You get to the point where you just go with the flow and you really don't feel anything inside so you just keep working and look forward to bullshit meaningless satisfactions in life so you can justify your existence
lol why’s that such a bad thing. We’re dead for millions of years and alive for only 100 at most. I’m not religious much but the cosmological arguments and the prophecies would make me seem foolish to myself to deny. I evaluated all of them and this one made the most sense and is the most inclusive of all prophets. It makes more sense to me than God punished God and then God asked God Oh God Oh God why have you forsaken God, God and then God died at the hands of humans or that God was ever dependent on a human to change his nappys. It seems inconsistent with power dynamics. The religion accepts all the prophets using a consistent standard without unreasonably hating or loving one. If I could logically justify not believing without super imposing my judgement of morality which doesn’t reflect whether something is true or not I would. For example I can’t justify an illiterate man by the way society at the time defined it as well as now living in the dessert 1400+ years ago predicting the invention of cars, predicting a future war and the victors, predicting that barefoot Arabs would one day compete to build the tallest buildings, the establishment of his religion in specific far away countries far after his death, the collapse of an empire and said empire never having another king after the current, prediction that a complete bare dessert was once meadows and rivers which is supported by historical research and would return to that which has occurred through artificial means in the current day, normalization of interest, frequency of earthquakes, etc. The prophecies in his life and in the holy book turn me into a believer just because of the timelines and the unreasonableness of any average Joe saying this stuff 1400+ years ago even if I would personally like to disagree with some stuff by super imposing my 2021 value judgement it’s not enough because I realize that is an abhorrent standard to determine the truth or falsehood of something.
Seconded. Whether you believe it or not, your friends and family would be devastated. Also your mental health is way more important than any career. It's not worth dying over debits and credits.
That makes me incredibly sad to hear. I hope things turn around for you. If you ever need someone to talk to, send me a message. I'd happily volunteer to be drug into your sadness - everyone needs some support every once and a while.
I know the sentiment but suicide isn't the answer. I used to think the same way but if you really think about it, once you realize the unimportant things in life, you can start realizing what really makes you happy. At the end of the day a job is just a job bro. You can and will find something that you value that will make you happy and fulfilled in life. Just think about this period in your life as a necessary obstacle; one that is needed in order to understand yourself. You deserve to live and be a happy person.
I like my job man. It is keeping me afloat even though there’s some bs. I just don’t understand why it’s one thing after another or why the world works the way it does. Idk if I can be happy again. I’m just a walking neutral face these days.
Please go see a therapist. And recognize your job is toxic and has made you think you dont have any options outside of it (or something?)
Anyway thats wrong- you can literally be ANYTHING else and get away from this accounting grind right?? Go study software! Or be a flight attendant! Study nursing. You’re smart enough for accounting, you can learn other basic skills. And that is far better than unalive-ing yourself.
The country of Canada is toxic tbh more than my job. It’s life that’s made me feel this way. I feel disgusted about living here any longer with what happened. I want to go to PwC in the US maybe in Chicago and not talk to anyone so when something tragic happens it won’t bother me. It’s just the accumulation of things along with 0 pride about Canada anymore that makes it tougher.
I actually did get help friend. I payed $6000 to get help for 2 weeks. 7 ketamine infusions and 4 injections to my neck. Then a month later it was a huge set back.
Hey man. I feel you. The thing is nothing in this world really matters... so like... your job not really "doing anything meaningful" also doesn't matter. I'm sorry if that feels pessimistic, but it helped me. Only you can truly assign what has value to your life. And hopefully you get paid enough that you can forget how nothing all of this is and I guess enjoy it??
Idk. I thought this was going to be a bit more inspirational. But much like the rest of life, this comment is also meaningless.
I'm a bit burnt out too. But now that I've finished my bowl, I'm going to hug my wife close and drift off into sleep where no one can hurt me.
This is a twisted, deranged comment and you should be ashamed of it. How could you possibly say that nothing matters? Going through life with that attitude will only bring sadness and desolation and isn't helpful for anyone involved, especially someone like OP who is clearly fed up with life.
Yup, it’s just part of the culture unfortunately. I like to think after six years of PA, I’m not nearly as jaded as some of my former colleagues I saw at the same level as I am now when I first started. But it’s inevitable after going through rounds of this shit.
it ain’t too late to turn back. you’ll probably be burnt out and overworked from most decently-paying jobs, but there’s far more lucrative ones to be burnt out by
lmao you don’t have time to be burnt out in IB…it’s just hell. At least in audit you wouldn’t have to fear for your job everyday if your not working 100 hours a week if there’s heavy deal flow. But consulting is def a great option if you have the skill set for it!
Mental health is super important, make that a number one priority for yourself. Be your own best friend and make sure to focus on the things you love outside of work. Surround yourself with loved ones and please talk to someone. ❤
This. I’ve been so burnt out, working in public accounting, studying for exams... I ran out of pto because I was sick— from a stress-induced stomach ulcer. Just got fired and am honestly so fucking relieved to be done with that job!!!
It was the best reset button I could have asked for.
I feel this too OP. I’m just burnt out. I’m overworked, I can’t seem to do anything right at work, every accomplishment I have is overlooked, I’m underpaid, I’m just done. I am taking 7 days of PTO starting next week to just get away and hopefully refresh.
What is the relation of this to having European roots? I understand he was German but are you suggesting philosophical inclinations are driven by ancestral demography? Ie a person w European roots would be more inclined towards Nietzsche
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Hit the reset button. Break out of the pattern. Might mean a new job, friends, family, SO, etc. Or all of the above. Best thing I ever did was taking a job 500 miles away in a new city.
It’s a accrual world my friend
It do be like that sometimes
Please take PTO!
You get to the point where you just go with the flow and you really don't feel anything inside so you just keep working and look forward to bullshit meaningless satisfactions in life so you can justify your existence
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If religion is the only thing stopping you, you need help. Although I'm glad it is stopping you and that you're still here.
lol why’s that such a bad thing. We’re dead for millions of years and alive for only 100 at most. I’m not religious much but the cosmological arguments and the prophecies would make me seem foolish to myself to deny. I evaluated all of them and this one made the most sense and is the most inclusive of all prophets. It makes more sense to me than God punished God and then God asked God Oh God Oh God why have you forsaken God, God and then God died at the hands of humans or that God was ever dependent on a human to change his nappys. It seems inconsistent with power dynamics. The religion accepts all the prophets using a consistent standard without unreasonably hating or loving one. If I could logically justify not believing without super imposing my judgement of morality which doesn’t reflect whether something is true or not I would. For example I can’t justify an illiterate man by the way society at the time defined it as well as now living in the dessert 1400+ years ago predicting the invention of cars, predicting a future war and the victors, predicting that barefoot Arabs would one day compete to build the tallest buildings, the establishment of his religion in specific far away countries far after his death, the collapse of an empire and said empire never having another king after the current, prediction that a complete bare dessert was once meadows and rivers which is supported by historical research and would return to that which has occurred through artificial means in the current day, normalization of interest, frequency of earthquakes, etc. The prophecies in his life and in the holy book turn me into a believer just because of the timelines and the unreasonableness of any average Joe saying this stuff 1400+ years ago even if I would personally like to disagree with some stuff by super imposing my 2021 value judgement it’s not enough because I realize that is an abhorrent standard to determine the truth or falsehood of something.
Wish you the best homie
This is the national suicide prevention hotline number: 800 273 8255. I would give them a call and just talk to someone.
Please consider talking to a therapist
Seconded. Whether you believe it or not, your friends and family would be devastated. Also your mental health is way more important than any career. It's not worth dying over debits and credits.
I try to avoid talking to friends to not drag them into my sadness and my family has hurt me so much. But I understand the sentiment
That makes me incredibly sad to hear. I hope things turn around for you. If you ever need someone to talk to, send me a message. I'd happily volunteer to be drug into your sadness - everyone needs some support every once and a while.
I know the sentiment but suicide isn't the answer. I used to think the same way but if you really think about it, once you realize the unimportant things in life, you can start realizing what really makes you happy. At the end of the day a job is just a job bro. You can and will find something that you value that will make you happy and fulfilled in life. Just think about this period in your life as a necessary obstacle; one that is needed in order to understand yourself. You deserve to live and be a happy person.
I like my job man. It is keeping me afloat even though there’s some bs. I just don’t understand why it’s one thing after another or why the world works the way it does. Idk if I can be happy again. I’m just a walking neutral face these days.
Please go see a therapist. And recognize your job is toxic and has made you think you dont have any options outside of it (or something?) Anyway thats wrong- you can literally be ANYTHING else and get away from this accounting grind right?? Go study software! Or be a flight attendant! Study nursing. You’re smart enough for accounting, you can learn other basic skills. And that is far better than unalive-ing yourself.
The country of Canada is toxic tbh more than my job. It’s life that’s made me feel this way. I feel disgusted about living here any longer with what happened. I want to go to PwC in the US maybe in Chicago and not talk to anyone so when something tragic happens it won’t bother me. It’s just the accumulation of things along with 0 pride about Canada anymore that makes it tougher. I actually did get help friend. I payed $6000 to get help for 2 weeks. 7 ketamine infusions and 4 injections to my neck. Then a month later it was a huge set back.
Hey man. I feel you. The thing is nothing in this world really matters... so like... your job not really "doing anything meaningful" also doesn't matter. I'm sorry if that feels pessimistic, but it helped me. Only you can truly assign what has value to your life. And hopefully you get paid enough that you can forget how nothing all of this is and I guess enjoy it?? Idk. I thought this was going to be a bit more inspirational. But much like the rest of life, this comment is also meaningless. I'm a bit burnt out too. But now that I've finished my bowl, I'm going to hug my wife close and drift off into sleep where no one can hurt me.
...drift off into sleep where no one can hurt me." What beautiful prose. Thank you
This is a twisted, deranged comment and you should be ashamed of it. How could you possibly say that nothing matters? Going through life with that attitude will only bring sadness and desolation and isn't helpful for anyone involved, especially someone like OP who is clearly fed up with life.
I'm still a college student. I guess I'm in for a treat after graduation.
Don’t worry, you’ll be jaded and cynical like the rest of us in no time
Yup, it’s just part of the culture unfortunately. I like to think after six years of PA, I’m not nearly as jaded as some of my former colleagues I saw at the same level as I am now when I first started. But it’s inevitable after going through rounds of this shit.
it ain’t too late to turn back. you’ll probably be burnt out and overworked from most decently-paying jobs, but there’s far more lucrative ones to be burnt out by
Like what?
IB or consulting
lmao you don’t have time to be burnt out in IB…it’s just hell. At least in audit you wouldn’t have to fear for your job everyday if your not working 100 hours a week if there’s heavy deal flow. But consulting is def a great option if you have the skill set for it!
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He said better paying jobs to be burnt out by…. Lol
i was thinking something in tech or data, something super transferrable across countries unlike the American CPA
Software engineers. At least you’ll be making $200k+ and have an unemployment rate of like 3% in awful times.
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Amen brother
Sorry bud. Hope things get better. Take care of yourself.
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Thank you. I needed that.
Life or work? Or does your work/life balance blend the two?
I use work to try to get away from life at this point
Welcome to adulthood. You have children yet?
It’s one thing after another it seems adulthood or childhood
Never ever having kids. Parents seem miserable.
Why would you have children if you're burned out before them?
Not that I’m aware of
Ya man i feel you..when you needed change the most but nothing happens. I know the feeling. Try to remember all the good things instead of the bad..🤝🤝
Mental health is super important, make that a number one priority for yourself. Be your own best friend and make sure to focus on the things you love outside of work. Surround yourself with loved ones and please talk to someone. ❤
This. I’ve been so burnt out, working in public accounting, studying for exams... I ran out of pto because I was sick— from a stress-induced stomach ulcer. Just got fired and am honestly so fucking relieved to be done with that job!!! It was the best reset button I could have asked for.
Have you tried unlimited paid time off?
I just spent 16 hours doing consolidation homework on my weekend
Enjoy everyday like it could be your last, within reason, need to account for the unexpected
:(
I feel this too OP. I’m just burnt out. I’m overworked, I can’t seem to do anything right at work, every accomplishment I have is overlooked, I’m underpaid, I’m just done. I am taking 7 days of PTO starting next week to just get away and hopefully refresh.
Might be time to make a change for the better. :) Change can do wonders sometimes.
I just left the department, I need to learn where to bill them for my therapy sessions
It can be a pain in the assets.
We’re just COGS in a machine
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No not that I am aware of but haven’t done an ancestry test
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What is the relation of this to having European roots? I understand he was German but are you suggesting philosophical inclinations are driven by ancestral demography? Ie a person w European roots would be more inclined towards Nietzsche
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Very interesting 👍
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Hit the reset button. Break out of the pattern. Might mean a new job, friends, family, SO, etc. Or all of the above. Best thing I ever did was taking a job 500 miles away in a new city.
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