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i think you should pay some doctor a visit, cuz thats not supposed to happen, not with every lube at least
if you are worried that you cant make all of that on time (doc appointment + right treatment) until you meet your gf, you dont have to use lube at all, you can just get her reeeeally wet with much of foreplay and theres your lube :) (also spit works just fine)
if everything else fails you should be able to talk it out with your gf she should understand you
Try coconut oil, they sell a big bottle of always liquid stuff at walmart for 16 bucks. I put it in a soap dispenser.
It CANT be used with condoms but other than that I have not noticed any issues - both my toys are 2 years old and look great and I use coconut oil every time.
I feel my vaginal health has improved since using it.
Look at Good Clean Love and maybe get a sampler. "Almost Naked" or "Bionude" might work for you. They're water-based but they list the ingredients and pH on the website.
It's not clear to me what genders everyone is, but I'm just gonna toss out there that you should never use anything on a vulva/vagina that isn't designed specifically for internal use.
I know people with penises are often happy to use whatever decreases friction for solo play, like shampoo or whatever, which is typically fine because there is a lot less mucus membrane exposed with a penis. Nothing like that can be used safely with the vulva/vagina.
I am allergic to most water based lubricants. Coconut oil works but oil based lubricants cannot be used with condoms. Oil based can be used with silicone toys though.
You need a good toy cleaner. I use wicked foaming toy cleaner and it works well to get the toy clean.
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i think you should pay some doctor a visit, cuz thats not supposed to happen, not with every lube at least if you are worried that you cant make all of that on time (doc appointment + right treatment) until you meet your gf, you dont have to use lube at all, you can just get her reeeeally wet with much of foreplay and theres your lube :) (also spit works just fine) if everything else fails you should be able to talk it out with your gf she should understand you
Try coconut oil, they sell a big bottle of always liquid stuff at walmart for 16 bucks. I put it in a soap dispenser. It CANT be used with condoms but other than that I have not noticed any issues - both my toys are 2 years old and look great and I use coconut oil every time. I feel my vaginal health has improved since using it.
Plus if it isnt great you an use it for cooking lol
Look at Good Clean Love and maybe get a sampler. "Almost Naked" or "Bionude" might work for you. They're water-based but they list the ingredients and pH on the website.
Can you post the specific names of the lubes you used and/or their full ingredients lists?
Durex "feel" (body friendly and gentle formula) Me You Us "natural slix" and then Me You Us "glycerin free".
Aloe Vera body moisturiser by this one korean company works too (I used it as lube…)
It's not clear to me what genders everyone is, but I'm just gonna toss out there that you should never use anything on a vulva/vagina that isn't designed specifically for internal use. I know people with penises are often happy to use whatever decreases friction for solo play, like shampoo or whatever, which is typically fine because there is a lot less mucus membrane exposed with a penis. Nothing like that can be used safely with the vulva/vagina.
Shampoo is a no go, I tried before it can burn.
sliquid brand lubes are good. I like the silk version. it does have silicone. But if you have a quality toy it won't degrade it.
I am allergic to most water based lubricants. Coconut oil works but oil based lubricants cannot be used with condoms. Oil based can be used with silicone toys though. You need a good toy cleaner. I use wicked foaming toy cleaner and it works well to get the toy clean.
Have you tried returning them? Idk if it’s possible to do that but I have issues with sunscreen burning my eyes. I just take them back
I'd suggest talking to a doctor about an allergy test. They should be able to pinpoint what you're sensitive to.