I always wanted attention but I canāt. How many times I tired to be an extrovert, never worked. Itās somehow hard. I like attention but I donāt know how to get it.
Yes. Especially bumping into people at the grocery store or anywhere else where Iām trying to get stuff done. Which is why I will drive to the next town over so I have less chance of that happening. If I see someone in the store I know šI will avoid and go the other way. I am also bad at remembering names, or their kids names that went to school with my kids, etc. and catching up with that small talk is just excruciating for me.
Always sat in the back of the class ā¦ always the one āin the backā trying not to be noticed.
yeah, me and my bf was ordering a drink earlier and even though my bf was the one talking to the barista, the barista kept on talking to me completely ignoring my bf when we're beside each other and im on my phone, and i had no choice but be the one talking since he was deadass ignoring my bf lol
My husband gets a lot of attention wherever we go. Heās everyoneās bestie and he makes people laugh. Iām happy to be his invisible shadow. Iām the moon, sharing the sky with the sun. Itās great.
Yes! Does this depend your mood or is it all the time?
I can get stuck in the fear of being perceived or just feeling antisocial so I try to avoid being noticed but every once in a while I feel friendly and almost extroverted.
I don't mind it. I just want some head pats every once and a while. But in public i often find myself locked away in my own world, noticing people perceive me. I wonder if they notice, that I notice. I refer ye to The Minute Hour's "don't ever look at me"
You may find solace in this:
https://youtu.be/Qqt-D7RPQyw?si=jSWMSBWY3Y4nds2r
I don't want to be noticed when I'm around people I'm unfamiliar with, but I don't enjoy being ignored by my friends either. Actually built up the courage to talk to them about it, they had no idea at all! Sometimes I wish it was more apparent, but sometimes I like having my thoughts only available to myself. š¤·āāļø
I barely go outside in our house soo no š«”š«”š«”
Hate it
When Unwanted Relatives come to stay .
Omg, yes! Like my MIL! her presence irks meā¦
Yep. I do whatever I can to avoid attention.
me!!!!!! wish i had a cloak of invisibility
I always wanted attention but I canāt. How many times I tired to be an extrovert, never worked. Itās somehow hard. I like attention but I donāt know how to get it.
Yes. Especially bumping into people at the grocery store or anywhere else where Iām trying to get stuff done. Which is why I will drive to the next town over so I have less chance of that happening. If I see someone in the store I know šI will avoid and go the other way. I am also bad at remembering names, or their kids names that went to school with my kids, etc. and catching up with that small talk is just excruciating for me. Always sat in the back of the class ā¦ always the one āin the backā trying not to be noticed.
yeah, me and my bf was ordering a drink earlier and even though my bf was the one talking to the barista, the barista kept on talking to me completely ignoring my bf when we're beside each other and im on my phone, and i had no choice but be the one talking since he was deadass ignoring my bf lol
My husband gets a lot of attention wherever we go. Heās everyoneās bestie and he makes people laugh. Iām happy to be his invisible shadow. Iām the moon, sharing the sky with the sun. Itās great.
I donāt notice if Iām noticedā¦doesnāt bother me if I am or if Iām notā¦
Iām 6ā2ā, so itās difficult to stay out of sight. But, if I get any looks, I ignore whoever it is and go about my business.
Yes! Does this depend your mood or is it all the time? I can get stuck in the fear of being perceived or just feeling antisocial so I try to avoid being noticed but every once in a while I feel friendly and almost extroverted.
I don't mind it. I just want some head pats every once and a while. But in public i often find myself locked away in my own world, noticing people perceive me. I wonder if they notice, that I notice. I refer ye to The Minute Hour's "don't ever look at me" You may find solace in this: https://youtu.be/Qqt-D7RPQyw?si=jSWMSBWY3Y4nds2r
I don't want to be noticed when I'm around people I'm unfamiliar with, but I don't enjoy being ignored by my friends either. Actually built up the courage to talk to them about it, they had no idea at all! Sometimes I wish it was more apparent, but sometimes I like having my thoughts only available to myself. š¤·āāļø
Yes I perfer to be invisible but getting better at it by forcing myself to go out once in awhile
When my fake friends waves at me in private and in public they ignored me š That's the reason I dislike being noticed