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RedNailGun

You should just skip all that and go into comedy. This post is solid gold.


Justavian

Dancing in a casual way is significantly easier. Like, after a couple of classes, you should be able to dance well enough that nobody is just going to stop and stare at you. Obviously, any higher level stuff will take way more effort - but just grooving to the music and throwing in a couple of moves is easy. Judo will take WAY more commitment. I'd suggest you take a couple of dancing classes and get that over with. Practice what you learn in front of mirror with some songs you want to dance to. Then go do some Judo.


auntifahlala

Either one will probably make you more at home and relaxed in your own body and help. But I like what Justavian said - dancing is the easier to take on, then you can move on to Judo. (But Judo can be fun well before you get expert at it too.)


newt357

Dancing will be the easier of the two. Judo takes quite a bit of time to be proficient at and most likely to be more expensive. I like Judo a lot but there are easier martial arts to get into and become proficient in for self defense. Most judo techniques require getting close to someone and that's something you very much want to avoid in bar/club fights.


HunterGreenLeaves

Dancing - you'll use it more. A lot more. Be a lover not a fighter. Fighters might win a fight, but lovers win at life.


Alarmed_Notice6230

This is soo redacted


Rambo_1923

Obviously you need to join them as one and become a dance fighter. That's the only right choice!


Independent-Tax3262

Capoeira time!!


mrnoonan81

West side story


CountBreichen

Fight. it’ll give you more confidence and strength that translates to all aspects of life.


EfficientRegular8427

Learn both and you'll be unstoppable!


fiblesmish

Do them both Bruce Lee was the cha cha champ of Hing Kong Both will be great boosts to your confidence. Shh heres a little secret ...a lot of women equate ability on the dance floor to sexual prowess.. And this is coming from a guy who can't dance and well you get it.


InsideComfortable936

Try dance 1st


a-nichole

Do both


WayfaringWarrior

Here’s what I do and maybe it’ll work for you: I do BJJ as a commitment and a I do Salsa/Bachata dance as a social/drop in activity so I can do it whenever I want and have time. I honestly love both and It’s doable. It just requires a little research to find the socials. Seriously dude, so much fun.


Krafty747

Break dancing and Jiu Jitsu pair quite nicely.


WeAreOneYT

I like this


gofl-zimbard-37

There are better choices of MA if you want to learn to defend yourself.


LaveLizard

Like?


[deleted]

Learn both so you can absolutely kill it in Jumanji


misanthropymajor

Where do you live? I mean … is getting in fights common?


Playful_Land1256

Dance youll meet women


BluShirtGuy

learn Capoeira, and you won't have to choose


Aggravating_Truth898

Learn to fight! It will come in handy believe me!


Baseofthetotem

Learn how to fight after finding out you can never dance.


Turbulent-Rough9115

Dance combat


Jolly_Benefit_2985

Dance.


BigMoey

Dance first for a little, watch youtube tutorials on how to dance in club settings etcs and two steps are really simple and effective! Then move onto judo. Put what u learn into practise and hit those bars! This is making me want to go watch some dance tutorials too now 😭


nansi35

I'd start with dance class. It's way easier!!


hudd1966

You can't protect yourself at the clubs by dancing. Terlays out of the bar....


DSBS18

Dance


StoneM3

Judo is called the gentle way for a reason. Great under rated martial art!


Rud3Trees

I have 2 words for you.... Krav Maga... your welcome. The ancient art of dance fighting will make you a smooth yet effective killer.


Rud3Trees

Shit i messed this up, meant Capoeria. Disregard. Fail


Due-Contribution6424

Ooh judo is a good choice. I cant dance.


puftrade44

Kick boxing, problem solved


Early-Database-9353

Dance