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ValleyDated

You already lost him if he lost himself. If he is out of control and abusive, the best help is to be there for him as far away as possible. It's his choice to help himself for you to come back to him, or abuse you and kill the relationship or you in the process. He has a mental problem that needs a psychiatrist not a therapist. Your state should have sliding scales that will adhere to your financial situation. It's ok to hang in there with him, but at a distance will help you not be affected with those huge ups and debilitating downs. Maybe look into boundaries and tells that let you know when he is abusive to leave the room or something. Idk, but this is his fight, your just a sponsor. If that makes sense


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If he’s truly abusive you need to distance yourself from him. He won’t change overnight and it will likely be an incredibly long process. You don’t deserve to go through abuse until he gets better. If he gets better.


vegqueen

I don't have any advice for him, but want to suggest r/BipolarSOs for you


Valeri0_S

Is he willing to talk about those issue with someone? My price for few sessions is around that range, and the first 30 minutes is free. You can have a look at my website and private message me is it sounds good to you:)