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Iv had one or two - definitely exhausting but they’ll come eventually! Iv been doing it Since May and have literally had one or two sends here and there - Stay committed & they’ll come 🖤🖤
It's taken me since February with posting on X and LF, but I finally got a tribute and I've had 2 sends, definitely not what is promoted through TT. I come from camming so have been keeping up with that as Findom has been hard to get into for me. I'm BBW and mature so I assumed why I was having issues.
I will say it takes a while to find a true genuine loyal finsubs but, but for me it was a week or two that I got my first tribute. as long as you stay consistent and continue to engage with others, you will find one eventually.
I got a send before even knowing what Findom was because a finsub approached me first and asked to pay me just to follow me lol and then when a dude sent me nudes nonconsensually so I ordered to send money to apologize and he actually did. Then we started talking more and we got into a dynamic where I'd make him do humiliating things and he'd pay me for that. He deactivated after a month I think, I started researching more about this stuff and months later I started an account focused on findom on twitter
It took about a few weeks, to be fair I was hesitant because of research and I wanted to come correct about it all. But after the influx due to social media.. lol it has been slow
About 3 weeks before I got my first send. It wasn't technically a Finsub though. I gave him a chance, he said he wasn't really looking to be a finsub, but is a service sub. He would send me $25 or so a week. Until recently. He started being more and more turned on by sending, so he opened a CC for me. 😅 he's now sent me about $7000 in the last month.
It took 2 days. But everyone’s experience is different and every sub looks for different qualities in a domme. It just takes a little time to find the right dynamic for yourself sometimes. I’m not new to the kink world, but I am new to findom so i was just lucky that the right subs came across my profile on here and Twitter.
I'll be honest it took just a few days, I'm on day 8 and have 2 subs right now on X alone, I really don't know what luck I have but I've been so so lucky. Don't expect triple digits sends at all, but their obedience is all that matters to me
It took like three months for me to get my first ngl. Sex work is real work and it’s hard word and it can definitely be upsetting when you put so much time in and get jack shit out of it. 🤷🏾♀️
Such a lucky Goddess!! ✨✨✨ i dont even get 1 there! Spoke with 4-5 guys but they were all scammers asking for fee to send to my paypal or wants to send directly to my bank account which i know a BIG NO!
I am so blessed! I am convinced it is because of the lovely community of Dommes there, we all engage with each other and that pushes our content out. ✨️💕 There are SO many scammers, for sure!!
a few days but i was very proactive for my three first days. posting non-stop, joining every reddit group you can. i would say use twitter as more of a network tool with other dommes and aim for reddit subs.
If you're taking time to do research (read the wiki in the autocomment, read through other posts in this sub) you would know that it varies, and that this question get asked multiple times a week.
i think for me it was a few weeks! i think a lot of people expect it to be fast money which it can be sometimes but not always. just keep being consistent and being authentic and true finsubs will come
I’m a little under a week in and nothing yet ! but pls pls pls always get a tribute ! i was scammed of my first ever session . i’m glad i got some type of experience, but it definitely sucks not getting your worth !
I got a send the day I made
My profile I was determined I worked hard and it paid off. Show your personality , communication, I don’t believe in the whole send me tribute or I’m not speaking Iv made plenty of money from Reddit and not been paid a tribute once.
This. I’ve made good money off subs without requiring tribute first! Also have done a few cash meets and sessions without tribute also, but always get a deposit!
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Very new and nothing yet but I know it will happen because I deserve it but can’t wait for the day I’ve got my own personal sub🥰
i’m new to this pay pig thing and i’ve been on twitter for about 2 - 3 weeks now and i haven’t got anything but im not losing hope!
Iv had one or two - definitely exhausting but they’ll come eventually! Iv been doing it Since May and have literally had one or two sends here and there - Stay committed & they’ll come 🖤🖤
I have thought myself to be patient. The right time will come definitely
i’m a rarity, in that it was actually a finsub who got me into this. sends were coming before i had any real idea what i was doing.
Within my first few weeks I got a couple reimbursements from random whale subs! Im incredibly grateful for it but i do wish to own a personal sub 💀
It's taken me since February with posting on X and LF, but I finally got a tribute and I've had 2 sends, definitely not what is promoted through TT. I come from camming so have been keeping up with that as Findom has been hard to get into for me. I'm BBW and mature so I assumed why I was having issues.
this is my first week and i haven't gotten any. still waiting tho!
I will say it takes a while to find a true genuine loyal finsubs but, but for me it was a week or two that I got my first tribute. as long as you stay consistent and continue to engage with others, you will find one eventually.
one week, you learn as you go
Straight away
I got a send before even knowing what Findom was because a finsub approached me first and asked to pay me just to follow me lol and then when a dude sent me nudes nonconsensually so I ordered to send money to apologize and he actually did. Then we started talking more and we got into a dynamic where I'd make him do humiliating things and he'd pay me for that. He deactivated after a month I think, I started researching more about this stuff and months later I started an account focused on findom on twitter
Things like what if you don’t mind
2 weeks for me but i am very vocal abt what I expect
I haven't yet
About one month
About two months but it’s been slow since 😢
2 month first send, 3 months multiple. Pretty slow but I'm keep going ✨️
2-3 weeks but I did try at first lol
My first submission was in the first week, but I'd say it was luck; often it's just that.
It took about a few weeks, to be fair I was hesitant because of research and I wanted to come correct about it all. But after the influx due to social media.. lol it has been slow
About 3 weeks before I got my first send. It wasn't technically a Finsub though. I gave him a chance, he said he wasn't really looking to be a finsub, but is a service sub. He would send me $25 or so a week. Until recently. He started being more and more turned on by sending, so he opened a CC for me. 😅 he's now sent me about $7000 in the last month.
Sprinkle sprinkle
Sorry, CC what’s it’s that ?
Credit card.
never had one😭
A week
I can't lie- it's taking me a little bit... I'm hoping to get lucky in the next week or so though!!
It took 2 days. But everyone’s experience is different and every sub looks for different qualities in a domme. It just takes a little time to find the right dynamic for yourself sometimes. I’m not new to the kink world, but I am new to findom so i was just lucky that the right subs came across my profile on here and Twitter.
I'll be honest it took just a few days, I'm on day 8 and have 2 subs right now on X alone, I really don't know what luck I have but I've been so so lucky. Don't expect triple digits sends at all, but their obedience is all that matters to me
Still waiting :/ all the accounts who have come in contact with me have been spam
Me too!! I keep reminding myself to stay patient and make sure I’m on the right track. Some people are just lucky 😅😭
after 2 weeks which was 1k tribute and 8k drain
Almost a year.. but I've been inactive for a very long time
like a month or two, and ever since its been hit or miss with paying subs
It took like three months for me to get my first ngl. Sex work is real work and it’s hard word and it can definitely be upsetting when you put so much time in and get jack shit out of it. 🤷🏾♀️
a couple of days in...maybe two or three days. and they have been the only legit one I have been able to find so far.
2 months. Faceless domme here.
I think being faceless is definitely what makes it harder and then majority out there are just scammers
Yes!! Definitely is harder! I do not have a problem showing my face, but only for those who actually tribute and stick around.
Three days in on X/Twitter! ✨️🦋
Such a lucky Goddess!! ✨✨✨ i dont even get 1 there! Spoke with 4-5 guys but they were all scammers asking for fee to send to my paypal or wants to send directly to my bank account which i know a BIG NO!
I am so blessed! I am convinced it is because of the lovely community of Dommes there, we all engage with each other and that pushes our content out. ✨️💕 There are SO many scammers, for sure!!
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With all due respect, if you have questions for me, please dm me yourself. ✨️🦋
2 Months
a few days but i was very proactive for my three first days. posting non-stop, joining every reddit group you can. i would say use twitter as more of a network tool with other dommes and aim for reddit subs.
can you reco a group here on reddit?
Quick quickly ! But I find that with profile pictures it’s quite easier rather than being anonymous. That’s just my personal opinion 😩x
I ran a poll asking this a few months ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/findomsupportgroup/s/SmxMoCQj9E
If you're taking time to do research (read the wiki in the autocomment, read through other posts in this sub) you would know that it varies, and that this question get asked multiple times a week.
It only took me a day, but I don’t think that’s the norm. It was also in Amazon gift card form, which looking back on it, seems rather risky.
It was about a month. But there has been a long pause after that as well despite me growing followers on Twitter. It’s so random
A month!
i think for me it was a few weeks! i think a lot of people expect it to be fast money which it can be sometimes but not always. just keep being consistent and being authentic and true finsubs will come
It was a few days in!
It took me like a month and it was through LF still waiting for my first 3/4 digits. I’ll get them soon. I know I will
I’m a little under a week in and nothing yet ! but pls pls pls always get a tribute ! i was scammed of my first ever session . i’m glad i got some type of experience, but it definitely sucks not getting your worth !
I got mine a week after making my account. I wanted to build my page first before focusing on sends
It’s been 3 weeks and not even a cent but dealing with a whole lot scammers!
Don’t lose hope. It was over a month for me to get my first coffee send. It’s slow but it will come, promise!
I got a send the day I made My profile I was determined I worked hard and it paid off. Show your personality , communication, I don’t believe in the whole send me tribute or I’m not speaking Iv made plenty of money from Reddit and not been paid a tribute once.
This. I’ve made good money off subs without requiring tribute first! Also have done a few cash meets and sessions without tribute also, but always get a deposit!
Just a couple days after starting 🥰
Still waiting no takers yet !
I think my first was 2 days in but he left after a 3 digit send that day
over a month!!
What platform are/were you using??
X, reddit
it took me more than a month 😭😭 too many time wasters on X. idk how some get their first send in a week or so
Luck!