Could have been worded better, and less aggressively, but OP's first comment seems like good advice; the sooner you talk about rape, the more evidence you have against the rapist.
I would say that the "part of the problem" doesn't make much sense, outside of people thinking she is lying since she only claims it's rape months after the incident. But even then, that does make sense. (Again a wording issue, and not an advice issue)
His last comment sums this up perfectly. If you wait ten years to talk about it, and you have no proof other than your own statement, it sound fishy from the start
**Never** wait to report a sexual crime, if you want proper justice to be served
Gate keeping rape is crazy
Straight up, never thought that I’d read something like this
Jesus Christ
Could have been worded better, and less aggressively, but OP's first comment seems like good advice; the sooner you talk about rape, the more evidence you have against the rapist. I would say that the "part of the problem" doesn't make much sense, outside of people thinking she is lying since she only claims it's rape months after the incident. But even then, that does make sense. (Again a wording issue, and not an advice issue)
Nah, i think it's meant as a "you are complicit in any future rapes"
In that case, then yeah that's dumb
His last comment sums this up perfectly. If you wait ten years to talk about it, and you have no proof other than your own statement, it sound fishy from the start **Never** wait to report a sexual crime, if you want proper justice to be served
Sounds like someone who has been neglected and has turned bitter against victims because he believes he suffered more.
Actual assholery
We are well beyond the bounds of asshole behavior with this one, my brother. This is insanity in the most disgusting form
I guess they kinda have good intentions but the way they said it made it seem like they were blaming OP
What. The. Actual. Fuck.
Only on reddit is “Rape is bad” a controversial statement with nuance and exceptions
They seem to be correct objectively though? If nobody reports something it will continue, guaranteed.
exactly
Can someone link the post or comment on it? I want to see the original post
It’s against this sub’s rules to link back to comments, communities or users
:(
just look up the title
No brigading That’s how subs get banned
Loserrrrrr
Who are you callig a loser for context
Oh, the guy whos gatekeeping and blaming the victim Didnt think to add context lol, forgot ppl dont read minds 😭
he's not wrong, sort of. this could've been stated MUCH more differently and MUCH better, and it probably could've been of some assistance