This exact question was asked a few days ago in another subreddit, so I will just copy/paste my two answers from that thread:
The only real point of no return is when you do irreversible body modifications, like HRT or castration or something along those lines.
Other than that I am a strong opposer of using that term, as it only scares a lot of girls who are just getting into it and may fear that they harm themselves instead of being able to just experiment and explore and have fun.
So, to me the point of no return is mostly a trope and a fantasy that more often than not gets abused. Therefore I usually advice anyone getting into this to not care about it and just try out those things they want to try. If they like it then they opened up a while new world for then to discover and if they don't end up liking it, there is nothing holding them and forcing them to just step away.
So in my opinion we should just avoid that term and bury the trope that comes with it.
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I totally get the fantasy aspect if it, but unfortunately I have seen it way overused especially towards new sissies. Thats why I am not really a fan of it, as I have seen a lot of threads where girls were just discovering this side of them and were scared that they may harm themselves when engaging with this., just because they heard of this trope.
So in my opinion its a bit of a two-edged sword. Yes, I get the fantasy aspect and I can see the appeal in it and I can even see where this most likely stems from. However I just don't like the way this is thrown at all those new sissies and used to basically scare them to just explore their sissy side freely.
So yeah, its tough in that regard, but currently I feel that the negative side of it iverpowers the benefits. Thats why I am not a fan of it as it is.
I generally agree with this, but I’d argue that there’s really 2 inflection points or points of no return. The 2nd point is the one you mentioned.
I’d say the first is when you can honestly admit to yourself, that you’re interested in this kink. That you find it appealing, and if you didn’t go deeper or tried to ignore it you’d be missing out. Once you hit that point it’s almost impossible to ignore and put the toothpaste back in the tube until you lose interest.
As others have said - when you make a body modification that cannot be reversed.
Beyond that if you don't like the ride you can jump off any time. Not saying you have to or even *want* to but the mental aspect of this life is not a one-way street. In fact a lot of people travel a certain distance then realize the life isn't for them and they return to a 'straight' life, perhaps carrying the memories of what they were and what they experienced but with no desire to return to it. It happens.
But if you are willing to undergo surgery or begin HT? Those are steps that you can't really return from.
For me it was the moment I first looked into my mirror fully dressed, shaved smooth body, wig and make up I knew I could never go back to being a man. Then my lover saw me for the first time and immediately gave me my fem name Melanie and my sissy life was born. I've never been happier since I gave up trying to be a man and embraced who I truly am.
Probably the moment a man pushes his cock into your sissy pussy.
Even at the moment his tip is at the exterior rim of you pussy, you have the chance to save yourself. By not doing so, it shows a conscious willingness to let him use you. Once the cock enters, your masculinity blows away like a Walmart bag in the wind, forever gone. He is now inside you, about to fill you with his cum while your manhood withers away to nothingness.
I agree but I would say the true moment is that little moan that I made right after he entered me, I didnt just accept to get fucked I loved it and enjoyed every second of it. This proofed to me that I was meant to get fucked by real men, this is where I belong
Mine is when my top was going to town on my ass and my moans and grunts became girlish squeals and screaming in a unrecognized high pitch voice. I heard her through me ans then I knew that I had went past the PONR
A lot are lumping in HRT, but that can be reversed depending on how soon you stop
A couple years ago, I was on HRT for a few months before I stopped. There haven't been any permanent changes
My point of no return was the first time I put on a pair of panties and realized I was already a sissy.
That was confirmed a couple of months later when I had my first wet dream, because my dream was me dressed up like a girly-girl and sucking cock.
I’d say hormones or surgery. Anything before that can be stopped, paused or easily reversed.
This exact question was asked a few days ago in another subreddit, so I will just copy/paste my two answers from that thread: The only real point of no return is when you do irreversible body modifications, like HRT or castration or something along those lines. Other than that I am a strong opposer of using that term, as it only scares a lot of girls who are just getting into it and may fear that they harm themselves instead of being able to just experiment and explore and have fun. So, to me the point of no return is mostly a trope and a fantasy that more often than not gets abused. Therefore I usually advice anyone getting into this to not care about it and just try out those things they want to try. If they like it then they opened up a while new world for then to discover and if they don't end up liking it, there is nothing holding them and forcing them to just step away. So in my opinion we should just avoid that term and bury the trope that comes with it. ‐------------------ I totally get the fantasy aspect if it, but unfortunately I have seen it way overused especially towards new sissies. Thats why I am not really a fan of it, as I have seen a lot of threads where girls were just discovering this side of them and were scared that they may harm themselves when engaging with this., just because they heard of this trope. So in my opinion its a bit of a two-edged sword. Yes, I get the fantasy aspect and I can see the appeal in it and I can even see where this most likely stems from. However I just don't like the way this is thrown at all those new sissies and used to basically scare them to just explore their sissy side freely. So yeah, its tough in that regard, but currently I feel that the negative side of it iverpowers the benefits. Thats why I am not a fan of it as it is.
I generally agree with this, but I’d argue that there’s really 2 inflection points or points of no return. The 2nd point is the one you mentioned. I’d say the first is when you can honestly admit to yourself, that you’re interested in this kink. That you find it appealing, and if you didn’t go deeper or tried to ignore it you’d be missing out. Once you hit that point it’s almost impossible to ignore and put the toothpaste back in the tube until you lose interest.
Ah good point and thank you
I see! Thanks for the response. Definitely making me think a lot of things over, honestly.
As others have said - when you make a body modification that cannot be reversed. Beyond that if you don't like the ride you can jump off any time. Not saying you have to or even *want* to but the mental aspect of this life is not a one-way street. In fact a lot of people travel a certain distance then realize the life isn't for them and they return to a 'straight' life, perhaps carrying the memories of what they were and what they experienced but with no desire to return to it. It happens. But if you are willing to undergo surgery or begin HT? Those are steps that you can't really return from.
For me it was the moment I first looked into my mirror fully dressed, shaved smooth body, wig and make up I knew I could never go back to being a man. Then my lover saw me for the first time and immediately gave me my fem name Melanie and my sissy life was born. I've never been happier since I gave up trying to be a man and embraced who I truly am.
I would say the point of no return is when you find yourself on reddit asking when the point of no return is.
Should I just fully go for it then?
I'd say it's when you fully accept yourself and stop purging.
Probably the moment a man pushes his cock into your sissy pussy. Even at the moment his tip is at the exterior rim of you pussy, you have the chance to save yourself. By not doing so, it shows a conscious willingness to let him use you. Once the cock enters, your masculinity blows away like a Walmart bag in the wind, forever gone. He is now inside you, about to fill you with his cum while your manhood withers away to nothingness.
I agree but I would say the true moment is that little moan that I made right after he entered me, I didnt just accept to get fucked I loved it and enjoyed every second of it. This proofed to me that I was meant to get fucked by real men, this is where I belong
Mine is when my top was going to town on my ass and my moans and grunts became girlish squeals and screaming in a unrecognized high pitch voice. I heard her through me ans then I knew that I had went past the PONR
Cute
A lot are lumping in HRT, but that can be reversed depending on how soon you stop A couple years ago, I was on HRT for a few months before I stopped. There haven't been any permanent changes
For me personally, was being bred. There's no having that load unblown in you
So your past that point then?
Me personally, yes. But everyone else's mileage may vary
My point of no return was the first time I put on a pair of panties and realized I was already a sissy. That was confirmed a couple of months later when I had my first wet dream, because my dream was me dressed up like a girly-girl and sucking cock.
Sounds perfect