There are three types of lubes water- oil- and silicone-based. For long-term plugging, oil-based lube is the way to go. Water-based lube wears off too quickly and silicone lube is not compatible with silicone toys. I recommend coconut oil, as it lasts long and is also healthy for your body.
For toys, I recommend tunnel plugs. Oxballs Pighole or the gape plug from Dking Toymaker are high-quality toys made out of platinum-cured silicone. The benefit of tunnel plugs is that they give away when moving or sitting and spring back to full diameter when standing still. You like the feeling of being open - with such a plug your pussy will be a huge gaping hole all day.
To stretch even wider you can start to do perineal massage. Pregnant women do this to prevent tears during birth. Just look it up, there are plenty of tutorials on how to perform this massage.
The most important thing when stretching your pussy is consistency. That means daily training and if possible always keep something inside. It also helps a lot if you find someone who has the same kink and motivates you to continue. Maybe you are sexually submissive and like the thought of someone makes you stretch. At some point, you will be slacking in your training so it would be good to have someone who brings you back on track.
Have fun and always remember that pussy stretching is a marathon, no sprint.
I’m assuming both of those plugs are good for long term wear. Would it be best to get one in a size I know I could take and then one to work up to?
And yes! I’ve been doing perineal massages the last few days, which has been great.
I’ve done decently well motivating myself so far, but I am hoping to eventually find someone who will help support me in this :))
I have both Oxballs and DKing plugs. The oxballs ones are super comfortable for long term wear but I have not found the DKng toy very comfortable for long term vaginal use (pretty good for long term anal play). I have found that the DKing plug is kind of pinchy. I like to put an XL condom over either of those toys for long term use otherwise my cervix gets dried out. 😂😬
It does have a thick base but it’s very soft flexible silicone that moves with you more so than the DKing one. It holds its shape really well too, once it’s inserted it never collapses. Also a ton of sizes to choose from. I have the biggest one FF size and I can insert it but it would be way too much for long term wear.
Okay awesome, thank you :) I did want one with a thicker base than my squarepeg plug to kind of hold my entrance open more, so I’m excited to try it. I’ll probably get both just to try them out and see which one works better for me.
This. Inflatables are a game changer when it comes to the stretch. You can incrementally increase the stretch without going too far by counting pumps. An inflatable dildo is amazing for keeping the pressure on the muscles for a single duration. A large inflatable anal plug can be fun to slowly increase while it’s inside and then you can see how much you can pull out incrementally as well. You can judge your progress by seeing how many pumps you can do before insertion. These two toys can come in silicone and you’ll save a lot of money. Also , we use Slippery Stuff Lube. It’s water based, thick and more importantly body safe. You can buy it by the 32 oz bottle on Amazon for a very good price compared to others.
Master series giant inflatable dildo with firm core.
Not sure how relaxed you can be yet but you’ll need to be able to insert an 8” circumference dildo or hand just to get this one into your vagina. Its max is about 11.5 “ circumference. You’ll have to hold it in place or against the headboard because when it’s inflated it’ll want to pop or but what an incredible stretch. So, instead of leaving it in, use small incremental increases. ie. if 10 pumps becomes easy to handle,add a pump or two. No pain. Don’t hurt yourself. Slow and steady stretching.
Solid core inflatable dildos and plugs are easier to insert.
The Calexotics large silicone inflatable plug works well also though it’s not near as large as the dildo. It would be a good starter if you can’t take the dildo yet.
Note: I wouldn’t leave inflatables in, rather just use them for the stretching. If you want to keep something in for a while use a soft anal plug with a wide enough base to stretch but not fall out instead of inflatables. The inflatables will get you results. Just be careful. If you’re looking for very good quality soft silicone plugs, try Topped Toys. They’re both huge and amazing.
The egg toys are great for stretching too. A fist is also fun and safe if you have a person who you trust.
Wider toys, the squarepeg splitter has been quite good from my experience. Mr. Universe by tantus, or Mr. Hankey toys.
There's quite a few options, really it depends on if long-term pushing on your cervix becomes uncomfortable or not, if not, then the organotoy eggs are pretty great.
Squarepeg has a plug specifically for vaginal, with a notch to make it comfortable for long term wear without pressure on the cervix
I’m hoping to make myself deeper at some point too, at least a little bit. If I’m really turned on (and with a partner) I’ve fit about 10in before. But I know that also takes a lot longer to train and isn’t always as successful. But squarepeg plugs are super comfy, but will definitely look into the others :)
So, we’ve tried to inflatable toys.
She puts them up and gives it roughly nine squeezes. Then, she’s had enough.
Look, she’s very motivated.
She wants to get there.
But, she gets to a point where she can’t take it, anymore.
It’s too much.
We had a bit of a breakthrough last night.
She’s always said that she must be in control.
Last night, I inserted four fingers and a thumb.
She literally said: It hurts when I do it. It doesn’t when you do it.
I inserted four fingers and a thumb. I exerted mild pressure.
It was a victory.
I’ve always had an easier time with other people stretching me out, even when using toys, but for right now don’t have that. Hoping to find someone though at some point :)
But I’m definitely looking into inflatables for the group of toys I’m sure I’ll end up buying lol
There are three types of lubes water- oil- and silicone-based. For long-term plugging, oil-based lube is the way to go. Water-based lube wears off too quickly and silicone lube is not compatible with silicone toys. I recommend coconut oil, as it lasts long and is also healthy for your body. For toys, I recommend tunnel plugs. Oxballs Pighole or the gape plug from Dking Toymaker are high-quality toys made out of platinum-cured silicone. The benefit of tunnel plugs is that they give away when moving or sitting and spring back to full diameter when standing still. You like the feeling of being open - with such a plug your pussy will be a huge gaping hole all day. To stretch even wider you can start to do perineal massage. Pregnant women do this to prevent tears during birth. Just look it up, there are plenty of tutorials on how to perform this massage. The most important thing when stretching your pussy is consistency. That means daily training and if possible always keep something inside. It also helps a lot if you find someone who has the same kink and motivates you to continue. Maybe you are sexually submissive and like the thought of someone makes you stretch. At some point, you will be slacking in your training so it would be good to have someone who brings you back on track. Have fun and always remember that pussy stretching is a marathon, no sprint.
I’m assuming both of those plugs are good for long term wear. Would it be best to get one in a size I know I could take and then one to work up to? And yes! I’ve been doing perineal massages the last few days, which has been great. I’ve done decently well motivating myself so far, but I am hoping to eventually find someone who will help support me in this :))
I have both Oxballs and DKing plugs. The oxballs ones are super comfortable for long term wear but I have not found the DKng toy very comfortable for long term vaginal use (pretty good for long term anal play). I have found that the DKing plug is kind of pinchy. I like to put an XL condom over either of those toys for long term use otherwise my cervix gets dried out. 😂😬
Haha I could easily see that happening with either. Does the oxball have a pretty thick base? I could see the doing plug just seems to be a ring lol.
It does have a thick base but it’s very soft flexible silicone that moves with you more so than the DKing one. It holds its shape really well too, once it’s inserted it never collapses. Also a ton of sizes to choose from. I have the biggest one FF size and I can insert it but it would be way too much for long term wear.
Okay awesome, thank you :) I did want one with a thicker base than my squarepeg plug to kind of hold my entrance open more, so I’m excited to try it. I’ll probably get both just to try them out and see which one works better for me.
Get an inflatable
This. Inflatables are a game changer when it comes to the stretch. You can incrementally increase the stretch without going too far by counting pumps. An inflatable dildo is amazing for keeping the pressure on the muscles for a single duration. A large inflatable anal plug can be fun to slowly increase while it’s inside and then you can see how much you can pull out incrementally as well. You can judge your progress by seeing how many pumps you can do before insertion. These two toys can come in silicone and you’ll save a lot of money. Also , we use Slippery Stuff Lube. It’s water based, thick and more importantly body safe. You can buy it by the 32 oz bottle on Amazon for a very good price compared to others.
This was one I was thinking of, so happy to see it recommended. Great for stretching and just seeing progress I think.
Recommendations for silicone inflatables?
Master series giant inflatable dildo with firm core. Not sure how relaxed you can be yet but you’ll need to be able to insert an 8” circumference dildo or hand just to get this one into your vagina. Its max is about 11.5 “ circumference. You’ll have to hold it in place or against the headboard because when it’s inflated it’ll want to pop or but what an incredible stretch. So, instead of leaving it in, use small incremental increases. ie. if 10 pumps becomes easy to handle,add a pump or two. No pain. Don’t hurt yourself. Slow and steady stretching. Solid core inflatable dildos and plugs are easier to insert. The Calexotics large silicone inflatable plug works well also though it’s not near as large as the dildo. It would be a good starter if you can’t take the dildo yet.
Note: I wouldn’t leave inflatables in, rather just use them for the stretching. If you want to keep something in for a while use a soft anal plug with a wide enough base to stretch but not fall out instead of inflatables. The inflatables will get you results. Just be careful. If you’re looking for very good quality soft silicone plugs, try Topped Toys. They’re both huge and amazing.
The egg toys are great for stretching too. A fist is also fun and safe if you have a person who you trust. Wider toys, the squarepeg splitter has been quite good from my experience. Mr. Universe by tantus, or Mr. Hankey toys.
I second the egg toy!! Have made some very good progress with these!
Ohhh okay thank you! I’ve heard of the egg toy a lot scrolling through this sub :) I’ll make sure to look into all of these
There's quite a few options, really it depends on if long-term pushing on your cervix becomes uncomfortable or not, if not, then the organotoy eggs are pretty great. Squarepeg has a plug specifically for vaginal, with a notch to make it comfortable for long term wear without pressure on the cervix
I’m hoping to make myself deeper at some point too, at least a little bit. If I’m really turned on (and with a partner) I’ve fit about 10in before. But I know that also takes a lot longer to train and isn’t always as successful. But squarepeg plugs are super comfy, but will definitely look into the others :)
So, we’ve tried to inflatable toys. She puts them up and gives it roughly nine squeezes. Then, she’s had enough. Look, she’s very motivated. She wants to get there. But, she gets to a point where she can’t take it, anymore. It’s too much. We had a bit of a breakthrough last night. She’s always said that she must be in control. Last night, I inserted four fingers and a thumb. She literally said: It hurts when I do it. It doesn’t when you do it. I inserted four fingers and a thumb. I exerted mild pressure. It was a victory.
I’ve always had an easier time with other people stretching me out, even when using toys, but for right now don’t have that. Hoping to find someone though at some point :) But I’m definitely looking into inflatables for the group of toys I’m sure I’ll end up buying lol