Me too! I'm kinda a masochist but only for physical pain I don't like being degraded it makes me sad 😭 Being called a faggot just feels like a compliment. It's like OP said, it just feels like they're recognizing and affirming the person I am and want to be 😭
Wrong, they just thought you looked like a bassoon, clearly! /j
*I just hope it didn't hurt you tho, some people just seem to like making others feel bad and scream crappy insults like that's all they're good at in life. Either way, I'm giving you a virtual hug :)*
I would if that guy wasn't in a different country. Oh, and by the way - he started talking about how stupid I am for being born in Ukraine. Guess how many reports he got
Ah yes it was a mistake lemme just get back to the character creation screen and change my place of birth real quick 🤓
At least they're still relatively young, here's hoping they keep getting pushback for shitty opinions and grow into a better person
(Very sorry you had to deal with it though, metaphorical hugs given)
I think children just have a homophobe phase unless something in their personal life deters them from it, like a family member that's also gay or something.
Edit: looking back on it I think I did too, I just grew out of it way faster than most of my other classmates/friends
That guy IS gay though, he's a femboy at that age already AND a furry.
NOT that I have anything against furries or femboys, I'm actually friends with some
I had a similar thing
My boyfriend was getting top surgery, and the day before we where out at height and asbury district, he really wanted to show me it, and the Castro district
We where walking by someone holding hands and some guy said “f*ggots” under his breath but loud enough so we could hear
We walked away and my bf said “coward couldn’t even say it with his chest!” We laughed about it, but I said “well, our relationship is official now!”
It was the first time I’ve been called that in a while and it brought up a bit of trauma but when he said it, I smiled like “yeah, that’s right! I am!”
it used to be the term for cigarettes and bundles of sticks, but something that homophobic people ended up doing is, and tw for violence, >!rolling queer people, most often gay men, up in carpets and lighting them on fire, chanting "f*ggot" as they burned to death!<
You get used to it or get turned on by it depends on context tbh freind call me faggot but like im being intesensleu overelty gay when they say it. And then if its a sexual encounter i like it but tbh if a random guy walked up to me and said faggot i wouldnt even be bothered anymore
i remember my first time lol. it was at school and this girl randomly came up to me with a middle finger and said "fuck you you faggot bitch." it was actually surprisingly painful. i felt terribly angry. i dont usually get like that, im really forgiving, but it just infuriated me
Why is that and 8/10 it always angers me slightly not much went I'm called it after 3 years I'd hearing dosnt offend me it annoys ne it angers me people say it that homophbia is si fycking normalized where I live it's surprising to not hear a slur just walking in the halls
Do you guys know that one meme where it's like first time and the dude is like about to get hanged that's just my honest reaction because at my school everyone just gets called faget equally
was wearing a :3 mask during the pandemic at work and a guy told me to "shut the fuck up with that faggy ass mask" after to told him I couldn't sell him cigarettes without an ID. not the first time, but that was the last time lol.
Honestly I kinda get enjoying it to an extent. In my teens everyone around me was like 100% convinced I was a lesbian but I apparently had threatening vibes so nobody said shit about it. Now I'm a trans masc femboy and very visibly queer looking. I wanna be seen as a gay man rather than a lesbian for once.
Fun fact
The term originally meant a bundle of sticks
For fuel
Later it was also used for cigarettes and later it was used in English prisons and it referred to how much it cost to f*ck someone (because prostitution, yay)
A “f*ggot” is a bundle of sticks or more accurately cigarettes
To this day some people will say “can i pinch a fag” which actually means “can i borrow a cigarette
It was weirdly validating my gender when I got called a f*g for the first time. I was holding hands with my SO and a high schooler shouted it at me. I was pre-T and hadn't had any surgeries yet. It was insulting but also like, thanks for calling me a boy x'D
Someone got mad at the pin pad yesterday (I’m a cashier) and among other things (including calling the pad vaccinated for some reason) he called it a faggot and I got fucking PISSED
The fun way or the bad way?
Weirdly, I liked it
Ah, the hot way. I forgot about that one
That exists?
Yes, and it's pretty common
By FAR the most requested kink on Grindr/from random hookups
Oh ya, I forget some people like being called it in a degrading way
Different slur but highly relevant: https://youtu.be/EfVHe3TZKas?t=4m58s
I think of that happening if I ever got around to unlocking boykisser mode
There is **always** The hot way.
Ye, call my boyfriend it all the time lol
I mean shit, more power to you ig
Both ways are hot :3
On further inspection, you did not mean this in the hot way, but in a fourth way I did not account for: bad but kinda affirming way
I’m not the only one who the very least doesn’t mind it
I wear it like a badge of honor😄
Same :3
i second this as a trans girl i really dont mind it, which others find really weird like i can get deadmamed, misgendered, etc. nothing affects me
Oh yeah? Then you never took a critical hit. "You will never grill the perfect cheese."
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I got called it way to much by a "friend" i didn't mind it at all but he said it way to much to me it doesn't have enough meaning to me now
mm that i can understand, im sorry that happened
Its fine it doesn't really bother me
Yass queen slayy
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It means you're too hot (in a non-conforming/traditional way) for their brains to deal with 😎😎
i get called a faggot all the time
Did they dig you now? Fuck you later? Sung it to the tune of: faggot faggot faggot!?
Same, I genuinely like being called that.
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Was it the Pope?
Lmao tf does this even mean
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Oh… ngl was a lot funnier thinking it was based on nothing
but now you know there's a non-zero chance it was the Pope
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I briefly thought this said “According to NASA” and just accepted that they had beef with the Pope.
I realized it was not NASA when I read this
I keep my glock at the Vatican I got the blue prints to the catacombs
sir! another homophobic slur has hit the vatican!
The pope can call me that anyday
Hey I would never call anyone that
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Best hug giver, but very strong hugs
Only a little spine damage
He'd send for a Medicae if you were hurt at least.
He would probably feel terrible about it to
Warhammer is everywhere and it’s funny
Your welcome citizen
I LOVE THE SALAMANDERS!!!!
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Damn sorry to hear sorry some people just aren't very kind to LGBT people sadly
It was definitely in the bigot way by some stranger but weirdly I liked it. It affirmed me of the person I was and who I wanted to be
Yea ngl when I get called that I kinda like it as well it's a whole weird thing
Tbh idc what they thought. It was during work. I knew who I was, so what if people knew. I’m not ashamed. I love me!
Me too! I'm kinda a masochist but only for physical pain I don't like being degraded it makes me sad 😭 Being called a faggot just feels like a compliment. It's like OP said, it just feels like they're recognizing and affirming the person I am and want to be 😭
Just fuckin "You're a (fun guy)" "Yes!"
Yeah my little brother called me a faggot once… conveniently he’s also only caught one rapid backhand from me just a silly little cowinkydink
I'm sorry that happened. ❤️
Wrong, they just thought you looked like a bassoon, clearly! /j *I just hope it didn't hurt you tho, some people just seem to like making others feel bad and scream crappy insults like that's all they're good at in life. Either way, I'm giving you a virtual hug :)*
Damn are you good?
It hurt a lil but honestly it was nice that people knew
Nah if anyone else gets called a f*got let me know and I'll make sure he doesn't bully one of us anymore
lol thx
No problem
with only one G it's actually a food! or a russian cold war jet
MiG-15
love that pretty aircraft.
And how do you plan on doing that, lonely puppy boy?
Cause I'm not one for liking bullies so I can put a stop to them
I got called a ">!retarded bitch of a fag!<" by a 13 year old I'm 15 and I didn't even do anything that'd make him say that
Tbh you should’ve just punched them. Seems easy
I would if that guy wasn't in a different country. Oh, and by the way - he started talking about how stupid I am for being born in Ukraine. Guess how many reports he got
Ah yes it was a mistake lemme just get back to the character creation screen and change my place of birth real quick 🤓 At least they're still relatively young, here's hoping they keep getting pushback for shitty opinions and grow into a better person (Very sorry you had to deal with it though, metaphorical hugs given)
Thanks, I appreciate it. And unfortunately, I don't know if that guy is gonna change, though I really hope he does
I think children just have a homophobe phase unless something in their personal life deters them from it, like a family member that's also gay or something. Edit: looking back on it I think I did too, I just grew out of it way faster than most of my other classmates/friends
That guy IS gay though, he's a femboy at that age already AND a furry. NOT that I have anything against furries or femboys, I'm actually friends with some
That's so wired, why are kids like this
I don't know, like genuinely... I think he is slightly uhhh Forgot I can't say this on reddit. God bless 🙏
Average 8th grader activity
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8/10, would recommend
I had a similar thing My boyfriend was getting top surgery, and the day before we where out at height and asbury district, he really wanted to show me it, and the Castro district We where walking by someone holding hands and some guy said “f*ggots” under his breath but loud enough so we could hear We walked away and my bf said “coward couldn’t even say it with his chest!” We laughed about it, but I said “well, our relationship is official now!” It was the first time I’ve been called that in a while and it brought up a bit of trauma but when he said it, I smiled like “yeah, that’s right! I am!”
This will be a day long remembered -Grand Moff Tarkin
I wanna be called that too
ok fag
Oh😳, literally me
Oddly enough it doesn’t bother me if someone calls me that. But if they call someone ELSE that, then I have a big problem with it.
Everyone is valid and precious, except me
I’ve been called it my whole life. I’m straight and lost I have no idea how I got here
welcome to the club
If you didn’t like it then ignore them if you did you have a degrading kink
Time to crack open the dictionary of racial and religious slurs and stereotypes and hit em back
Same but idk why it’s supposed to be offensive
similar to why other slurs are offensive.
i can explain the history of the word if you'd like
Sure why not
it used to be the term for cigarettes and bundles of sticks, but something that homophobic people ended up doing is, and tw for violence, >!rolling queer people, most often gay men, up in carpets and lighting them on fire, chanting "f*ggot" as they burned to death!<
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"That's *Little* Apple!"
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Nope, you're just fun sized and extra huggable :p (Ok no but seriously tho, screw those people)
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Ok gud :)
Take it as a compliment and move on. I don’t get called a fag nearly enough, which is surprising.
I've literally never heard someone say it. Then again, there's only about 7 homophobes in my entire city.
Where is this city?
Canada
ouchies
You get used to it or get turned on by it depends on context tbh freind call me faggot but like im being intesensleu overelty gay when they say it. And then if its a sexual encounter i like it but tbh if a random guy walked up to me and said faggot i wouldnt even be bothered anymore
Like…in a hot way orrrrr
I get called that like 5 times every day so I got used to it :3
I have a freind i called faggot to once, then he said if i was gonna say it more often only to him
i remember my first time lol. it was at school and this girl randomly came up to me with a middle finger and said "fuck you you faggot bitch." it was actually surprisingly painful. i felt terribly angry. i dont usually get like that, im really forgiving, but it just infuriated me
One time, in r/hazbin, I made an ace joke about not being horny, and the OP said "don't worry, we'll fix you." It was kinda awkward
You’d think that the subreddit for a very queer show would be more inclusive
Yeah, well, the only part of the show and the subreddit it that they're both quite horny
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Lemme call you it too
Ple
joyous day
for the first time, damn my dad called me that all the time
Damn okay ngl being called that by my dad would be horrible compared to some stranger
They hate us because they ain’t us
they hate us cuz they ANUS 😁🤪
Why is that and 8/10 it always angers me slightly not much went I'm called it after 3 years I'd hearing dosnt offend me it annoys ne it angers me people say it that homophbia is si fycking normalized where I live it's surprising to not hear a slur just walking in the halls
I cast hug on you and testicular torsion on the MF who called you that
Do you guys know that one meme where it's like first time and the dude is like about to get hanged that's just my honest reaction because at my school everyone just gets called faget equally
Dude im very sorry, that's gotta suck ass, I hope you feel better soon
It depends on who it’s from, but typically I just laugh
I get called it daily
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My first time, was from my friend, But he’s also a man liker so it was ok
Welcome to the club OP *hug*
Ngl I didn’t expect people on this app to celebrate being called slurs, I thought this was a just a TikTok thing
I fuckin love it when people get angry enough with me to call me slurs it's fun to piss people off :p
I wish to know the context
Did you enjoy being called that and did they enjoy it to or did they mean for it to be an insult
happy pride!
r/countablepixels
Can I have more pixels please 🙏
Lucky
I would've been bricked up ngl
I kinda like it too ngl
Got called that in second grade, welcome to the club
I wear pins, crazy colors and a freaking choker wheres my slurs!?
It's happened to me a lot,my friends call me it all time not in a nice way,but I don't really say anything.
When I get called faggot in a derogatory way I just laugh like ok bro someone's pressed
Don't worry, it happens all the time, you'll get used to it
was wearing a :3 mask during the pandemic at work and a guy told me to "shut the fuck up with that faggy ass mask" after to told him I couldn't sell him cigarettes without an ID. not the first time, but that was the last time lol.
i envy you
That's when you say "No I'm a faggot and a half."
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I was called that like 20 years before I realized I was queer.
When that sort of person gets angered by the fact that you exist, you know you’re doing something right.
I got called a fag by a super Christian white kid. He lefts school and I was happy 😄
My response is yelling loudly "YEAH AND WANNA BANG ABOUT IT"
I assume you were playing sombra
Wanna make it a second time? JK it's a joke please lol
Where can I find a femboy to spoiled?
Honestly I kinda get enjoying it to an extent. In my teens everyone around me was like 100% convinced I was a lesbian but I apparently had threatening vibes so nobody said shit about it. Now I'm a trans masc femboy and very visibly queer looking. I wanna be seen as a gay man rather than a lesbian for once.
Based. Getting called a slur goals lol
yippee
r/SuddenlyGay
do you like degradation or something?
I just think it’s funny tbh
i feel that
better get them rookie numbers up, me and my boyfriend call eachother it atleast 5 times a day
First time? I get called it almost daily lmao
Based or cringe?
Based Usually my friends lol We chill abt it tho
Fun fact The term originally meant a bundle of sticks For fuel Later it was also used for cigarettes and later it was used in English prisons and it referred to how much it cost to f*ck someone (because prostitution, yay) A “f*ggot” is a bundle of sticks or more accurately cigarettes To this day some people will say “can i pinch a fag” which actually means “can i borrow a cigarette
It was weirdly validating my gender when I got called a f*g for the first time. I was holding hands with my SO and a high schooler shouted it at me. I was pre-T and hadn't had any surgeries yet. It was insulting but also like, thanks for calling me a boy x'D
Someone got mad at the pin pad yesterday (I’m a cashier) and among other things (including calling the pad vaccinated for some reason) he called it a faggot and I got fucking PISSED
Oh damn first timer ay 😭 join the lads gc ive been called it more than i can count
Welcome to the club! We don't have meetings, and we're privately funded by ourselves.
The first person to call me a f.... Was my bf in bed after the first time we had sex :3
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Fuck, I was looking for this exact image when posting this
This is the first post I’ve seen of this subreddit and I am joining
It’s a great post to see what’s to come
Eh. My dad calls me that all the time
it’s so cropped i have no idea what the fuck that image is 😭 do you have the full image?
hell yea :3
Jokes on them, I like being called that. Especially during... exercising. Yeah...
Why did my mind instantly go to “Gosh that’s hot”
good
10 years ago you would have been called that every day 😂
Jeffy's bad word
Welcome to the silly boy club