England for me too. I've always been a loner. I've had lots of friends of all different backgrounds throughout my years, but now I'm older, I have a couple of friends, but I can't find anyone I can connect with on a deeper level. I'm happy with my cats, though. The men in my life have all been complete AH's, narcissistic, abusive and cheaters. I like being on my own, but I really miss people I can vibe with.
You mean that your country tends to give you struggles for your personality type? If so, let me tell you that you're not alone, as it's my case too (I'm from Italy and God knows the suffering I've been through in my life for just being the way I am)
Oh no, I'm sorry to hear about the situation you're in. I know I don't have the right to say that I can fully relate to you, but I understand how hard it must be to be in that environment. As INFJs, we love peaceful surroundings and long for freedom. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.
Fr. I am Indian. Thats when it becomes crazy to deal with. But I think the newer generation is more NF and NT, bringing a huge gap between parents and kids
I'm indian too and I'm seeing a lot more of us here in the comments. Theres a separate subreddit for infjs from india. It's actually pretty small so it would be nice to hear more from y'all there.
r/INFJIndia
I'm from the Isle of Man, which is a tiny Island country right in the middle of the British Isles, NOT part of the United Kingdom but has a special relationship as we are classed as a crown dependency.
We have our own parliament, the oldest continual one in the world at over 1000 years, with Viking and Celtic influence. We have our own language which nearly died but is being revived.
I'm a pale skinned freckly ginger so reckon I've got a fair dose of viking in my past hehe
Slovakia. Seems most of the people here is from the US/Australia, interesting.
Seems INFJ is not specific to one place, we are all around the world, but i would like to know, where are we from.
My mother was born in Soviet Union. We were Roma people. But when the USSR fell her mother took her and left to Portugal.
At that time it was very old fashioned, which my mother couldn't stand, she was raised as a Bolshevik woman. So in her 20s, she ran away to America "to be free", I was born here.
I spent some time living in Russia, most in America, and a little in Shanghai China. I've been to Portugal the least.
Howdy and Thunder cats hoooo! โ๏ธ๐ค
Haha. Iโm so sorry. I couldnโt resist an over the top intro.
Iโm East Asian. Iโm from the USA ๐บ๐ธ 90s kid . Y2K teen. Sorry, you didnโt ask for the other stuff. I does that often.
Iโm from the Eastern Shore of MD; my dadโs (Scottish) family has been in the same county there since the 1600s, though, I was raised partly in East Tennessee. My momโs family is Swedish and Icelandic and are pretty new to the US.
The long answer: I was born in the Philippines, raised in New Zealand by my Australian family, and now living in Japan.
The short answer: Iโm a kiwipino ๐๐ฅ
Success driven society... But who strives for success? The hassle of needing to proof that i am better than someone else, when i just want to be better than my past self...
India(odisha) bruh came to know more about myself when I was baked and slipped in this mbti infj thing and m glad I know it cause now I know m not alone...pre smoking I used be immature infj...all the infj things were going on but didn't know much about myself used to think that a lot like "who am I?" "Why m like this?" Just curiosity brought me here...after quitting I was bit depressed like never been in that level of depression...but now m glad that I was depressed cause now I know who I am...I know the the intention and purpose of most of the people around me but never told them...used to act funny by making self-depreciating jokes...funny and careless man generally...say the bitter and harshest truth to the people of themselves face to face(and thats why they like me i think so)...never been in a conflict or anything...if i m in one i will solve it asap by hurting nobody...and stop thinking about that...people really didnt understand me who i am(they think m just a funny careless happy/optimistic person)...now I am just who I am(post smoking)...some came to know me and my intelligency...and are thinking they were wrong as i stopped talking to most of them during my depression phase...I will talk when I want to and just happy with myself...peace : )
England. Unfortunately.
England for me too. I've always been a loner. I've had lots of friends of all different backgrounds throughout my years, but now I'm older, I have a couple of friends, but I can't find anyone I can connect with on a deeper level. I'm happy with my cats, though. The men in my life have all been complete AH's, narcissistic, abusive and cheaters. I like being on my own, but I really miss people I can vibe with.
You mean that your country tends to give you struggles for your personality type? If so, let me tell you that you're not alone, as it's my case too (I'm from Italy and God knows the suffering I've been through in my life for just being the way I am)
Me 2 England isn't that bad the weather is though!
I dreamt about rain tonight. I'm so tired of the extreme heat, would you take the Italian climate in exchange for yours? Warning: it gets to 40ยฐ
Hi there, I'm from China . Personally I don't think this place is good for the infj
I am from Hong Kong, and I completely agree with your statement
I was born in China and adopted (live in America now) when I was 6 months old.
Nihao, I am from India. I also think the same, it's has full of st and sf people and so much violence and rape.ย
Oh no, I'm sorry to hear about the situation you're in. I know I don't have the right to say that I can fully relate to you, but I understand how hard it must be to be in that environment. As INFJs, we love peaceful surroundings and long for freedom. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.
Fr. I am Indian. Thats when it becomes crazy to deal with. But I think the newer generation is more NF and NT, bringing a huge gap between parents and kids
True. But it seems that there are more INFJs in China. Life is a little bit hard for us.
I wonder why?
USA here
Same
Where in US?
New Jersey
Me too
Midwest USA checking in!
India!
India ๐
India ๐ซก
India
India
I'm indian too and I'm seeing a lot more of us here in the comments. Theres a separate subreddit for infjs from india. It's actually pretty small so it would be nice to hear more from y'all there. r/INFJIndia
Indiaa
Same
+1
India as well!
India!
California๐๐ธ
Pacific Northwest US here. ๐๐ฒ๐๏ธ
Same! Olympic peninsula in WA
Thatโs a beautiful region ๐
Oh heyyy ๐ me too!
Same I feel v fortunate tbh
Hi from Manchester, England ๐
Quebec, Canada
Melbourne Australia, but I want to move to Tasmania
Another Melbournian here! Also a lover of tassie!
Mmm big secluded island where no one can find me <3
Jordan ๐ฏ๐ด Middle Eastern, Arab, Christian
Philippines!
Philippines! ๐ต๐ญ
Philippines! ๐ต๐ญ
Texas
Korean-born infj male living in the Bay Area, though I'm thinking about moving out of the States for a while.
I'm in Cali too.ย
Netherlands ๐ณ๐ฑ
Im white (German/Dutch/French), born in Belgium, living in Germany
Greetings from Czech republic.
I'm from the Isle of Man, which is a tiny Island country right in the middle of the British Isles, NOT part of the United Kingdom but has a special relationship as we are classed as a crown dependency. We have our own parliament, the oldest continual one in the world at over 1000 years, with Viking and Celtic influence. We have our own language which nearly died but is being revived. I'm a pale skinned freckly ginger so reckon I've got a fair dose of viking in my past hehe
South Australia
Canada ๐จ๐ฆ
New Zealand ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ฅ
Vienna, Austria
Slovakia. Seems most of the people here is from the US/Australia, interesting. Seems INFJ is not specific to one place, we are all around the world, but i would like to know, where are we from.
I think it's because there are more redditors from us and Australia combined than in Europe
Switzerland, Zurich
Singapore! Of the other INFJs I know, one is in Singapore and another is in NZ!
Poland
๐ซ๐ท
Salut โบ๏ธ๐ฉท
My mother was born in Soviet Union. We were Roma people. But when the USSR fell her mother took her and left to Portugal. At that time it was very old fashioned, which my mother couldn't stand, she was raised as a Bolshevik woman. So in her 20s, she ran away to America "to be free", I was born here. I spent some time living in Russia, most in America, and a little in Shanghai China. I've been to Portugal the least.
Korea, the worst place to live in as an INFJ Male
Why do you feel is that?
I'm Korean but I don't live there, thank god lol
Cape Town, South Africa
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Hi, I also am a MD white dude๐ ; what part you from?
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Mexico ๐๏ธ
Hessen/Germany
NRW Germany here
Saxony, Germany :)
Lower Saxony โ๐ผ
Lower Saxony ๐
Meck-Pomm here
Srilanka lol
Uk
Colombia ๐จ๐ด
Italy (not the ideal place for INFJs at all, but still... ๐)
Long Island New York. Not NYC. Itโs about an hour away from the hustle and bustle. A lot of wealthy people live here, I am not one of them lol.
los angeles
North East, USA
Victoria, Australia ๐ฆ๐บ
Belarus, moved to America
South Carolina, US - Irish/Native American/English OP, you said "y'all" are you from the south too?
That would be my guess. Iโm from Mississippi but live in Florida now.
I was born in South Western VA - not to be confused with WV ๐คฃ but been in Charleston since I was 8.
Born in France but raised in the US.
Indonesia herr
5th gen south african indian
From Taiwan, living in Canada now. Taiwan wasnโt the place for me :/
Minnesota...hmong
Romania ๐ท๐ด but I have been living in Qatar for the past couple of years.
Sudanese living in Saudi Arabia
Born in New Zealand, half Irish and living in Perth, Western Australia. There is plenty of space here for this INFJ to chill.
Switzerland
Same
Scotland
Switzerland :)
I am from Jamaica ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐
Norway ๐ธ
Minnesota. Edit: ethnicity: Black American.
West Virginia, it's tiresome most days
Eastern-European in aesthetics, upringing, with all of the Northern Slavs and Hungarian heritage.
Earth, a state of confusion, ethnicity Caucasian :)
Seattle, Washington! But in DC now ๐ฆ
Howdy and Thunder cats hoooo! โ๏ธ๐ค Haha. Iโm so sorry. I couldnโt resist an over the top intro. Iโm East Asian. Iโm from the USA ๐บ๐ธ 90s kid . Y2K teen. Sorry, you didnโt ask for the other stuff. I does that often.
Thailand.
Iโm from Scotland (mixed ethnicity) but Iโve lived in Japan for a long time.
Florida ๐๏ธ๐
Hong Kong, currently living in Toronto
Kekistan
Kansas, USA
Wichita? It's where I live.
Southeast Asian - From Philippines
Hey, I am from Malaysia.
New Zealand
Denmark!
Romania
๐ Si eu
I am from Tamilnadu, India๐ฎ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ณ
India.
Hungary
Chile
Hii ! Im from France, Strasbourg, but Im turkish !
Mississippi, US African American
USA.
German Born Chinese living in Germany ๐
Nigerian living in Germany.
Barbados
I'm from the land of Philadelphia ๐ฅจ
Tamil Nadu, India ๐
I'm from New Zealand but I am living in Australia
Paris, France :]
honolulu
Singapore ๐ธ๐ฌ
MA
Kuwait
Singapore!
I'm from georgia (the state) and I'm Hispanic, mexican descent to be exact.
Toronto, Canada
Korean! but I live in the Philippines
Lithuania ๐ฑ๐น
Finland๐ฒ
Northern California ๐ฒ I'm 50/50 Persian/Irish
Clinton, AR (partner is INFJ too!)
Paris, France but I'm Polish born hello
Hello from India ๐
India ๐ฎ๐ณ
Sweden
Me too
Uk
Finland
Argentina (I didn't vote for the crazy guy who is our president now)
Ohio- USA ethnically Iโm 2nd generation Indian American
Iโm from the Eastern Shore of MD; my dadโs (Scottish) family has been in the same county there since the 1600s, though, I was raised partly in East Tennessee. My momโs family is Swedish and Icelandic and are pretty new to the US.
ฤรดng lร o, sibling of China ๐
Rocky Mountains *edit: Colorado; heritage is Czech
Canada, Quรฉbec (French province)
The long answer: I was born in the Philippines, raised in New Zealand by my Australian family, and now living in Japan. The short answer: Iโm a kiwipino ๐๐ฅ
Germany - not the best place for an introvert
Why do you say that?
Success driven society... But who strives for success? The hassle of needing to proof that i am better than someone else, when i just want to be better than my past self...
Turkiye
me too :thumbs\_up:
Spain here!
Me too!!
Belgiummmmm
US/Ohio here
Sunny ol' England โ
Greece, but living in the Netherlands
Ethnicity Persian. Nationality Swedish.
Any folks From Cairo here?
I am from South Eastern Pennsylvania. I am Irish, French and German.
Arizona.
toronto, canada. second generation asian-american.
Florida, USA ๐ด
Washington state
Kansas, USA.
Japan ๐ฏ๐ต
USA
California
White, female from Kentucky.
Floridian here ๐บ๐ธ. Yeah I know Iโm THE weird one here
Best state in Australia, Queensland ๐
Spain! But live in Sweden
Michigan! Ethnically speaking I'm white, but my mom's not from the States, she moved here from the UK after she met my dad
Nairobi, Kenya
Johannesburg, South Africa ๐ฟ๐ฆ
PNW
BC, Canada
Pakistan, ethnically a pathan. It's not a good place for INFJs. Mbti is not even a consideration ๐
India(odisha) bruh came to know more about myself when I was baked and slipped in this mbti infj thing and m glad I know it cause now I know m not alone...pre smoking I used be immature infj...all the infj things were going on but didn't know much about myself used to think that a lot like "who am I?" "Why m like this?" Just curiosity brought me here...after quitting I was bit depressed like never been in that level of depression...but now m glad that I was depressed cause now I know who I am...I know the the intention and purpose of most of the people around me but never told them...used to act funny by making self-depreciating jokes...funny and careless man generally...say the bitter and harshest truth to the people of themselves face to face(and thats why they like me i think so)...never been in a conflict or anything...if i m in one i will solve it asap by hurting nobody...and stop thinking about that...people really didnt understand me who i am(they think m just a funny careless happy/optimistic person)...now I am just who I am(post smoking)...some came to know me and my intelligency...and are thinking they were wrong as i stopped talking to most of them during my depression phase...I will talk when I want to and just happy with myself...peace : )