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Games-Sleep-Food

Do you need assistance? We can talk


AbsorbantWow

i guess


Cars4810481

been there, i get it, but i assure u in the longterm ull be better off eating 1000+ calories a day, speaking from experience. (even if ur trying to lose weight) hope ure okay otherwise, tho :c


AbsorbantWow

need to be thin for them


Xenox_k1ng___owo

I don’t wanna condone it but god, I’d do anything to never weigh over 170 ever again


AbsorbantWow

my thoughts precisely. not doing it for myself though


Xenox_k1ng___owo

I partly do it for myself.. the reason I’m not asleep now is cos there’s nobody to sleep with… I loathe this feeling


AbsorbantWow

know how you feel. i want somebody to hold me and never let go


Xenox_k1ng___owo

I had it for just a little, and then he left, now I’m just back to square one lol


AbsorbantWow

they always leave


Xenox_k1ng___owo

Doesn’t help that nobody answers my texts either, this is the most engaging conversation I’ve had with anyone in a while, let alone an actual conversation…. On Reddit


AbsorbantWow

i get it. i have bpd so 90% of my life is agonizing over shit like people not responding. feels like everyone hates me


bmexto5713

If y’all need someone to talk to idm chatting throughout the day.


DudongoKing

Okay I understand you're in a very shitty mental health scenario right now. Trust me, there's lessening effects the less calories you eat The effective minimum that you should be eating if you weigh 150 lb and are a guy should be close to 1500 And if you're trying to lose weight then the most you should be eating in a day is 1, 000 And that's if you're trying to stay healthy and still not kill yourself.


vanillamonkey_

Anorexia is a devastating disease. It's hard to talk about because for most people, eating is automatic. But if there are people in your life you trust enough to tell, you should. It might be scary to tell them, but it could save your life. If you keep going down this path, it could kill you or cause permanent disability. The people in your life who care about you most would be heartbroken. You deserve a better life than this. You deserve healthy food. You deserve love and happiness no matter how much you weigh.


Thin_Statistician826

you don’t need to look a certain way for someone. if they rlly like u it doesn’t matter how u look 


Bashamo257

Keep in mind that your metabolism acts like a rubber band. If you don't eat for a long time, your body will go into overdrive when you do eat something and store as much energy as it can as fat. Losing weight is all about calories in vs calories out, but there's definitely such thing as not enough nutrition. It's a lot better to eat regularly, even if it is light meals, and balance out the calories with exercise. Then you eventually get fit and skinny, instead of malnourished.


Gamestrider09

“Them” as in a lover?


AbsorbantWow

love of my life but clearly it wasn't both ways


Gamestrider09

Well at least you’ve shown you’re willing to commit. If they don’t appreciate that and love you back they aren’t worth it. But please for the love of god you have to take care of yourself.


AbsorbantWow

easy for you to say


Gamestrider09

I know I don’t truly understand your situation and I never will but I want to help you.


AbsorbantWow

id rather people stop trying to fix me


Gamestrider09

Okay. I’ll back off.


A_random69

That’s really not healthy


AbsorbantWow

i know lol but ill hurt myself for them anytime


A_random69

Idk what to say to that. Just pls stay healthy. All starving yourself will do is create problems. I’ve been through it myself and am currently recovering and like I’m not big by any means


AbsorbantWow

my mom made me eat 2 eggs (120 cal) im fine now


A_random69

Ok good


AbsorbantWow

should I vomit it up wdy think


x_LiMi_x

this is manipulative and you know it. you need attention and instead of finding it in a healthy manner, which takes time and mutual commitment, you want instant gratifications by making people worry about you. i was just like you. bpd, "weird with food", the whole nine yards. i would obsess over people who didn't care about me to the point they'd feel forced to give me attention and that made things worse, which made me spiral, split and restrain harder. never ending cycle. the only way to find happiness in our case is being responsible enough to look for help. not people who we go too in a panicked state as a last resource! constant, professional, reliable, help. cognitive behavioral therapy is affordable and you can even find homework online. it helps build communication skills and responsibility, helps with making friends and creating a social sphere. eventually it becomes self esteem. as someone with bpd, i am so sorry you have this condition. it seriously is devastating and makes all other issues 100% times worse, but it can get better.


Outside_Iron_3389

No.


sonny_boombatz

just as a sanity check you know that this is extremely bad right


Tommy_Gun25

Not eating is not how you get thin. You get thin from eating healthy foods and doing exercise. Starving yourself is hurting you, not thinning you


Cars4810481

idk, i used to feel the same and my gf wld ask me; if it was the other way arnd, wld i love her less for being that weight. over time it rly eased the desire to be severely underweight, bc i realized real love isnt dependant on me being severely underweight.


Bookworm0789

Have you fed yourself?


AbsorbantWow

please refer to the post for the answer


Bookworm0789

Come on you need to eat to live


AbsorbantWow

so true man i forgot


Bookworm0789

Have you been feeling better these past two days


AbsorbantWow

what do you want from me


Bookworm0789

I want you to feed yourself and have a good time. Eating is important.


AbsorbantWow

stop trying to fix me


Goob_sillyspiders

you dont need to be thin for anyone. you need to be happy and healthy for yourself.


AbsorbantWow

i get that you're trying to help but i think you are the 50th person to say that


Goob_sillyspiders

alright my bad but anyways, talk to me abt it i have other solutions


AbsorbantWow

in the nicest way possible, i sincerely doubt that


Outside_Iron_3389

Hey, thats a pretty un rad thing to do, food may be icky but starving thyself is far more icky wicky so dont do that. Maybe eat borgor? Possibly tacos? For thou are a cool person and thy problems shant get in the way of thy eating habits. Eat more or I will beat you


Carma281

This is a rollercoaster of a comment


Outside_Iron_3389

https://preview.redd.it/5hgpn2ub729d1.png?width=1651&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db6644435b443668034270617b399465e2106afd


Aggli

This guy is the embodiment of chaos


Outside_Iron_3389

I am a sick and twisted man with no allegiance to any country nor state https://preview.redd.it/72qu6l9g159d1.jpeg?width=1138&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=339ba323ef22cc3560347a2868d6f1fbe1bb840b Now begone HERETIC!


Laserninjahaj

Eat more or I will beat you has such an energy


Live_Pomegranate_645

Eat some food. You need energy to stay silly


ExtradimensionalBirb

Hey, that's really not healthy. If you're trying to lose weight like that, it won't work; your body will be in panic mode and try to store as much of the things you eat as fat as a it can. You really need to eat. :(


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ConfusedZbeul

Thing is 300 cal a day is not "a deficit". It's heavy deprivation. A deficit is when you eat less than you use, but simply being alive is usually at least 1200 cal a day. If you are active (and you should be) it will quickly increase.


Belgamete

They didn't say it will hold onto everything, but the body will start to ''ration'' it's reserves. It just less efficient to fast when wanting to lose weight instead of eating less. If you keep providing food, the body will be less conservative of it's fat reserves.


Mother_University239

Correct, it still however does not make you lose weight, it just makes it pretty much impossible to do so.


AuslanderReddit

Oh shit, hey, can we talk?


AbsorbantWow

sure i guess


Ti-papi

Bruh I drink more calories than that every like 6 minutes


Woshuojidan785

if you really cant eat food please try drinking juice or a smoothie or something, please don’t starve yourself


SnooLemons3996

No *sprays you with water* bad silly, eat just a little more, an apple, anything, just a little bit more ok?


darkbluemidnights

Smoothie


IsabelLovesFoxes

:( Please try to eat soon silly!


SirPanmartheProtogen

Hey, silly boi, eat, and if there is an issue, DM me. I wanna help


AbsorbantWow

how could you help


AfraidToBeKim

Bro I will literally Uber eats you some McDonald's if you promise to eat it


AbsorbantWow

How tf would you even do that


AfraidToBeKim

Idk you got PayPal? I'd send you enough to buy a big mac


SirPanmartheProtogen

By lending an ear and giving advice. How else am I supposed to help


ConfusedMudskipper

Me surviving solely on juice. I'm slowly going insane. I hate not being able to feel hunger.


Gaming_is_cool_lol19

Eat. Juice isn’t a sustainable diet.


ClamGod209

Hey man, I've been close to where you are but my friends came in and stopped me from my downward spiral!! :3 if there's anyone you have that you can talk about this, talk to them!! X3 make a deal with someone if you can! what stopped me is that my friend offered to buy me something If I ate >800 cals for a week, so I did! And I got better!! So I repeat if there's anyone you can talk to like your friends, do it!!! Your friends are your friends!! And if there's no one, maybe you can talk to me if you have to, or anyone else in these comments, we're here for you bro!!! luv youuu :3


AbsorbantWow

cant trust anyone anymore they all hate me


dialixys

I seriously doubt that, you seem really nice, and if that is the case it's not ur fault.


AbsorbantWow

you do not know me


kingkazma420

I hope this is hyperbole you really need to eat cute boy please


QuirkyQwertyto

1. Get a shit ton of sweet drinks, stash em all in a part of your room you can easily access no matter what 2. Smoke some weed or take anything else that can stimulate your appetite past the point of being able to ignore it (if you dont have anything like that, id get some sugary gum of your favorite flavor) 3. Make sure theres someone irl and/or that you're likely to listen too so that they can convince you to eat at least a spoonful of honey/sugar, if not actual food At this stage id even get you some junk food because of how severe this is. Get some ice cream if youre in the northern hemisphere' (summer)


Available-Cold-4162

4. Eat food and just burn calories like a normal person. This is extremely unhealthy behavior that will 100% cause problems in the future. Dieting also helps but not eating and instead eating other sugary things to trick your body is disastrous for your physical and mental health.


Shakartah

Same


AbsorbantWow

rotmaxxing


Shakartah

Got that scarletrotussy on me. /s But either way, if I wasn't obligated to, I'd not eat at all. I hate my body :3


AbsorbantWow

so fucking true, also based shittydarksouls ref


Doomslayer2857

Hey ummmm I’m no doctor but you should eat something good eat some food in you not eating is horrible for your health


Due-Buyer2218

Silly you need food to stay silly


RavenousToast

https://preview.redd.it/70cmaxcga29d1.jpeg?width=580&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=92432f22f0bdf04fc609f404154ee393298f1424


icedcoqua

I can say one things. If you actually plan to be like me. Running 30km weekly on 500 calories a day. You would lose like a lot of weight i lose 18kg from 70 -> 52 or something but in exchange for the hair in your head. Cuz it is very likely that your body will start to cut down things that it consider unnecessary such as hair, muscle, your smooth skin. And i did this diet for over a year until i stopped. Yep so you can consider to become like me but just don't.


Kind-Neighborhood214

How the hell can you last 4 days without food, I can barely last like 30 minutes without eating


AbsorbantWow

dissociate and cry 24/7


Kind-Neighborhood214

Dont do that Its bad


AbsorbantWow

they left me and it makes me anxious to eat


Kind-Neighborhood214

But food taste good


Specialist-Froyo-464

Hey we have something in common!


unboiled_peanuts

Fasting like this is not the most efficient way to lose weight. It is more efficient to eat healthier and get workouts in. Eating healthy is 70% of it and makes a massive difference. I have problems with food myself so it is a struggle but I am getting there. If you fast, it is less efficient as your body starts to ration and hold onto the fat in order to do this. It won’t necessarily work unless you just don’t eat for a couple weeks or so. By then your body would be in such a bad shape and breaking down.


AbsorbantWow

i dont do it for efficiency


BillywopShophop

holocaust victims ate more https://preview.redd.it/thsltizyi19d1.png?width=713&format=png&auto=webp&s=62578124b2fb5222cb0b3c797dcc74e782e4ac37


Slush____

Just cause it’s concerning doesn’t mean you gotta be a jackass


BillywopShophop

I'm not being a jackass I'm just putting into perspective how bad this is


0-Nightshade-0

all I had was a taco, soda, and an entire canes meal and I feel like I ate too much. I wish I didn't get canes...


AbsorbantWow

me but with one banana


joemamaisfunni

bro u better eat :c


remy6667

https://preview.redd.it/01wic3ycu29d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7e5375dc9ec64ebfcd9435e163ac8459a51b19f9 Will zoo-wee bama cheer ya up,sporty?


nerfbaboom

Are you doin this or do you forget to eat (like me?)


AbsorbantWow

i dont forget, i choose not to


nerfbaboom

death by hammers


AbsorbantWow

please


Bookworm0789

I know you're gonna ask how can I help and really I don't know I just hope I can be there and chat if you want to. Please take care of yourself 


GreyFartBR

Pleeease don't starve yourself like that. It's better to lose weight slowly but healthily than to end up in the hospital


Tsukino__

Real, unfortunately


GamerKidforfun

Is that why I'm always dizzy


AbsorbantWow

lack of nutrition and/or dehydration will do that


Jango_fett_fish

EDs suck so much. I feel very guilty and shameful eating pretty much anything and I still can’t stop. And I hate my body fat so much.


AbsorbantWow

idk if i have an ED, never been diagnosed


Jango_fett_fish

You don’t have to be diagnosed, if you’re eating that little calories you most likely have some sort of issue. It isn’t something to be ashamed of, and it doesn’t make you matter any less as a person, but it can be a covert helpful thing to accept.


AbsorbantWow

living the bpd trans dream


diablito999

same. i’ve been miserable lately so i’ve been eating like, one meal a day


AbsorbantWow

writhing and contorting


diablito999

just straight up staring at the wall type of sad no energy to even distract myself. i cant stay this way forever though, gotta lock in🔒


AbsorbantWow

lock tf in and break thru that wall


diablito999

if you need a friend im here 👍🏾


AnEpicBowlOfRamen

Son, you need to eat. The human brain ALONE requires 400 to 500 calories per day, and that's just the brain running on idle. To experience life in the best way you can, you need 1200 calories and all your daily requirements of vitamins and minerals your body can't synthize on its own. Be good, eat.


AbsorbantWow

u think I don't know that?


AnEpicBowlOfRamen

I know that you know. My wish for you is for you to Believe it 💖


Erook22

This won’t work for losing weight. You’ll either start consuming your muscle mass before you then consume your essential organs and die a long painful death or you’ll start eating again and gain back way more fat. The best way to lose weight is to track your calories, and eat around 1500 calories a day, more if you’re working out. It sounds like a lot, it’s not.


AbsorbantWow

why has no one considered that maybe i would like a long painful death


Erook22

Do you think you’re not worthy of good things? Of life? That you deserve such a painful way out?


AbsorbantWow

wdym? i starve myself and hurt myself for fun


Erook22

You should really go to therapy. It would be helpful. Torturing yourself for “fun” is extremely unhealthy


AbsorbantWow

oh relax, i was being facetious


Erook22

I figured. That's why I put "fun" in quotations. Point remains


cpufreak101

But food tastes good :<


odddtom

OH MAYBE THAT'S WHY THAT'S HAPPENING TO ME


AbsorbantWow

that and dehydration


Glomeii

Mindsets like this are dumb in my opinion. Just fucking eat and go to the gym, maybe I need more experience in this area but this is just how I see it


Illustrious-Tune8165

yeah you probably do. eating disorders can't really be fixed with being told to just eat


FunkyBloxxin

Are you ok?


AbsorbantWow

completely


itisntunbearable

i relate, keep getting stomach sicknesses and cant eat consistently. plus my appetite wasnt that big even before that


thedarkcarnival13

Iron deficiency gang


Dear_Mystic

As someone getting treatment for an ED rn, food is worth it! It may be icky and bad feeling but having the energy to live your life and take care of yourself is really nice! Also being energetic and capable is going to be more attractive to most people than getting your waist an inch or two smaller.


pale_splicer

Calculate your [Basal Metabolic Rate](https://www.active.com/fitness/calculators/bmr). Then eat only that much in a day. It's healthier, you'll still lose weight, you'll feel better, and have more energy. Work with your body rather than in-spite of it, you know?


Glutamatergic_Entity

Rookie numbers


weebbuns

Oh is this an ed sub?


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weebbuns

Right?? I thought i was joining a funny silly femboy subreddit 😭


23Link89

This isn't a sustainable way to be in a calorie deficit. You don't lose weight by eating only 300 calories in a week, you lose weight by being in a smaller deficit for several weeks. A good rule of thumb you can follow: eat when you're hungry, have a reasonable meal, if you're still hungry wait 30 minutes to an hour. After then, are you still hungry? If so, eat a simple, healthy snack, like some grapes. If not, then you're all good, celebrate your sustainable calorie deficit. This isn't how you lose weight, this is how you lose motivation and give up on your weight goals early.


wallofcookies

Consuming smoothies tends to be easier


jolharg

If you need support or advice I can help


AbsorbantWow

how do i do my taxes


jolharg

They've got a link on the government website somewhere...


bleachysushi

Relatable dude if you need someone to talk to I’m here aight?


AbsorbantWow

let's talk about frogs


bleachysushi

Cool what frogs your fav?


AbsorbantWow

golden poison frog. It possesses enough toxins to kill 20 people. Paralyzed your muscles. Would love to touch it


bleachysushi

Maybe like don’t but I concur that’s also my favorite frog


AbsorbantWow

Let's go out and find one! I promise I won't make you touch it!


bleachysushi

Can you don’t touch it please


AbsorbantWow

Oh, come on! Just once! Let's touch it together while holding hands. On the count of three!


bleachysushi

No but if you’re gonna touch it we’re gonna both touch it while holding hands we go out together


AbsorbantWow

Then our hand muscles will be permanently clenched together! How romantic!!!!


PVEntertainment

Do not starve yourself. The pain and harm of starvation is not worth it for becoming thinner. You cannot live happily and healthily while starving yourself. If the They you refer to in these comments does not love you for who you are, it is not worth these extreme measures to completely change yourself for them. I know the feeling of unreciprocated love, I've never been in a relationship despite my best efforts and 21 years of living, despite getting close with 4 different people and asking each of them out over the past 2 or 3 years. It sucks, I'm lonely and sad. I feel your pain, but you should know that it is never worth it to torture yourself over it. You're just making yourself feel bad and the weight you lose will return when you start eating again. You have to eat. You may choose what you eat and the amount you eat, but you need over 1000 calories per day for health. Starvation is not healthy.


Own_Inside6970

Look up calorie calculator and put your measurements in, it will give you a pretty damn accurate calorie goal, so you can keep safe and keep slim👍


Blue_Klick

FUCKER GO EAT PLEASE IM ON MY HANDS AND KNEES PLEASE EAT SOMETHING YUMMY FOR YOURSELF


iamthegordon

food is icky.... bro im starving here, i don't eat cuz i can't afford it we are not the same


FactPirate

I be doing this even eating normally honestly


Deadpool0994

Alright start the iv


Dropkick_That_Child

Consume, you fool.


_Mistwraith_

Hey, I lost 40lbs on 400 calories a day, you can start there and not feel like shit.


Imsoboredimonhere

My brother in Christ, EAT I don't care if you don't feel like you're hungry, make yourself food for each meal of the day, take care of yourself! You're worth caring for, so do it


Mother_University239

Ok not eating does not help you lose weight, actually the opposite. In the short term your gonna maybe lose 5-8% of your weight, however your metabolism will slow down and losing weight will pretty much be impossible. Please eat at least 900-1200 calories a day if you actually want to lose weight and keep it off.(even that is unhealthy but it won’t harm you, you will just be very hungry and low energy.). Starving your self can lead to awful repercussions. I am not a professional and this is just Information I’ve read from countless articles, please do your own research.


Dxrknesst

The chubby you are the cuter i think hahah


poncho76_

that is so real, I'm on two days with nothing and a bagel the day before


SignalForm8155

Actually so true I can never gain weight


IntrigueDossier

I do this but not by intention. Depression sets very lean diets apparently.


AbsorbantWow

Real!


Open_Title3776

It won't do much, just eat well, like atleast 1800 calories and just work out please. don't let yourself fall apart


KraZyGOdOFEccHi

sounds more like lack of water


AbsorbantWow

both


KraZyGOdOFEccHi

:(


AbsorbantWow

turn that frown upside down !


KraZyGOdOFEccHi

):


AbsorbantWow

That's better


KraZyGOdOFEccHi

Make sure to eat water and drink food


AbsorbantWow

but my master hasn't refilled my bowls : (


KraZyGOdOFEccHi

Oh okay so bad owner then


AbsorbantWow

and I'm a bad kitty


Weird_Pack5016

I've gone through an eating disorder (still kinda am going through it) so I get how your mind is convincing you this is working but it will only make you worse. Trust me eating atleast a 1000 calories per day is best. You'll lose alot more weight If you aren't tired all day from not eating. But ik most of this is mental so if you wanna talk tell me.


AfraidToBeKim

Try sticking to just fruit and vegetables if you're struggling to eat. I find grapes and cucumber slices always go down best when I struggle with my appetite (I take Adderall, which can reduce my appetite sometimes, but I still need to eat because food powers my brain and body).


RhubarbAutomatic276

Me rn


Past_Public9344

Eat the cheese block https://preview.redd.it/kfcfyrnsin9d1.jpeg?width=1033&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4b96836fe92e68da3886fd9350b938ef9cf016ba


ComfortableCold2019

My issue is that I just forget to eat


Rh4n

I think imma go on a 300calorie diet when i get home from a holiday with my friends i need to get rid of the phat


AbsorbantWow

i really dont recommend this


Bookworm0789

No no, you gotta eat only 300 in 4 days. You have to eat that's important