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One of these days, he might have a precum, and the game is over. Be smart. Use condoms if you don’t want to be a mom. Your pleasure is as important as his. Advocate for yourself.
It seems like your boyfriend only cares about his own pleasure, and doesn’t even try to put any effort in to make you feel good (oral, fingering, toys, CONDOMS).
Yes condoms are an option. You'll feel mighty dumb when you're pregnant but at least he didn't have to cum with a condom on.
They're always an option. An additional option is the pill. The coil. Use them. The method you're using is less contraception, more a fertility enhancer.
this is how nature works: while female is close, it makes male even closer. It is very hard to keep such a self control, especially with strong feelings in relationship. (the more he loves you, the harder to keep thrust going, add here your moans, your moves etc, he loses his minds - that's for you to think about it too, perhaps it makes sense to kinda hide that you are close so that he would last longer?)
Right after finishing, he may try to fingering you, or condoms, or.. make sure you are on the birth control and finish inside together?
"He really hates condoms." With that attitude, this is more than just an issue of birth control - has he been getting tested regularly for STIs? Let's first be safe about it before getting to the good stuff.
I've rarely climaxed at the same time as a partner. It always seems a lot easier for him to orgasm than it is for me during sex. I prefer if they put more effort in beforehand. Reciprocate foreplay but try and be a bit selfish. My personal pref is fingers because once they hit that spot deep inside... whoosh... some of the best orgasms I've ever had.
Long story short, my advice - be safe, have some playtime together to find out what's the best way for you to get yours. Great way to spend an afternoon
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Condoms are an option. Your boyfriend is just fucking useless
One of these days, he might have a precum, and the game is over. Be smart. Use condoms if you don’t want to be a mom. Your pleasure is as important as his. Advocate for yourself.
It seems like your boyfriend only cares about his own pleasure, and doesn’t even try to put any effort in to make you feel good (oral, fingering, toys, CONDOMS).
Yes condoms are an option. You'll feel mighty dumb when you're pregnant but at least he didn't have to cum with a condom on. They're always an option. An additional option is the pill. The coil. Use them. The method you're using is less contraception, more a fertility enhancer.
this is how nature works: while female is close, it makes male even closer. It is very hard to keep such a self control, especially with strong feelings in relationship. (the more he loves you, the harder to keep thrust going, add here your moans, your moves etc, he loses his minds - that's for you to think about it too, perhaps it makes sense to kinda hide that you are close so that he would last longer?) Right after finishing, he may try to fingering you, or condoms, or.. make sure you are on the birth control and finish inside together?
Which does your boyfriend hate more? Using a condom or having a child he will have to support?
"He really hates condoms." With that attitude, this is more than just an issue of birth control - has he been getting tested regularly for STIs? Let's first be safe about it before getting to the good stuff. I've rarely climaxed at the same time as a partner. It always seems a lot easier for him to orgasm than it is for me during sex. I prefer if they put more effort in beforehand. Reciprocate foreplay but try and be a bit selfish. My personal pref is fingers because once they hit that spot deep inside... whoosh... some of the best orgasms I've ever had. Long story short, my advice - be safe, have some playtime together to find out what's the best way for you to get yours. Great way to spend an afternoon