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And also... its not safe to say "yes"to that.
My daughter knows about her autism and is working with us in when to share (it's not a secret, but it is private and people are...people).
It puts a target on her. Disabled people in general are more often abused. She has, as an autistic girl, about an 85%chance of being sexually abused by age 25.
I know that wasn't the focus of this, but the ableism that cruises over with sexism is a LOT
It does put a target on us, 100%, though some of us are open. I’m very open about my autism, ADHD, and mental health stuff (trauma, CPTSD, regular PTSD, anxiety, and depression). I have been sexually assaulted (more times than I can count, unfortunately), regularly abused in relationships, and raped. IRL I’m open with everyone about all but the last one, and some people about the last (not my parents lmao), and online anonymous or where my parents won’t see open about all of it.
At this point I’m working with a therapist to be less vulnerable, watch for red flags, and be a better activist. As well as find it healing.
I feel for minors it can go both ways- it can be very freeing to be open with dX, especially if they have a strong sense of self, but it can also really paint a target, especially against people in positions of power or looking to abuse, and straight up puts you at risk of outright stigma instead of just the microaggressions for being unknown different. (I grew up having fallen through the cracks and not dX’d until adulthood, and have watched youth own their dX’s confidently AND privately and seen both both backfire and work splendidly)
It’s so individual and it’s so hard to balance safety and mental health (which can also be safety too).
Good luck to you both ♥️
I am open about me being on the autism spectrum. I count my blessings that my gullibility leads me into benign situations, though I've dealt with being told that I am not autistic because I am female, which is stupid.
It puts a target on us either way. Predators can sense us like chummed waters to a shark. Confirmation of vulnerability is just the cherry on top.
I would urge you as an autistic woman myself not to consider non disclosure as any form of protection. It's not. I wasn't diagnosed until I was an adult and by then I had already been assaulted.
I appreciate you sharing this.
We are still working on disclosure to whom and when- she's just starting high school so it's a tricky age.
Most of her friends know, her teachers and caretakers know... but we've discussed which peers should have the info and what happens as she gets older and jobs and....*hand wave* everything.
The non-disclosure is usually revolving around privacy and weaponizing it (bullying shit) thus far. We're crossing other bridges as we get there
<3 it's so difficult. I got into a lot of scary situations esp as a teen *without realising* the situation was dangerous until too late. Simply because I just didn't understand the social situation.
Best of luck to you and your daughter
He started showing up to her apartment. She posted in r/legaladvice.
I thought about crossposting that but doing so feels like making a spectator sport out of her ongoing nightmare.
I hope anyone with good resources and advice reaches out to help.
I'm so scared for her.
Reasonable people when someone doesn’t laugh at their jokes:
Huh, there must be more to the Venn diagram of our senses of humor than the part in the middle.
Yeah part 3 is disgusting; said that he wanted to "use" her for pleasure and another woman as a "breeder", also insinuated that he was watching her, and boasted that he's white...
I have an autistic friend who actually talked the way this guy does. Luckily he came to me for advice and I set him straight on a lot of things and while he’s still cringy sometimes, he’s not as bad
He’s even had a few long term girlfriends and learned how to be okay with himself, and how not to blame other people for his emotional experiences.
I've seen the updates and wow. The guy is terrifying and completely crazy.
And looks to be one of those "I love you, no I hate you, no I love you, etc" type of obsessive men who can't handle rejection which is the most dangerous. It reminds me of the ex who tried to kill me tbh, except without the godhood complex.
It's such bullshit that OP has to be paranoid 24/7 because a random asshole dropped into her life and decided to have a psychotic break because one person had the audacity to say no to him. She made no effort to be in close contact with this person and yet she ends up in this situation.
I didn’t see part 3 till I saw this and what the fuck! How do people think that shit will work? In pt. 2 she asks why he keeps saying her name and I’m like “cuz it’s a manipulation tactic”. I get uncomfortable when people use my name repeatedly, which is the opposite effect it’s “supposed” to have, which is, I guess, reassurance ?
Just sick. I have seen updates later and had a mini panic attack. It's great that she has support from her friends and they are keen in their efforts to remove him . But, tbf, I'd still repot him.
Yeah absolutely she should report him to the police because he's dangerous. Support is great, but he keeps leaving her messages and he might even know wheer she lives, he's not giving up.
Perhaps OP may need to change her phone number. Unfortunately, if he knows anyone she knows, but she isn't aware of that, it isn't going to solve the problem, because as soon as any mutual acquaintance has the new phone number, shortly afterward, probably so will he, unless that mutual acquaintance is aware of the situation and is willing to refuse to give her new number to the guy. As well, notifying all parties who need to be aware of the phone number change can be a lot of work, something you don't want to be doing every few days.
Same. I actively put effort into looking into people's eyes socially. But him, I would stop looking at altogether and just grey-rock because he's gross and so far up his own ass that his brain is nothing but trash.
You know, a bear would just have eaten her and walked away. By the last update, OOP should be taking all measures necessary to protect herself from this psycho. He’s basically playing with his food at this point
He just continued to escalate and the friend group has cut him off. If you click on OOP’s profile, there are two more posts with screenshots of the guy’s texts
It's all around awful, but can we talk about the fact that he says he's more successful than 90% of the men...and he's a 24yo? By the texts, without reading under, I thought he was some middle aged men harrassing his collegues, not someone who recently finished high school.
He started out simply pathetic and looking for drama, and quickly devolved into horror movie territory.
Glad the friend group had OP's back, that's the only positive in all this.
If there's one skill that males, like this guy, master far better than any other individual, it's the ability to shoehorn their penis into every exchange.
Oh my goddddd. I just read the updates and I’m laughing because it’s almost hilarious how delusional this man is if it wasn’t so scary. I’m glad OOP’s friends have her back. I’m glad she took screenshots of everything just in case but I hope he leaves all of them alone.
I'm more successful and better looking that 90% of the men you know!!
*This legit reminds me of the weird cologne in Anchorman!! Like I snorted with laughter a little bit!! What a dickhead!
I can’t freaking stand people like this. For my entire life I have dealt with people like this because I am also quiet. I have never understood nor will I ever understand why people have such an issue with people who don’t talk a lot. They have a problem with us just existing apparently but if we say the same thing to talkative people that they say to and about us, we wouldn’t hear the end of it.
This took me back to a few years ago when I was working in a warehouse. There was this guy there who was married and hit on every new girl. An older lady put me on game so I could be aware.
After months of me ignoring him, he had the nerve to ask my coworker if I was “special” because I refused to talk to him. Sir, you are married. Worry about that instead of trying to feed your ego. 😒
I read part one and was a little confused why this was here, sure he’s an asshole and a creep but it didn’t seem like it fits the sub.
Then I read the second post and was beginning to understand…
Then post 3 is literal fucking stalker behavior (trying to establish contact through friends. ‘Coincidentally’ seeing them. Remembering exact outfits from weeks ago. Getting a second number just to text/harass her (and talk about his penis))
Honestly, if he continues OP should probably get a restraining order
"Are you autistic?"
"Why don't you laugh at my jokes?"
"I'm better looking and more successful than 90% of the men."
I havent even finished reading but, just, wow, this is the most amazingly round about way to say "what are you fucking stupid? Brain fucking broken? Why haven't you jumped on my dick yet!!???" That I have EVER seen.
Just needs a "dumb bitch" added to the end to make it cringe complete.
...I think I still have another page....
Edit: omg that's even better. "I fucked your friends you sad bitch! OK. Not really. I make my penis explode inside you now?"
😆 🤣 😆 🤣 what a pathetic, sad sonofabitch
Edit edit: OMG THE UPDATE. THANK YOU OP ITS AMAZINGLY INSANE. Fuck this creepy guy.
"I've been in your friend group for a few months and you haven't fucked me yet. You won't hang allover me like you do ppl you've known for years! You say your not brain dead but you're acting like an idiot for not fucking me. Did your dad rape you or something? Because I'll fuck you so good you'll start calling me daddy you shit brained frigid little cock tease."
Love him pushing "childhood trauma" aka "daddy fucked you" as the reason you won't fuck him.
I mean, the reason after "autistic". (the 'new' replacement for gay, which was the replacement for retarded, which was the replacement for stupid, which was reserved for those with thin mental constitutions in the....uh...50s? 30s? Whenever we had those schools for the blind, deaf and dumb.
Often times to ppl with that personality type, asking if someone is autistic is the same as saying "what are you, retarded?". Some days I hate this planet so much. 😒)
So to him, you're either brain damaged or your dad raped you because how could you not jump on a fine piece of that?
.......how indeed.
Edit edit edit: OMG THE LAST 3 PAGES. OMG THE LAST LINE. IM SCREAMING. NO. OMG. WHAT. OMG. SHOW EVERYONE! SHOW EVERYONE! SHOW EVERYONE HOW CREEPY HE IS!!! OMG OMG OMG
I suggest everyone read the updates because he's completely unhinged and crazy. Almost like he copied some online bill crap because there's no way some people actually think like that 😭
Reading all the updates just makes it all so much worse. OP should let everyone know he's a creep and print all these texts in case she needs to file charges. I'd have filled them already because men like this take NO as a personal challenge. The fact that she's not following all over him is driving this guy up a wall.
Paraphrasing; “You didn’t swoon when I glanced in your general direction. I have to believe that there’s something ‘wrong*’ with you.”
*I want to be very clear that I do not personally feel that there is anything wrong with being autistic.
I found out about it when [Charlie](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DA2zVP8x0q8&pp=ygUJcGVuZ3Vpbnow) covered it and obliterated the dude in his video. It’s absolutely astounding that he immediately went to “Doesn’t drop her panties for my mediocre jokes? Must be autistic.”
I made so many different horrified faces reading this and the updates that if someone had seen me they would have thought I was watching some sort of medical gore video.
okay but can i just say "i don't know anything about you other than the fact you like potatoes and the town of salem" is so fucking real on OP's part i love them for that
she posted an update, he seems actually insane and dangerous wtf
[https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1d1g0ek/guy\_in\_my\_friend\_group\_is\_annoyed\_that\_im\_quiet/](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1d1g0ek/guy_in_my_friend_group_is_annoyed_that_im_quiet/)
“*Not that I’m trying to make YOU laugh in particular. God, no! I don’t care at all about what you think of me. I’m just a really cool, charismatic guy so it’s understandably quite shocking when a girl isn’t bowled over by me. Can you explain yourself? I’m both fascinated and repulsed!”*
Delusional and stupid. Great combination.
My dude, take a damn hint. Honey, she doesn't care what you do with who and she probably never care.
"I don't know anything about you." Have you tried asking her questions already? If so you probably should add "What kind of humor do you like?" to the questions.
Wow. This guy just can’t take honesty. And what is the deal with suggesting you’re autistic just because you don’t talk to him. I’m autistic. So what? I don’t talk to people I don’t like either. Courteous, yes. The bear
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Why don’t you laugh at my jokes…. So cringe
Cringe and creepy. But he gets women all the time and people are jealous. Also wtf kind if question is "are you autistic?", so smooth there guy
And also... its not safe to say "yes"to that. My daughter knows about her autism and is working with us in when to share (it's not a secret, but it is private and people are...people). It puts a target on her. Disabled people in general are more often abused. She has, as an autistic girl, about an 85%chance of being sexually abused by age 25. I know that wasn't the focus of this, but the ableism that cruises over with sexism is a LOT
It does put a target on us, 100%, though some of us are open. I’m very open about my autism, ADHD, and mental health stuff (trauma, CPTSD, regular PTSD, anxiety, and depression). I have been sexually assaulted (more times than I can count, unfortunately), regularly abused in relationships, and raped. IRL I’m open with everyone about all but the last one, and some people about the last (not my parents lmao), and online anonymous or where my parents won’t see open about all of it. At this point I’m working with a therapist to be less vulnerable, watch for red flags, and be a better activist. As well as find it healing. I feel for minors it can go both ways- it can be very freeing to be open with dX, especially if they have a strong sense of self, but it can also really paint a target, especially against people in positions of power or looking to abuse, and straight up puts you at risk of outright stigma instead of just the microaggressions for being unknown different. (I grew up having fallen through the cracks and not dX’d until adulthood, and have watched youth own their dX’s confidently AND privately and seen both both backfire and work splendidly) It’s so individual and it’s so hard to balance safety and mental health (which can also be safety too). Good luck to you both ♥️
I am open about me being on the autism spectrum. I count my blessings that my gullibility leads me into benign situations, though I've dealt with being told that I am not autistic because I am female, which is stupid.
It puts a target on us either way. Predators can sense us like chummed waters to a shark. Confirmation of vulnerability is just the cherry on top. I would urge you as an autistic woman myself not to consider non disclosure as any form of protection. It's not. I wasn't diagnosed until I was an adult and by then I had already been assaulted.
I appreciate you sharing this. We are still working on disclosure to whom and when- she's just starting high school so it's a tricky age. Most of her friends know, her teachers and caretakers know... but we've discussed which peers should have the info and what happens as she gets older and jobs and....*hand wave* everything. The non-disclosure is usually revolving around privacy and weaponizing it (bullying shit) thus far. We're crossing other bridges as we get there
<3 it's so difficult. I got into a lot of scary situations esp as a teen *without realising* the situation was dangerous until too late. Simply because I just didn't understand the social situation. Best of luck to you and your daughter
he's better looking than 90% of men, so you should laugh at his jokes, OK?
Because they aren’t funny to me. Sorry, not sorry.
"Because you're not funny" would probably get an even worse response.
or “what jokes?”
She should laugh in his face because the only joke is him. He sounds very arrogant 🤮.
He started showing up to her apartment. She posted in r/legaladvice. I thought about crossposting that but doing so feels like making a spectator sport out of her ongoing nightmare. I hope anyone with good resources and advice reaches out to help. I'm so scared for her.
Reasonable people when someone doesn’t laugh at their jokes: Huh, there must be more to the Venn diagram of our senses of humor than the part in the middle.
There are two update posts and they’re even worse. Thankfully her friends are supportive and stopped talking to him.
Yeah part 3 is disgusting; said that he wanted to "use" her for pleasure and another woman as a "breeder", also insinuated that he was watching her, and boasted that he's white...
How is it that some guys actually talk this way, and at no point stop and think "wait...is this ok?" Absolutely boggles the mind.
Right? He says she's autistic cause of her social behaviour but it's HIS social behaviour that has a lot wrong in it and he doesn't even notice.
I have an autistic friend who actually talked the way this guy does. Luckily he came to me for advice and I set him straight on a lot of things and while he’s still cringy sometimes, he’s not as bad He’s even had a few long term girlfriends and learned how to be okay with himself, and how not to blame other people for his emotional experiences.
This is why both of my autistic sons have been in therapy since forever. There are certain social norms that absolutely must be reinforced
Once you present it as a logical statement, it seems to click
probably he’s the autistic one (I’m autistic and I’m so fucking tired of cis het autistic males and their incel violent behavior)
They absolutely know it’s wrong, they don’t speak to other men like that. They just don’t care about women.
Holy moly, that's so disgusting!
I can’t get over his bragging about his penis how the fuck did he type that out and hit send.
I've seen the updates and wow. The guy is terrifying and completely crazy. And looks to be one of those "I love you, no I hate you, no I love you, etc" type of obsessive men who can't handle rejection which is the most dangerous. It reminds me of the ex who tried to kill me tbh, except without the godhood complex.
This guy will try to rape OP 100%. Even torture and kill. If I were OP I would never go out alone.
It's such bullshit that OP has to be paranoid 24/7 because a random asshole dropped into her life and decided to have a psychotic break because one person had the audacity to say no to him. She made no effort to be in close contact with this person and yet she ends up in this situation.
I didn’t see part 3 till I saw this and what the fuck! How do people think that shit will work? In pt. 2 she asks why he keeps saying her name and I’m like “cuz it’s a manipulation tactic”. I get uncomfortable when people use my name repeatedly, which is the opposite effect it’s “supposed” to have, which is, I guess, reassurance ?
There are more?? Oh good god
Wait, where? I don’t see any other posts.
Just when I thought it couldn't get worse, I read those updates 🤢🤢🤮
Sheesh, this guy is SO self involved.
You don't pay attention to me, you don't laugh at my jokes, you don't even look at me... you must be jealous.
And I'm more handsome than 90% of the other men you know!!
This. The lack of self-awareness is ASTOUNDING. He seems to be the insecure and jealous one.
He reeks of insecurity. And is incredibly annoying. This lady was very polite in comparison from what he would get from me.
Look at the updates. It gets so much worse.
I just checked this poor girl's updates and this is wild! He needs to be reported for harassment.
Honestly, considering he's leaving her voice mails and all, and he may even know where she lives, she should for sure get the police involved.
Absolutely, this guy is dangerous
Hello, how do I find the updates please?
https://www.reddit.com/u/RadiantLie4042/s/cTHLJXiCOC Here's the link to the OOPs account
Tbh insecurity but also definitely makes it seem like he was desperate for her specific attention and no one else’s.
He is not right in the head. I read " 12th of March" so many times, that I thought, to hell with that date and the person who brought him over.
And imagine how obsessive someone's got to be to remember the date he met a random person like that.
Just sick. I have seen updates later and had a mini panic attack. It's great that she has support from her friends and they are keen in their efforts to remove him . But, tbf, I'd still repot him.
Yeah absolutely she should report him to the police because he's dangerous. Support is great, but he keeps leaving her messages and he might even know wheer she lives, he's not giving up.
EW
"yOuRE oN tHE SpeCTruM iF yoU DOnT lAUgh aT my JoKEs"
That is indeed scarily entitled and tone deaf.
I'm autistic and he'd be blocked so fast.... Those messages of his have ick and cringe factors through the stratosphere.
According to OP, he keeps messaging her from new numbers.
Perhaps OP may need to change her phone number. Unfortunately, if he knows anyone she knows, but she isn't aware of that, it isn't going to solve the problem, because as soon as any mutual acquaintance has the new phone number, shortly afterward, probably so will he, unless that mutual acquaintance is aware of the situation and is willing to refuse to give her new number to the guy. As well, notifying all parties who need to be aware of the phone number change can be a lot of work, something you don't want to be doing every few days.
Same. I actively put effort into looking into people's eyes socially. But him, I would stop looking at altogether and just grey-rock because he's gross and so far up his own ass that his brain is nothing but trash.
You know, a bear would just have eaten her and walked away. By the last update, OOP should be taking all measures necessary to protect herself from this psycho. He’s basically playing with his food at this point
What was the update?
He just continued to escalate and the friend group has cut him off. If you click on OOP’s profile, there are two more posts with screenshots of the guy’s texts
Those update’s were terrifying.
As an autistic person, this guy was completely in the WRONG. I hope the poor lady’s okay.
Jfc the updates. I really hope that's the last any of that friend group hear from him.
Patrick Bateman vibes. And tbh, this guy would probably consider that a compliment.
Holy shit. This guy is gonna end up on a true crime podcast
It's all around awful, but can we talk about the fact that he says he's more successful than 90% of the men...and he's a 24yo? By the texts, without reading under, I thought he was some middle aged men harrassing his collegues, not someone who recently finished high school.
She's not a real person to him, just a malfunctioning NPC
He started out simply pathetic and looking for drama, and quickly devolved into horror movie territory. Glad the friend group had OP's back, that's the only positive in all this.
"The jokes need to be funny for me to laugh."
Or "I don't recall you telling any."
If there's one skill that males, like this guy, master far better than any other individual, it's the ability to shoehorn their penis into every exchange.
He went all in on the third update.
Oh my goddddd. I just read the updates and I’m laughing because it’s almost hilarious how delusional this man is if it wasn’t so scary. I’m glad OOP’s friends have her back. I’m glad she took screenshots of everything just in case but I hope he leaves all of them alone.
I'm more successful and better looking that 90% of the men you know!! *This legit reminds me of the weird cologne in Anchorman!! Like I snorted with laughter a little bit!! What a dickhead!
I can’t freaking stand people like this. For my entire life I have dealt with people like this because I am also quiet. I have never understood nor will I ever understand why people have such an issue with people who don’t talk a lot. They have a problem with us just existing apparently but if we say the same thing to talkative people that they say to and about us, we wouldn’t hear the end of it.
This took me back to a few years ago when I was working in a warehouse. There was this guy there who was married and hit on every new girl. An older lady put me on game so I could be aware. After months of me ignoring him, he had the nerve to ask my coworker if I was “special” because I refused to talk to him. Sir, you are married. Worry about that instead of trying to feed your ego. 😒
I read part one and was a little confused why this was here, sure he’s an asshole and a creep but it didn’t seem like it fits the sub. Then I read the second post and was beginning to understand… Then post 3 is literal fucking stalker behavior (trying to establish contact through friends. ‘Coincidentally’ seeing them. Remembering exact outfits from weeks ago. Getting a second number just to text/harass her (and talk about his penis)) Honestly, if he continues OP should probably get a restraining order
Yeah it catches you by surprise in the second half for sure.
Oh my God he started showing up at her place. I'm so scared for her.
"Are you autistic?" "Why don't you laugh at my jokes?" "I'm better looking and more successful than 90% of the men." I havent even finished reading but, just, wow, this is the most amazingly round about way to say "what are you fucking stupid? Brain fucking broken? Why haven't you jumped on my dick yet!!???" That I have EVER seen. Just needs a "dumb bitch" added to the end to make it cringe complete. ...I think I still have another page.... Edit: omg that's even better. "I fucked your friends you sad bitch! OK. Not really. I make my penis explode inside you now?" 😆 🤣 😆 🤣 what a pathetic, sad sonofabitch Edit edit: OMG THE UPDATE. THANK YOU OP ITS AMAZINGLY INSANE. Fuck this creepy guy. "I've been in your friend group for a few months and you haven't fucked me yet. You won't hang allover me like you do ppl you've known for years! You say your not brain dead but you're acting like an idiot for not fucking me. Did your dad rape you or something? Because I'll fuck you so good you'll start calling me daddy you shit brained frigid little cock tease." Love him pushing "childhood trauma" aka "daddy fucked you" as the reason you won't fuck him. I mean, the reason after "autistic". (the 'new' replacement for gay, which was the replacement for retarded, which was the replacement for stupid, which was reserved for those with thin mental constitutions in the....uh...50s? 30s? Whenever we had those schools for the blind, deaf and dumb. Often times to ppl with that personality type, asking if someone is autistic is the same as saying "what are you, retarded?". Some days I hate this planet so much. 😒) So to him, you're either brain damaged or your dad raped you because how could you not jump on a fine piece of that? .......how indeed. Edit edit edit: OMG THE LAST 3 PAGES. OMG THE LAST LINE. IM SCREAMING. NO. OMG. WHAT. OMG. SHOW EVERYONE! SHOW EVERYONE! SHOW EVERYONE HOW CREEPY HE IS!!! OMG OMG OMG
The bear.
"What do you think of me?" "I don't" Fucking beautiful 🤌🏻
[OOP's update](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/40LxjOsTNu) What a fuckin creep
The insecurity level of this dude is at maximum capacity Yeesh
That last part was exactly why your instincts were right.
Anyone read the update and immediately become concerned that op may become a target for rejecting this crazy man?
I suggest everyone read the updates because he's completely unhinged and crazy. Almost like he copied some online bill crap because there's no way some people actually think like that 😭
Hoping one of the mods can pin one of these comments telling people to read all the updates. I didn't realize they weren't in this one.
I hate men like this 🤦🏽♀️ they feel entitled to a woman’s everything because they’re attractive and have a vagina nothing else matters.
Read all 3 parts. Guy is beyond unhinged. He's dangerous.
Negging is the latest red pill flirting tactic to identify easy victims to abuse.
BRO READ ALL THREE PARTS THIS SHIT IS CONCERNINGN LIKE STRAIGHT UP MURDERER ASS SHIT
Is he... 12?
“I don’t really think of you, so not sure how to answer that”. Savage.
That sense of grandiosity...'I'm better looking...' I imagine men like this angry-cry-jerking in the shower, thinking 'tHeY OWE mE sOmE 🐈!'
The update she posted is even worse.
I know I didn't realize this link didn't include them. I hope everybody sees them.
I mean... People are likely laughing AT him... He IS the punchline.
This girl should seriously change her number and maybe consider moving bc this dude is weirdly obsessed with her and has zero interest in her consent.
“I don’t really think of you” Ahhhh, she just killed him in 6 words! Her responses are perfect.
What do you think of me? I don’t. Dude, it’s over, leave with a little dignity.
This dude thinks he is the main character. She doesnt give me any attention... there MUST be something "wrong" with her.
Got hideous flashbacks to my early 20s trying to navigate this type of "banter" from the opposite sex.
After reading the other 2 update posts, this guy is unhinged and terrifying and I am legit afraid for OOP's safety.
It's giving incel vibes
…the updates are even worse.
It’s giving stalker-rapist-murderer vibes.
Reading all the updates just makes it all so much worse. OP should let everyone know he's a creep and print all these texts in case she needs to file charges. I'd have filled them already because men like this take NO as a personal challenge. The fact that she's not following all over him is driving this guy up a wall.
Paraphrasing; “You didn’t swoon when I glanced in your general direction. I have to believe that there’s something ‘wrong*’ with you.” *I want to be very clear that I do not personally feel that there is anything wrong with being autistic.
It’s gotten worse. She made two other posts of his texts and made posts a few hours ago claiming he’s begun showing up outside her house
I'm so scared for her.
If he wasn't so insulting, I would almost feel sorry for him. "Why you never laugh at my jokes" uffffff r/sadcringe
Good God what a fucking loser. Dude needs to be directed to this thread so he can learn a thing or two on how to not be human garbage.
I found out about it when [Charlie](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DA2zVP8x0q8&pp=ygUJcGVuZ3Vpbnow) covered it and obliterated the dude in his video. It’s absolutely astounding that he immediately went to “Doesn’t drop her panties for my mediocre jokes? Must be autistic.”
\*Blocked\*
Ew. I have had way too many convos with ppl like that dude. Fucking chills.
"Why don't you laugh at my jokes" Cuz they're not funny?? How insecure can you be bro
Highly recommend the updates. Dude is fully unhinged. "Pleasure Wife A"? Bro she doesn't want anything to do with you.
Damn that conversation instantly dropped him to more annoying than 90% of men.
No real reaction so he starts bugging out. 😂
Reeks of insecurity and desperation.
[Part 2](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1cz64jc/guy_in_my_friend_group_is_annoyed_that_im_quiet/) [Part 3](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1d1g0ek/guy_in_my_friend_group_is_annoyed_that_im_quiet/)
Literal actual bile rose in my throat while reading this 🤮🤮🤮
I made so many different horrified faces reading this and the updates that if someone had seen me they would have thought I was watching some sort of medical gore video.
i'm so glad you commented this, because i went snooping it goes from bad to worse to somehow even worse, unhinged from start to finish
okay but can i just say "i don't know anything about you other than the fact you like potatoes and the town of salem" is so fucking real on OP's part i love them for that
SO cringe…. I’m seeing WHY she doesn’t do much talking. Yikes, he’s a creeper who thinks he’s “one of the good guys.”
OP has already posted in r/legaladvice for help. This is getting out of hand. It’s not just text messages.
Her posts after this are terrifying. I really hope she’s safe.
What a creep. Is he 17 or something?
[удалено]
Treat others with kindness when it is possible and civility when it is not.
There’s a follow up too if you go to the original post. Yah this is definitely a red flag waving dude. Run, girl.
Check out part 2. He’s unhinged. I’m worried for OP.
[there is an update to this convo](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/S9HYNj5i7u)
Wow, just wow. Poor woman.
she posted an update, he seems actually insane and dangerous wtf [https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1d1g0ek/guy\_in\_my\_friend\_group\_is\_annoyed\_that\_im\_quiet/](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1d1g0ek/guy_in_my_friend_group_is_annoyed_that_im_quiet/)
God that is just terrible
My God. Let that girl FN exist in peace. Imagine harassing someone because they don't want to talk to your weird ass.
Seriously? ‘I think you’re jealous.’ ?!?! WTH??? Don’t flatter yourself!
the part 2 OP posted is even more terrifying
check the part 3... it somehow got worse
yooooikes
“*Not that I’m trying to make YOU laugh in particular. God, no! I don’t care at all about what you think of me. I’m just a really cool, charismatic guy so it’s understandably quite shocking when a girl isn’t bowled over by me. Can you explain yourself? I’m both fascinated and repulsed!”*
Whenever someone does the “wow” thing multiple times to me, it’s a giveaway to me they’re crazy and probably narcissistic.
Delusional and stupid. Great combination. My dude, take a damn hint. Honey, she doesn't care what you do with who and she probably never care. "I don't know anything about you." Have you tried asking her questions already? If so you probably should add "What kind of humor do you like?" to the questions.
Wow. This guy just can’t take honesty. And what is the deal with suggesting you’re autistic just because you don’t talk to him. I’m autistic. So what? I don’t talk to people I don’t like either. Courteous, yes. The bear
This is giving "pickup artist" vibes.
Yep, red pill/PUA crap. I noticed it is especially heavy on "negging".
I don’t like talking about myself either… doesn’t mean I’m on the spectrum ha what the heck buddy
Link to the 3rd update, super disturbing: https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/comments/1d1g0ek/guy_in_my_friend_group_is_annoyed_that_im_quiet/#lightbox
There’s a penguinz0 video about this crazy conversation!
What a fucking weirdo. Fucking narcissist.