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I wonder if these folks discovered masturbation one day and decided that this was the best way to make sense of it

it's LITERALLY so problematic to sexualize real people,\* even urself ok?? haven't u ever tumblr'd? /s ​ \*actual take i have seen on tumblr. wish i were kidding.

I'm embarrassed to say I've seen that take too, lol.

Very ironic if we take the average Tumblr stance on sex work

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Jessie and James is back

Okay but is anyone else huh wuh @ them saying it's made with a specific definition in mind but anyone can use it? Tf does that mean at that point? That takes it from confusing and questionable to just meaningless?

I think they mean not only 'in-sys relationships' but also a headmate from one system dating a headmate from another system 😭

So basically you’re just dating your imaginary friend! I think that lady on Little Women of Atlanta did that! 😁

First: I do think some things are .. kinda weird. (Like creating these things, meaning ‘these’ the picture OP shared) But the concept of in-system relations is something different than dating an imaginary friend. (To be fair, never had any imaginary friends, so I really am not sure how folks interprent those.) Considering that DID is a coping mechanism, being in a relationship can be seen as something safe. DID is all about creating a headspace in which you feel safe, so you don’t have to cope with what’s happening to you in real life. (And about keeping the unbearable things that happened to you when you were very young a secret to yourself.) If you interprent relationships as something safe, I think you can see why being in in-system relationships feels safe to someone with DID. Folks without DID have this ‘inner child’ thing. (I don’t exactly know about this topic, have done some of that work myself but.. can’t remember anymore lol) So you have some kind of relationship with that inner child part. Difference is that you CAN remember both your inner child and your adult part. Someone with DID can’t remember. Folks with DID are really not that different. There’s just a big issue with remembering and being able to acces all the memories all the time. Thus: having some form of relation between parts happens to folks with DID as well. Since your adult part remembers the child part, remembers what happened as well and you as your adult part are talking to your inner child. So you have a parental relationship with your child-part. Because you ‘speak to yourself’ in a naturing manner.

From what I understand you are saying from this thread and correct me if I'm wrong is "in system relationships" are all child and adult relationships in yourself but whenever people are using this flag or that term they are saying they are romantically involved which just makes things worse if you look at it from that perspective

That's a whole lot of writing for what amounts to "Me liking parts of myself means I have a crush on myself or I'm nice to myself which means I'm dating myself " It's like you DID fakers think if you talk long enough people have to believe your lies.

‘You DID fakers’, assuming that I’m part of some group I am no part of. What you are writing is the biggest amount of ‘not how this works’. DID also comes with no sense of ‘myself’. If you don’t have one identity (but multiple), who the fuck is ‘myself’. Maybe you can start listening better. Don’t assume that folks are faking. (Because even if they were, they still are people who use faking DID as some form of coping mechanism) just because you don’t understand how something works doesn’t mean it’s fake.

I'll change my designation of you then to "you DID faker supporters". That better? What I'm writing is what these people are actually experiencing. Because they don't have DID. They are terminally online nutters, who want to feel unique. Stop assuming people are telling the truth when that majority ARE faking. DID is an insanely rare disorder. Everyone of these people who says they have it online is self diagnosed. A huge amount of them say they have an anime character as an alter. A huge amount will use "alters" as a shield for outirght malicious behavior. Coping mechanisms without therapy are not things you should be blindly supporting. I know you think giving lip service to them counts as helping/ being empathic. But it isn't. You are actively doing more harm than good by allowing them to indulge in delusions. Stop letting people steal space from genuine mental illness. Stop letting them demand attention Anyone who says they have DID is faking until proven otherwise. If you disagree you're on the wrong sub Edit* lmao I just read your other comments. I changed my designation because I thought you weren't someone who claimed to have DID turns out I was wrong. So I redact my correction. If you actually have it, you should be more mad than I am that these people are taking genuine sympathy and support away from you.

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>the entire first paragraph Neat. Didn't ask. I see it in other places. And everytime they're self diagnosed. Suggesting that anyone coping is on the brink of suicide is such an insanely disrespectful statement Jesus Christ. If they are that close to suicide THEY NEED HELP. Not indulgence. This is exactly what I'm talking about that you chose to just ignore. Allowing people to indulge in delusions is effectively reinforcing their behaviour. When does it stop? Do you hope they just grow out of it? Is it when they start getting "support" and attention from people like you? Why would they find healthier ways to cope? They've received no therapy or any push to change. >As of the ‘rareness of the disorder... Your experience isn't reality. It's a rare disorder. Deal with it. >I am not on any form of social media.. Clout doesn't have to be grandiose. Getting little dopemine hits from Reddit or discord counts. Indulging teenage mental illness larping is an awful idea. This is exactly like during the late 2000s when every kid was pretending to be depressed. And suddenly there was a huge outbreak of cutting. They are teenagers. It doesn't matter if larping did makes them feel good and cope. It's literally not good for them.

Hah. Yea ofcourse they need help. Might not have written that, but therapy is certainly needed for folks who fake DID (and for those who have DID lol). When does it stop? Therapy/other (often older) people their support to help with their mental state. I think some might grow out of it. But therapy and help is most certainly what they need.

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Edit: holy cow. This sounded a way more gentler in my head but wasn’t gentle written at all lol. I mean this in a kind way. You are ofcourse free to believe what you believe.

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This shit is infuriating

The delusion pride flag

Istg this is so fucking stuoid that im now going to write the lyrics of idioteque WHOS IN THE BUNKER WHOS INT THE BUNKER WOMEN AND CHILDREN FIIEST AND THE CHILDRE. FIRST AND THE CHILDREN I LAUGH UNTIL MY HEAD COMS OFF ILL SWALLOW TIL I BURST UNTIL I BURST UNTIL I WHOS IN THE BUNKER WHOS IN THE BUNKER IHAVE SEEN TOO MUCH I HAVENT SEEN ENOUGH YOU HAVENT SEEN IT ILL LAUGH UNTIL MY HEAD COMES OFF WOMEN AND CHILDREN FIRST AND CHILDREN FIRST AND CILDREN HEEEEEERE IM ALIIIIVE EVERTHYING ALL OF THE TIIIIIIIIIIME HEETE IM ALLIIIVE EVERYTHING ALL OF THE TIIIIIIIIIIIJIIME ICE AGE COMING ICE AGE COMING LET ME HEAR BOTH SIDES LET ME HEAR BOTH SIDES LET ME HEAR BOTH ICE AGE COMING ICE AGE COMING THROWN IT IN THE FORE TROW IT IN THE FIRE THEOWH IT IN THE WERE NOT SCARRMONGERING THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING HAPPENING WERE NOT SCAREMONGERINH THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING HAPPENING MOBILES SKWERKING MOBILES CHIRPING TAKE THE MONEY AND RUN TAKE OUT MONEY AND RUN TAKE OUR MONEY HERE IM ALIVE EVERYTHING ALL OF THE TIME HERE IM ALIVE EVERYHTING ALM OF THE TIIIIIIFOOIKOME HERE I. ALIIIIIIIIIKIIIOIIIIIIIVE EVERYTHING ALL OF THE TIIIIIIIIIIII>IME HERE IM ALIVVE EVERYTHING ALL OF THE TIIME

":3c"

I'm sick of stuff like this. Just bc us trans ppl have T4T doesn't mean you can make literal shit up because you think you deserve a flag for dating yourself. I genuinely do not think real people woth diagnosed DID have alters who are dating. From what I understand all those alters are still parts of you and its literally just dating yourself

Not them taking an LGBTQ term (T4T) and turning it into a weird mental illness-orientation label... Being a trans person looking for other trans people to be in a relationship with because it's easier and they'll likely be more understanding? Nah, I'm a person who's into shipping myself with others in my head 🤪

What’s the difference between in-sys and head mate?

Nothing, in-sys relationship is just a term for relationship between headmates I'm guessing.

HORSESHIT

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when you dont get bitches so you have to make some yourself

This is plain roleplay at this point

I have... so many questions.

I mean...headmates can have relationships like that, but why does it need a flag...

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I honestly wonder how many roleplayers who talk about their characters (muses) like they are real people, as in, "Patrick Bateman wants to do a smut thread, and I can't stop him!", go on to become DID fakers. I'm seeing more and more roleplayers with fake DID in the tumblr roleplay scene now.

We can literally tell them to go f themselves lmao

let’s take a minute to acknowledge the people suffering with extreme trauma in mental hospitals who have amnesia and wake up every so often and realise their body has been controlled and moved and been doing stuff for weeks without their conscious effort, and who are in constant mental pain that death seems to be the only way to fix the pain. imagine how awful that sounds, especially as it’s a condition that stems from continuous CHILDHOOD trauma. young kids, man. put thru so much shit for it to come back as this shitty disorder in adulthood. i hope people like OP’s post grow up.