It’s a leap first situation. You realise it’s all in your head when you go out there and don’t burst into flames. I went with friends and my partner and shit the first time to some clubs where people dress to stand out anyway. Now I just do what I want whenever.
I live in a bedroom community, I did go outside in the middle of the days since there isn't that many people but still enough to try to go out of my confort zone lol
I also like to go out at night, either walking or biking, it's really safe so I don't feel scared
The most I've had were some looks (some weird one, from older people, kinder and jealous ones, aswell as both weird looks and "envy" ones. The whole package) but never any negative interactions
Funny one I had 2 days ago while biking was a group of guys (16-17) seeing me and just say "damn bro u forgot the cat ears", so it shows the good intention
I care a lot too, I first came here after experiencing really bad dysphoria. I don't think I want to be a girl, but I get dysphoric about feeling like a masculine man who is masculine. Would you say it is distressing to you?
You sound like me minus the partner, I like being a boy, I also might like being a girl, but I don't like being a masculine boy. Other than that it's mostly body stuff for me. Most of the trans women I talked to say just chase the euphoria and talk to a gender care provider. So... I scheduled an appointment got some clothes and then the appointment got cancelled lol. I can say I feel much better now then before when I just felt meh or when I had a solid fortnight long dysphoria anxiety attack.
I am currently wearing short shorts (in public too!) And even time I look down at them I get happy and fuzzy. So def worth it
Edit: on the topic of dysphoria I had the makings of it when I started puberty but only when I discovered that there were other femboys and I wasn't one of them did it get "bad"
I haven’t worn any out if I have to get out of the car but I’ve taken drives around in feminine clothes just to kinda get a feel for it without just full sending it all at once
Ngl the only things I’ve went out in public wearing was a faux leather bodysuit and leather leggings, a blue slightly oversized hoodie, and a o-ring choker when I went to a flashback Friday movie with a gal friend and we went and had drinks after because we hadn’t met up in a while. Ngl I was super nervous af I put a mask on in case someone random I knew was there. Then took it off for the night after the movie. No one really said much besides my friend reassuring me it was fine and I look great. Tbh tho I kinda wish I would’ve worn my leather heeled boots but I made a last minute decision to wear my black vans instead
Just do it, don't go alone, go with some friends and stay focused in them, In the fun, in the fact that you're feeling free, cute and even sexy :3 I did it once in my school, I know it's terrifying and the nerves will explode at the beginning, but just breathe, you want to go out dressed as you like, as the times passes you will feel a little more relaxed, that's it, that was one of the greatest memories I had on my high school :3 it worths it, but you gotta enjoy it :3
It’s a leap first situation. You realise it’s all in your head when you go out there and don’t burst into flames. I went with friends and my partner and shit the first time to some clubs where people dress to stand out anyway. Now I just do what I want whenever.
I live in a bedroom community, I did go outside in the middle of the days since there isn't that many people but still enough to try to go out of my confort zone lol I also like to go out at night, either walking or biking, it's really safe so I don't feel scared The most I've had were some looks (some weird one, from older people, kinder and jealous ones, aswell as both weird looks and "envy" ones. The whole package) but never any negative interactions Funny one I had 2 days ago while biking was a group of guys (16-17) seeing me and just say "damn bro u forgot the cat ears", so it shows the good intention
I care a lot too, I first came here after experiencing really bad dysphoria. I don't think I want to be a girl, but I get dysphoric about feeling like a masculine man who is masculine. Would you say it is distressing to you?
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You sound like me minus the partner, I like being a boy, I also might like being a girl, but I don't like being a masculine boy. Other than that it's mostly body stuff for me. Most of the trans women I talked to say just chase the euphoria and talk to a gender care provider. So... I scheduled an appointment got some clothes and then the appointment got cancelled lol. I can say I feel much better now then before when I just felt meh or when I had a solid fortnight long dysphoria anxiety attack. I am currently wearing short shorts (in public too!) And even time I look down at them I get happy and fuzzy. So def worth it Edit: on the topic of dysphoria I had the makings of it when I started puberty but only when I discovered that there were other femboys and I wasn't one of them did it get "bad"
I haven’t worn any out if I have to get out of the car but I’ve taken drives around in feminine clothes just to kinda get a feel for it without just full sending it all at once
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Just work your way up, you’ll get there.
Ngl the only things I’ve went out in public wearing was a faux leather bodysuit and leather leggings, a blue slightly oversized hoodie, and a o-ring choker when I went to a flashback Friday movie with a gal friend and we went and had drinks after because we hadn’t met up in a while. Ngl I was super nervous af I put a mask on in case someone random I knew was there. Then took it off for the night after the movie. No one really said much besides my friend reassuring me it was fine and I look great. Tbh tho I kinda wish I would’ve worn my leather heeled boots but I made a last minute decision to wear my black vans instead
Just do it, don't go alone, go with some friends and stay focused in them, In the fun, in the fact that you're feeling free, cute and even sexy :3 I did it once in my school, I know it's terrifying and the nerves will explode at the beginning, but just breathe, you want to go out dressed as you like, as the times passes you will feel a little more relaxed, that's it, that was one of the greatest memories I had on my high school :3 it worths it, but you gotta enjoy it :3