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Sensitive_Middle

What accommodations were you needing? That's some key info you left out. You can request accommodations but they don't have to approve them if they aren't reasonably able to be accommodated. It also depends on the job you were doing and if your disability was affecting the work you were doing.


Nunya76053

I was asking to sit close to the restroom to prevent accidents 


Ashamed_Assistant910

You might want to put this in your main post so people see what accommodation you needed. I don't think everyone in the comments is seeing this


glitterstickers

You haven't supplied any of the relevant information. What is your job, and what accomodations did you request. Did you actually fall on the job? Are you a fall risk?


Nunya76053

This is a in bound call center. And I've been a fall risk. I have fallen many times but not once since my surgery which is 2 yrs around in Sept 


glitterstickers

You need to take these details to an employee side attorney for their opinion. On the surface, telling an employee to just wear a diaper instead of granting bathroom access then firing said employee for things that happened 6 months ago sounds like your employer is begging for a lawsuit. On the other hand, there is just enough of a whiff of other details that may shift it into the "extremely shitty but not really illegal" category. You need to sit down and go over this with an employee side attorney who can go over the exact details and timeline of events.


Arcticsnorkler

When were you hired? Edit: and how many hours a week do you work?


regular_poster

Not enough context.


JoeCensored

A business only has to provide an accommodation which isn't an undue burden on the business, and still allows you to complete your primary work. You haven't mentioned what accommodation you were seeking nor what your job is. A lawyer specializing in ADA cases could help you determine if you have a case against the business.


cjccrash

It's a call center. Miss too many calls and they terminate. Not sure moving you closer to the bathroom fixes that, but seems reasonable. Basically, their response was , just wear a diaper and answer the phone. Sounds cruel. Talk to a lawyer.


LarrySupertramp

Get all of you facts and timeline written down and straightened out, with whatever correspondence you had with your employer, and go to a lawyer that specializes in ADA law. The information you’ve provided here isn’t anything to go off. Good luck.


Seven_deadly_sines

Talk to an employment lawyer & brimg any & all evidence you have. They may or may not tell you that you have a case but folllw their advice.


cooterscuzin

What was the specific accommodation you asked for? Sometimes, our disabilities prevent working fast paced jobs. People, including HR, can be so rude. HR paid me a visit because I had a subordinate report me for farting. The braces I wear squeak in some shoes. I lost it. Who knew people could be so cruel?


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INFO: What is the accommodation you asked for?


TreeTestPass

If you think you have an ADA case, most employment lawyers would love to hear your story. Pick one out and call them.


eastguy08

I don’t think feeling embarrassed to use the bathroom is covered by the ADA


WhichxWitch

People with diabetes can need to use the bathroom more often. My assumption (bc OP wont clarify?) is that they were asking for accomodation for more bathroom breaks and were told to use a depends instead, and then fired when they pushed back.


Ashamed_Assistant910

They asked to sit closer to the bathroom. They mentioned that in a comment above.


WhichxWitch

My bad, just saw a bunch off ppl complaining OP hadnt clarified


Ashamed_Assistant910

No you're good, just wanted to point it out incase no one seen it.


Sillycomic

Now I am so curious. What accommodation could you ask for where HR just up and tells you to wear a diaper instead? That’s so messed up.


a_statistician

More frequent bathroom breaks, e.g. at a call center?


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MrMontombo

But sitting closer to the bathroom, as OP clarified was the accomodation they wanted, is reasonable barring other circumstances. OP expanded in a comment after yours.


Sillycomic

He suggested a diaper! I have no idea what the solution could be to know how to solve it, is is a gender neutral thing? It is a stair issue? Is there not an ADA bathroom? Just not enough room to move the wheelchair around? Is is just a long way from the OPs desk? Is there a key involved that is needed from management? Does OP need to clock out to pee? I feel like wearing a diaper could solve some of these problems


glassowater_

If you read the post they're worried every time they go to the bathroom of getting in trouble I believe. Maybe they're policing how many times ppl go to the bathroom.


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Ok-Meeting-984

With the information given? Contact an attorney. Most employment attorneys do free consultations. You don't say what accommodations you need, nor what part of your job would be impacted. 


Flying_Madlad

What is with companies suddenly making everything an FMLA thing? Work literally just told me one day I was going on FMLA then they fired me when I couldn't prove I needed it. They could have just laid me off, but they made me burn through my personal savings first. Thanks, guys.


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