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My wife and I love to cuddle naked specially after having sex. There are lots of times that we’d just cuddle naked in bed or on our sofa, before we had kids, and personally, it’s a huge turn on for the both of us. She would tell me that she’s getting wet and I’d slowly get a hard on. Feel so sexy. It’s not weird one bit.
My wife had to explain to me why she would usually have a panty on when she came back after her post sex bathroom trip. When she told me it was because she'd get wet from just cuddling & snuggling, skin to skin, I was blown away! I didn't realize she was so "into" me that just being held would make her wet all over again! It was definitely a green flag!
I mean, he's the reason for it, so why would he be upset about it? Unless he's not very bright or has some sort of OCD about his sheets, this is a huge compliment. In my head, to me, as a man.
Not a bad smell, you have to get this out of your system that this is somehow a bad thing. Imagine smelling your favourite food, and you just feel hungry all of a sudden. When you smell it, you get horny. It’s not a strong smell but you notice it.
>But Isn’t it weird when he reaches down there for a second round or just to teaseim already soaked?
Weird? Not in the least. It is incredibly sexy and a huge turn on, would have me hard in an instant feeling how hot my girl is for me 🙂👍
Usually I think they’d like that! Don’t worry about your natural self, it is perfect as is. If it’s uncomfortable for you, you can wear underwear like someone else said. But don’t let a fear hold you back from being yourself!
I guarantee he will literally pop a boner from feeling how wet you are. Men love to be desired and in the “dirtiest” ways. As when we thing it’s gross bc we are always taught to be a certain way or look or present ourselves a certain way. But my boyfriend LOVES when I’m turned on or lives when we’re cuddling and he puts his knee between my legs and I’m wet. He loves it. Trust me. You’re insecurities will be your biggest hang up. He likes you and your body. Trust that and love your body too!
Agreed, when my wife straddles my leg/knee and she’s that wet I raise my leg up so she can grind against it, while that is going on I give her juicy ass a spanking and it just makes her wetter 👍
No, it’s actually a bigger turn on when you know that she’s still soaked or that you’re making her that wet. It’s not weird at all because then you know you can just grab her basically put her on top of you and started that way because you know she’s already wet enough and usually while laying there with my girl, I would always get hard again and that’s usually when we started again And a lot of times when I knew she was so guess what I did instead of her being half my body, I would put her fully on my body and then she would put her top
That’s the best, if the wife and I are cuddling and kissing afterwards and she’s soaking wet she will usually spoon her gorgeous ass right up to my throbbing cock and just slide it right in to her pussy… she loves to grab it and squeeze, it’s like she’s giving me a hand job with her pussy, she’s been so wet from it that she’ll tell me to get the Shibari silicone lube, at that point once I’m all slicked up she will guide me straight into her luscious ass to finish me off… what can I say… things get juicy
Weird? No. Will he maybe be surprised the first time? Maybe. Only maybe. But it'd be a good surprise 1000%. Imagine if you were thinking "Maybe he'd be ready for round 2 already if I tease him a bit" and when you reached for him he was hard as he's ever been. If you think that'd be a turn on, I can tell you that for any decent guy it works the same way for them. He'll just be happy you're so into him.
I had a gf like this. She got excited very easily and simple stuff like petting her hair or cuddling got her turned on. When she got turned on, I got turned on. Spooning would immediately turn into forking.
We just ended up having sex a lot.
It is quite annoying but I told him about it. I said ever since I met you my v is always super wet especially because I flirt with him so much. I say things that make him respond, damn woman lol. So I'm always wiping lmao. I go through lots of underwear and when I'm with him, I keep tissue in the room so I don't have to keep getting up. I mean, he laughed and said, well that's a good thing. Sure it is for him but we have to keep getting cleaned up. I look at it as if you stay ready, you don't have to get ready. We're always ready.
>I look at it as if you stay ready, you don't have to get ready. We're always ready.
This. This right here. 🥹🧡
Its fun and comforting knowing that you make someone feel so safe and comfy that they can be vulnerable around you. And horny as balls at the same time without feeling shame like "Ope. Sorry!! I'm getting a boner!! 🫣"
😂 the teary eyed emoji is killing me lmao. Hey I enjoy sex with him in a way I never have before. And I stay tryna make him hard. That’s another thing that makes me feel comfortable. It’s not hard at all to make him hard. That makes me even wetter. I wish this for everyone lol.
>Hey I enjoy sex with him in a way I never have before.
Good. Good keep that energy. 😆🖤
>And I stay tryna make him hard.
That's so evil and I love it. 😶🖤
>It’s not hard at all to make him hard.
FUCKING SAME!!!!!!! 🤣 All she has to do is run her fingers up my arm some days and I'm immediately rock hard and blushing red as a tomato. 😅
>That makes me even wetter. I wish this for everyone lol.
Likewise!!!!! It's why we're all on this sub!!!! 🧡🧡🧡
Oh yeah, those things. I haven’t purchased pads, pantry liners in so long. Probably since I was a teenager, damn. I literally forgot about them. Thanks.
I love when this happens with my wife. Somethign abiut how wet she gets blows my mind and I feel such a huge sense of satisfaction. I guess its the aspect that she is so turned on by me that she can't help it.
I wouldn't worry about this one bit as he is a very lucky man and I am sure he knows it!
It's hard for me to cuddle with my wife naked for this reason. I get so turned on by her naked body that my brain immediately goes ungu bunga mode, and all the blood flows down stream.
We do aftercare, but even when I can't go a 2nd round, cuddling naked makes me want to.
My wife rarely gets "soaked" unless we're actually getting down and doing it. Meanwhile, she'll try and pass by me, and her butt will rub against my penis and I'll get a wiff of her hair, and I'll have to excuse myself to calm down.
Are you kidding me!
If I was cuddling my so (naked), and she got wet, that would be so freaking sexy, and the biggest turn on.
If I noticed, you could bet your wet pussy I would get harder than granite in a second.
Don’t be embarrassed about it, your so would take it as a huge compliment. Own it. No need to go clean up, unless it makes YOU uncomfortable.
As a 40 f I had/have the same problem. I used to be embarrassed by this when I was young. Believe me ...I should never have.
Now it's definitely an advantage at my age.
Man love this btw.
Honestly, a towel is probably your best option, or buying one of those water proof blankets to cuddle on. Don't worry about your guy. He may take it as a sign that you need another round or three with him. He won't mind.
I just do. We finish and he cleans up and I relax and put some panties on usually just cause I don’t like to sleep totally naked and I usually keep dripping for a while and I sometimes find that I will drip in the wee hours. Then we just cuddle
As men, we love it and definitely don’t find it weird at all.
As a woman, I’m sure you love the idea of your partner already being hard for or when with you. It’s the same with us when our female partners are wet.
Isn’t there a famous saying that goes something like this: a woman has to be like earth, always wet and moist! He is a lucky guy. I’m sure he’ll take it as a compliment if you tell him that your body is revved up when he is around. Keep a face cloth size towel around the bed if you have to dry up a bit but I wouldn’t if I were you! It’s a blessing.
I absolutely love skin to skin contact with my boyfriend. I took my clothes off and so did he and it was so romantic and I instantly got wet. I always ask him to feel my vagina to see how wet that I am and it feels so good when he rubs it and fingers it. Skin to skin contact really relaxes me as well
This guy I dated likes naked cuddles. It was awkward at first 😂.
Like you, I overthink about being always wet. I have asked this before on a different sub and majority of the guys don’t mind. He didn’t mind. So, I stopped worrying about it.
My answer is diffeeent from what populate, but I think it’s okay. I never cuddle without at least underwear on. I am a person who discharges a lot more than average. (Don’t worry, I’ve been checked out multiple times and it’s totally normal according to my doctors) It makes it very uncomfortable for me to be without some kind of “protection” so to speak. I don’t think there is anything wrong with wearing some panties, but ultimately it’s between what you and your partner are comfortable with
It’s normal.
I used to be insecure about this too when I was with my late partner. Your body is comfortable with him, perhaps too comfortable with him. Which isn’t a bad thing. After engaging in passionate sex, it’s silly to worry about bodily fluids afterwards. Of course, always pee after sex to avoid UTIs. My late partner loved that I was wet in his presence. I dare say it inflated his ego. While it may have led to round two, he still loved it if round two didn’t happen. I just loved him so much and even non sexual intimacy triggered got my body going. It was because it was him.
He would often get hard with me during non sexual moments simply because it was me.
Not a man, but my man seems to love it 🤷🏻♀️
I usually end up grinding on his thigh while we cuddle like that because I'm just so attracted to him and he makes me feel so safe and stuff. Ugh, I love him💖
He just tends to hold onto me and kiss me until he can't hold back anymore (and then, I'm in *danger* 😌)
Ahh, my wife is there too, some of her older friends have talked about drying up, my wife hasn’t hit that point yet, still just as wet as she was when younger, we do use additional lube at times, but for her, a little rough play and a good spanking and it’s like she’s 18 again… she calls it her “Super Soaker” 🤷♂️
Why do you have to keep cleaning up?
I used to always be completely soaked if spooning with my partner but.... I just let it be. We wash our sheets enough :)
omg yes, same “problem” haha
I went to visit my friend one week, and I swear I was all hot and bothered from the minute we made the plans… the drive to his city was excruciating because I could just feel myself getting more wet the closer I got 😂
I definitely bring extra extra panties whenever I visit or travel with him.
I was a bit self conscious this last time because during the cuddling I had the same thing happen, but I just forced myself to stop thinking about it and just went with it 🤷♀️
I can't speak for all men but I would say most men would love to have A woman that was that hot for her man. I've only estranged it once and it was fucking awesome. I can make her come just by rubbing my fingers on the inside of her thigh driving down the road. Don't overthink this
We honestly don’t care about that. might end up going again just because she’s still hot n ready lol still gon cuddle. Put a pillow between your legs. Or his meat
If I’m being honest, us men don’t care about that. But it sounds like him being around you fires up the hot tub. If it really makes you self conscious try a pillow or a sheet betwixt your legs. Y’all might just end up going again.
I have no refrac period, so it usually just leads to more sex every time we cuddle naked again, until we finally decide to put on underwear 😂
Sometimes even that doesn’t work.
Just do it the way man was intended to.
Completely naked in a garden somewhere with every animal in existence watching. :D
For realsies though, that's so cute. Just do it. 🥹
It might just be because you equate nakedness with your partner with sexy times. Eventually you may be able to seperate the two, so you can enjoy the intimacy of naked cuddles without that issue.
He’d usually take anything off if I wear it. And cuddle so tight.
someone said in the comments that people should just ask their partners. We are still in the shy stage (im specifically)Even if he tries to communicate about stuff I just get so shy and I can’t find word. I know I need to work on that but it’s my very first time. Still not fully comfortable with these. Just writing here instead of separate comments.
Someone also said people are getting too comfortable in internet and doing some foolishness, well I can’t really talk about these with people around me. So good thing about Reddit it’s anonymous, and you get help from strangers if you don’t have anyone in your life to talk about these! 🙌🏻❤️
As soon as my partner cuddles up behind me and his dick is pressed up against my ass, I get instantly wet. Everything gets so wet, he loves it and always makes a point of telling me how wet I am and how he loves it.
I used to sleep in my panties and bra around someone who I was fwb at the time and I was always wet bc in his sleep he would be half asleep and reach to touch me. In the mornings he would touch my body when we would first wake up and it made me wet like that but he never had a problem over it so I think your good.
Body fluids are normal. Being wet is sexy, nothing to be ashamed of.
Simply make a habit of a more frequent bedsheet change, and maybe a shower in the morning, if you're disturbed by it, though it might dry up naturally until then.
I guess you could imagine how you’d feel if you were cuddling naked skin to skin with a dude you were super attracted to and he just had a raging boner, even leaking precum. Like a lot… more than usual. Not like a medically significant amount or anything, just enough that you know he’s super turned on.
Would you feel that would be gross or weird?
I have this with my partner. He loves naked cuddles, but I hesitated because I get very wet. He had to tell him that he loves it, and just because I'm wet doesn't mean it'll have to lead to sex. Sometimes he likes to put his leg or penis between my legs, sometimes he'll insert himself but not move around. He just loves the intimacy and closeness of it.
My partner does this and I wake up cleaning her juices off my leg hair but I enjoy it so much doing that because never in my life would have I thought a girl would feel wet around me.
A couple times things if it was for the night where we were done because one of mine and my exes favorites was to cuddle naked after sex
because you have the greatest conversations and it’s just such a good feeling being skinny skin so if it was right after sex and we figured there was gonna be another round we were just there should be and it would get on me and I really didn’t care at this moment
because I get back and then we change the sheets and it was at the end of the night when she was knew she was done having sex for the night she was going to the bathroom washup washing between her legs. She put a pair of panties on, but no. Top that was when I would change the sheets real quick while she was in the bathroom because she’d be in there for like 10 minutes and then we cuddle for the rest of the night.
I mean when you were like truly in love with someone while you were in that part of your relationship, sometimes it feels almost as good laying there and naked with the girl on top of you with her head on your chest, stroke your guy and stroke the girls hair as you guys talk and laugh And the purest conversations come out that way no lies come out. It’s like the cause you’re not even thinking you just talking and that’s about your partner..
Guy loves you. He isn’t gonna care especially if he knows it’s gonna happen again laying there with you if it’s wet it’s not gonna bother if you don’t wanna clean up and you’re nervous about the wetness keep a towel near the bed. Just put a towel like right in between you guys, so but like I never cared when her wetness would get all over my thigh and leg and private area .
Just remember one thing no bigger complement for a guy and no thing that makes a guy happier is to know that he turns his girl on so much that she’s wet before starting anything I had one girl that was like that with me where I mean, we would just start to kiss and she gets soaked and you know what I mean we never got into an argument never got self-conscious that she didn’t like me that much or wasn’t attracted to me because she was always wet and that’s what a guy can get a girl that’s the girl really into maybe that’s that was that girl was the one my true love in my life.
I always got more upset myself or weirded out when I was with a girl and she was just completely bone dry down there and I really would have to work at getting her even a little bit wet that she doesn’t attract
Would be like soaked or wet I knew she was really attracted to me and she really loved me because Sexi when you love someone is even more intense and I think that’s why she was my greatest love of my life even over my ex-wife
That sounds nice, actually!
I can’t really relate cuz I have been with my partner for so long that nudity is just natural by this point. It’s not automatically sexual and it doesn’t automatically suggest “sexy time.”
Cuz we’ve also had our ups and downs simply due to “real life being stressful/ difficult,” his chronic physical illness (diabetes,) and my chronic mental illness (ADHD, Depression, PMDD, mostly controlled cPTSD,) so we have expressed a certain level of vulnerability with each other that transcends the normal human appetite.
There’s also other stuff like my mental health struggles and birth control. Cuz he also has depression and anxiety, I have PMDD and things like cPTSD which get worse and increase the chances of emotional dysregulation / flashback episodes at the end of my cycle, so I need hormone birth control to “not be crazy,” but it has absolutely torpedoed my libido as a result.
Meaning sex really only happens when there is explicit communication that “we are going to do this thing.” I would not be likely to get wet just from “lying naked with my partner.”
So OP’s situation sounds really nice, actually! Like a different kind of intimacy and it sounds pretty fun! Meaning I don’t think you have anything to be embarrassed about. Please enjoy it on behalf of those of us who cannot!
Cuz, realistically, all of the health stuff aside, I also don’t think that I’ve ever felt as sexually attracted to literally any other human being as OP is making it sound like she is attracted to her partner, so I have no idea what that’s like and it sounds pretty awesome!
I stopped fighting it! I’ll go to the bathroom and clean up as much as I can after, but once I lay down to cuddle I’m not getting up. My partner will quickly wipe/clean me every once in a while to take care of whatever else makes its way out. Maybe I’m spoiled because my boyfriend is the best!
I totally get it, it’s annoying if you’re trying to go to bed and not have sex again. But I’m literally wet all the time and I love that I’m wet for him all the time but at the same time it can be annoying. I keep a stack of tissues or rags (old tshirt I cut up that we use as cum rags or for my wetness)
Yes, my fiancee and I do this often. Skin-to-skin contact is wonderful. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have to have sex. It’s just a nice way to connect.
Just put a small rag between your legs, I have a basket of clean rags next to the bed mainly for post sex clean up and it is so convenient to have them there.
Im the same and its only a little annoying for me after weve already had sex and im tuckered out and dont want another round so i’ll sometimes just wear seamless thongs bc theyre comfy and dont feel like i have anything on but they still contain… the mess.. lol
I agree that if the wetness is from being turned on, then lean into it. For me, when I am done, there is moisture released from the tissue being swollen. That should be cleaned up. Keeping a roll of toilet paper by the bed is not a bad idea. And for me if it was a really active night the rolling down my thigh is not a pleasant feeling, so I wear underwear. Maybe not all night but until it subsides.
So I NEVER cuddled naked with a boyfriend before. Even in a decade long relationship, never ever cuddled naked. I wasn't comfortable with being naked, and he simply didn't like to cuddle. That's over, for many reasons.
My current boyfriend - whoa. The first time we had sex, I immediately started getting up to put clothes on, and he got this concerned look and asked "But what about naked cuddle time?!" He introduced me to it, it led to other stuff, and now I look forward to it. I definitely get wet cuddling him, and he is THRILLED. Yes, it's mildly uncomfortable when I'm wet and it's just...there. But when we're done cuddling, I just head to the bathroom, clean up anything, and ensure to wear a pantyliner in my underwear. It makes it significantly more comfortable, and I'll often return to bed for more cuddles, just with my underwear and pantyliner on.
That's the way I am with my current partner and I cherish it. It hasn't been the same with everyone, but it's a gift when it is and I hope you both enjoy it.
fwiw neither of my partners are on BC and one is actively trying to get pregnant with her husband (condoms ftw, worst part is they make the sex take longer, oh what a horror /s) so as a rule we don't cuddle fully naked. i'd just throw on panties because you're still getting a ton of skin to skin contact on the torsos anyway you'll basically get the same oxytocin hit
I love skin to skin cuddles so much. Not in a sexual way. It just feels so nice and to bound with them. I think its significantly different on a scientific level because doctors encourage parents to have lots of skin to skin contact with new borns.
I am a very touch orientated person. Naked, or at least shirts off cuddles is more important to me than sex. It is a need, that dont think I could do a relationship without.
lol… being a man not sure what to say but I have to accept the fact that , that touch and feel won’t let me sleep…. Specially if it’s new to you, once you get use to it, you find yourself comfortable and more relaxed.
I don't think this is an issue. You don't get as wet as you think.
If you feel really self-conscious, I'd suggest talking to your partner. It should show you their real feelings and perhaps clear your doubts.
When my skin touches my skin (or someone else’s skin) it drip. So I have to wear underwear, I can’t sleep naked or it get wet between my thigh.
That’s why I can’t wear tank top neither.
That’s weird cause it can be 35 celcius outside and I won’t break a sweat while everyone around are dripping from their face and bodies. But no matter the temps if I wear a shirt that doesn’t prevent my skin to touch my skin it drip. I’m glad I have a thigh gap, so I can wear shorts. But if I’m leaning on my side to sleep this doesn’t works lol
It’s normal. I just say I have to sop up my vagina and then I wipe up any wetness if necessary.
Bodies require maintenance and cleaning. It’s part of being human.
I love cuddling naked with my partner too. I get so fkn turned on for him too. I'm so addicted to him even when he's not doing nothing. I'm a freak for him, I want him all the time. 🙈
After you’ve already done it, it’s probably cum leaking out. I’ve heard of using those teeny tampons (like in the ob variety pack) to keep clothes clean.
I'll add to this because I have a differing opinion. I love my fiance, I love her body, and I love that she chooses to share it with me. But I'm on the spectrum and the sticky feeling of skin to skin after sex is too much for me. I can't stand the feeling of the sweat sticking our bodies together.
That's not to say I don't respect aftercare. I'll get her a towel (that's all she wants/prefers), I'll clean up and put a shirt and my boxers on and then we will snuggle the rest of the night until morning.
She usually stays naked which I enjoy. She usually stays wet as well, partially because we are TTC. We don't mind in the slightest. Sex is messy, but messy is fun. No need to be ashamed about how your body reacts.
There's like ten different systems that can make you wet down there...is this happening post sex without arousal? Because you could just be causing light damage to the vaginal tissues and the self lubricating is for healing up.
It could be glands excreting trapped oils and sweats.
It could just be you are ovulating at that particular time.
All this being said, do you experience excessive wetness at other times, without sexual arousal? If so you could just have glands that like to work extra.
Is it getting normal on internet that people have started discussing their sex lives too much on these apps most of them are just doing foolish things by discussing these things
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My wife and I love to cuddle naked specially after having sex. There are lots of times that we’d just cuddle naked in bed or on our sofa, before we had kids, and personally, it’s a huge turn on for the both of us. She would tell me that she’s getting wet and I’d slowly get a hard on. Feel so sexy. It’s not weird one bit.
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My wife had to explain to me why she would usually have a panty on when she came back after her post sex bathroom trip. When she told me it was because she'd get wet from just cuddling & snuggling, skin to skin, I was blown away! I didn't realize she was so "into" me that just being held would make her wet all over again! It was definitely a green flag!
That's probably sexy I think, for me as a man, and I dnt think you have to overthink about it.
But Isn’t it weird when he reaches down there for a second round or just to teaseim already soaked?
No, at all, from my POV, I don't think that would be weird, it's the opposite 😅, a soaked pussy is a big turn on for most men.
Good to know that, thanks! 🙌🏻
Even if it is not a turn on, a soaked pussy is a (big) compliment for a men.
Agree 1000% with this.
However, since men are simple creatures, you might have to point out this facr
I promise (for me at least) it's like a compliment when. We reach down and everything is already moving.
I mean, he's the reason for it, so why would he be upset about it? Unless he's not very bright or has some sort of OCD about his sheets, this is a huge compliment. In my head, to me, as a man.
To add to this, we can smell it too, definitely a good thing. Also guys can be like this too.
Wait what! 😵💫 like if it smells bad then you guys can smell it? Or like in general? How that works?
Not a bad smell, you have to get this out of your system that this is somehow a bad thing. Imagine smelling your favourite food, and you just feel hungry all of a sudden. When you smell it, you get horny. It’s not a strong smell but you notice it.
gimme every thingyou GATT
You can say that again.
>But Isn’t it weird when he reaches down there for a second round or just to teaseim already soaked? Weird? Not in the least. It is incredibly sexy and a huge turn on, would have me hard in an instant feeling how hot my girl is for me 🙂👍
Would you find it weird to reach down and find him hard?
No it isn't wierd. It's hot. Don't worry about it. I'm sure he finds it hot as well. It's like a very visual indication of how much he turns you on.
You're kidding, right? That is so fucking hot. Reaching between your partner's legs and they've been waiting for you?
That’s the last thing I would consider weird!
Hell no. Knowing that just being in contact with me makes my partner wet is a huge turn on.
Nope, it’s hot AF. No dude worth your time will ever tell you that you got wet too easily.
That sounds like dudes would be into it -- who doesn't love their partner's arousal? If a guy makes you feel judged for that, that'd be a bad sign.
Haha that’s what he wants to feel
personally I'd find that hot. Not weird at all
Not at all. It’s hot.
no completely opposite. knowing someone is soaked or dripping for you is nothing short of amazing
Thats not weird at all in fact we love it. If anything just grab his hand and slowly move it to feel how wet you are and he'll definitely love it
Usually I think they’d like that! Don’t worry about your natural self, it is perfect as is. If it’s uncomfortable for you, you can wear underwear like someone else said. But don’t let a fear hold you back from being yourself!
Not at all, it means both of you are having a great time
As a queer woman who has sex with folks with vaginas, no, it's not awkward. It's awesome.
As an enby who dates people with vaginas I’m here to agree, definitely wish this would happen to me with a partner OP lol
I guarantee he will literally pop a boner from feeling how wet you are. Men love to be desired and in the “dirtiest” ways. As when we thing it’s gross bc we are always taught to be a certain way or look or present ourselves a certain way. But my boyfriend LOVES when I’m turned on or lives when we’re cuddling and he puts his knee between my legs and I’m wet. He loves it. Trust me. You’re insecurities will be your biggest hang up. He likes you and your body. Trust that and love your body too!
Agreed, when my wife straddles my leg/knee and she’s that wet I raise my leg up so she can grind against it, while that is going on I give her juicy ass a spanking and it just makes her wetter 👍
Enjoy it while it lasts. I'm 30 and I wish I had this problem lmao.
No. Not weird at all. To the contrary, it makes us pleased.
No, it’s actually a bigger turn on when you know that she’s still soaked or that you’re making her that wet. It’s not weird at all because then you know you can just grab her basically put her on top of you and started that way because you know she’s already wet enough and usually while laying there with my girl, I would always get hard again and that’s usually when we started again And a lot of times when I knew she was so guess what I did instead of her being half my body, I would put her fully on my body and then she would put her top
That’s the best, if the wife and I are cuddling and kissing afterwards and she’s soaking wet she will usually spoon her gorgeous ass right up to my throbbing cock and just slide it right in to her pussy… she loves to grab it and squeeze, it’s like she’s giving me a hand job with her pussy, she’s been so wet from it that she’ll tell me to get the Shibari silicone lube, at that point once I’m all slicked up she will guide me straight into her luscious ass to finish me off… what can I say… things get juicy
Weird? No. Will he maybe be surprised the first time? Maybe. Only maybe. But it'd be a good surprise 1000%. Imagine if you were thinking "Maybe he'd be ready for round 2 already if I tease him a bit" and when you reached for him he was hard as he's ever been. If you think that'd be a turn on, I can tell you that for any decent guy it works the same way for them. He'll just be happy you're so into him.
What!? Hell no, that’s lovely and amazing!
No lol girl what man don’t like a wet kitty?? Esp if he tryna touch it lol
Noooo.. it's extremely hot
No, that's a good thing!
I had a gf like this. She got excited very easily and simple stuff like petting her hair or cuddling got her turned on. When she got turned on, I got turned on. Spooning would immediately turn into forking. We just ended up having sex a lot.
It is quite annoying but I told him about it. I said ever since I met you my v is always super wet especially because I flirt with him so much. I say things that make him respond, damn woman lol. So I'm always wiping lmao. I go through lots of underwear and when I'm with him, I keep tissue in the room so I don't have to keep getting up. I mean, he laughed and said, well that's a good thing. Sure it is for him but we have to keep getting cleaned up. I look at it as if you stay ready, you don't have to get ready. We're always ready.
>I look at it as if you stay ready, you don't have to get ready. We're always ready. This. This right here. 🥹🧡 Its fun and comforting knowing that you make someone feel so safe and comfy that they can be vulnerable around you. And horny as balls at the same time without feeling shame like "Ope. Sorry!! I'm getting a boner!! 🫣"
😂 the teary eyed emoji is killing me lmao. Hey I enjoy sex with him in a way I never have before. And I stay tryna make him hard. That’s another thing that makes me feel comfortable. It’s not hard at all to make him hard. That makes me even wetter. I wish this for everyone lol.
>Hey I enjoy sex with him in a way I never have before. Good. Good keep that energy. 😆🖤 >And I stay tryna make him hard. That's so evil and I love it. 😶🖤 >It’s not hard at all to make him hard. FUCKING SAME!!!!!!! 🤣 All she has to do is run her fingers up my arm some days and I'm immediately rock hard and blushing red as a tomato. 😅 >That makes me even wetter. I wish this for everyone lol. Likewise!!!!! It's why we're all on this sub!!!! 🧡🧡🧡
Damn that’s hot, Not annoying at all!
Insert hulk avengers meme...
Use a panty liner instead of going through so many underwear and washing them all.
Oh yeah, those things. I haven’t purchased pads, pantry liners in so long. Probably since I was a teenager, damn. I literally forgot about them. Thanks.
Honestly? I see no reason to keep cleaning up. Just let it happen. If you get wet, you get wet. No harm done.
id also strongly recommend you tell him he's making you wet in the moment. will turn him on and make him feel like a sex god!
I love when this happens with my wife. Somethign abiut how wet she gets blows my mind and I feel such a huge sense of satisfaction. I guess its the aspect that she is so turned on by me that she can't help it. I wouldn't worry about this one bit as he is a very lucky man and I am sure he knows it!
It's hard for me to cuddle with my wife naked for this reason. I get so turned on by her naked body that my brain immediately goes ungu bunga mode, and all the blood flows down stream. We do aftercare, but even when I can't go a 2nd round, cuddling naked makes me want to. My wife rarely gets "soaked" unless we're actually getting down and doing it. Meanwhile, she'll try and pass by me, and her butt will rub against my penis and I'll get a wiff of her hair, and I'll have to excuse myself to calm down.
Are you kidding me! If I was cuddling my so (naked), and she got wet, that would be so freaking sexy, and the biggest turn on. If I noticed, you could bet your wet pussy I would get harder than granite in a second. Don’t be embarrassed about it, your so would take it as a huge compliment. Own it. No need to go clean up, unless it makes YOU uncomfortable.
As a 40 f I had/have the same problem. I used to be embarrassed by this when I was young. Believe me ...I should never have. Now it's definitely an advantage at my age. Man love this btw.
Sounds like you and him have a connection that is out of this world, don't worry about it, put a towel down and enjoy the feelings.
I love skin on skin hard nipples touching each. The thought of getting wet is a huge turn
Honestly, a towel is probably your best option, or buying one of those water proof blankets to cuddle on. Don't worry about your guy. He may take it as a sign that you need another round or three with him. He won't mind.
I just do. We finish and he cleans up and I relax and put some panties on usually just cause I don’t like to sleep totally naked and I usually keep dripping for a while and I sometimes find that I will drip in the wee hours. Then we just cuddle
As a man, sometimes it’s just as good as sex. Intimacy is intimacy.
Soaking wet! Is head time baby!!
As men, we love it and definitely don’t find it weird at all. As a woman, I’m sure you love the idea of your partner already being hard for or when with you. It’s the same with us when our female partners are wet.
Just goo on him girl
Aw wow, lucky him! Don't tell him, it might go to his head lol
Which one we talking about?
Isn’t there a famous saying that goes something like this: a woman has to be like earth, always wet and moist! He is a lucky guy. I’m sure he’ll take it as a compliment if you tell him that your body is revved up when he is around. Keep a face cloth size towel around the bed if you have to dry up a bit but I wouldn’t if I were you! It’s a blessing.
A soaked woman is the hottest thing ever. Enjoy it and use it wisely.
I absolutely love skin to skin contact with my boyfriend. I took my clothes off and so did he and it was so romantic and I instantly got wet. I always ask him to feel my vagina to see how wet that I am and it feels so good when he rubs it and fingers it. Skin to skin contact really relaxes me as well
This guy I dated likes naked cuddles. It was awkward at first 😂. Like you, I overthink about being always wet. I have asked this before on a different sub and majority of the guys don’t mind. He didn’t mind. So, I stopped worrying about it.
My answer is diffeeent from what populate, but I think it’s okay. I never cuddle without at least underwear on. I am a person who discharges a lot more than average. (Don’t worry, I’ve been checked out multiple times and it’s totally normal according to my doctors) It makes it very uncomfortable for me to be without some kind of “protection” so to speak. I don’t think there is anything wrong with wearing some panties, but ultimately it’s between what you and your partner are comfortable with
It’s normal. I used to be insecure about this too when I was with my late partner. Your body is comfortable with him, perhaps too comfortable with him. Which isn’t a bad thing. After engaging in passionate sex, it’s silly to worry about bodily fluids afterwards. Of course, always pee after sex to avoid UTIs. My late partner loved that I was wet in his presence. I dare say it inflated his ego. While it may have led to round two, he still loved it if round two didn’t happen. I just loved him so much and even non sexual intimacy triggered got my body going. It was because it was him. He would often get hard with me during non sexual moments simply because it was me.
Idk but cuddling completely naked is amazing
Not a man, but my man seems to love it 🤷🏻♀️ I usually end up grinding on his thigh while we cuddle like that because I'm just so attracted to him and he makes me feel so safe and stuff. Ugh, I love him💖 He just tends to hold onto me and kiss me until he can't hold back anymore (and then, I'm in *danger* 😌)
I consider it very sexy, my fiance considers it very sticky as eventually we sweat (especially me)
You are a dream girl
You sound like a keeper! Lucky guy. Put your leg over his, let those juices flow.
I don’t think he’ll like it 😬 he isn’t that freaky. What if he finds it gross that my fluids touching him 🤧
This is starting to feel like satire.
Crying in perimenopause. 😆 Those were the days!
Ahh, my wife is there too, some of her older friends have talked about drying up, my wife hasn’t hit that point yet, still just as wet as she was when younger, we do use additional lube at times, but for her, a little rough play and a good spanking and it’s like she’s 18 again… she calls it her “Super Soaker” 🤷♂️
As a guy, this is awesome. Absolutely no need to overthink it or think it’s weird. I promise.
That's just HOT! Every guy would get off knowing that kind of horny.
As a man who loves this I can say I absolutely love to feel the wetness of my wifey when we cuddle afterwards ❤️❤️❤️
Why do you have to keep cleaning up? I used to always be completely soaked if spooning with my partner but.... I just let it be. We wash our sheets enough :)
Why don’t people ever just talk to their partner about how they feel about it.
You don’t need to go all the way to the bathroom, just keep some tissues within reach of the bed and wipe yourself off if you want to
Guy here same way just think it’s a strong lubricant from sex attraction
Definitely very sexy.It's been a while since my wife does this,but when she did,she wore just panties...
The wetter the better
Don’t overthink it. Enjoy all the benefits of being the small or big spoon.
that is SOOO sexy. and yes post sex is good cuddle time
If it's a problem for you then I would just keep panties on. The only way I ever want to cuddle is naked.
Yeah, your boyfriend is definitely not mad about this response. Do not be embarrassed. Stay in bed and ravage his man-body.
omg yes, same “problem” haha I went to visit my friend one week, and I swear I was all hot and bothered from the minute we made the plans… the drive to his city was excruciating because I could just feel myself getting more wet the closer I got 😂 I definitely bring extra extra panties whenever I visit or travel with him. I was a bit self conscious this last time because during the cuddling I had the same thing happen, but I just forced myself to stop thinking about it and just went with it 🤷♀️
not weird at all. you’re a lucky girl…i actually struggle with getting wet sometimes, even when i’m really turned on.
I can't speak for all men but I would say most men would love to have A woman that was that hot for her man. I've only estranged it once and it was fucking awesome. I can make her come just by rubbing my fingers on the inside of her thigh driving down the road. Don't overthink this
We honestly don’t care about that. might end up going again just because she’s still hot n ready lol still gon cuddle. Put a pillow between your legs. Or his meat
If I’m being honest, us men don’t care about that. But it sounds like him being around you fires up the hot tub. If it really makes you self conscious try a pillow or a sheet betwixt your legs. Y’all might just end up going again.
I have no refrac period, so it usually just leads to more sex every time we cuddle naked again, until we finally decide to put on underwear 😂 Sometimes even that doesn’t work.
Just do it the way man was intended to. Completely naked in a garden somewhere with every animal in existence watching. :D For realsies though, that's so cute. Just do it. 🥹
Throw on some panties then. No big deal.
It might just be because you equate nakedness with your partner with sexy times. Eventually you may be able to seperate the two, so you can enjoy the intimacy of naked cuddles without that issue.
He’d usually take anything off if I wear it. And cuddle so tight. someone said in the comments that people should just ask their partners. We are still in the shy stage (im specifically)Even if he tries to communicate about stuff I just get so shy and I can’t find word. I know I need to work on that but it’s my very first time. Still not fully comfortable with these. Just writing here instead of separate comments. Someone also said people are getting too comfortable in internet and doing some foolishness, well I can’t really talk about these with people around me. So good thing about Reddit it’s anonymous, and you get help from strangers if you don’t have anyone in your life to talk about these! 🙌🏻❤️
As soon as my partner cuddles up behind me and his dick is pressed up against my ass, I get instantly wet. Everything gets so wet, he loves it and always makes a point of telling me how wet I am and how he loves it.
I used to sleep in my panties and bra around someone who I was fwb at the time and I was always wet bc in his sleep he would be half asleep and reach to touch me. In the mornings he would touch my body when we would first wake up and it made me wet like that but he never had a problem over it so I think your good.
I seriously doubt you will find a man that doesn’t LOVE this. Get a waterproof sex blanket and just let it happen.
It is actually so great! If u can have sex with ur partner anytime u want just do it!
Body fluids are normal. Being wet is sexy, nothing to be ashamed of. Simply make a habit of a more frequent bedsheet change, and maybe a shower in the morning, if you're disturbed by it, though it might dry up naturally until then.
Normal, and super hot to us guys, just cuddle, and your juices will get where they will get!
I guess you could imagine how you’d feel if you were cuddling naked skin to skin with a dude you were super attracted to and he just had a raging boner, even leaking precum. Like a lot… more than usual. Not like a medically significant amount or anything, just enough that you know he’s super turned on. Would you feel that would be gross or weird?
Maybe wear some pants in bed? Like underwear to soak it up. I do this… my faves are the thongs from primark. Sexy and comfy enough to sleep in
Is every girl like this? I really hope mine is lol. I get hard everytime we cuddle
I wipe my juices on his thigh
I have this with my partner. He loves naked cuddles, but I hesitated because I get very wet. He had to tell him that he loves it, and just because I'm wet doesn't mean it'll have to lead to sex. Sometimes he likes to put his leg or penis between my legs, sometimes he'll insert himself but not move around. He just loves the intimacy and closeness of it.
My partner does this and I wake up cleaning her juices off my leg hair but I enjoy it so much doing that because never in my life would have I thought a girl would feel wet around me.
This is bait brother
A couple times things if it was for the night where we were done because one of mine and my exes favorites was to cuddle naked after sex because you have the greatest conversations and it’s just such a good feeling being skinny skin so if it was right after sex and we figured there was gonna be another round we were just there should be and it would get on me and I really didn’t care at this moment because I get back and then we change the sheets and it was at the end of the night when she was knew she was done having sex for the night she was going to the bathroom washup washing between her legs. She put a pair of panties on, but no. Top that was when I would change the sheets real quick while she was in the bathroom because she’d be in there for like 10 minutes and then we cuddle for the rest of the night. I mean when you were like truly in love with someone while you were in that part of your relationship, sometimes it feels almost as good laying there and naked with the girl on top of you with her head on your chest, stroke your guy and stroke the girls hair as you guys talk and laugh And the purest conversations come out that way no lies come out. It’s like the cause you’re not even thinking you just talking and that’s about your partner.. Guy loves you. He isn’t gonna care especially if he knows it’s gonna happen again laying there with you if it’s wet it’s not gonna bother if you don’t wanna clean up and you’re nervous about the wetness keep a towel near the bed. Just put a towel like right in between you guys, so but like I never cared when her wetness would get all over my thigh and leg and private area .
Just remember one thing no bigger complement for a guy and no thing that makes a guy happier is to know that he turns his girl on so much that she’s wet before starting anything I had one girl that was like that with me where I mean, we would just start to kiss and she gets soaked and you know what I mean we never got into an argument never got self-conscious that she didn’t like me that much or wasn’t attracted to me because she was always wet and that’s what a guy can get a girl that’s the girl really into maybe that’s that was that girl was the one my true love in my life. I always got more upset myself or weirded out when I was with a girl and she was just completely bone dry down there and I really would have to work at getting her even a little bit wet that she doesn’t attract Would be like soaked or wet I knew she was really attracted to me and she really loved me because Sexi when you love someone is even more intense and I think that’s why she was my greatest love of my life even over my ex-wife
That sounds nice, actually! I can’t really relate cuz I have been with my partner for so long that nudity is just natural by this point. It’s not automatically sexual and it doesn’t automatically suggest “sexy time.” Cuz we’ve also had our ups and downs simply due to “real life being stressful/ difficult,” his chronic physical illness (diabetes,) and my chronic mental illness (ADHD, Depression, PMDD, mostly controlled cPTSD,) so we have expressed a certain level of vulnerability with each other that transcends the normal human appetite. There’s also other stuff like my mental health struggles and birth control. Cuz he also has depression and anxiety, I have PMDD and things like cPTSD which get worse and increase the chances of emotional dysregulation / flashback episodes at the end of my cycle, so I need hormone birth control to “not be crazy,” but it has absolutely torpedoed my libido as a result. Meaning sex really only happens when there is explicit communication that “we are going to do this thing.” I would not be likely to get wet just from “lying naked with my partner.” So OP’s situation sounds really nice, actually! Like a different kind of intimacy and it sounds pretty fun! Meaning I don’t think you have anything to be embarrassed about. Please enjoy it on behalf of those of us who cannot! Cuz, realistically, all of the health stuff aside, I also don’t think that I’ve ever felt as sexually attracted to literally any other human being as OP is making it sound like she is attracted to her partner, so I have no idea what that’s like and it sounds pretty awesome!
I stopped fighting it! I’ll go to the bathroom and clean up as much as I can after, but once I lay down to cuddle I’m not getting up. My partner will quickly wipe/clean me every once in a while to take care of whatever else makes its way out. Maybe I’m spoiled because my boyfriend is the best!
That’s cute!! So happy you got someone who cares! 💕
we LOVE to do this. also makes morning sex a lot easier hehe
I totally get it, it’s annoying if you’re trying to go to bed and not have sex again. But I’m literally wet all the time and I love that I’m wet for him all the time but at the same time it can be annoying. I keep a stack of tissues or rags (old tshirt I cut up that we use as cum rags or for my wetness)
My wife of 43 yrs does the same thing. It does not bother me and I can’t change her I simply ignore what I call a non-issue.
Girl that turns men on so much wth
Yes, my fiancee and I do this often. Skin-to-skin contact is wonderful. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have to have sex. It’s just a nice way to connect.
Just put a small rag between your legs, I have a basket of clean rags next to the bed mainly for post sex clean up and it is so convenient to have them there.
Is this another bragging post?
Im the same and its only a little annoying for me after weve already had sex and im tuckered out and dont want another round so i’ll sometimes just wear seamless thongs bc theyre comfy and dont feel like i have anything on but they still contain… the mess.. lol
I’m gonna need a straw.
I agree that if the wetness is from being turned on, then lean into it. For me, when I am done, there is moisture released from the tissue being swollen. That should be cleaned up. Keeping a roll of toilet paper by the bed is not a bad idea. And for me if it was a really active night the rolling down my thigh is not a pleasant feeling, so I wear underwear. Maybe not all night but until it subsides.
So I NEVER cuddled naked with a boyfriend before. Even in a decade long relationship, never ever cuddled naked. I wasn't comfortable with being naked, and he simply didn't like to cuddle. That's over, for many reasons. My current boyfriend - whoa. The first time we had sex, I immediately started getting up to put clothes on, and he got this concerned look and asked "But what about naked cuddle time?!" He introduced me to it, it led to other stuff, and now I look forward to it. I definitely get wet cuddling him, and he is THRILLED. Yes, it's mildly uncomfortable when I'm wet and it's just...there. But when we're done cuddling, I just head to the bathroom, clean up anything, and ensure to wear a pantyliner in my underwear. It makes it significantly more comfortable, and I'll often return to bed for more cuddles, just with my underwear and pantyliner on.
That was a very helpful advise! I completely forgot about liners. That will help a lot
even when i’m wet down there and we are cuddling skin to skin, my partner doesn’t mind at all. i wouldn’t feel self conscious about it.
That's the way I am with my current partner and I cherish it. It hasn't been the same with everyone, but it's a gift when it is and I hope you both enjoy it.
Your partner is a lucky guy. As a 23M this would definitelty be the greatest turn on!
I stay ready too girl. They can deal or not, but I’ve never had any complaints
I just keep tissues or wet towelettes on hand, depends on the seriousness
fwiw neither of my partners are on BC and one is actively trying to get pregnant with her husband (condoms ftw, worst part is they make the sex take longer, oh what a horror /s) so as a rule we don't cuddle fully naked. i'd just throw on panties because you're still getting a ton of skin to skin contact on the torsos anyway you'll basically get the same oxytocin hit
Wife and I cuddle naked and sleep nakedness atleast once a week. Generally it happens after sex,, if not without sex even
Soaking probably will diminish as novelty wears off.
I love skin to skin cuddles so much. Not in a sexual way. It just feels so nice and to bound with them. I think its significantly different on a scientific level because doctors encourage parents to have lots of skin to skin contact with new borns. I am a very touch orientated person. Naked, or at least shirts off cuddles is more important to me than sex. It is a need, that dont think I could do a relationship without.
I always cuddle naked and get wet doing so, even if trying to sleep lol. But I'm hair trigger sometimes. I've cum by grinding or necking.
lol… being a man not sure what to say but I have to accept the fact that , that touch and feel won’t let me sleep…. Specially if it’s new to you, once you get use to it, you find yourself comfortable and more relaxed.
I don't think this is an issue. You don't get as wet as you think. If you feel really self-conscious, I'd suggest talking to your partner. It should show you their real feelings and perhaps clear your doubts.
When my skin touches my skin (or someone else’s skin) it drip. So I have to wear underwear, I can’t sleep naked or it get wet between my thigh. That’s why I can’t wear tank top neither. That’s weird cause it can be 35 celcius outside and I won’t break a sweat while everyone around are dripping from their face and bodies. But no matter the temps if I wear a shirt that doesn’t prevent my skin to touch my skin it drip. I’m glad I have a thigh gap, so I can wear shorts. But if I’m leaning on my side to sleep this doesn’t works lol
Old girlfriend would put down a "Doilie" for the night.
I just wear underwear to bed or if it’s really bad, either sleep with a towel under me or hook a soft hand towel between my legs to catch it
It’s normal. I just say I have to sop up my vagina and then I wipe up any wetness if necessary. Bodies require maintenance and cleaning. It’s part of being human.
I love cuddling naked with my partner too. I get so fkn turned on for him too. I'm so addicted to him even when he's not doing nothing. I'm a freak for him, I want him all the time. 🙈
After you’ve already done it, it’s probably cum leaking out. I’ve heard of using those teeny tampons (like in the ob variety pack) to keep clothes clean.
As long as you smell good, no man is going to complain about that
I'll add to this because I have a differing opinion. I love my fiance, I love her body, and I love that she chooses to share it with me. But I'm on the spectrum and the sticky feeling of skin to skin after sex is too much for me. I can't stand the feeling of the sweat sticking our bodies together. That's not to say I don't respect aftercare. I'll get her a towel (that's all she wants/prefers), I'll clean up and put a shirt and my boxers on and then we will snuggle the rest of the night until morning. She usually stays naked which I enjoy. She usually stays wet as well, partially because we are TTC. We don't mind in the slightest. Sex is messy, but messy is fun. No need to be ashamed about how your body reacts.
There's like ten different systems that can make you wet down there...is this happening post sex without arousal? Because you could just be causing light damage to the vaginal tissues and the self lubricating is for healing up. It could be glands excreting trapped oils and sweats. It could just be you are ovulating at that particular time. All this being said, do you experience excessive wetness at other times, without sexual arousal? If so you could just have glands that like to work extra.
Hang the beef curtains on the clothes line to air dry
Is it getting normal on internet that people have started discussing their sex lives too much on these apps most of them are just doing foolish things by discussing these things
Why are you on r/sex if you don't want to see posts about sex?
just wear underwear. youre not 12 anymore to sleep naked. the only time me & a girl sleep naked is when were too exhausted to get back up.
What the heck? Adults sleep naked all the time. Completely normal.
I Specially do it when I’m alone with my partner. It’s so sexy we can just start rubbing each other whenever we want and sleep skin to skin.
you obv dont know about fecal particles. have fun sleeping in sh*t! 😆