You have to find shitty people first then when you find good people you can’t even tell if they are genuine or not. Thanks but home is where the heart is and my heart is at home
Introverts get drained of energy by being around people
Extroverts get get energy from being around people
Both can enjoy alone time but that isn't what makes an introvert an introvert.
Solo activities can be fun to discuss with people
There is also the class of extroverts with social anxiety who get energy from people but also get drained of energy by anxiety. This one truly sucks
Or maybe these categories are bullshit, and you're more on the antisocial spectrum. But all humans enjoy a social life, some people enjoy it more, and some less.
You're not an introvert, you're just normal.
i always thought that gay bars were inclusive of gays, trans, lesbians and bisexuals all in one, i never thought lesbians would want a private place beyond that becuase i thought all those people get along and dont really bother eachother
Same. I was 21 and thought I'm gonna go out to a bar... cuz that what people do? Spent way too much on a drink. Ended up going home with a case of beer and played Elder Scrolls. Alone. Single player... just me
I do shit, but when put on the spot and asked about what I do, my mind just erases all memory of my hobbies and all knowledge of any words I might use to describe them.
Being a linux user is already being part of a niche within a niche. Using a distro that is mostly DIY like Arch, Void, NixOS or whatever... Is basically making sure that you will die withtout having a IRL discussion about you linux tinkering hobby.
I somehow ended up in the opposite way. I was way more social in college. Then I somehow decided that people suck and only want to associate with family now.
I realized this when the 5 topics people build a life around, never became one of my topics. That and a case of beer, or 2 at a bar, is **the same price.** It would be cheaper to invite someone who liked what I liked over. So I did that.
Err No.. People like Nikola Tesla and Sir Issac Newton were introverts of highest order but still made the biggest contributions to humanity.. The passive introverts like to stay at home without human contact and not doing anything worthwhile..
I do lots of things, unfortunately I’m the only one who seems to do them. At least there’s reddit and YouTube.
I never thought It’d be this lonely growing up, I thought I’d find friends or meet people with similar interests. Guess not.
Honestly when I go to bars, aside from some groups of genuine friends, I get vibes of insecurity that echo the same source as introverts - people who are coping w their own sense of loneliness by “just being out” and there’s a whole echelon of people who can’t imagine not “being out around people” and panic about ever sitting at home alone, just as much as an introvert does about being forced out. It’s just more societally acceptable to be “out at bars” than chilling at home or - dare I say - engage in a pastime that isn’t revolving around booze consumption.
It helps me realize, extroverted people aren’t better than me or more adjusted, they are just approaching life from a different perspective.
I started taking my dog when I could as an excuse to be off to the side and for conversation with strangers as they only ask about the dog and not me. This way I can still get out of the house and not feel awkward when I'm the only person there without friends.
This 😩 I get so bored being home by myself so much I'll feel like maybe a bar visit could be fun....but then I go and it's like I'm invisible. I want to talk to people but I'm not a very interesting person and not knowledgeable on sports
I don't see myself as introverted that much, but rather just socially deprived. I grew up staying in doors most of my life due to how dangerous my old neighborhood used to be, and now I don't want to leave my house
I've only been to bars with friends. I don't really see the appeal of going to a bar by yourself where they could be playing music you don't really like or playing a sport you don't care about on the TV. And you got to tip the bartenders that could be over charging you for drinks.
However I have been to events by myself. Usually because an acquaintance dropped me an invite. It does feel a bit awkward trying to force yourself to mingle with others.
Then those people start talking about shit you can't relate to or just don't care about. For me I don't care about sports but other guys love talking about it. And for women they talk about work or if they have children they talk about their children.
Like what is it with people talking non stop about their children? Is it because they become their new boss at home and don't have time to do anything else?
Just talk about films, shows, music ect. Any kind of entertainment, really. Those are always good subjects that most can talk about and can drag on for a while.
its not because you're introverted, you're just boring.
i'm introverted, but i've got a plethera of hobbis and things to talk about, like how i have a 3d printer the things i make with it, or my faceting machine and the gem stones i've cut with it. or my little experiments like trying to make arititial ruby or trying to make a plasma vortex using some parts from and old microwave. but most likely i'll bring up the tree house i've built. i'm really proud of it, while i had others help from time to time with the heavy lifting, 70% of it was me, and its awsome, and i made it all with scraps of wood people threw out.
i'm 17 so i haven't been to any bars, but if i did i probably wouldnt talk to people because poeple are boring, but i could if i wanted too
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People suck
Some people suck, but others are pretty great. You have to go find them though, because they're not looking for your ass at home.
You have to find shitty people first then when you find good people you can’t even tell if they are genuine or not. Thanks but home is where the heart is and my heart is at home
that's annoying
Introverts get drained of energy by being around people Extroverts get get energy from being around people Both can enjoy alone time but that isn't what makes an introvert an introvert. Solo activities can be fun to discuss with people There is also the class of extroverts with social anxiety who get energy from people but also get drained of energy by anxiety. This one truly sucks
I’m the introvert that gets energy from being around certain people but gets drained if too many people is around
Or maybe these categories are bullshit, and you're more on the antisocial spectrum. But all humans enjoy a social life, some people enjoy it more, and some less. You're not an introvert, you're just normal.
The last one is me lol
I love beer and chicken while watching a movie alone.
Well for starters you’re at a lesbian bar
Well yes but you still all like P***y
Is a lesbian bar even a thing? I know there are gay bars, but I've never seen a lesbian bar.
it is a thing but theres only a few in the USA
I'm going to ask my lesbian friends to take me to one I need to see this.
New Orleans have plenty
i always thought that gay bars were inclusive of gays, trans, lesbians and bisexuals all in one, i never thought lesbians would want a private place beyond that becuase i thought all those people get along and dont really bother eachother
And it doesn't have a fire exit!
Holy shit this happened to me. This is when I realized I like drinking not people.
Same. I was 21 and thought I'm gonna go out to a bar... cuz that what people do? Spent way too much on a drink. Ended up going home with a case of beer and played Elder Scrolls. Alone. Single player... just me
I just workout and play video games. I don’t even drink anymore
I just workout and play video games. I smoke way to much weed
I play alone drunk on the weekends and have a blast.
Just drink so much that you start talking to them
This sometimes works perfectly but most times it becomes a new core memory.
Or lack thereof
How I became an alcoholic (sober for 3 months now)
I do shit, but when put on the spot and asked about what I do, my mind just erases all memory of my hobbies and all knowledge of any words I might use to describe them.
"Who am I?"
"WE THREW OUT HIS NAME!" 
To this day I have never met anyone who uses Arch btw
Why should I switch to Arch from Debian?
Updates every other day Comprehensive wiki AUR Sense of superiority Etc Now ask why you shouldn't switch...
Being a linux user is already being part of a niche within a niche. Using a distro that is mostly DIY like Arch, Void, NixOS or whatever... Is basically making sure that you will die withtout having a IRL discussion about you linux tinkering hobby.
Arch Linux is great…allegedly
I used arch… for 2 days before I realized that VR sucks on Linux and can’t play Val
This really was me at my first uni party....
I somehow ended up in the opposite way. I was way more social in college. Then I somehow decided that people suck and only want to associate with family now.
I like to pregame at the bar. Have a couple. Realize I don’t like talking to any of the other regulars. Go home, get shitcocked on my own.
I almost went to a bar today and feared exactly this. eee
My paranoid ass too introverted to go to a bar so drank alone at home
It's about real life)
I realized this when the 5 topics people build a life around, never became one of my topics. That and a case of beer, or 2 at a bar, is **the same price.** It would be cheaper to invite someone who liked what I liked over. So I did that.
Literally me sitting at a bar rn
*boring ass. Many introverted people have some pretty cool hobbies
Did your introverted ass make this meme while sitting at a bar?
Him: So, what are you doing right now? Her: Ummm, I’m at the bar. Him: Me too!
There are active introverts and passive introverts..
is that a sex thing 🤔
Err No.. People like Nikola Tesla and Sir Issac Newton were introverts of highest order but still made the biggest contributions to humanity.. The passive introverts like to stay at home without human contact and not doing anything worthwhile..
a high IQ probably helps
You have to mix them in a ratio of 3:1 to get a reaction🤔
I do lots of things, unfortunately I’m the only one who seems to do them. At least there’s reddit and YouTube. I never thought It’d be this lonely growing up, I thought I’d find friends or meet people with similar interests. Guess not.
you made me curious. what is your "thing" ?
Honestly when I go to bars, aside from some groups of genuine friends, I get vibes of insecurity that echo the same source as introverts - people who are coping w their own sense of loneliness by “just being out” and there’s a whole echelon of people who can’t imagine not “being out around people” and panic about ever sitting at home alone, just as much as an introvert does about being forced out. It’s just more societally acceptable to be “out at bars” than chilling at home or - dare I say - engage in a pastime that isn’t revolving around booze consumption. It helps me realize, extroverted people aren’t better than me or more adjusted, they are just approaching life from a different perspective.
Might as well try I guess
This is why I go to breweries instead of bars. Worst case scenario I can talk about Fantastic Beers and Where to Find Them.
Workout, drink, make babies, waste lots of time on the Internet
I don't even feel human
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Being boring and being an introvert is two different things.
For a group thats supposed to be quiet and reserved, introverts cannot seem to shut the fuck up about being introverted. Theyre like the new vegans.
Wow... i just realized how true that is
Downvoted
And i am still right.
Same. But maybe it’s all in my head
Same. I went to a bar with friends for his birthday last weekend and I was like holy shit this sucks.
Beer 5€ and shitty music ? This sucks
“I had a dream last night where Chucky tried to kill me… I pimp slapped him across my Nan’s kitchen and ate his heart.”
How does it taste?
Like beetroot.
I started taking my dog when I could as an excuse to be off to the side and for conversation with strangers as they only ask about the dog and not me. This way I can still get out of the house and not feel awkward when I'm the only person there without friends.
Yeah, nobody is going to bar to just have a drink nowadays.
They flee from her wifes
BUT. You went out... That's huge. ♥️
That's pretty funny
No need, just people watch. It's great
Don't you feel a bit weird just staring at people, I get stalker vibes if I look at someone for more than 1 second
Lol I never said stare at anyone. Just observe the room
Awards were given
Lol honestly, da fuq u do in a bar as an introvert? 🤣
Attempt to feel like a member of society (and fail miserably) sometimes staying home 24/7 can be depressing
This 😩 I get so bored being home by myself so much I'll feel like maybe a bar visit could be fun....but then I go and it's like I'm invisible. I want to talk to people but I'm not a very interesting person and not knowledgeable on sports
Drink till you get drunk enough you're an extrovert.
Hol' up, if you're ass doesn't do shit then how do you use the loo? /s
im jus sum paranoid mf tha thinks every1 hates me n lies they got the same interests as me so they can secretly take the pee behind my back🌚🌚
That's why I don't go to bars in the first place.
Me as a non drinker. Fuck I should start drinking again.
Me rn!
Real
I don't see myself as introverted that much, but rather just socially deprived. I grew up staying in doors most of my life due to how dangerous my old neighborhood used to be, and now I don't want to leave my house
This is how I feel lol 🥲 Especially when they start talking about extrovert activities and I hardly go outside 🤦🏻♀️
I've only been to bars with friends. I don't really see the appeal of going to a bar by yourself where they could be playing music you don't really like or playing a sport you don't care about on the TV. And you got to tip the bartenders that could be over charging you for drinks. However I have been to events by myself. Usually because an acquaintance dropped me an invite. It does feel a bit awkward trying to force yourself to mingle with others. Then those people start talking about shit you can't relate to or just don't care about. For me I don't care about sports but other guys love talking about it. And for women they talk about work or if they have children they talk about their children. Like what is it with people talking non stop about their children? Is it because they become their new boss at home and don't have time to do anything else?
Introverts also want clearly marked exits.
It doesn’t matter how introverted you are at least one person games
This is me, can't event talk to other people because the music is at full blast
underrated comment! Its like a loudest voice competition
One time they were all talking about Halloween parties, and I had never been at any party before🙃 (expect birthdays but... yeah...)
Just talk about films, shows, music ect. Any kind of entertainment, really. Those are always good subjects that most can talk about and can drag on for a while.
Maybe try going there with some friends
What does being introverted have to do with being out of touch? Or boring?
Same, and after that I'm always going home
Real
Me: You watch the game last night? Them: Uhhh nah Me: Yeah, me neither…
Don’t @ me! 🤣
I do do shit. I just cant talk abt it fr some reason
everyone has to shit, at least every few days. Great conversation starter
That’s why I don’t go to bars. I also don’t drink but that less important.
you take crack instead ?
nope, no drugs, no smoking.
welcome to my world.
whew! cuttin' deep. i started getting active recently and now on Monday I can tell people about how I went to Home Depot.
I do a lot… of introverted stuff so nobody there shares the interests
Going to the bar is actually an accomplishment.
High School prom be like:
its not because you're introverted, you're just boring. i'm introverted, but i've got a plethera of hobbis and things to talk about, like how i have a 3d printer the things i make with it, or my faceting machine and the gem stones i've cut with it. or my little experiments like trying to make arititial ruby or trying to make a plasma vortex using some parts from and old microwave. but most likely i'll bring up the tree house i've built. i'm really proud of it, while i had others help from time to time with the heavy lifting, 70% of it was me, and its awsome, and i made it all with scraps of wood people threw out. i'm 17 so i haven't been to any bars, but if i did i probably wouldnt talk to people because poeple are boring, but i could if i wanted too
That’s narcissism. You’re making every situation about you
Shut the fuck up. Bro really said sharing your experience in bars is narcissistic, fuck off dude.
You read that 100% wrong…but ok. Get as pissed as you wanna…won’t change the facts. (BTW…narcissists get REALLY offended when you call them out…soooo)
Do you take crack?
“dO yOu TakE cRacK?” - that’s what you sounds like.