placed his arm on her shoulder and turned her to leave. He showed her his empty wallet. He said while walking away " let's get home and not finish these movies " quite loudly as his hand skid down and slapped her ass.
She playfully hit his arm and wispered something in his ear and attached herself to his arm and left the store.
The worst part is when multiple people are arguing over who's going to pay. When 4 people all reach out to you with their card in hand begging you to take theirs, it really puts you on the spot. Lol.
I've tried that but it doesn't stop them all from yelling at me to please give everyone else's card back and just keep theirs. It wasn't super common when I worked in food service, but it happened a few times where everyone was *super adamant* that they pay for the entire party. What's funny is usually I see whoever paid gets tossed cash from the other people who wanted to pay anyways. So in the end, they're really just splitting it. Lol.
I usually take all the cards do a toss shuffle or two and run one at random. The slip and all the cards go back, the “winner” gets to sign and hand it back. Makes it into a game.
Man listen, just stand up, go to the bar and ask to pay your tab. Don’t be a dumb bitch like the waitress unless you tryna pay for her kids meal cause if I’m asking for a check and the waiter siding with ol girl ima just leave a $40 on the table to cover the food and leave. Simple bro don’t even stress it.
You know what's funny he was totally gonna pay for her before she pulled this shit lol.
I prefer women who like, actively offer to pay for themselves.... I hate that bs where the date is transactional, same woman probably project and think all men just view sex as a transaction because they do it
So, what, did she wait an hour and a half to trap him into it or something? I’m shocked that the waitress walks off to do it despite his protests, too. This shit is getting out of hand.
That's what I was wondering too. Why would you end up waiting around for an hour and a half for a date to show up and why was he so late? Not saying it's an excuse though for her to get him to pay for extra food to take home. No one is really talking about that part of the story.
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I've realized she probably waited around that long because she was committed to get a free meal and hoped to milk the situation for extra food using his tardiness as some "justifiable" reason.
I was thinking she waited at his request.
I have been in a similar situation where my date kept messaging me like he was on the way or almost there and he ended up showing two hours late.
I was also pretty upset. However, it turns out this is staged and all just a joke.
>I've realized she probably waited around that long because she was committed to get a free meal and hoped to milk the situation for extra food using his tardiness as some "justifiable" reason.
That still doesn't make any sense. After 30 mins you would assume they're not coming and so there's nothing in it for you. Real answer is this is staged ragebait
I get the impression the waitress was her friend. No waitress would risk her job by bringing food back that was not guaranteed to be paid for. What he should have done is asked for the manager and if the waitress refused walked over to another waiter and ask again. Not just sit there and argue with her on what he's gonna do. That's just dumb as f.
Greedy ass mother can pay for her own food and that tasty looking drink of hers
I'm paying for mine, no tip and, on my way home, I'm kicking a puppy (that's unrelated)
>What he should have done is asked for the manager and if the waitress refused walked over to another waiter and ask again.
no need to make a big deal of finding another waitress to get the manager really. i'm sure they'll magically show up one way or another when payment for the extra food isn't comeing along.
No he needs to separate himself from his date. best way to do that is tell the manager he is paying for his meal alone and move on. Otherwise the woman might try to say he ordered it and is running out on the tab.
Well she said she sat there for an hour waiting on him and he knew he messed up by that, so my guess is she probably told the waitress and the waitress agreed with her that he should have been more prompt for the date.
How desperate you gotta be for free food to sit there and wait for that long. I mean, really. After about 20 minutes, I'd just assume I got stood up, order, then pay for my damn self
I ain't got an hour to sit around for some man to hopefully show up at red fucking lobster
More than 10 minutes late and I’m calling them and finding out what’s going on. Longer than an hour? Hell no. I’m getting something to go after that call. No dignity either to tell them you’ve been waiting that long! How do you embarrass yourself like that for free food?! I’ll never understand it.
And he said he owed her one and would take her out again for being late. Doesn't mean he has to buy her food to take home now. Especially not a steak dinner. That shit sounds like it's for her man at home not her kids.
Yeah kids surprisingly have simple tastes. I'm no expert but that's my experience with my nephew. Hell, I bought him a cheese pizza lunchable, something my siblings and I coveted as kids, and he didn't want it! He just nibbled it, I had to throw it away!
I'm wondering if this lady's kids would really want steak. Some kids are happy with some Mac and cheese or chicken nuggets or a cheese burger. That's why those are on commonly on the kids menu, right?
My little brother was a freak of a child when he was a toddler. He refused all mac and cheese, tolerated chicken nuggets sometimes, hated cheeseburgers (unless they were literally the dry patty and the bun) and was only ever satisfied by a steak from the adult menu (usually part of mine because I was 10 years older but couldn't finish a steak). Now at least he eats "gooey" foods like mac and cheese, but he still doesn't *like* them, the weirdo...
What kind of a college student doesn't like mac and cheese?!
I would say “sure, I’ll buy food for your kids from the grocery store on the way home.”
*proceeds to buy stuff to make Ants on a Log with a side of apple slices, like children are supposed to be eating*
I'm a woman and I'm asking this guy: what the hell why you still waiting that long? Just ask for the bill from your meal and get out of there asap...the nerve of that cheap dysfunctional, illusional woman. You want free food for your kids? Ask their father/s for it...I can't believe that they are people doing this kind of thing.
Either he does not know any better or it’s staged. I would have said bring me the check paid for mine and left.
EDIT: Just looked up his TikTok it staged like I thought.
I found it surprising the waitress even entertained the idea.
I'm sure she was being polite but I worked in the service industry for a while and when situations like this arise it's best to either avoid them entirely (so you don't get dragged into a "who is right" battle)
but also if someone says "I'm paying for X and Y but if they order Z I'm not paying for it" then that's what they're gonna do.
I once had a date explain to me that she was experiencing hard times economically. So after the date, we went to the grocery store and I bought her $200 worth of groceries. When we got back to her place, and I helped her unpack stuff, she wasn’t lying - there was no food in the house. I was glad to help out.
I was just paying it forward. In my times of need, somehow, someone always steps up and helps me. Call it lucky, call it blessed, call it random chance, either way it’s something I’m happy to do when I’m able. I think it’s why we’re here - to take care of each other.
You’re a good person. It’s hard to want to help someone, especially when there are a lot of scams out there. People can manipulate and lie, so quite often, people don’t want to help. It’s awful.
Trifling
--- is to be sneaky, shady, snoopy, and out of pocket. Your utrustworthy, shallow, and your behavior is always suspicious. You can be found hiding in closets, outsides of closed doors and in your best friends boyfriends bed. You are unimportant, ghetto, and slutty. You will lie, deny and pry! Your favorite animal is the Serpent, because you admire him.
Thank you urban dictionary for always coming though
So incredibly toxic. People actually think it's okay to act like this? Really? She was acting like she was in charge of the guys wallet. No respect what so ever for anyone else but her. How do people get like this? How can you be okay with being this disrespectful and rude to another person? How do people like this live with themselves? I don't understand. So disgusting. At least her true colors came out then and not further into the relationship.
I would have asked for the bill immediately for my food, paid and left her there. Did the server really agree with the woman? That was out of line. At that point he should have found a manager and made sure they understood that any additional food would not be paid for by him and the server was trying to force extra items on him.
in this situation, you don't argue. you just ask for a receipt of just what you had (only your share, not hers), pay that and leave without saying a word, no matter what she does or says
Finding the first sane comment so far down is scary. We live in idiocracy where people only want to be entertained by offensive drama.
The waitress laughing in the beginning and the whole bad acting.
Always with the same scenarios of "look how terrible women are." It's such obvious rage-bait, and everyone here is falling for it. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills
Jesus, the entitlement. Making it obvious from the get go she’s just looking for a man to take care of her kids, bringing nothing to the table besides another man’s responsibility.
Isnt this the same couple from that one video where he gets her a ring and proposes in the car and she rejects him and starts packing her bags and wigs, and he goes “you’re not taking those wigs, i bought those!” ?
I don't get all the arguing. Tell the waitress. Put that on a separate check please (or put her food and the kids food on a separate check) and if she refuses because she seems to be on her side, find the manager.
> I would’ve *paid* for mine
FTFY.
Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in:
* Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.*
* *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.*
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So what the hell happened at the end…I hope he stayed the course and didn’t even pay for her food…
When someone talks about being owed you know they are a pos
How fucking non-existent was her dignity that she had to tell a man whom she had just met (who was already paying for her meal) that he needed to pay for her kids too? LMAO! …and I bet she carries herself like a bad boss bitch who won’t take shit from nobody (except food.) Red. Flags. If your first date goes like this, fucking run, and if she has kids, run faster.
I assume they're not his kids. And if they were married this argument probably wouldn't be happening, so in that event I'd say hell no. Her cheap ass needs to care for her own damn kids. Unless he is a legal guardian to some capacity he's not financially responsible. This is exactly why I will NOT date a woman with kids. I don't want to be responsible for kids that aren't my own.
Hell nah lol B got me F up!
One thing is paying for your date, that you invited! But once she starts acting like that hell nah, I’m leaving! I’m only paying for my tab and leaving. The waitress is paying as she isn’t listening
"Nah, I'm not a bank machine for you to pay for your kids food, I am sorry I was late, I would have taken you out again but I'm not dealing with this. -to waitress- I am not ordering or paying for anymore food, bring me the check for what is at this table right now and do not be putting anything else on that bill, you can see I'm recording so if you try it, I'll just show this to your boss and get it taken off, and whatever happens to you after is on you." Then leave the table, done.
At that point, I would tell her I'm not even gonna pay for her food either.
agreed - he should pay for his own and dip, fuck dealing with that level of entitlement lol
I would tell the restaurant I’m not even gonna pay for *my* food, just so they can call the cops and throw me in jail if that’s what it takes to get away from a woman like that.
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That's the end of the date, the end of the night, and the end of the relationship right there.
She's not there for anything other than free food.
As someone who’s already been through the comments .. this video was staged.
Staged? What are you trying to tell me when you are out on a date you don’t sit there at the dinner table with your phone out all night filming?
I just assume that everything is staged lately. I am correct 90% of the time. I believe fiction should be labeled as such and pretending something is real that you know is not should be illegal.
It's always been a safe assumption, but with the proliferation of this brand of social media, it's almost a foregone conclusion. But I still get suckered.
I bet it’s more than 90% of the time. I always ask myself why the cameraman was filming and that eliminates most of them because there is just no reason. Some (like this one) are a little craftier by starting in the middle but yeah nothing on the Internet is real.
This comment was staged
ty for reminding me how fucked up social media is.
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This is the right damn answer! I had a woman try something similar with me. I was supposed to just buy a third meal for her roommate, take it back to their place, *then* we were to go on with the rest if the date. This was back before smartphones, so I stood up, went to the waitresses station, paid for our 2 meals, and then went right to my car and sat there for about 10 minutes before she came outside looking for me. I drove her 30 min home in silence and that was that. One date and done.
why did you drive her home
I was a dumb kid and still tried to show respect to people I knew didn't deserve it. I've been disabused of that notion many times over since.
I read your message and thought you wrote "fart and walk away". On reflection that is what she deserves.
Would have stood up and excused myself to the restroom... Go straight to the host booth to pay your meal and leave her their ordering everything to her hearts content for herself to pay for. Edit: Changed "extent" to "content" cuz I'm a big dumb
This is the way.
Food for her and her boo?
for real, i would have left, paid at the bar/counter like i said i would for her and mine, and left
Just get up, pay for your steak and run as fast as you can. Thats not a red flag, thats a batman signal over there
Run? I'd steal a fucking car if I had to.
I’d just download a car
You wouldn’t kill a policeman, defecate in his helmet, and deliver it to his widow!
What's that new emergency number again?
011 8999 88 199 9119 725... 3
Ah, that’s easy to remember!
Is it sad I posted that from memory?
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0118999881999119725 3
I wouldn't be so sure about that. *dripfed memories*
I don’t think he hit it yet. So he’s being more tolerant of BS
Post-nut clarity needs to be sold in pill form.
That is an absolutely brilliant idea!
Apparently they don’t sell prolactin supplements. Color me surprised
He needed to head to the restroom, jerk off, then use his brain and get out of there fast!
After that go hit your tube sock. Nothing worth thus disaster wearing clothes pretending to he human
Damn right. Can’t be fucking with that. She libel to poke holes in the condom. Then you buying meals for 18 years.
Liable*
I rather rub it off with a sandpaper than spent a second with a mercenary like that
she could be the batman signal with that forehead
*Fivehead
*She's the villain Three-Face
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Batman signal? Bro thats an ICBM coming at ya
Humiliating. For everyone. Kids, mom, date, waitress & all of us.
The waitress was on her side and was going to grab the extra food, I definitely would get her fired for that, promoting and participating in theft.
When working as a cashier at a pizza chain I did not care what the other person was saying. I listened to the person who was paying for the final decision. They wanna argue I just ask who is paying and thats who I will listen to when placing the order.
Did that kind of thing happen often?
Worked at a gas station for a while, people do argue about money like that at the register. I found it mostly people disputing shit like cigarettes and beer, who owes who etc. They try to be like "buy this!" other person argues then they insist. In that situation you just listen to whoever is paying like they said above. To have this happen on a date though at a restaurant is pretty wild.
Worked there for 7 years and only happened like twice. One of those times I literally walked away. Told them when they are ready I will be back. I just went to the back to cut some pizzas that were coming out and went back to see if they were ready. Only took like 30 seconds.
This happened to me working retail. Dude comes up with body wash, condoms, some snacks and two movies. His date brings up her cart and starts unloading. Dude stares at me and lightly shakes his head no. He asks her to go grab a bag of chocolate. She leaves and he says "I'm sorry she's ignorant.. just ring up my stuff" and he dropped a 50 and said keep the change. It was just a few bucks, but that was cool. He said "she has no money and she's trying to get food for her kids.. I'm just trying to hit that and go." He turns putting his bags in his cart and waits for her. Seeing her he says "sorry baby, I thought I had more money than I did. The dude at the register is holding onto your stuff." She looks pissed and said " you know I ain't got no money on me!" He took the bags of candy and placed them on my register. He apologized for what seemed like 30 plus items she left, turned placed his arm on her shoulder and turned her to leave. He showed her his empty wallet. He said while walking away " let's get home and not finish these movies " quite loudly as his hand skid down and slapped her ass. She playfully hit his arm and wispered something in his ear and attached herself to his arm and left the store.
The worst part is when multiple people are arguing over who's going to pay. When 4 people all reach out to you with their card in hand begging you to take theirs, it really puts you on the spot. Lol.
I would shuffle the cards and pick one
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I've tried that but it doesn't stop them all from yelling at me to please give everyone else's card back and just keep theirs. It wasn't super common when I worked in food service, but it happened a few times where everyone was *super adamant* that they pay for the entire party. What's funny is usually I see whoever paid gets tossed cash from the other people who wanted to pay anyways. So in the end, they're really just splitting it. Lol.
I usually take all the cards do a toss shuffle or two and run one at random. The slip and all the cards go back, the “winner” gets to sign and hand it back. Makes it into a game.
Doesn’t work on people who genuinely want to pay for the entire party. Typical in most Asian cultures
Man listen, just stand up, go to the bar and ask to pay your tab. Don’t be a dumb bitch like the waitress unless you tryna pay for her kids meal cause if I’m asking for a check and the waiter siding with ol girl ima just leave a $40 on the table to cover the food and leave. Simple bro don’t even stress it.
almost like they're friends and this is a common scam they pull.......... or, going with my original instinct.... it's staged af
Whoever selected the narrator voice for "Fuck out of here B!" was a comedic genius however.
Humanity was a mistake. This isn't by far the worst reason, but it's another reason.
He just needs to pay for his own food and that's it. She can pay for her own.
I really don't think she can...
But But she has a purse on the table /s
That's just decoration
That’s MY purse! I dont know YOU!
Gah damnit Bobby!
If those kids could read…
Hahahahahahaa
Where else is she supposed to put the to-go boxes?
You know what's funny he was totally gonna pay for her before she pulled this shit lol. I prefer women who like, actively offer to pay for themselves.... I hate that bs where the date is transactional, same woman probably project and think all men just view sex as a transaction because they do it
So, what, did she wait an hour and a half to trap him into it or something? I’m shocked that the waitress walks off to do it despite his protests, too. This shit is getting out of hand.
That's what I was wondering too. Why would you end up waiting around for an hour and a half for a date to show up and why was he so late? Not saying it's an excuse though for her to get him to pay for extra food to take home. No one is really talking about that part of the story. Edit I've realized she probably waited around that long because she was committed to get a free meal and hoped to milk the situation for extra food using his tardiness as some "justifiable" reason.
I was thinking she waited at his request. I have been in a similar situation where my date kept messaging me like he was on the way or almost there and he ended up showing two hours late. I was also pretty upset. However, it turns out this is staged and all just a joke.
>I've realized she probably waited around that long because she was committed to get a free meal and hoped to milk the situation for extra food using his tardiness as some "justifiable" reason. That still doesn't make any sense. After 30 mins you would assume they're not coming and so there's nothing in it for you. Real answer is this is staged ragebait
Pay for your own fucking kids, cheeky bastard.
Pay for your own bastard kids, cheeky fuck.
Pay for your own fucking bastards, cheeky kid
Are you British? You guys have a more applicable word.
Was the waitress on her side, or..?
I get the impression the waitress was her friend. No waitress would risk her job by bringing food back that was not guaranteed to be paid for. What he should have done is asked for the manager and if the waitress refused walked over to another waiter and ask again. Not just sit there and argue with her on what he's gonna do. That's just dumb as f.
The second she tried to walk off with that fucking smirk I’m talking to the manager. And the greedy ass mother can pay the tip.
Greedy ass mother can pay for her own food and that tasty looking drink of hers I'm paying for mine, no tip and, on my way home, I'm kicking a puppy (that's unrelated)
>What he should have done is asked for the manager and if the waitress refused walked over to another waiter and ask again. no need to make a big deal of finding another waitress to get the manager really. i'm sure they'll magically show up one way or another when payment for the extra food isn't comeing along.
No he needs to separate himself from his date. best way to do that is tell the manager he is paying for his meal alone and move on. Otherwise the woman might try to say he ordered it and is running out on the tab.
Yea I don't it's real for sum reason
Well she said she sat there for an hour waiting on him and he knew he messed up by that, so my guess is she probably told the waitress and the waitress agreed with her that he should have been more prompt for the date.
How desperate you gotta be for free food to sit there and wait for that long. I mean, really. After about 20 minutes, I'd just assume I got stood up, order, then pay for my damn self I ain't got an hour to sit around for some man to hopefully show up at red fucking lobster
More than 10 minutes late and I’m calling them and finding out what’s going on. Longer than an hour? Hell no. I’m getting something to go after that call. No dignity either to tell them you’ve been waiting that long! How do you embarrass yourself like that for free food?! I’ll never understand it.
Right?!
And he said he owed her one and would take her out again for being late. Doesn't mean he has to buy her food to take home now. Especially not a steak dinner. That shit sounds like it's for her man at home not her kids.
Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell no.
Look it’s so clear she just wants food and leave. Steak for children? Really? Nah all kids getting mac or fries or sumn. Huge red flag.
Yeah kids surprisingly have simple tastes. I'm no expert but that's my experience with my nephew. Hell, I bought him a cheese pizza lunchable, something my siblings and I coveted as kids, and he didn't want it! He just nibbled it, I had to throw it away! I'm wondering if this lady's kids would really want steak. Some kids are happy with some Mac and cheese or chicken nuggets or a cheese burger. That's why those are on commonly on the kids menu, right?
My little brother was a freak of a child when he was a toddler. He refused all mac and cheese, tolerated chicken nuggets sometimes, hated cheeseburgers (unless they were literally the dry patty and the bun) and was only ever satisfied by a steak from the adult menu (usually part of mine because I was 10 years older but couldn't finish a steak). Now at least he eats "gooey" foods like mac and cheese, but he still doesn't *like* them, the weirdo... What kind of a college student doesn't like mac and cheese?!
I was a picky eater as a kid (still am, but I can eat more than I used to) and steak was one of my "safe" foods. It was a texture thing.
I would say “sure, I’ll buy food for your kids from the grocery store on the way home.” *proceeds to buy stuff to make Ants on a Log with a side of apple slices, like children are supposed to be eating*
I'm a woman and I'm asking this guy: what the hell why you still waiting that long? Just ask for the bill from your meal and get out of there asap...the nerve of that cheap dysfunctional, illusional woman. You want free food for your kids? Ask their father/s for it...I can't believe that they are people doing this kind of thing.
Either he does not know any better or it’s staged. I would have said bring me the check paid for mine and left. EDIT: Just looked up his TikTok it staged like I thought.
i dont have a tik tok to check but what makes you believe its staged?
Search that TikTok name in Google it will come up and see for yourself. He is a "comedian"
Bad comedian. I didn't laugh.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here but I'd say they were going for outrage, not laughter.
Peak 2020’s comedy
Why the fuck would the waiter even put that order in
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( baby daddy hungry) That’s a universal green lantern signal for get out … like get yo ass out that restaurant away from her as fast as you can …
Is this a tik tok trend? I swear I’ve seen at least 4 different videos with this exact scenario, just different people.
More staged shit to garner rage views/comments.
It clearly works lol
Why don't more people recognize this as staged? Fr all these users are commenting on a staged situation.
They don’t pick up on social cues.
Yeah why is everyone on here acting like this is real ?
I found it surprising the waitress even entertained the idea. I'm sure she was being polite but I worked in the service industry for a while and when situations like this arise it's best to either avoid them entirely (so you don't get dragged into a "who is right" battle) but also if someone says "I'm paying for X and Y but if they order Z I'm not paying for it" then that's what they're gonna do.
The waitress could very well be friends with this person and that's why they even entertained it
 Just sing the song my man!!!!!
I think the waitress is even worse, why is she taking a side at all?
Shes such a scumbag..
I’ve never ever said “You are paying for all this today” to anyone. Not even my mom. I’d be lucky to get whatever she could afford
fuck dem kids and fuck dis bihh
Is nobody realizing she's the same girl from the video asking the dude to pay for her friends food too? Literally just posting rage videos for clout.
Staged
Bihhh if you don’t stfu… 🤡😂. I would just pay for mine and leave. Fuck outta here with that bs, hoe
I once had a date explain to me that she was experiencing hard times economically. So after the date, we went to the grocery store and I bought her $200 worth of groceries. When we got back to her place, and I helped her unpack stuff, she wasn’t lying - there was no food in the house. I was glad to help out.
The big difference is that she wasn't demanding it...
Humble and honest people deserve every bit of help...Thanks for your kind deed sir
I was just paying it forward. In my times of need, somehow, someone always steps up and helps me. Call it lucky, call it blessed, call it random chance, either way it’s something I’m happy to do when I’m able. I think it’s why we’re here - to take care of each other.
That’s a great gesture from you! I think it’s probably saving that persons week and that means a lot
You’re a good person. It’s hard to want to help someone, especially when there are a lot of scams out there. People can manipulate and lie, so quite often, people don’t want to help. It’s awful.
She doesn't just want food for them. Shes demanding steak. I bet its for her other man.
Wow that’s some r/trashy right there
This feels pretty staged, especially with the waitress walking by and laughing like that.
Is this that girl from video where man make proposal in the car ??
Oh wait you might be right?? Someone confirm please
I was looking for someone else to say it!!!! I think it is! I recognize her face and his voice.
“ you owe me dat” No. No he doesn’t.
Who the fuck takes out their phone to film a conversation like that. This is either staged or there's serious missing context going on here.
Seperate checks and leave. She got greedy so time to pay for your own shit.
In the words of Asmongold: “That’s not a red flag, that’s a red curtain. Show’s over, folks. She’s fucking crazy!”
Trifling --- is to be sneaky, shady, snoopy, and out of pocket. Your utrustworthy, shallow, and your behavior is always suspicious. You can be found hiding in closets, outsides of closed doors and in your best friends boyfriends bed. You are unimportant, ghetto, and slutty. You will lie, deny and pry! Your favorite animal is the Serpent, because you admire him. Thank you urban dictionary for always coming though
This some bullshit staged shit
So incredibly toxic. People actually think it's okay to act like this? Really? She was acting like she was in charge of the guys wallet. No respect what so ever for anyone else but her. How do people get like this? How can you be okay with being this disrespectful and rude to another person? How do people like this live with themselves? I don't understand. So disgusting. At least her true colors came out then and not further into the relationship.
Look how the waitress wants to support toxic behavior
Fuck them kids
If she can afford that weave and those lashes and nails she can get her own kids some food.
I would have asked for the bill immediately for my food, paid and left her there. Did the server really agree with the woman? That was out of line. At that point he should have found a manager and made sure they understood that any additional food would not be paid for by him and the server was trying to force extra items on him.
Pay for your meal king and run
in this situation, you don't argue. you just ask for a receipt of just what you had (only your share, not hers), pay that and leave without saying a word, no matter what she does or says
The fact that the waitress was getting ready to put the food order in. I would not have paid nor tip and walked out if I was him.
This is what happens when you wanna mess with hoes. Find someone respectable and save yourself a headache.
1. is her name Jennifer 2. Did he meet her on ashley maddison?
It’s so staged lol
Finding the first sane comment so far down is scary. We live in idiocracy where people only want to be entertained by offensive drama. The waitress laughing in the beginning and the whole bad acting.
I know and people believe this stuff. It’s all over the internet. The exact same scenarios over and over.
Always with the same scenarios of "look how terrible women are." It's such obvious rage-bait, and everyone here is falling for it. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills
Seriously…like why would he be filming. And she doesn’t question it??
How do we figure it out??
Jesus, the entitlement. Making it obvious from the get go she’s just looking for a man to take care of her kids, bringing nothing to the table besides another man’s responsibility.
This guy is faking this type of content for while now. Sad see people just believe it.
Run my guy!
Entitlement🤦🤦
Isnt this the same couple from that one video where he gets her a ring and proposes in the car and she rejects him and starts packing her bags and wigs, and he goes “you’re not taking those wigs, i bought those!” ?
The fact that the waitress was READY to comply despite the guy's protests is the most egregious part.
I don't get all the arguing. Tell the waitress. Put that on a separate check please (or put her food and the kids food on a separate check) and if she refuses because she seems to be on her side, find the manager.
Staged.
I would’ve payed for mine and left. It’ll all be on her
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Damn waitress getting in on it too
Pay for your own and bounce.
Your date is not your meal ticket and sure as shit isn't your kids' meal tickets. The entitlement is astounding.
r/trashy
That waitress should be reprimanded for trying go on ahead and put something on his bill anyways
Split that Check and the Server better not expect much of a tip
So what the hell happened at the end…I hope he stayed the course and didn’t even pay for her food… When someone talks about being owed you know they are a pos
How fucking non-existent was her dignity that she had to tell a man whom she had just met (who was already paying for her meal) that he needed to pay for her kids too? LMAO! …and I bet she carries herself like a bad boss bitch who won’t take shit from nobody (except food.) Red. Flags. If your first date goes like this, fucking run, and if she has kids, run faster.
She better go back to her baby daddy and beg him to take her back
Who the fuck does she think she is!?
Why isn't he getting up, paying for his own and walking out?
That's not a red flag, that's the entire planet of Mars.
You owe me that ?
Why would he even have to tell the server more than one time?
I assume they're not his kids. And if they were married this argument probably wouldn't be happening, so in that event I'd say hell no. Her cheap ass needs to care for her own damn kids. Unless he is a legal guardian to some capacity he's not financially responsible. This is exactly why I will NOT date a woman with kids. I don't want to be responsible for kids that aren't my own.
Ye I would've paid for myself and fucked her right off. Cheeky bitch 😑
They’d also have these stores where you can buy food to cook for your kids. It’s an incredible concept.
Typically inflamitory post to get everyone angry and divided.
Hell nah lol B got me F up! One thing is paying for your date, that you invited! But once she starts acting like that hell nah, I’m leaving! I’m only paying for my tab and leaving. The waitress is paying as she isn’t listening
"Nah, I'm not a bank machine for you to pay for your kids food, I am sorry I was late, I would have taken you out again but I'm not dealing with this. -to waitress- I am not ordering or paying for anymore food, bring me the check for what is at this table right now and do not be putting anything else on that bill, you can see I'm recording so if you try it, I'll just show this to your boss and get it taken off, and whatever happens to you after is on you." Then leave the table, done.
I'd have walked out, the waitress was listening to her so she can pay for the whole meal.