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Feels like some kind of secret exhibition thing… like you see porn of people wearing buttplugs in public and stuff and this is kinda in that category of “they don’t know we’re secretly having sex.”
I understand where op’s girl was coming from but yeah she should have probably brought it up beforehand.
I'll admit I would find it hotter if she didn't ask me, but *I* know the right woman could convince me to do just about anything simply by making it an option. =\
It's conflicting to me because I don't think a woman should do that to *all* guys, but it feels sorta hypothetical to worry about the *next* guy.
Would it be better if instead of being like “Wtf, why are you stopping?” she instead replied,”You don’t have to stop if you don’t want to,” to allow more of a choice with no pressure one way or the other?
Tbh though that would be my "golden rule" preference for how one ought to behave, my *personal* preference would be if she ordered me around, even if she didn't know that's what I wanted... Maybe even *especially* if she didn't know..... 😶🌫️
Like I said though, I'm conflicted about it.
I don’t know that’s just a little to weird, I’m big in kinks and I wouldn’t ever do it with my parents on the phone or anyone family wise. I’ve done it with my boss on the phone lmao but that’s completely different.
My thought was she’s only 22 and so maybe just doesn’t have enough experience or sexual education to fully grasp what’s “normal” and what requires consent. Which is still on her to educate herself, but might explain why she reacted the way she did.
Or maybe she’s just super desensitized. Or maybe she doesn’t care about his consent. Or maybe the phone call was all made up which is a whole other thing. Could be a lot of things.
Or she didn’t want her man to stop simply because her daddy has bad timing? He didn’t hear anything, and her man got to finish. Win Win.
Y’all are weird.
That's what I was thinking. Like if you're quiet, I can answer, figure out what they want, and get off the phone. However if the guy is uncomfortable, then that's a boundary...
I've done this in the past with a few girls who wanted to keep going as much as I did. I thought it was hot. For me, it was experiencing the contrast between sexual pleasure and a mundane call with an authority figure that made it kinky/ taboo
And that's totally okay! For some people it'll be hot, for others not at all. What's important is that you both can navigate and communicate the comfort levels in a healthy way :)
Yes, it’s one thing if it’s one of her friends maybe although still weird to me but the fact that it was her dad is super weird. I never would’ve continued in that situation regardless if she wanted me to or not.
Yeah I would consider this as involving someone in your kink who doesn’t want to be, same as people who like to expose themselves in public or have sex in front of open windows with people outside. But worse in a way because it is her *dad*
Plus, OP didn’t want it either. So wrong on both fronts
To be fair, I think it’s weird to involve any other unknowing party into sexual intimacy, I would feel very violated if I was unknowingly part of someone’s kink and didn’t have an opportunity to consent.
Lots of decent discussion here, but one thing I haven't seen yet that should be mentioned is that **you always have the right to say no and stop**. You should never feel pressured into having sex or continuing to have sex even after you've started.
You stopping when you felt uncomfortable was the right thing to do, and her pressuring you into continuing was wrong.
Yeah why aren’t more people saying this! She should have asked about something like this, and he shouldn’t have felt pressured by her to keep going if he didn’t want to
100% this! OP, if you're uncomfortable with it, you have every right to stop immediately. She pulled you into a (potential) kink without your permission.
I agree but in her defense she’s probably not think he’s uncomfortable, she’s probably thinking her saying to keep going is hot for him. If he had tried to disengage again she probably would’ve got the message
This is the answer I was waiting to see. Even in OPs comments he said he was uncomfortable about it. I would've stopped too. 5minutes is a long time as well tbh, whilst also having sex I mean lol
Best friend, probably ok. Boss calls me at home? Sometimes that's the cost of bothering me on personal time. But a parent? Idk, that's a no for me.
But yeah, if you don't like it, say no and stop.
She probably thought it was hot, doing something so intimate while being on the phone with her dad who has no clue what yall are doing and she had to keep her cool. My bf has fingered me a few times while on the phone with someone and I always think it’s hot to watch him having a casual conversation with a friend while his fingers are inside of me. The person on the other end has no idea what he’s doing and I have to stay quiet and keep my cool.
I've done this before. Once my gf's friend came to our tent (we were camping) to borrow something and as she was walking up she called my gf on the phone. As she was walking up my gf was sucking me off until her friend was probably about 10 feet away from our tent.
For some people that sort of behavior is a fetish. However, it doesn't seem like your girl specifically found that hot... more that she found it convenient or obligatory to continue having sex when receiving a phone call. If neither of you find this to be a turn on, it would seem to me that you will just need to establish a ground rule against mid-coitus phone calls in the future.
She probably got off on the forbidden aspect of having sex while hiding it from someone she was talking to. Similar to exhibitionism, when someone has sex in public without other people knowing they are having sex.
Or sex is so routine and natural for her, that it's no different than washing dishes while on the phone.
For real that's the weirdest part I would've already went soft from her answering the phone but it being her dad no way on hell i wouldn't even be horny anymore
That's so fucking weird... Ew. If I'm having sex with someone, first of all, I ain't answering the phone unless it's an emergency- which means someone would have to call a couple times before I'd pick up. Second of all, HER DAD?! And she wanted you to keep fucking her while she talked to him?! Ewwwwww.
Ok I'm glad I saw this comment because I thought I was weird unless that person called me like 3-5 times I'm not answering but her dad of all people I just couldn't I'd be ti turned off by the entire thing
Happened to me once, her mom called and I wasn’t sure if I was supposed to stop. Decided to keep going and talked on the phone for a minute, ig when it finally got too much she just told her mom she had to go.
> GF didn't let me stop having sex when she had a phone call….
> I was bewildered by how weird it was
> the weirdest and most uncomfortable explain of my life
> when she got off the phone she said I was the weird one for wanting to quit while she was on the phone!
> one of the weirdest experiences of my life and really really am unconscious with how it all played out.
You shouldn’t be made to feel like you have to have sex, or continue to have sex, when you’re uncomfortable.
I’m surprised to see that the top comments didn’t mention that. I think if genders were reversed you’d get different answers.
It’s like she forced you, or pressured you to keep going, when you were uncomfortable and wanted to stop. That isn’t okay.
Talk to her about it or just tell her what she did wrong and dump her.
Edit: to take direct quotes from OP’s post
Let me highlight a part of my post for you:
#Talk to her about it or…
Who is doing what you’re saying? Above was the first thing I suggested.
Yes, he could communicate first. I suggest that first. OP’s partner could have communicated first too.
Heh. My GF answered the phone while we were doing it, I gave her one good thrust and made her gasp in the middle of a sentence before I went to the shower. She had to lie to the caller (a co-worker) and say she burned her hand on the toaster or something ridiculous.
You should have stopped if it was weird. This kind of stuff is on the kinky spectrum and your consent BEFORE it happens is important. I think this is exactly why you need to vent here. Lots of people do things like that but both partners should enjoy it equally. I think this is a mild situation, but whats worrisome is that even in a mild situation you found it difficult to say no thanks, this is too weird for me.
She definitely has a kink for it - but I think that it should have been spoken about beforehand. Especially since you were uncomfortable. I get that way in front of /near parents too. I wouldn’t be okay with doing something when she was communicating with her parents either.
Honestly I don't know how the hell he finished. Answering the phone alone would turn me off but hearing her parents I would instantly lose all horniness
Just reading this it seems like the act of fucking is simply that.. it's an activity for you two. When you get older (most likely) or when you find someone you truly love (or she does).. being in that moment is so compelling and intense, that a phone call is the last thing you would want to introduce into the equation.
But like someone else said, maybe it's a kink.. or maybe she is hiding you from her Dad or whatever.. who knows.
Im sitting here replying to you and thinking about how that could have played out.. she's on the phone, you are reluctantly pumping away.. then you pull out.. jizz all over her face and phone while shes talking to "dad".. the only thing funnier would be if she was facetiming :)
Ok, but fucking is an activity. It seems like you're implying that correlating sex with deep emotion and connection is the mature stance, when that's certainly not the case. It's simply a matter of personal preference .
My now deceased mil (RIP) called wanting to talk to my wife. I answered her cell phone which was on the night stand next to the bed. I told my wife caller ID said it was her mother. Thing was, my wife had my cock in her mouth giving me a very nice blowjob. I said hello mil and chatted a few words. I handed the phone to my wife with my dick still in her mouth. She let my cock free and had a short convo with her, hung up and got back to sucking. I came in her mouth a short time later.
My dad's voice is going to be an instant turn off let alone the kind of conversation he is going to start. Who stays turned on while hearing their parents voice. I just would not answer the phone
Here's a fun thought I want to leave you with. Do you look anything like her dad?
When I was a teenager, I dated this girl who basically demanded to suck my dick before I left her house after a date. The thing was she wanted to literally suck it in front of the door to leave which was close enough to her parents room that I could see her dad's reflection in a mirror close to their bedroom. He was a pretty scary dude who undoubtedly would have killed me stone dead if he caught us 🤣
This is an entire porn genre in itself they have ones where a cheating girl or wife is talking talking to her boyfriend or husband or a girl is talking to her parents or her job. I mean you were able to finish so on some level you enjoyed it and if you're uncomfortable in any way just check out all the different scenarios and you'll see that you've done nothing wrong
Nahhh this is straight crazy 😧. If I'm balls deep and my phone rings, it doesn't matter who tf it is, that bitch is going to voicemail. BUT, if they call again, especially if my parents, them I'm answering, cus ik it's important.
I was hooking up with a divorced mom in her earky 30’s for a while in my mid-20’s. I swear, she got off having sex with me while on the phone with her ex-husband.
Only time I had to draw the line and stop was the one time he put the 5 year old kid on the phone to talk to mom. I couldn’t quite handle the idea of having sex while she talked to her kid
This is actually so hot to do but not with her dad on the phone! That is
I've done it before but it was his boss on the line not a relative and it was 🔥🔥 to see him trying to focus on the call while I had him in my mouth 😈
She probably has a kink. Me personally that would turn me off especially if it's a family member. Also if it was me I wouldn't be able to concentrate I'd go soft.
It’s a pretty,,,I don’t want to say common, but heavily fetishized/used-in-media kink?
It’s one of those things where you just need to have an honest conversation that it was icky for you. Sex and communication go hand in hand
We’ve done it, but not with a relative or for 5 minutes!
Usually it’s more of a 15 second convo with a receptionist confirming an appointment or something along those lines.
I think it is very common kink among girls, being dirty while acting normal on the phone, particularly with their daddy. I had a gf who would talk a lot with her family and I remember many times she was on the phone with her dad and giving me a hand job. I think this was her favorite thing to do. She would look into my eyes, push my pleasure buttons and as I was going crazy giving me hand gestures to be quiet and not moan. All the while talking to her dad in quite a normal fashion about mundane things. I have done it quite a few times as well being on the phone while receiving bj. It is a bit of a taboo that adds to the pleasure. I have had experience initiating things when the girl was on the phone as well, just doing things to her that normally makes her moan quite hard, it is a great tease.
But honestly I am not sure what kind of sex you were having where you could continue and finish while she was on the phone. If it was me I would have continued but slowed down, just keep playing with her to keep things going, but keep the cum for after she is done with the phone and is fully engaged. I think you are taking it way too serious. It is a normal and common thing.
What’s weirder she didn’t want you to stop or the fact you could finish & finish on her while she’s saying ok dad that sounds great lmao.
I woulda gave her clit hell to make her squirm & see how she liked it
Loved to watch an amateur back in the day of a chick getting it doggy while on the phone with her mom. She was trying so hard to keep it together. She was telling mom they just got back from the beeeeeeeeeach and later they were going to get some suuuuuuuuuuuuubs for dinner. Good stuff.
I was dating a girl and we visited her family who were rather conservative. When they were out one day she’d just got out of the shower and had a towel wrapped around her and her phone in her hand. I ended up fucking her from behind up against the wall and her mum called. She answered and was just answering yes or no, her mum asked “are you ok? You sound out of breath” and she just said “yes… gotta go”. Anyway… it happens.
I have had sex with the girl on the phone many times. The most common is the girl blowing me while she's talking to someone on the phone. What makes your situation weird more so is that it was her dad. That's a little yikes.
Most likely it's a kink of hers. I used to hook up with an older woman that got off on ordering pizza while giving head. It was never something I would have thought of or asked to do, so I was bright red and embarassed as all hell listening to the pizza guy😂. He was not not only confused, but concerned because it sounded like she was choking😅. The Pizza Guy " ma'am are you alright???" Her : yeah.... I'm fine.... so yeah let's me get a *gawk gawk* pepperoni *gawk gawk* extra cheese". I whispered to her : "hang up hang up, I'm shy I'm losin my chub😅😅" Looking back it was super hot, and probably one of the funniest things I have ever witnessed I'd say ask her about it, if the kink actually involves the dad and not just the excitement of fooling around on the phone, run!
My ex-husband (boyfriend at the time) answered a call from his dad one time during sex, and I’m glad that he stopped then. I wasn’t happy that he answered the call, though, and that actually might’ve been the last time we ever had sex before I ended our relationship six years later.
In your girlfriend’s case, maybe she was like my boyfriend and felt obligated to answer the call from her dad, which should set off some alarm bells, or maybe it is a kink. A call from one of your parents is different than one from, say, a friend or coworker.
Tbf she gave you a wtf look to insinuate keep going. Which you did, and you finished. Which means she didn't remove your ability to stop, she implied she didn't want you to, in which case you were still in a situation of consent because you could have stopped as your preference would simply have been at odds with hers and that's where the sexual boundary of consent lies. People are allowed to want another a person to have sex with them, or continue in the activity, and the other person is equally allowed to say no. People aren't allowed to: engage or continue sexual activity when the other party has actively said no, or indicated *clearly* they don't want to.
However, as always, communication is 99% of every intimate resolution, so talk to her, and if that's something you never want to participate in again say that's the case to her. If she does in future take a call whilst having sex and said communication above had happened, immediately stop your sexual interaction, and well, pretty much take action so far as you deem necessary in response to a clear pre sex boundary having now been breached.
That's my two cents.
yeah some people are into that! personally idrc either way, i’d probably rather not have sex while on the phone with my parents but again, people are into different things. what matters is communication, if this isn’t something you want to do going forward definitely tell her but objectively this wouldn’t be close to the weirdest kink other there haha. i can see how it would be unexpected
I did that with my girlfriend once and it was so much fun. It was a Dr office call I think and her trying not to react audibly while getting eaten was so hot and fun.
This happened in my early 20s. She was on top and kept going. It was fun watching her go to great effort to not sound like she was having sex while on the phone (she succeeded). She let go of her inhibitions when the phone call ended.
My ex did this once, I was attending a work call, i tried to cut short the call but he said keep talking, complete the conversation will getting in a few thrusts; hottest shit ever. I still get butterflies thinking about it xD
one time in hs my friend CALLED ME while she was having sex bc she has this kink or whatever. Needless to say, I heard more than she realized in the moment and we were no longer cool after that. it’s just gross. no one wants to hear you have sex.
Surprisingly none of the comments say this it’s always something about trauma..but I’m gonna tell you that’s a RED FLAG, it’s common, and they’re usually crazy n as soon as you piss them off in any type of way you’ll see why you shouldn’t have ignored that flag. Be aware.
I'm sorry but I can't get over the fact that you finished while she was on the phone with her dad. I can only imagine the awkwardness on both ends. #PhoneSexGoals #IGuess
Jesus Christ, a lot of people here need a primer on consent, and a lesson on why someone might not want to involve their parents or their spouse’s indirectly with their sex life. Ew ew ew.
My fiance did something similar to me, her sister walked in her room while we were doing our thing so we both jumped under the covers real quick. And while her sister was in the room, my fiance was still playing with me under the blanket😂
You both went into unnecessary judgment there. A situation is never weird unless you feel it is weird. And someone is not weird for finding a situation weird unless you think he's weird.
Anyways enough with that word, what I mean is a better way of bringing it would have been to express how it made YOU uncomfortable to have sex while she was talking to her dad because you felt it was intrusive or a lack of privacy.
A better answer on her side would have been to understand you were not comfortable but telling you she views the situation differently.
Maybe yiu could try to lean in her direction if you want to but in the end, you can choose not to have sex in a given situation and that right should prevail.
she might have an exhibitionism kink. it's 100% normal if youre totally not into it idk why she was judgy about that bc wanting sex to be a private thing isnt weird at all. but if sometime in the future you're open to trying it again, make sure you find a bdsm group with someone who consents to being the one who's called! fucking in front of someone who doesn't consent is sexual assault.
I have a kink where I wanna have sex with my girl when she's on a work call.. and the reverse too, if I'm on a work call, I would love my girl to come blow me..
I think people are making too much about it, being her dad. She did not call him. She answered it could have been an important call. He did not say she got all hot and bothered. She did not tell her father what she was doing.
She got a call he finished. I think the real question is if she is getting anything out of there sex?
OP- "I hated it and it was weird. Anyway, I came on her.."
That made me giggle but joking aside, always remember to communicate with your partner and set boundaries and to say NO if you do not want to continue. If it made you uncomfortable, you should communicate that with her. If she doesn't respect it then it sounds like you may not be compatible as she doesn't respect your consent
This must be a female thing. I see it posted often. When I'm in the middle of sex and the phone rings, I could care less about that call. But like others noted, it is probably a kink of hers.
This isn't that uncommon, I've experienced this with a number of women in the past. The way some of these girls have explained it is that they wanted to keep going because it was feeling really good and they don't want to be left feeling frustrated, especially if you don't continue after they finish the phone call. That being said if you're just too uncomfortable with continuing while she's on the phone, then you need to talk to her about it and maybe reassure her that you'll pick up where you left off and make sure that she's not left frustrated because you felt too uncomfortable to continue while she's on the phone.
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She probably has some sort of kink
Could be hot if it wasn't her dad on the other line lol
For real like a friend slight maybe but her parents nah that's weird
Was it her dad or daddy... The phrasing might make a difference ...
This is something that you can easily find hundreds of porn videos of. Phones, video games, conversations with people in the next room, etc.
/r/boredignored (NSFW, obviously).
Just another case of Rule 34 in action.
Feels like some kind of secret exhibition thing… like you see porn of people wearing buttplugs in public and stuff and this is kinda in that category of “they don’t know we’re secretly having sex.” I understand where op’s girl was coming from but yeah she should have probably brought it up beforehand.
This is the kinda thing she should have asked about head of time rather than throwing him into it on impulse :/
I'll admit I would find it hotter if she didn't ask me, but *I* know the right woman could convince me to do just about anything simply by making it an option. =\ It's conflicting to me because I don't think a woman should do that to *all* guys, but it feels sorta hypothetical to worry about the *next* guy.
Would it be better if instead of being like “Wtf, why are you stopping?” she instead replied,”You don’t have to stop if you don’t want to,” to allow more of a choice with no pressure one way or the other?
Tbh though that would be my "golden rule" preference for how one ought to behave, my *personal* preference would be if she ordered me around, even if she didn't know that's what I wanted... Maybe even *especially* if she didn't know..... 😶🌫️ Like I said though, I'm conflicted about it.
I don’t know that’s just a little to weird, I’m big in kinks and I wouldn’t ever do it with my parents on the phone or anyone family wise. I’ve done it with my boss on the phone lmao but that’s completely different.
No. That’s not how consent works. Don’t care if it’s your kink. People need to check in.
I am aware of that, hence the internal conflict.
My thought was she’s only 22 and so maybe just doesn’t have enough experience or sexual education to fully grasp what’s “normal” and what requires consent. Which is still on her to educate herself, but might explain why she reacted the way she did. Or maybe she’s just super desensitized. Or maybe she doesn’t care about his consent. Or maybe the phone call was all made up which is a whole other thing. Could be a lot of things.
My girlfriend in highschool was into that shit. Seemed to be preferred if it was an authority figure of some kind.b
ANd her dad is in on it!
Maybe after the next visit the dad will take a shower before he goes home
LMAO I spend too much time on reddit
Oh gosh, is this like the broken arms thing? I am curious but I don’t really want to look it up.
Exactly my thoughts. Or there is a possibility of abuse or trauma history somewhere
Text “ dad call me back in fifteen minutes”
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Or she didn’t want her man to stop simply because her daddy has bad timing? He didn’t hear anything, and her man got to finish. Win Win. Y’all are weird.
That's what I was thinking. Like if you're quiet, I can answer, figure out what they want, and get off the phone. However if the guy is uncomfortable, then that's a boundary...
I've done this in the past with a few girls who wanted to keep going as much as I did. I thought it was hot. For me, it was experiencing the contrast between sexual pleasure and a mundane call with an authority figure that made it kinky/ taboo
Yeah i can see that just was kinda weird for me personally.
And that's totally okay! For some people it'll be hot, for others not at all. What's important is that you both can navigate and communicate the comfort levels in a healthy way :)
It’s weird. She involved a parent in sexual intimacy.
Yes, it’s one thing if it’s one of her friends maybe although still weird to me but the fact that it was her dad is super weird. I never would’ve continued in that situation regardless if she wanted me to or not.
For real no matter who it was I would've stopped but her dad hell no I would've stopped immediately
I wonder if it falls under nonconsenting due to her dad not knowing he is involved in a kink? This is an interesting one
Yeah I would consider this as involving someone in your kink who doesn’t want to be, same as people who like to expose themselves in public or have sex in front of open windows with people outside. But worse in a way because it is her *dad* Plus, OP didn’t want it either. So wrong on both fronts
She might be exceptionally good at mental compartmentalization.
To be fair, I think it’s weird to involve any other unknowing party into sexual intimacy, I would feel very violated if I was unknowingly part of someone’s kink and didn’t have an opportunity to consent.
Next time you’re uncomfortable, stop!
I think she should have asked. She could see who was calling, could have been like "my dad's calling, ok if we keep going? 😉"
Yea parent is kinda wack but once I forgot I had a job interview over the phone and I picked up and kept going lmfao (I got the job too)
I think it’s hot if they’re on the phone with their friends, not their parents
Lots of decent discussion here, but one thing I haven't seen yet that should be mentioned is that **you always have the right to say no and stop**. You should never feel pressured into having sex or continuing to have sex even after you've started. You stopping when you felt uncomfortable was the right thing to do, and her pressuring you into continuing was wrong.
Yeah why aren’t more people saying this! She should have asked about something like this, and he shouldn’t have felt pressured by her to keep going if he didn’t want to
100% this! OP, if you're uncomfortable with it, you have every right to stop immediately. She pulled you into a (potential) kink without your permission.
I agree but in her defense she’s probably not think he’s uncomfortable, she’s probably thinking her saying to keep going is hot for him. If he had tried to disengage again she probably would’ve got the message
This is the answer I was waiting to see. Even in OPs comments he said he was uncomfortable about it. I would've stopped too. 5minutes is a long time as well tbh, whilst also having sex I mean lol
That’s usually a sexy thing but the fact that it was her dad on the phone is weird.
Best friend, probably ok. Boss calls me at home? Sometimes that's the cost of bothering me on personal time. But a parent? Idk, that's a no for me. But yeah, if you don't like it, say no and stop.
Yeah it being a parent is so weird
Yeah that's gross that it was a family member.
She probably thought it was hot, doing something so intimate while being on the phone with her dad who has no clue what yall are doing and she had to keep her cool. My bf has fingered me a few times while on the phone with someone and I always think it’s hot to watch him having a casual conversation with a friend while his fingers are inside of me. The person on the other end has no idea what he’s doing and I have to stay quiet and keep my cool.
I've done this before. Once my gf's friend came to our tent (we were camping) to borrow something and as she was walking up she called my gf on the phone. As she was walking up my gf was sucking me off until her friend was probably about 10 feet away from our tent.
Bro your sentence structure fucked me
Sorry, haha. I typed this at the end of my shift and was in a rush. Need any clarification?
For some people that sort of behavior is a fetish. However, it doesn't seem like your girl specifically found that hot... more that she found it convenient or obligatory to continue having sex when receiving a phone call. If neither of you find this to be a turn on, it would seem to me that you will just need to establish a ground rule against mid-coitus phone calls in the future.
She probably got off on the forbidden aspect of having sex while hiding it from someone she was talking to. Similar to exhibitionism, when someone has sex in public without other people knowing they are having sex. Or sex is so routine and natural for her, that it's no different than washing dishes while on the phone.
that's kind of messed up
For real I'd be very turned off
Bro how did you finish in a situation like this 🙌😂
ikr i find that the weird part of this story
For real that's the weirdest part I would've already went soft from her answering the phone but it being her dad no way on hell i wouldn't even be horny anymore
That's so fucking weird... Ew. If I'm having sex with someone, first of all, I ain't answering the phone unless it's an emergency- which means someone would have to call a couple times before I'd pick up. Second of all, HER DAD?! And she wanted you to keep fucking her while she talked to him?! Ewwwwww.
Ok I'm glad I saw this comment because I thought I was weird unless that person called me like 3-5 times I'm not answering but her dad of all people I just couldn't I'd be ti turned off by the entire thing
Why didn’t I find a comment that thinks it’s creepy Because it’s her DAD!!! WTF is wrong with u people!
Bruh for real thank you people are weird because this is so gross
Post nut clarity hits hard
Nah. That’s fucking weird.
Thank you someone said it. I thought I was going crazy
Happened to me once, her mom called and I wasn’t sure if I was supposed to stop. Decided to keep going and talked on the phone for a minute, ig when it finally got too much she just told her mom she had to go.
Well i had the same experience. Her dad called she was speaking on the phone, i was still inside her. Best sex we ever had.
It's good just feels weird
This is something she should definitely have ASKED if you liked AHEAD OF time instead of springing it on you. Not everyone is into that
You can tell her how you feel. For me personally was a big turn on.
> GF didn't let me stop having sex when she had a phone call…. > I was bewildered by how weird it was > the weirdest and most uncomfortable explain of my life > when she got off the phone she said I was the weird one for wanting to quit while she was on the phone! > one of the weirdest experiences of my life and really really am unconscious with how it all played out. You shouldn’t be made to feel like you have to have sex, or continue to have sex, when you’re uncomfortable. I’m surprised to see that the top comments didn’t mention that. I think if genders were reversed you’d get different answers. It’s like she forced you, or pressured you to keep going, when you were uncomfortable and wanted to stop. That isn’t okay. Talk to her about it or just tell her what she did wrong and dump her. Edit: to take direct quotes from OP’s post
Or he could you know…..communicate first? I know this is Reddit but we don’t always have to go straight to breaking up.
Fr, reddits answer to every little issue in a relationship is a break up. "What, your boyfriend eats toast the wrong way? Drop him"
Let me highlight a part of my post for you: #Talk to her about it or… Who is doing what you’re saying? Above was the first thing I suggested. Yes, he could communicate first. I suggest that first. OP’s partner could have communicated first too.
Heh. My GF answered the phone while we were doing it, I gave her one good thrust and made her gasp in the middle of a sentence before I went to the shower. She had to lie to the caller (a co-worker) and say she burned her hand on the toaster or something ridiculous.
You should have stopped if it was weird. This kind of stuff is on the kinky spectrum and your consent BEFORE it happens is important. I think this is exactly why you need to vent here. Lots of people do things like that but both partners should enjoy it equally. I think this is a mild situation, but whats worrisome is that even in a mild situation you found it difficult to say no thanks, this is too weird for me.
She definitely has a kink for it - but I think that it should have been spoken about beforehand. Especially since you were uncomfortable. I get that way in front of /near parents too. I wouldn’t be okay with doing something when she was communicating with her parents either.
Yeah like parents or close family members is definitely where I draw a line
Facts. It’s mad weird to me.
Honestly I don't know how the hell he finished. Answering the phone alone would turn me off but hearing her parents I would instantly lose all horniness
Just reading this it seems like the act of fucking is simply that.. it's an activity for you two. When you get older (most likely) or when you find someone you truly love (or she does).. being in that moment is so compelling and intense, that a phone call is the last thing you would want to introduce into the equation. But like someone else said, maybe it's a kink.. or maybe she is hiding you from her Dad or whatever.. who knows. Im sitting here replying to you and thinking about how that could have played out.. she's on the phone, you are reluctantly pumping away.. then you pull out.. jizz all over her face and phone while shes talking to "dad".. the only thing funnier would be if she was facetiming :)
That's how it went!
She was FaceTiming her dad ?!?
No no just a phone call
Ok, but fucking is an activity. It seems like you're implying that correlating sex with deep emotion and connection is the mature stance, when that's certainly not the case. It's simply a matter of personal preference .
If you don't wanna do her while she's on the phone with her dad. Plenty of dudes will. That's a kink for many .
My now deceased mil (RIP) called wanting to talk to my wife. I answered her cell phone which was on the night stand next to the bed. I told my wife caller ID said it was her mother. Thing was, my wife had my cock in her mouth giving me a very nice blowjob. I said hello mil and chatted a few words. I handed the phone to my wife with my dick still in her mouth. She let my cock free and had a short convo with her, hung up and got back to sucking. I came in her mouth a short time later.
>really really am unconscious with how it all played out Did you wake up? Did an AI write this post?
It's fake, brand new account created to write one erotica story and bounce
My dad's voice is going to be an instant turn off let alone the kind of conversation he is going to start. Who stays turned on while hearing their parents voice. I just would not answer the phone Here's a fun thought I want to leave you with. Do you look anything like her dad?
For real hearing my parents voice would instantly turn me off I don't know how she's still turned on
When I was a teenager, I dated this girl who basically demanded to suck my dick before I left her house after a date. The thing was she wanted to literally suck it in front of the door to leave which was close enough to her parents room that I could see her dad's reflection in a mirror close to their bedroom. He was a pretty scary dude who undoubtedly would have killed me stone dead if he caught us 🤣
Nah that's really weird i wouldn't care if she's mad if someone especially her dad could see me I'd be out
I was a horny teenager. I'd have let her blow me in the passenger seat of his truck with him driving us more than likely 🤣
Oh trust me I was a horny teenager as well I'm 21 so for me that was 4yrs ago but I was never that horny but I understand
Hope it wasn't a video call.
My girl used to try to get me off the phone my blowing me.
I get wanting to do this for the taboo of it, but I agree it’s kind of weird that she just though of it as normal
I would have grabbed another gear and challenged her to hide it from her dad. You want the smoke? Lets go.
This is an entire porn genre in itself they have ones where a cheating girl or wife is talking talking to her boyfriend or husband or a girl is talking to her parents or her job. I mean you were able to finish so on some level you enjoyed it and if you're uncomfortable in any way just check out all the different scenarios and you'll see that you've done nothing wrong
Daddy issues in effect
Very true that could be a factor
“It was by far the weirdest and most uncomfortable experience of my life. Oh yeah. I finished on her”
Dude this is awesome, sorry to hear it wasn’t that great for you though
Probably not her first rodeo
I remember my ex bf would love to have me play competitive overwatch while he gave me head just to see me struggle at the game lmao
Nahhh this is straight crazy 😧. If I'm balls deep and my phone rings, it doesn't matter who tf it is, that bitch is going to voicemail. BUT, if they call again, especially if my parents, them I'm answering, cus ik it's important.
I was hooking up with a divorced mom in her earky 30’s for a while in my mid-20’s. I swear, she got off having sex with me while on the phone with her ex-husband. Only time I had to draw the line and stop was the one time he put the 5 year old kid on the phone to talk to mom. I couldn’t quite handle the idea of having sex while she talked to her kid
I mean, that can be fun, but with the pizza guy or your boss. I would draw the line at parents or children.
Mine didn't want me to stop during my fantasy baseball draft.. Now my team looks like shit
This is actually so hot to do but not with her dad on the phone! That is I've done it before but it was his boss on the line not a relative and it was 🔥🔥 to see him trying to focus on the call while I had him in my mouth 😈
She probably has a kink. Me personally that would turn me off especially if it's a family member. Also if it was me I wouldn't be able to concentrate I'd go soft.
It’s a pretty,,,I don’t want to say common, but heavily fetishized/used-in-media kink? It’s one of those things where you just need to have an honest conversation that it was icky for you. Sex and communication go hand in hand
Fun thing to have in the back of your mind the next time you’re on the phone with her and she doesn’t seem to want to get off.
I've been in the same situation before, a long time ago. My GF took a call from her mom (who was at work) and they talked for like 10 minutes
You never watched Naughty Allie huh OP...
Reminds of that Archer scene “I can do both”
With her dad it's really weird, but with a friend in something my gf also did with me.
At least it wasn’t her bf or husband
Maybe not dad at all and another person that she had call. You never know.
We’ve done it, but not with a relative or for 5 minutes! Usually it’s more of a 15 second convo with a receptionist confirming an appointment or something along those lines.
I think it is very common kink among girls, being dirty while acting normal on the phone, particularly with their daddy. I had a gf who would talk a lot with her family and I remember many times she was on the phone with her dad and giving me a hand job. I think this was her favorite thing to do. She would look into my eyes, push my pleasure buttons and as I was going crazy giving me hand gestures to be quiet and not moan. All the while talking to her dad in quite a normal fashion about mundane things. I have done it quite a few times as well being on the phone while receiving bj. It is a bit of a taboo that adds to the pleasure. I have had experience initiating things when the girl was on the phone as well, just doing things to her that normally makes her moan quite hard, it is a great tease. But honestly I am not sure what kind of sex you were having where you could continue and finish while she was on the phone. If it was me I would have continued but slowed down, just keep playing with her to keep things going, but keep the cum for after she is done with the phone and is fully engaged. I think you are taking it way too serious. It is a normal and common thing.
I mean, if she can hold a normal conversation for 5 minutes, are you even pleasuring her enough???….
I mean, if she can hold a normal conversation for 5 minutes, are you even pleasuring her enough???….
What’s weirder she didn’t want you to stop or the fact you could finish & finish on her while she’s saying ok dad that sounds great lmao. I woulda gave her clit hell to make her squirm & see how she liked it
I would not be able to last 5 minutes of conversation through sex, considering my bf gives me an orgasm a minute 😂 I guess it depends on the person
Loved to watch an amateur back in the day of a chick getting it doggy while on the phone with her mom. She was trying so hard to keep it together. She was telling mom they just got back from the beeeeeeeeeach and later they were going to get some suuuuuuuuuuuuubs for dinner. Good stuff.
That's what is called a "Keeper". Don't fuck this up by getting all squeamish, now.
I would have nailed that harder to make her get off the phone. Maybe that's what she wanted and you didn't get the job done
It might be a way for her to be rebellious against the parental figure.
I love teasing a partner and playing the can we be quiet enough game, but everyone should be into it. You always can say no and lean into that right.
I had an x girlfriend who would wait until I got on the phone before she would drop to her knees anywhere in the house LOL she got a kinky kink
bro is once again suffering from success 😞😞😞
I was dating a girl and we visited her family who were rather conservative. When they were out one day she’d just got out of the shower and had a towel wrapped around her and her phone in her hand. I ended up fucking her from behind up against the wall and her mum called. She answered and was just answering yes or no, her mum asked “are you ok? You sound out of breath” and she just said “yes… gotta go”. Anyway… it happens.
I have had sex with the girl on the phone many times. The most common is the girl blowing me while she's talking to someone on the phone. What makes your situation weird more so is that it was her dad. That's a little yikes.
Most likely it's a kink of hers. I used to hook up with an older woman that got off on ordering pizza while giving head. It was never something I would have thought of or asked to do, so I was bright red and embarassed as all hell listening to the pizza guy😂. He was not not only confused, but concerned because it sounded like she was choking😅. The Pizza Guy " ma'am are you alright???" Her : yeah.... I'm fine.... so yeah let's me get a *gawk gawk* pepperoni *gawk gawk* extra cheese". I whispered to her : "hang up hang up, I'm shy I'm losin my chub😅😅" Looking back it was super hot, and probably one of the funniest things I have ever witnessed I'd say ask her about it, if the kink actually involves the dad and not just the excitement of fooling around on the phone, run!
Honestly the idea sounds hot but actually doing it would turn me off
My ex-husband (boyfriend at the time) answered a call from his dad one time during sex, and I’m glad that he stopped then. I wasn’t happy that he answered the call, though, and that actually might’ve been the last time we ever had sex before I ended our relationship six years later. In your girlfriend’s case, maybe she was like my boyfriend and felt obligated to answer the call from her dad, which should set off some alarm bells, or maybe it is a kink. A call from one of your parents is different than one from, say, a friend or coworker.
I wouldn’t have been ok with that on either end.
For real that's straight weird I would've stopped immediately
Did you ever hear the saying "never fuck crazy?." It was named after this girl. Run my friend.
Tbf she gave you a wtf look to insinuate keep going. Which you did, and you finished. Which means she didn't remove your ability to stop, she implied she didn't want you to, in which case you were still in a situation of consent because you could have stopped as your preference would simply have been at odds with hers and that's where the sexual boundary of consent lies. People are allowed to want another a person to have sex with them, or continue in the activity, and the other person is equally allowed to say no. People aren't allowed to: engage or continue sexual activity when the other party has actively said no, or indicated *clearly* they don't want to. However, as always, communication is 99% of every intimate resolution, so talk to her, and if that's something you never want to participate in again say that's the case to her. If she does in future take a call whilst having sex and said communication above had happened, immediately stop your sexual interaction, and well, pretty much take action so far as you deem necessary in response to a clear pre sex boundary having now been breached. That's my two cents.
yeah some people are into that! personally idrc either way, i’d probably rather not have sex while on the phone with my parents but again, people are into different things. what matters is communication, if this isn’t something you want to do going forward definitely tell her but objectively this wouldn’t be close to the weirdest kink other there haha. i can see how it would be unexpected
I did that with my girlfriend once and it was so much fun. It was a Dr office call I think and her trying not to react audibly while getting eaten was so hot and fun.
I think that is normal, nothing wrong with this girl. but maybe leave the phones on other room next time having sex if u don't like being interrupted
Nah I love it. But it might not be for everyone. Was it because she involved a parent or it was because she was on the phone?
Me personally both would be a turn off but especially it being a parent. Maybe if it was a total Stanger or co worker
This happened in my early 20s. She was on top and kept going. It was fun watching her go to great effort to not sound like she was having sex while on the phone (she succeeded). She let go of her inhibitions when the phone call ended.
She must not respect her father. She has issues man. Run. She will not respect you either soon.
My ex did this once, I was attending a work call, i tried to cut short the call but he said keep talking, complete the conversation will getting in a few thrusts; hottest shit ever. I still get butterflies thinking about it xD
one time in hs my friend CALLED ME while she was having sex bc she has this kink or whatever. Needless to say, I heard more than she realized in the moment and we were no longer cool after that. it’s just gross. no one wants to hear you have sex.
Surprisingly none of the comments say this it’s always something about trauma..but I’m gonna tell you that’s a RED FLAG, it’s common, and they’re usually crazy n as soon as you piss them off in any type of way you’ll see why you shouldn’t have ignored that flag. Be aware.
She knows that was weird don’t let her run game on you..”gaslight”
Nah not when the dads on the line God damn.
I'm sorry but I can't get over the fact that you finished while she was on the phone with her dad. I can only imagine the awkwardness on both ends. #PhoneSexGoals #IGuess
Who even answers calls mid sex sesh?
For real sounds so rude
Yep, I like giving my FWB a blowjob while he’s on the phone. 🤷♀️
Daddy issues. *In a big way!*
I think her dad voice was turning her on while you were doing the job .. Runn!!!!
For real how does anyone stay turned on with their dad on the phone
It sounds like a kink. But I'm not going to lie. I just wouldn't have answered the phone.
For real answering the phone feels rude also awkward because of it being her dad
Jesus Christ, a lot of people here need a primer on consent, and a lesson on why someone might not want to involve their parents or their spouse’s indirectly with their sex life. Ew ew ew.
That's actually hot dude and a kink.
This is bizarre... just out of curiosity why didn't you stop?
Bruh for real that's so weird like I don't care what she says i would've stopped no matter who called but especially her dad
My fiance did something similar to me, her sister walked in her room while we were doing our thing so we both jumped under the covers real quick. And while her sister was in the room, my fiance was still playing with me under the blanket😂
You both went into unnecessary judgment there. A situation is never weird unless you feel it is weird. And someone is not weird for finding a situation weird unless you think he's weird. Anyways enough with that word, what I mean is a better way of bringing it would have been to express how it made YOU uncomfortable to have sex while she was talking to her dad because you felt it was intrusive or a lack of privacy. A better answer on her side would have been to understand you were not comfortable but telling you she views the situation differently. Maybe yiu could try to lean in her direction if you want to but in the end, you can choose not to have sex in a given situation and that right should prevail.
Bro, just ride the lightning.
she might have an exhibitionism kink. it's 100% normal if youre totally not into it idk why she was judgy about that bc wanting sex to be a private thing isnt weird at all. but if sometime in the future you're open to trying it again, make sure you find a bdsm group with someone who consents to being the one who's called! fucking in front of someone who doesn't consent is sexual assault.
I have a kink where I wanna have sex with my girl when she's on a work call.. and the reverse too, if I'm on a work call, I would love my girl to come blow me..
I think people are making too much about it, being her dad. She did not call him. She answered it could have been an important call. He did not say she got all hot and bothered. She did not tell her father what she was doing. She got a call he finished. I think the real question is if she is getting anything out of there sex?
OP- "I hated it and it was weird. Anyway, I came on her.." That made me giggle but joking aside, always remember to communicate with your partner and set boundaries and to say NO if you do not want to continue. If it made you uncomfortable, you should communicate that with her. If she doesn't respect it then it sounds like you may not be compatible as she doesn't respect your consent
This must be a female thing. I see it posted often. When I'm in the middle of sex and the phone rings, I could care less about that call. But like others noted, it is probably a kink of hers.
dude its fucking weird you continued and finished on her. like wtf
Kinky! But you chose to obey, so... also kinky.
Plot twist: it was her other boyfriend
I think its a kink for her. but if YOU’RE not comfortable, you HAVE to tell her that
I would've piped her out even harder
You have the right to say no if you're uncomfortable think about yourself first not the other person's pleasure.
This has been posted before which is weird.
Plot twist it was her sugar daddy. She was trying to make him jelly!
This isn't that uncommon, I've experienced this with a number of women in the past. The way some of these girls have explained it is that they wanted to keep going because it was feeling really good and they don't want to be left feeling frustrated, especially if you don't continue after they finish the phone call. That being said if you're just too uncomfortable with continuing while she's on the phone, then you need to talk to her about it and maybe reassure her that you'll pick up where you left off and make sure that she's not left frustrated because you felt too uncomfortable to continue while she's on the phone.