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Yesss. This advice will have you feeling so good about yourself and reminds you of who you are. Good luck, OP. Wishing you love, strength and happiness
sorry to hear about that brother :( some people r just bottom of the barrel, don’t let what she did to you get in your head. i’m sure you’re a great person who didn’t deserve that pain. i def know how you feel, just make sure you have good support systems in place. friends and family are always great to talk to, or even therapists. and always take extra rips to smoke any hurt away ma fellow stoner 🫡 i wish u the best
Thanks brother appreciate it, just wish she had actually cared I mean we were together for 2 years and she just drop me for some random short mf with a noisy ass car .-. And I like cars but that shit sounds like a straight piped go cart
damnn she left for a mini guy w a shitbox?! shitbox shorty?! man she must’ve downgraded harddd, or hit her head or sumthin fr... i’m sorry bro, sounds like a waste of 2 years for someone who wasn’t worth much. it does get better tho, i promise there’s better people out there who won’t drop you for a shitbox shorty
Be thankful it's only 2 years wasted and not 12. When you're ready, get back out there and use what you learned to build a relationship with someone that truly cares about you.
It doesn’t matter, if it wasn’t that guy it would’ve been ANY other guy, that’s just how people like that are. Consider growing if you’re in a legal state, fun hobby that takes a good long time, something else to focus on for a few months in your down time at least.
Just remember u should be having fun and wanting to get high, not getting high to have fun. But on some real shit, smoke that joint, and laugh at the fact that they ruined something that could’ve been great. Ur still great that’s on them for fucking up.
A piece of advice that has helped me and that I wish I heard sooner.
Give yourself the love you wish you had and/or could give to this person, you deserve the best and true connection and happiness. You are the only person that has the spend 24/7, 365 days a year with YOU. You deserve for that to be an amazing thing for you, you deserve the time, energy and effort that comes with self care and dedication to making sure you’re taking proper care of yourself, mind and body. You deserve to have a rockin’ groovy existence on this floating space rock! You are worth it, by golly you deserve love! Enjoy the company of yourself in those moments, but a good healthy distraction like music, TV, journaling (or scribble venting lol), yoga, meditation or a hike with a J is a great way to take your mind off things whenever things get too overwhelming. Just remember, this too shall pass. On the other side of this shitty situation is a happier, healthier way of living and a happier, healthier YOU! Here’s to another day on this spinning space rock, you got this!🤝💚 (P.S.-Taking a mind bending sized dab glob for you after I type this up, cheers to better days and better quality people in your future!🫂💚)
Remain single for a minimum of 1 year. Begin a meditation practice and get a journal. Use that year of solitude to really get to know yourself and think about what you want and need from a partner. Figure out what your non-negotiables are, and don't negotiate. I feel your pain bud, and I wish I'd listened to the advice I'm giving you now.
This is gonna be an unpopular opinion in this thread. I actually suggest smoking less. The less you smoke, the less you’ll cover up. Feel it now, and the faster you’ll get over it. I would also highly suggest therapy. Kudos for actually breaking it off and getting away from the person treating you like that. It will pass in time. In 3 months, you’ll feel 10x better than you do today. Good luck 🫶
Don't rely on the bud, it's not a relationship. Enjoy the bud, but make sure you're not sacrificing your social life. Don't put off healing for being high. Not saying dont get high 😁, def do that.
Sorry about that my man. Live your best life, do what you want however feels the most comfortable, and remember that she showed you her true self when she cheated
Sorry to hear that man. That level of betrayal is unacceptable by anyone. Keep your head up, smoke quality bud, hit the gym, listen to good music and just be around your closest peers as best as you can. You'll move forward from that horrible person.
This too shall pass. Being single lets you figure out who you are on your own so that when you meet “the one” who presumably will not be a cheater you’ll be the best version of yourself for them.
But yeah, smoke up and enjoy, watch a show you always wanted to watch but you could never convince them to watch.
Keep yourself occupied & listen to sum street music or fun music to occupy your mind to keep you from overthinking block all social media delete all ol stuff...
Breathe, routine, breathe, Be.
Sometimes we view happiness as just joy. But it’s actually the freedom to feel any emotion. You are allowed to feel upset mane. But try not to identify with those emotions. Because emotions shouldn’t be personalities, but you as an individual, have the right to feel. All love fam, you got this in the bag.
You may not read this but honestly a good thing has happened. You are now free from someone who doesn't respect you and that right there is an improvement in your life. Just focus on yourself and improve your life.
Og you smoke 4 (++) everyday, for 2 years, then you will feel better. Recon you might have a better chance of forgetting faster if sober. It will hurt more, but hopefully the pain does not linger for that long. Stay strong, know the pain.
Time, the worst possible advice to get but time really does help, and like everyone else said focus on the things that used to bring you joy that you lost.
And to further reiterate everyone else’s words it’s entirely a judge of HER character and not yours.
If possible spend time with other people. It always helped me
Smoke strong and take care of yourself...go shopping and buy some clothes, games, good food...f*k her..give it a month at MAX I promise u will feel better gradually!
Shit happens, my dude. Change what you can about yourself because it's like kicking water uphill trying to change anyone else. You'll find your way into a good relationship when the time's right
Brother you are doing good with holding that mfugging crazy joint toke it, enjoy it. if you know this chorus then hands up : Bitches, they come, they go
Saturday through Sunday, Monday (Yeah-yeah)
Monday through Sunday, yo Mr Eminem.
Use this time to heal and reflect on who you choose to be. Understand that you made a healthy decision for your wellbeing. You deserve to be happy and now you have your life to live for you. Smoke and DM if you need anyone to talk to
Take your time to recoup, feel what you have to feel. Laugh, cry, contemplate, everything is valid. Just remember you'll always have yourself. Stay strong brother, there's still a whole world out there waiting for you when you're ready.
I love smoking but this kinda of stuff def gotta relax regain your thoughts in a positive manor and then u may smoke as long as u don’t let it consume u. Or disregard and 420 24/7😉
The first joint as a free man who just dodged a huge bullet. No advice needed, just a congratulations on the luck!
(Imagine if she cheated when you were married with kids! 😇)
Just got a divorce after an almost three year marriage and much longer relationship. Best way to look at it is all you are left with is freedom and endless possibilities. Use that to your advantage. Do something with your life. You dont have to stop smoking god knows i certainly haven’t. But use this time you have for yourself to make sure you are who you want to be in your life. And be a good person. That is all.
Smoke for the first week and a half, after that put the shit and get back out there. Don’t touch until you’ve hit the gym solidly, called the people that love you and eaten balanced meals.
It’s fine for a lil escapism but understand that’s what it is and don’t stay there kid. You’ve got a life to live
Good music. And really relish yourself in the things you like that they didn't. Remind yourself of who you are. Every broken relationship is an opportunity to realize what about yourself is valid. The next person might not be the one, but they should be more compatible if you can take some time for yourself.
Just remember the world still turns either way, I have spent days and weeks just sulking around when I should have filled it with activities and friends! Keep your head up! Just remember MJ always loves you!
I'm sorry to hear that, some people suck. Why do that when you can end the relationship first and then go after the person you're into? It's still shitty but not as shitty as getting cheated on. I'm here if you need to talk :) I'm going to smoke a bowl in a bit
Perfect time to hit the gym my bro. Weed will help ypu focus on your muscles while working out. Its shit for cardiovascular exercises but thats just my opinion.
Her behaviours are not a reflection on you. If you’re a morally good guy, then that’s you. Be kind to yourself, stay active, get outdoors, be your best self whenever you can. You’ll get there. 💚
If you dont train, i would highly recommend it. Daily stoner for over 7 years and training calisthenics daily too.
Dont over smoke. Smoke a lot if u want at the start but dont keep it up, smoking too much makes even smoking shit
Remember it reflects more on them than you! I promise you will find someone who chooses you
Every day! You are gonna have a great time after! Keep your head up!
That shit sucks man. But in the end, shit happens. The pain will go away before you know it. You’ll find yourself looking back and thinking “fuck her”. Eat some good ass food, you don’t have to pay for her now. Get stoned and go to the movies with some buds. Or hell, just chill and play video games or something man
Move on, don't look back, don't forgive. Once a cheater always a cheater bro. Plenty of faithful, awesome stoner chick's out there. Don't wate your life on someone who don't care about your life.
Now is a good time to improve yourself, like working out, feeling and looking better. because...
# “Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.”
-James Allen
Gonna sound weird, but whenever I go through something traumatic (last time I did this was when I had to do BLS on my partner) I stop smoking for a few days to kind of feel my emotions and feelings so I was better equipped to handle them. Doesn’t work for everyone but it might be worth looking into 🫶🏼
Go easy on your smoke don’t burn out your lungs over some horrible person, I had this a couple years ago you will meet someone who will love you for just you
Had the same thing happen 8 months ago bro, shit got rough but it’s all good now. Ik it’s cliche asf but it does get easier just ride it out until it does because it will brother 👍👍
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hit the gym, smoke quality bud, eat delicious food, get good sleep, and repeat ✊🏼
Yesss. This advice will have you feeling so good about yourself and reminds you of who you are. Good luck, OP. Wishing you love, strength and happiness
This is the best advice on here
Winner 🏆 💯 great advice !!
This is great advice. I literally just commented the pettiest shit I could think of 😂😂
Absolutely! And Pray🙏🏾 (if you’re into that).
💯this is the way OP
Them cheating and being disloyal is a judge of their character and not your’s.
Preach brotha
sorry to hear about that brother :( some people r just bottom of the barrel, don’t let what she did to you get in your head. i’m sure you’re a great person who didn’t deserve that pain. i def know how you feel, just make sure you have good support systems in place. friends and family are always great to talk to, or even therapists. and always take extra rips to smoke any hurt away ma fellow stoner 🫡 i wish u the best
Thanks brother appreciate it, just wish she had actually cared I mean we were together for 2 years and she just drop me for some random short mf with a noisy ass car .-. And I like cars but that shit sounds like a straight piped go cart
damnn she left for a mini guy w a shitbox?! shitbox shorty?! man she must’ve downgraded harddd, or hit her head or sumthin fr... i’m sorry bro, sounds like a waste of 2 years for someone who wasn’t worth much. it does get better tho, i promise there’s better people out there who won’t drop you for a shitbox shorty
Shitbox Shorty 😂😂😂 I laughed so hard and loud I puked. Thanks for that lol
Shitbox shorty !! 🤣😂😅😂 Can't wait to use this shit !! 😂
will be keeping the phrase "shitbox shorty" for later use. 😂😂😂
Be thankful it's only 2 years wasted and not 12. When you're ready, get back out there and use what you learned to build a relationship with someone that truly cares about you.
That hit home.
Yikes, sounds like yall are under 25 lol
It doesn’t matter, if it wasn’t that guy it would’ve been ANY other guy, that’s just how people like that are. Consider growing if you’re in a legal state, fun hobby that takes a good long time, something else to focus on for a few months in your down time at least.
your ex is cooked, she will regret it someday.
Just remember u should be having fun and wanting to get high, not getting high to have fun. But on some real shit, smoke that joint, and laugh at the fact that they ruined something that could’ve been great. Ur still great that’s on them for fucking up.
Thanks bro
>"Just remember u should be having fun and wanting to get high, not getting high to have fun." I love this! 🍁
A piece of advice that has helped me and that I wish I heard sooner. Give yourself the love you wish you had and/or could give to this person, you deserve the best and true connection and happiness. You are the only person that has the spend 24/7, 365 days a year with YOU. You deserve for that to be an amazing thing for you, you deserve the time, energy and effort that comes with self care and dedication to making sure you’re taking proper care of yourself, mind and body. You deserve to have a rockin’ groovy existence on this floating space rock! You are worth it, by golly you deserve love! Enjoy the company of yourself in those moments, but a good healthy distraction like music, TV, journaling (or scribble venting lol), yoga, meditation or a hike with a J is a great way to take your mind off things whenever things get too overwhelming. Just remember, this too shall pass. On the other side of this shitty situation is a happier, healthier way of living and a happier, healthier YOU! Here’s to another day on this spinning space rock, you got this!🤝💚 (P.S.-Taking a mind bending sized dab glob for you after I type this up, cheers to better days and better quality people in your future!🫂💚)
Thanks bro appreciate it
Fuck her sister
And then smoke her out and get her some food. Really show the unfaithful sister what she’s missing! 😂
Go out and get ‘em tiger, don’t sulk!
Username checks out 😂
Hell yeah 😂
💯
Go gym 🗿
Lift heavy stone make sad head voice quiet
I read this in strong from fallout 4s voice
Remain single for a minimum of 1 year. Begin a meditation practice and get a journal. Use that year of solitude to really get to know yourself and think about what you want and need from a partner. Figure out what your non-negotiables are, and don't negotiate. I feel your pain bud, and I wish I'd listened to the advice I'm giving you now.
Speaking nothing but the truth
Keep your head up man, listen to some good tunes and enjoy that j. Keep it pushing
This is gonna be an unpopular opinion in this thread. I actually suggest smoking less. The less you smoke, the less you’ll cover up. Feel it now, and the faster you’ll get over it. I would also highly suggest therapy. Kudos for actually breaking it off and getting away from the person treating you like that. It will pass in time. In 3 months, you’ll feel 10x better than you do today. Good luck 🫶
Shag one of her mates
Brit detected
Don't rely on the bud, it's not a relationship. Enjoy the bud, but make sure you're not sacrificing your social life. Don't put off healing for being high. Not saying dont get high 😁, def do that.
Sorry about that my man. Live your best life, do what you want however feels the most comfortable, and remember that she showed you her true self when she cheated
Listen to the album The House by Porches then the album Don’t You By Wet in their entirety and let the lessons you gain strengthen your spirit
Sorry to hear that man. That level of betrayal is unacceptable by anyone. Keep your head up, smoke quality bud, hit the gym, listen to good music and just be around your closest peers as best as you can. You'll move forward from that horrible person.
This too shall pass. Being single lets you figure out who you are on your own so that when you meet “the one” who presumably will not be a cheater you’ll be the best version of yourself for them. But yeah, smoke up and enjoy, watch a show you always wanted to watch but you could never convince them to watch.
Keep yourself occupied & listen to sum street music or fun music to occupy your mind to keep you from overthinking block all social media delete all ol stuff...
Thats a lovely brick wall. Oh and sleep with her best mate.
Breathe, routine, breathe, Be. Sometimes we view happiness as just joy. But it’s actually the freedom to feel any emotion. You are allowed to feel upset mane. But try not to identify with those emotions. Because emotions shouldn’t be personalities, but you as an individual, have the right to feel. All love fam, you got this in the bag.
You may not read this but honestly a good thing has happened. You are now free from someone who doesn't respect you and that right there is an improvement in your life. Just focus on yourself and improve your life.
Og you smoke 4 (++) everyday, for 2 years, then you will feel better. Recon you might have a better chance of forgetting faster if sober. It will hurt more, but hopefully the pain does not linger for that long. Stay strong, know the pain.
Roll another J
smoke some quality herb and hash my brother, try to remember it wasn't ur fault for believing her. don't reach out to her.
Time, the worst possible advice to get but time really does help, and like everyone else said focus on the things that used to bring you joy that you lost. And to further reiterate everyone else’s words it’s entirely a judge of HER character and not yours. If possible spend time with other people. It always helped me
Don't turn to alcohol, benzos, cocaine, meth, or opiates for comfort.
Smoke strong and take care of yourself...go shopping and buy some clothes, games, good food...f*k her..give it a month at MAX I promise u will feel better gradually!
Shit happens, my dude. Change what you can about yourself because it's like kicking water uphill trying to change anyone else. You'll find your way into a good relationship when the time's right
Fuck her friends
Brother you are doing good with holding that mfugging crazy joint toke it, enjoy it. if you know this chorus then hands up : Bitches, they come, they go Saturday through Sunday, Monday (Yeah-yeah) Monday through Sunday, yo Mr Eminem.
Enjoy the single life for a bit and find a good stoner gf
Grow bud. Those ladies never cheat on you.
seems like you’re way ahead of us
Use this time to heal and reflect on who you choose to be. Understand that you made a healthy decision for your wellbeing. You deserve to be happy and now you have your life to live for you. Smoke and DM if you need anyone to talk to
Even without love Mary Jane will be your friend.
Take your time to recoup, feel what you have to feel. Laugh, cry, contemplate, everything is valid. Just remember you'll always have yourself. Stay strong brother, there's still a whole world out there waiting for you when you're ready.
I love smoking but this kinda of stuff def gotta relax regain your thoughts in a positive manor and then u may smoke as long as u don’t let it consume u. Or disregard and 420 24/7😉
The first joint as a free man who just dodged a huge bullet. No advice needed, just a congratulations on the luck! (Imagine if she cheated when you were married with kids! 😇)
Just got a divorce after an almost three year marriage and much longer relationship. Best way to look at it is all you are left with is freedom and endless possibilities. Use that to your advantage. Do something with your life. You dont have to stop smoking god knows i certainly haven’t. But use this time you have for yourself to make sure you are who you want to be in your life. And be a good person. That is all.
fuh that bitch if u not already hit the gym n focus on urself wish u well gang
Smoke for the first week and a half, after that put the shit and get back out there. Don’t touch until you’ve hit the gym solidly, called the people that love you and eaten balanced meals. It’s fine for a lil escapism but understand that’s what it is and don’t stay there kid. You’ve got a life to live
Don’t look back
Good music. And really relish yourself in the things you like that they didn't. Remind yourself of who you are. Every broken relationship is an opportunity to realize what about yourself is valid. The next person might not be the one, but they should be more compatible if you can take some time for yourself.
Don’t rely on weed to feel better. Hit the gym for endorphins, maybe even drop the weed completely until ur over it.
Plenty fish in the sea fam. Don’t let that bring you down
💯
Just remember the world still turns either way, I have spent days and weeks just sulking around when I should have filled it with activities and friends! Keep your head up! Just remember MJ always loves you!
It’ll get better, I walked in on my ex wife in bed with her now ex husband , lot more $ for bud🙌🏻
I'm sorry to hear that, some people suck. Why do that when you can end the relationship first and then go after the person you're into? It's still shitty but not as shitty as getting cheated on. I'm here if you need to talk :) I'm going to smoke a bowl in a bit
Fr idk why she just didn’t tell me, she dragged it on for a while treating me like shit
That's fucked up. She was feeling guilty so she treated you like shit to make herself feel better. What a dickhead.
Fr kind of a good thing I don’t have to deal with it anymore
Perfect time to hit the gym my bro. Weed will help ypu focus on your muscles while working out. Its shit for cardiovascular exercises but thats just my opinion.
The best girlfriend is Mary Jane, she never cheats. Alice D is a good second best girlfriend tho
Why is bro talking to a wall ?
Same brother my gf didn't cheat but she left me without any reason saying she just can't anymore and when she tried to return I was gone .
Roll one up, play some good music, grab some food and enjoy the freedom!
Don’t contact her.
Fuck her… just spark it upp and enjoy the singel lofe 😍 i just rolled a joint and ready to smoke it and enjoy life 🌟
Her behaviours are not a reflection on you. If you’re a morally good guy, then that’s you. Be kind to yourself, stay active, get outdoors, be your best self whenever you can. You’ll get there. 💚
If you dont train, i would highly recommend it. Daily stoner for over 7 years and training calisthenics daily too. Dont over smoke. Smoke a lot if u want at the start but dont keep it up, smoking too much makes even smoking shit
Don't ever go back. Once a cheater, always a cheater and remember, weed will never cheat on you !
Clap her mom's cheeks even if she's a 3
skate
So how did it go down? My advice will be based on that
Maryjane will never cheat on ya
Get money go to the gym spend time with ur family if u got one. Hoes gon b hoes so i couldnt blame tammy!
Just know, you dodged a bullet. Smoke that Mary Jane and live life to the fullest
Smoke because you’re happy, not because you’re sad
Remember it reflects more on them than you! I promise you will find someone who chooses you Every day! You are gonna have a great time after! Keep your head up!
you can't make a hoe a housewife. ...stop dating hoes.
Her loss you’ll get a loyal girl next
Start talking to the girl she accused you of liking when you were together
Get out there live life and do stuff that makes you happy. Reach out to friends find a hobby and take care of yourself.
Smoke a big fat blunt and then bang her mom.
Don't associate feeling bad with smoking. It'll ruin it for you.
Go play a good first person shooter
Don’t take her back
keep smoking and dont give a fudge
That shit sucks man. But in the end, shit happens. The pain will go away before you know it. You’ll find yourself looking back and thinking “fuck her”. Eat some good ass food, you don’t have to pay for her now. Get stoned and go to the movies with some buds. Or hell, just chill and play video games or something man
Shit In a pelrr bag,set it on fire ,throw it into her room
get married to the bag
Move on, don't look back, don't forgive. Once a cheater always a cheater bro. Plenty of faithful, awesome stoner chick's out there. Don't wate your life on someone who don't care about your life.
Shit you did the hard part. It's smooth sailing now
Bang her sister or best friend. Or mom I guess
Now is a good time to improve yourself, like working out, feeling and looking better. because... # “Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.” -James Allen
Stay high my friend fuck her
Send her some cbd flower as revenge
keep smoking
Find a new bitch
Do not Go Back!!
Yeah get over it don't stress yourself hit the gym and crack on with life
Jack the keys to her car, crash that piece of shit, and then walk away
nothing left to do but make her hate you bro. go get buff and some new bitches
Gonna sound weird, but whenever I go through something traumatic (last time I did this was when I had to do BLS on my partner) I stop smoking for a few days to kind of feel my emotions and feelings so I was better equipped to handle them. Doesn’t work for everyone but it might be worth looking into 🫶🏼
Listen to “let a hoe be a hoe from geto boys” you got your answers right there
Just puff about it my guy
Get Tested, Smoke ya weed, Workout, Get Ya Money Up. elevate in all ways possible to where you regret even meeting a waste of time ‼️.
Keep smoking and living brother. Do what makes you happy!
Keep on beeing you man dont let it get you down i know for sure your young so just keep your head up and know you got you always man
Mushrooms 🍄 and a bag of good weed
Sit down and process it. Feel your emotions and get in touch with yourself!
Better to know now then later. Do NOT take her back
Best way to get over one is to get under another. Preferably one of her close friends…😂
Go easy on your smoke don’t burn out your lungs over some horrible person, I had this a couple years ago you will meet someone who will love you for just you
Don’t use weed as a clutch for your feelings, hit the gym and such
It’s just your first cheating girl. Smoke and don’t worry there will be plenty of more cheating girls in the future.
Focus on your goals you will get man holes 🕳️
Never ever go back
Begin the gym grind my friend.
Had the same thing happen 8 months ago bro, shit got rough but it’s all good now. Ik it’s cliche asf but it does get easier just ride it out until it does because it will brother 👍👍
Listen to “smoke that bitch” by Juicy J.
If you get the urge to talk to her again just rub one out.
Read books.
Yo there’s a girl out there that loves long thumbs. Keep yo head up playa
thank whatever you believe in for opening new doors for you brother.
Rub one out then roll a bigger biff.
Get her BFF pregnant
Blow one move on to her friends always rise