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Me (16M) & a girl I hooked up with (16F). The first time we hooked up was perfectly fine but the second time she wouldn't let me pull out and she took control. She ended up getting pregnant. I told her I would not raise the child because I didn't want it and I had no choice but to get her pregnant. She's very strong and tbh I'm very weak. She yelled at me and humiliated me and herself in front of the whole school. I was at the hospital when the baby was born and I signed the Birth Certificate. But I refuse to raise a child that I had no choice but to have. So am I the asshole?
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YTA
Welcome to adulthood and adult responsibilities. This is a joint responsibility. You may not want to raise it and probably can't be forced to but that is what makes you an AH. She certainly is as well but that should not make you feel better and the sooner you stop blaming others for your own mistakes, the sooner you can get your sh*t together. So good luck.
ESH. Pull out doesn't work. You should have been wearing a condom. She is also an AH for everything else. But you signed the birth certificate and it's your kid. Be prepared to pay child support for the next 18 years.
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YTA Welcome to adulthood and adult responsibilities. This is a joint responsibility. You may not want to raise it and probably can't be forced to but that is what makes you an AH. She certainly is as well but that should not make you feel better and the sooner you stop blaming others for your own mistakes, the sooner you can get your sh*t together. So good luck.
ESH. Pull out doesn't work. You should have been wearing a condom. She is also an AH for everything else. But you signed the birth certificate and it's your kid. Be prepared to pay child support for the next 18 years.