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MercuryShark

I kinda hate some of the people I’m friends with but I’m really bad at making friends and don’t wanna be alone again, what should I do?


ABowlOfStuff893

Less friends > ‘friends’


Epic_3_Gaming

Quality over quantity


breigns2

Unless you need an army to start a revolution to overthrow the government and achieve world domination.


Epic_3_Gaming

Y’know, you’d still need GOOD soldiers to follow orders


breigns2

Good soldiers follow orders.


SixpennyPants

Good soldiers follow orders.


Fiery-potatos

Good soldiers follow orders


AddressRemarkable432

Good orders follow soldiers


Epic_3_Gaming

If you think that they’re a bad influence or don’t have your best interests in mind, it’s okay to cut ties. Or at least spend less time with. Making friends isn’t hard, just start talking and you’ll find a crew


CommanderPotash

>just start talking Errr...problem...


Lefteriskallonreddit

For all the 18/19 year olds, do you guys feel less confused than when you were 14/16? Do you feel like you understand more of this world than when you were younger?


IntertwinedRamen

I do know and understand more, however I don't particularly feel less confused. growing up -as a 19 yo- add a lot of complexity and it's hard to mature enough and keep up with it.


Lefteriskallonreddit

For me, it also has to do with the fact that i was antisocial until now, and i have to catch up to how the social world works, and the fact that my life is getting so much more complex as i grow up, is making me feel like i don't know anything, even the fact that I don't know, it is very confusing and scary sometimes


IntertwinedRamen

it's okay mate, maturing is to try to catch up with the complexity of growing up, since you say "until now" maybe you mean you are picking up some bravery to accept the connections. the world is scary and often confusing, it's hard and unreasonable to deal with it alone, relying on others for help and to fulfill your needs of security and belonging is important, take good care of yourself and find good backing it's going to be a long journey to grow up and moments of bravery are a precious asset for you. be conscious about your vulnerability and fight for your values. be virtuous and reject transgression. you will know more about your interest than what I know now, but sometimes you have to share the responsibility and take on various perspectives to add to your strength, which you do by trust. trust gives you vulnerability and power and you might find it to be an important balance. best of luck mate \~ peace.


CeRoDV

I definitely do. You never stop learning.


Lefteriskallonreddit

I just feel so confused at my age (I'm 15) and it's almost parralizing, but i have the feeling that it will clear out


CeRoDV

When I was 15 I didn't know much about what I wanted to do when I grow up (as in for a living). Now I have a better idea but it's still unclear, as I'm still figuring it out. The thing is that unfortunately, life doesn't come with instructions so no matter the age, nobody really knows what they're doing. But I'm pretty sure it gets better.


Lefteriskallonreddit

Ok, so the concensus seems to be that it does get better, but it still is not clear by the time you get to 18/19, thanks! this makes me feel better about it


gnataral

Definitely less confused!! And I give less fucks! I don’t care about conformity (fitting it and adapting to be like everyone else.) I used to do my Instagram and snapchat story how everyone else did and dress like everyone else. Now everyone just does their own thing and has their own style and does their social media how they want etc. It’s much better this way. Also I look back on my younger teenage years and cringe lol. It was like I was trying on a hundred versions of myself. Now I’ve found myself and I give less fucks and I’m less confused :) it all comes with time


[deleted]

I am more confused than ever. Adulthood is a labyrinth and I'm having an identity crisis. Things were clearest for me when I was 15/16. However, deciding on a whim that I want to get a tattoo and being able to get one and going to a concert without my parents is a blast. I'd say make a few stupid decisions as you grow up and it'll offer some clarity. Not too stupid tho, stay safe friend


sayxa

what is it like to do big exams


WhyIsLife12

Stressful, even if you know what you're doing it's stressful


Trenbaby

Don’t wait to study until the last night, the last night before the test should be the lightest study night of that week IMO. Get good rest and a quick refresher in the morning


JakeIsACuck1712

Lol I wish i learnt that, instead of perfecting studying, i just perfected cramming


FANTOMphoenix

For me I didn’t give a single shit about them. So it wasn’t anything I stressed about. Now other people ruined relationships with others over them.


xx_Athens_xx

15 year olds be having infinite power in this situation


[deleted]

Muahahaha MUAHAHAHAA NUAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHABhabahahajahahahHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA haha ha heh..


VanderCreep

how the fuck


Bigbuster153

Do the do and you will do


CouikCouik

Couldn't phrase it better.


NormalDude268

I don't know how the fuck


disgustingewww

can't help you with that one sorry mate


Spartan_424

Fuck around and find out


[deleted]

How’s your day


SillyFox09

Good thanks for asking


Bigbuster153

It has gone dark, a rock has appeared in the sky, my main source of light is a small glass and metal slab in my hands, in other words, fine


ConanOToole

Hey buster! No phone before sleep!


zippy251

Can I break the rules


hailey_celeste

yes


ad_396

A 13 year old should've answered


[deleted]

Yes


monut437

Can I answer my own question then?


monut437

Yes


svnkist_

Well played, my friend, well played.


breigns2

This is getting out of hand. Now there are two of them.


Droid_XL

Are we really that powerful?


Droid_XL

I forgot I'm not 15 anymore


Ninjatck

Can I answer this question


Ninjatck

No. Wait....


ICantInitiateAConvo

How do you be old


kaiserschmarrn_1

Just wait some years and you will understand


Vertebrae_Viking

Goes for you too.


coldasaghost

Unless you’re 113+, no teenager is old lol


Trenbaby

Don’t ever try to be old, stay young and free spirited you’ll stand out amongst all us boring adults trust me.


27_magic_watermelons

i’m still mentally 11 and i’m 16 in less than 3 weeks :,)


Available_Abies_4278

It just comes naturally


Blursed_Ace

I sacrificed countless lives. They allowed me to survive time itself.


anonymouse_03

Don't stress over losing your virginity, it's quite frankly over hyped, once you do it nothing really changes and no one really cares. I don't regret it, but recommend just living life without worrying about it.


saepout_hoe

Fr, I'm so highly concerned with the number of children asking about sex


SpaceMarauder4953

True man, just go do your math homework that is due today night at 11:59pm like every other teen


ThatWeirdOn3

Why aren’t you ever gonna give me up?


Specter6272

Cause I don't ever wanna let you down.


Nevis__

Bc I don’t wanna turn around


ColourfulDavid

And hurt you


lamEwanMcgregor

And say goodbye


JackFrostintheBox

And make you cry


iuuhhiivv

And tell a lie


MalfoysApple

And desert you


PcX_True

Rick rolled by comments


Gamer_Weber

I don’t personally think just bc u are popular in school your life will be harder than those who was not popular. Those who was popular in school have a lot of social skills which are important in the real world


DeepFriedDave69

Agreed


S41NT_74

i plan on moving 10 hours away soon but my gf of 3 years would be left alone in a really bad family situation with no friends. moving isnt my decision but even if it was i really want to. any advice on how to not break her heart :( edit: i have major separation anxiety and trust issues as well lmao edit 2: THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR THE KIND SUGGESTIONS AND OPEN HEARTS. i had a very lengthy conversation with her last night and she is very against it just because ill kind of be leaving her alone. still a lot of details to work out and i was able to talk my parents into delaying it a few weeks but hopefully i will be able to work something out for the long run. again, thanks to everyone who replied and im sorry i cant reply to everyone idk how to do this cause im pretty new to reddit <3 edit 3: lol she was a pos, im engaged now to someone else


Bigbuster153

I don’t think a 3 year old should be your girlfriend


RekYaAll

Hello police?


UninterestingHill

yes this is the police


RekYaAll

We have a pedo alert


UninterestingHill

we have a surveillance van set up


RekYaAll

Copy that


IndependentAd8402

This is echo from command, kill him.


RekYaAll

It will be done


Curious_Tiger_9527

Need clearance for drone strike


toothpastenachos

#FBI OPEN UP


Sunfury_

Sometimes heartbreaking situations just happen. Are you going to break up with her or try long-distance?


S41NT_74

prob gonna try long distance given the fact that i almost never see her because of her family situation


Sunfury_

I would just tell her straight up what’s going on but assure her that you’ll always still be there to support her


tyediebleach

this. as much as it hurts to see her go through this, there isn’t much you can do at the moment. things will get better for both of you with time.


SwimmerDependent8860

How do I talk to a girl?


ABowlOfStuff893

Be friendly and not creepy, find common interests


just_a_crush

Just be nice and listen... We love that


Epic_3_Gaming

Same as the homies. Just be polite


The_Mad_Duck_

Same as the homies? I'll proceed to make hundreds of phobic jokes and be put on the FBI watchlist in the group chat. Gotchya. The boys got a different vibe, my friend.


turkasasin

He said be polite tho. Getting on FBI watchlist isnt really possible while being polite, at least i dont think that it is. Trying to match your vibes to get a girl to like you aint great either.


Soupstheultimatefood

What is love?


SauseManget

baby don’t hurt me


highkey_a_god

don't hurt me no more


[deleted]

when you get an answer tell me because i wanna know too


ogon_

Is it gay to kiss the homies goodnight?


MERKFLAMES

Fuck no.


Epic_3_Gaming

Aim for the cheeks


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letsdoarson69

Aim for the balls


skatingduckie

i'm 15 what do i do


No-Debt8563

Focus up in school if ur not all ready cos believe me its gonna bite you in the ass real quick


tyediebleach

yep. i pretty much flunked all of high school and it’s one of my biggest regrets. it sounds lame now but once you’re out of there you’ll miss it, and having bad grades and attendance will screw up opportunities for you, no matter how smart you are outside of the classroom. take advantage of the good teachers you have. never be afraid to ask questions.


AlRahivi

I have 1.3 mil rn. Casino heists w randoms is fun and seems to work for money. Should i just keep doing some till i get a kosatka and a sparrow? Or should i just do sum else?


[deleted]

If you have a friend that can get in with you a lot I know a trick for both of you so you guys can do the casino heist without set ups, each one gets max loot, and it’s safe. If it’s just you and then your best bet is to just grind Cayo over and over. If you don’t have a mk2 then sparrow would be very helpful for the setups


Parzival101010-dbz

When do the popular kids get their day of reckoning


StrongPenises

When they graduate high school


NateIam1

Sometimes in the last few months of high school as well


Pixel2_Bro

The amount of fucks no one gave those last few months, watching all the clique walls in classes collapse was amazing. Talked and met so many new people in such a short time, all of us knowing we'll probably never talk or see each other again.


Asparagus_i_like_it

^ Edit: why are you upvoting this


subbie2002

Popularity if such a broken concept in high school and just keep in mind, when you chase your dreams, how many people you were friends with isn’t really going to do all that much for you.


[deleted]

They're popular for a reason. They are charismatic and a people person. It takes them far in life. You may think it's unfair but they have the social skills and charisma to be successful.


Nicksuki

Quick opinion, you don't necessarily need a gf/ bf to be happy, just be glad you have friends, romantic relationships are hard so I've never had a gf but I have my friends they will be there no matter what if you know them well but a gf/ bf could leave you whenever they feel like it. which could be a good thing but also a bad thing


1FrostySlime

No, I'm happy right now and I'm single. I definitely want a gf or bf but I'm happy regardless especially since I have friends


YTMrCune

Can you love yourself


YTMrCune

Yes


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YTMrCune

Yes, because you can love yourself


omtopus

They're 15


Smartcooki_

do you mean like romantically or that you’re proud of who you are


YTMrCune

2nd scenario


Stalingradma420

Why fap when can garlic bread


TheRedditPhoenix

Yes


SuspiciousInterest50

Why not both?


Diamondrankg

Your relationship with Garlic bread is questionable


ArcheryBoy07

Y'all wanna die too?


Iate8

Yes and no. Am I suicidal? Kinda. Will I ever do it? Fuck no bro do you realize how fucking cool it is to even exist, think about it. It's fucking sick! Even just a rock on the side of the road, just being a thing, is incredible when you think about it. I feel like my existence is precious and I would feel really shitty just throwing that away and I know I'll eventually feel better


Iate8

Damn I need to go to sleep..


Comic_Zans

Goodnight friend


Iate8

Thank you, I just woke up


HyrulesFinalHope

I love road side rocks man!


AwkwardlySurviving

That was deep


RekYaAll

This ^ Even if my life ends up sucked ass, I’ll still live it out because it’s to wondrous not too. You only live once.


yoitzcrick23

Are you reading my mind..?


MajicMan101

How are you


MajicMan101

Doing good


RiverTheNword124

for all the 13-14 year olds, why the fuck do you get into week-long relationships at that time


sxzm

because they want to fool around with love but have no idea how to approach it


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1FrostySlime

It gets better It's not going to be easy, you're going to have a tough couple of years but it will eventually get better and you got this


Spartan_424

Yes. Does the motivation, energy side get better? Not always, I struggled with being unmedicated and exhausted when I was your age and I still struggle now, but that doesn't mean that it's permanent or that it makes life worse than it was. When you get older, you gain independence, even in small ways. I'm 19 and I finally managed to get an antidepressant prescription from my doctor because I was old enough to ask for one by myself. You gain the freedom to get yourself a job, even if it's just a small/part time/remote one. And that gives you freedom. Freedom to spend, freedom to save, hell even freedom to buy a pack of muffins if you want to. You'll meet new people, make friends, spend the rest of your life with some of them. You'll have fantastic experiences and make great memories. And even if you don't really have the energy to do much, you'll still get stuff done, even if little bits at a time, As for the lying in bed thinking of death, I can't tell you if that will go away, it never did for me, but the difference will be that all the horrible thoughts will be offset by so much more amazing things, and all the freedom that you will inevitably gain. Trust me, it does get better, even if it doesn't always feel like it at times. Success comes in small victories. Wow that turned into a long ass comment, sorry for that, I guess your question struck a nerve and this is probably what I wish someone said to me at your age.


BeautifulTheBlood

Why are we still here?


astroSnoo

just to suffer


Stitchess__

because we haven’t left yet


CrisKartes

As a 19 year old, the biggest piece of advise I can give you is to stop giving a shit about what others do and plan your future before its to late and you start rushing everything


Nightrap06

How do I talk to a guy?


No-Debt8563

As a guy, be yourself even if you think yourself isnt good enough, we pick up on that kind of thing. Don't be to serious, a guy is usually just happy to have someone to laugh with. Oh and we know if your pretending to understand something because we like it, its very much appreciated


Nightrap06

Alright thanks!


UnknownGlorys

You were just talking to a guy. Mission accomplished.


No-Debt8563

No problem 👍🏻


JustAnotherThrow2311

Compliments, tell them they have good hair, nice style, are strong, tall, smart, confident, funny. This will make any person like you more. It also is a good way to test if they like u back, because if they give u a compliment as well it is a good sign they like u. If u don’t feel confident enough to compliment looks, just go for attributes such as smart, hard working and funny Also if u r struggling with the initial approach u don’t need any crazy witty lines, just start by asking them what classes they r taking and go on from there


Nightrap06

Thanks for the help!


CoolRedit7777777777

Just be blunt, us guys are fucking idiots and don't pick up on shit.


[deleted]

On the whole I’d say guys are very exited to talk to girls even if they struggle to show it. Though as a guy talking to girls became normal overnight.. well it was between school years. One year I’m relatively liked but not very good at talking to the opposite gender and the next I’m going to party’s and some of my closest friends are girls so… short answer is you just get better at it. (Yes I know this answer is all over the place)


Bigbuster153

Try to speak a language they understand, use a well known format of communication, more or less what you are doing now.


Da1andonlyme

When booba :(


MERKFLAMES

Eventually.


Carl_gustav1

Don't worry about Booba to much brother later on boobs will fall into your hands focus on other things


Mikegaming202

How do I ask a girl for her phone number? Update: Day 1, Monday 10/18/21: she wasn't at school today lmfao so I gotta do it tomorrow, Yay more anxiety Day 2, Tuesday 10/19/21: She wasn't here again... I'm starting to get worried, if she isn't here tomorrow I'll talk to one of her friends about it


Fujinakombi

Just say "Can I have your phone number?"


[deleted]

You’d be surprised how well it would go if you just straight up asked.


Mikegaming202

Well I guess that's what I'll be doing tomorrow


[deleted]

Go for it dude!


Mikegaming202

Let's just hope it goes well :)


Trenbaby

If you get it or not, it’s a great experience either way. I asked the “hottest” girl in school who was a senior for her number when I was a freshman, she said she had a boyfriend but it was still fun and she had a friendly vibe about the whole thing. Getting the experience and getting comfortable is the most important part IMO, if you get nervous before, that’s more than normal, I was almost shaking before I asked her but felt great afterwards even though I just got a conversation with her.


Mikegaming202

Damn bro, after reading that, me as a freshmen asking a girl I've known for 2 years for her phone number seems like nothing


TuneAway

After a normal conversation just say “hey it’s been great talking to you, can I get your number?”


1FrostySlime

It's super complicated, so what you do is say "Hey can I have your number?"


gamingkeks284LP

Do you have any clue what the fuck you're doing with your life, and if so, since when?


Trenbaby

No, and most people are still figuring out stuff through their early 20s. Don’t worry, we’re really all clueless until we make a bunch of mistakes, that’s what no one told me besides a couple of really great teachers. Just make sure you learn from your mistakes and analyze what happened, it’s a tough but beautiful process.


Dogmeat-Dovahkiin

What da dog doin


[deleted]

If you had body dysmorhpia, do you still have it, is it gone or does linger in the back of your head. If so what can I do to help it


Ssnnooz

Get rid of social media (especially tiktok and instagram) . It seems pointless, and it's actually really hard to do, but it's the best thing i ever did. Also get a good nights sleep, you'd be surprised how much that can help mental health.


mavimoo2

Will life get any better


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cl0wn3ri3

OMG YES I LOVE HIS SONGS SO MUCH


ElMayoneso82

how


bicarbonatewater

No one knows


[deleted]

Advice for getting a job? What type of questions would be asked in an interview, any advice to help with nerves (talking to strangers is stressful, let alone a possible employer that sounds scary asf), etc


MERKFLAMES

Don't do what I did and bank on the hospitality industry being your main career choice. Why? because COVID happened and shut down most of the hospitality industry in my country


greatman217

Will it get any better?


JonasTheExplorer

It'll get better, friend.


djsmithknight

will physics always be this hard i’m taking it as a freshie edit: thanks for the lack of hope y’all, hopefully everyone taking physics doesn’t die


TheGhoulishSword

No. It gets worse if you take AP Physics. Good luck.


njmh_

I literally have a minute a day to talk to this one girl, what should I say without making it weird?


Emeraldmemer

Are you hot as fuck and a gift to this forsaken earth


Emeraldmemer

Yes I am


flextapeboi43

Is driving really as scary as it seems?


Maqqnus

Nah. I generally love driving, listening to music and just chilling. Kinda depends on where you're driving though. Cities kinda suck.


microwavelength

to kids thinking that school sucks ass - #well it damn sure will if you don't put effort in now that it matters, go do your homework or you'll end up like me, unemployed and without a place to study at (looking forward to my entrance exam next year tho)


Ace_Marshmallow

School still sucks ass


mlagsv

To the youngins ENJOY YOUR LIFE it will get worse and you will be nostalgic about now so don’t live in the future or past just focus on the things your gonna look back at in a few years


eugene_rat_slap

It will get worse in some ways (work, rent) but better in others (money, freedom) But yes you will be nostalgic no matter what. So like enjoy being young while you can and then enjoy being grown up when you're grown up


Optimal_Barnacle_681

Why are some of y’all so short


RainbowSixThermite

Because they didn't get enough sunlight


LygExotics

You guys still Virgins


lamEwanMcgregor

Yes. As you get older it may seem “cool” to lose your virginity but it’s not worth doing when your young.


Remarkable_Bid7468

When do I get to start doing things on my own?