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MFDoooooooooooom

I can usually feel it rise up, and it'll sit there and most of the time won't actually tip over. But when I do, I always feel shit after. I don't experience that 'feels good to get it out' feeling. I just feel drained and vacant.


RonyRexGaming

You edge your tears


Pantiesafteralongrun

If you do it long enough, there will be a large load on the release. Extremely painful


PlayingBandits

Same


Hi0401

I don't cry. I'm a man! Men are biologically incapable of crying because they lack tear glands, didn't you know? >!I cry in the shower!<


wildpantz

Yeah, instead of tear ducts we have extra muscles! >!I cry before sleep!<


YARA1212

I am a man. What is crying? Is it something that I can use to gain more muscle? >! I cry in the rain !<


dotsdavid

Not true. Everyone cry’s.


youcancallmLola

How you do the grey thing ?


MaximumZer0

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youcancallmLola

>!thank you!<


MaximumZer0

>!No problem, citizen!!<


patient_zero1986

>!did it work?!< Edit: 🤯 hfs it works….ty


Gregorygregory888888

With my eyes normally.


Ok_Point_5877

Was OP expecting tears to come out from somewhere else?


regarding_my_person

Peepee


IsRude

"With your eyes, Burt."


OlFlirtyBastard

Face down, ass up


Ok-Block9462

Like a baby. Don’t cry often but when I do there’s lots of tears and snot. Last time was…..oh I wanna say 4 years ago? My cat died, had liver failure at 2 years old. Didn’t have the money for a 2k fee to put her down so I tried to make her as comfortable as I could and holding her in my arms has she convulsed and spit stuff up………kinda feel like crying now. Anyway yea


BaidenFallwind

Yo I'm so sorry that you and your cat went through that. Deeply sorry.


kyatorpo

It really fucking sucks that you have to pay for that kind of service. I know there's more to it than just having a vet do the deed, but it just makes the ordeal worse, especially going through what you went through. Im sorry, my friend.


DebianDog

yep I am pretty old and can probably count the amount of times I have cried, cried on my fingers. However when it happens it is epic. Sometimes a tear will sneak out when I am drunk or something and start thinking of the past or maybe when I see a really good emotional commercial on television, and it evokes some forgotten memory. stupid brain.


Delta_Kennon

Most of the time, it's like I'm on the brink and there's this chasm of emotion I'm staring down into. Occasionally, something will bridge that gap – a movie scene, that one song, or a damn good book, and then the floodgates just open. It's like rain in a drought, scarce but overwhelming when it comes.


MaximumZer0

My tears don't fall, they crash around me.


FalseReportEXE

THE CONSCIENCE CALLS THE GUILTY TO COME HOME


DalinsiaValkyrPrime

I don't. I probably should. The wall hurts, y'know? I should probably get a punching bag in my times of extreme distress.


patgeo

They are very cathartic, just make sure it's secured correctly. It's really annoying to have to get put the tools to fix the thing the stand broke when you swung too hard. Not macho bragging, I had taken the weights off the pegs to use on the bar the previous day and wasn't planning on boxing until later in the week, so it was completely unweighted. Got a phone call that my brother had died in a car crash and punched it while I was ugly crying. It fell over and knocked a panel on the shed, which I then had to fix, in the rain, while still crying.


Dismal-Ant-4669

In my bed usually, at night, so no one knows.


TheReturnOfCresus

Silently


Come-for-Megatron

With my arseho


No-Username-731

Watch or read a sad story, suffer vicariously through the character and bawl your eyes out. Will give you an outlet to cry without having to examine your personal troubles.


CapG_13

The same way that you do and whenever I feel like crying, I cry 🤷🏻‍♂️


princessfyourdream

We gather at the local bar, have a few beers, and then let it all out during karaoke night while singing.


MaximumZer0

♪Just a city boy, born and raised in south Detroit...♫


Acousticchild137

I don’t usually


No_Home_7795

I tear up quite a bit. This only started happening recently. I don't know why.


Curious_Lilyy

stuff my face in a pillow and scream while crying. I just let all my frustrations out.


ThunderClap_Fween

Alone in a comfortable space with some loud music playing.


father_ofthe_wolf

Alone in my car because I don't need anyone seeing me


importancedeficit

Pull a nose hair


Kendexx

I dont cry, insted of it im just staring at something (ceiling,floor, random thing) for hours


Actual_Good1133

Dark places, dark thoughts, being alone.


StinkFingerPete

alone


Trust_Fall_Failure

The last time I cried was in August of 1997. It was over a girl.


MrInformationSeeker

By smiling :(


[deleted]

I don't understand the question, what is this cry


Ok_Point_5877

Depends… but let me tell u that sobbing in a school bathroom stall after a test is next level


patgeo

Hits different when you're the teacher.


Swimming_Childhood99

With a smile


vYdRo_sSs

Well why nooo whine whine


Dear_Company_5439

Like any human does


Sipzzzz

i usually get the emotion to tipping edge and dont cry. then u r js with the extra emotion cos u dont physiologically outlet it. if i do cry, it is a singular tear at most and i want to let out more but i think i got sachrymal gland issues atp


Deathwishharry

Wish I could I have autism so I just feel sad and look down


blondexbunnyx

Whenever I watch a movie that I'm really invested in and an emotional scene happens.


No_Archer_791

same with women, through eyes


kovzi1

Never showed my tears, I store them in my heart and one day I'm gonna drown in them Rain in my heart - frank sinatra


PlayingBandits

Just let the liquid flows from our eyes what are you asking about😭 Did men cry differently? But seriously men usually cry secretly, you rarely see a man cry in front of you unless you're really close to him, or he is just drunk.


zool714

I’m sensitive but I rarely cried. But like the past year or so, I’ve been crying a lot. Most of the time though my eyes get watery and I get the sniffes. But only once in recent years did I bawl my eyes out till it’s hard to breathe.


Ok-Bumblebee9192

When i understand.


mightylonka

Either one tear or a tantrum when I am alone, thrashing around like the devil in a crab pot.


SoftlySpokenPromises

Usually when I hear a song that resonates with me I'll tear up. Not a full cry, but there have been a couple that got me there. Found one recently that just destroyed me for a while.


Toadrage_

Looking back on my life, that’s pretty much the only time I cry. I process all the time I’ve wasted, everything I’ve done wrong and just let the tears roll down my face. Then I play some video games to get over it


mhall812

Honestly the only thing that makes me “well up” are movies. Not chick flicks but some act of honor or courage or acceptance. There is one scene in Almost Famous where Penny-lane says to William “you are home”. Then the camera slowly zooms in as he realizes he is right where he belongs..It gets me every time.


Tittyfuck3r-

Well, first, you need to activate the tear ducts by thinking about all the embarrassing moments from middle school. Then, cue up some sad music, preferably a dramatic ballad from the '90s, and imagine yourself as the protagonist in a tear-jerking movie scene. Finally, let the tears flow freely while dramatically staring off into the distance. And there you have it—cry like a pro! 😭😭😭


DeftTrack81

Alone and in a dark room. I ugly cry.


DebitCredit0404

With music


happyhullos

wait till it's 2am-3am ish, in my bed, with some tissues laid down around my face i don't want to wake my family, but also don't want the tear stains to be on my bed (although my mum mistakes it for drool sometimes) sometimes when i feel like it's really getting to me, i'll put on headphones and play smt, but most nights i keep them off in case i hear my family members waking up


Galeo_Credo

Traffic in Kuala Lumpur is usually very bad, especially during morning rush or when people finish work. I'd leave the office at 6pm and drive about 2hours home. I cry then.


Tomsmoke_333

Private places and facts crying are the only way we can out of pressure


Shadow_girl123

You can look it up on YouTube, there must be a way.


strawbericoklat

Hold it in until I can no longer.


lluwiv

Same


pinkrousepink

at night when no one can see :3


Super_Discussion5939

I really want to cry not just dripping a tear or two I need crying but I can’t my tears get swallowed


therealslapper

[https://youtu.be/4CD0ZbvIyQE?t=231](https://youtu.be/4CD0ZbvIyQE?t=231)


Batmanbutnotbatman

With my eyes and a hand full of skittles


Yogisogoth

Usually listen to a song that I heavily relate with does it. Get Gone Again by Slobberbone just absolutely kicks me in the gut! Hope the High Road by Jason Isbell and the 300-unit is another.


multiwirth_

I don´t It´s broken.


Delde116

Apparently I only cry when I either lose a pet or a family member.


Future-Cellist-3064

after the last set of leg extension, with my hands on my quads or falling behind my body


___Azu____

UNCONTROLLABLY, WHY WHATS UP


HalfSoul30

From my eyeballs, usually.


ShadowSwain

I rarely cry but when I do it’s either in my bed where no one can hear me or in my shower where no one can hear me…


CountryChef77

Wow


Ok-Specialist-4777

I don't


THATBLUEBLAZER

idk, i just know i do it a lot


acemonsoon

It’s usually a slow build. It’s like small little hiccups that hit and then I try to scrunch my face or bite my lip to distract of really hold it back. Sometimes I pinch my own leg to distract me because when the tears start coming, like they pour out. I ugly cry. It’s from holding everything together all by myself and then when you do reach out to someone they don’t ever take it as seriously as you


Ok-Present5431

We aren’t allowed to.


Mister_Moho

Anything involving a dying pet. I can't handle it.


Samson_HXC

Really good sad/beautiful movie like The Fountain or Everything Everywhere All at Once


CuteZaraEve

as stupid as it sounds in the film cast away when he loses wilson I always tear up, no joke


Duffman66CMU

Infrequently, it mostly comes out as yelling


Eruskakkell

Alone in my room


parthesvoraa

I don't cry


Nezidig

After copious amounts of alcohol and quietly in the sheets while pretending to be asleep. Only ever happened twice in my life, though.


johnnyjimmy4

My dog died


shreyxz

me rn 🤔


BabylonSuperiority

With my eyes and tear ducts, how else?


RedFox449

With my eyes


nonsenseSpitter

So it’s usually in a dark and quiet place, alone, I just sit. I first try not to cry but if emotions are overwhelming me, I stare into the darkness and cry in silence. I take my time until I calm down and then go about doing whatever I’m supposed to do. I hate crying. Because I think it’s pointless. Emotionally it helps only sometimes to calm down but I just hate it. These are the times I think about the days when there were no responsibilities and everything was fine. I feel like shit when I reach that point that I have to sit and cry.


Elkaragholi

quack quarrelsome fanatical modern cooperative vast squalid wipe hard-to-find far-flung


_IamPrettyChill_

Either in shower or just in bed during the night. Sometimes it just hurts and tears don't actually come out, but it is what it is.


GD_22

Womp womp


Blueblackzinc

uncontrollably. I shed tears occasionally using "It's just a game" videos on YouTube but I've fully cried once when my grandma died and they didnt bother waiting to bury her eventhough I was already at my hometown airport. I went to smoke instead and suddenly started crying for a full hour. At least 6 people came and tried to console me unsuccessfully. Slept for like 2 days afterward. Went back to college after the 3rd day. Wanted to go back immediately but the flight was fully booked. I still havent gone to the cemetery. I know the dam going to burst if I do. Had to beg the airlines and people on the flight to give me a seat. The airline took pity and let me sit on the jump seat in the cockpit.


Rell30

Seeing people win or soldiers coming home to unsuspecting loved ones does it for me


BrilliantSun7540

Softly. And in private.


alcoholicindian

What the hell


lovehatewhatever

In front of a large mirror. Preferably standing up with my hands on something like a sink or dresser. It helps if the lights are halogen


FalseReportEXE

Randomly, in the shower, hugging my knees and letting the steaming hot water crash down on me like an emo teen in a music video.


Such-Head-2888

internally


KamikazeFox_

While watching sad dog videos


underground__trader

Long road night drive alone in car


EverywhereINowhere

I don’t. I bottle it all up and then when something major happens I break down and have a panic attack.


AproposWuin

Normally I use my eyes. Gets a bit wierd any other way


Master_Alkane

I drive at night. Park at a quiet place then let it out. They say crying makes you feel good afterwards, it doesn't for me.


mspencerl87

Ugly Cried when grandad died last year. My friend died in 2021. If there are no more of these situations anytime soon. Will likely be years to the next cry. Because it was about 7 years since I cried up to those 2 points.


dotsdavid

With tears coming out of your eyes.


Gullible-Method-4811

I just think about the state of our country


dvasquez93

In a ball on the floor, holding a bottle, eyes closed, mouth open wit no noise coming out. 


[deleted]

In private, for no more than 10-15 seconds before I pull that shit back together. Woke up one time with a girl I was seeing and for some reason shit just all hit me at once. No idea why I was upset, but looking back I think it was probably my subconscious telling me something… so yeah, we don’t cry


japcrust

With tears. They come from your eye balls. Some vocal noises happen. This is normal human stuff….


IsItdicipline

Usually upside down sometimes standing


No_Employment492

I cry alone


NightHawk946

In private usually in the shower or something. If you do it in front of other guys they will think you’re a bitch and if you do it in front of women they will get the “ick” so it’s best to just hide it from everyone.


skintay12

If I want to get a good, hard cry in, I just watch [Last Moments with ODEN](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EOAcRKZxjy4). Very, very easy way to reduce myself to a blubbering mess and just let it all out.


Zach_demiwizard

I haven't cried in 7 years 


pup5581

I have maybe only shed a tear 3 times in the last 10+ years. It was with my pets passing from my college era. At 35 now, most of them are gone and were with me 12+ years. Losing your best friend at times was....hard. Before that was when my dad died when I was 23. Otherwise I have become numb to all things these days with how things have gone and just...yeah. Something major would have to happen to my mother or wife for me to cry again. I can feel it bottled up at times when I think about my dad...but I have always pushed it back and kept it inside


Legion357

Usually out of my tear ducts.


Leading-Goose-5734

Just curl up in the shower chug a gallon of water. It’s always based on my cycle. Can’t catch a break for anything


Animal-The-Cat

I’ll watch the last episode of band of brothers,and/or the last episode of the pacific.


Zelhss

Damm still looking for that YouTube how to tutorial


Asa-Ryder

I don’t. Only happens when I’m laughing really hard at something.


Paganidol64

Unexpectedly


Khriohs

I can‘t anymore and I’m really sad about it.


Libertyman69420

Just tears barely any noise


Dry_Durian_3154

Quietly, where/when no one can see.


Legendary_Lamb2020

It comes from the heart


HooverMaster

There was this french short I watched about grandparents in a nursing home with alzheimers. Only time in my life I bawled. Usually it's just an overwhelming sadness that just gets to the point where I tear up. Usually it's some somewhat insignificant event that times with a depressive episode that just balls up and it feels like....really bad ig?


Rude_Flounder766

Manly. In silence. One eye at a time.


Lawdydawty

Like I just fell out of a tub filled with grapes after trying to stomp them with my feet


Eastern-Criticism653

With my eyes


SchismZero

What do you mean "how"? Through my eyes?


Ban_Cheater_YO

Well. Haven't really since 23. Now I'm 29. Had a few bouts of sudden crying during 2019-20 when I was diagnosed with panic disorder. Now I only cry when watching sobfests. Also when Tony snaps his fingers. 🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


sapthur

Either quiet tears or uncontrolled sob.


WomenRepulsor

I usually cry in bathroom or in my room if no one can see me. It usually when I'm around my mother or Sister 


-mizkelleneus-

Tears and nothing else. Then I beat myself up about it because I’m a man and no one cares about our feelings


RustyShackleford4eva

Alone, in silence. Don’t wanna give anyone ammunition to use later.


AceyFacee

Uncontrollably and with lots of shakes and contractions in the body


FeelDeadInside

Usually out of my eyes.


hungry-switchh21

Just be chillin and shii straight face as fuck letting the tears fall until I feel better.


niceMURZEL

My life's not interesting enough to give me a reason to cry


boholbrook

From my butt.


Fancy-Fig5145

I would usually just let out a big sigh, cry in silent and then continue with life. We men always try to not show a weakness in front of our family.


Bean-Penis

Silently and alone.


drewbles82

I don't know...I didn't cry when my gran died, didn't cry when my best friend died both dog & human, last time I did cry was when I just couldn't stop it...I felt like I was saying goodbye to my dad as he was laying their in hospital hooked up to machines, couldn't talk, just move his eyes, we were told the night before he might not make it, then, I couldn't find any words to say when I thought this was the last time I'd see my dad...thankfully after lunch he was talking again and has been home a month now.


No_Entertainment5968

Wish I could scream cry, but I can't so it's just silent crying with lots of silent expressions


Miiakuzii

I haven’t cried in a long time. I don’t see the big deal


buttstuffbuffmuff

Loud and often


Krusty_Klown_Kollege

When I am alone. Sometimes I just scream, rarely do I sob. Most of the time, I just deal.


kpeterson159

Rather easy for me after I had my stroke.


Svelted

i well up sometimes, usually at movies or even songs. but i haven't had a good CRY in many years. crying is good though.


AVBforPrez

Sitting with my dog and watching Babymetal arena shows.


heyitsvonage

Usually because of happy things or nostalgia


GreenFork1

For me it’s quietly in silence on the inside


why_tell_you

The tears just come out from the glands... Pretty easy


amendersc

when i do it, which is VERY rare btw, i turn off my lights, play a specific playlist i have (which is filled mostly with calm and kinda happy and hopeful music, not sad one), and cry.


Frumplefugly

When I'm depressed it's with a blank face. When I'm manic it's hysterical


Technical-Art5406

With my eyes. Hope this helps 


SwordsAreCool7

Quitely. Lots of tears and snot, but still silently because i dont want anyone to hear it.


SirVixTheMoist

with my cock in my hand


Vsfreddit2024

I just watch Aerith final scene from the original.


Andrewmc22

>!hello!<


RonzulaGD

I haven't cried in a long time. I just can't releases all the sadness at once and I just sob for a long time


icecombustion

from my eyes


AwkwardOakTree

If you think about bad stuff long enough you'll eventually feel a spasm in the muscles around your eyes, then comes heavy breathing and tears go down. Reading this again, I realize it's like cumming


Andulias

I am processing childhood trauma the last few months (mom died when I was little, her family abandoned us, never talked to anyone or processed it at all) so I went from almost never to literally daily. I can feel it bubbling up until the smallest thing tips me over and I just start crying, sometimes so intensively my hands go numb. Don't bury your feelings, kids. Just don't.


Silver-Plane-8270

Water comes out of my eyes, how do think i cry ? With my feet ?


Broad_Text_7259

Why you even want to cry


luckycsgocrateaddict

Through the ol eyeball sacks


Expensive_Finger_973

Usually as I am cleaning up the mess from the last bible jerk session at the Y.


5u55y8aka

When I watch or read a sad story. Real life doesn't make me cry for some reason, only fiction. I am indifferent to the world around me, I guess.


BoogerCookie

With so many regrets. It's so easy to trigger, sometimes I have to hurry from my work cube to my car to hide until it passes.


bestjakeisbest

Alone, and quietly.


Capable_Answer_8713

Get your heart broken


CourageFar8779

My little boy died. Usually y myself or around select other people I will wail and scream and blubber. It’s not pretty but I have had to get ok with it. My guy friends have had to get ok with it. I dare not show it to my wife or child or any other woman least they ridicule me and tell me to man up. I use to be a boxer and worked 80 hours a week in my trades business. I don’t know how to be manly while I’m a father weeping for his lost 8 year old child.


ElectronicCoat5048

Have ur girlfriend cheat on u with ur bestfriend even tho u repeatedly told her not to and she paralyzed him so u cant even beat him anymore....or like onions would work too


kyunirider

Can’t cry I have dry eye disease and if I have a tear it’s my eye drops running. My dear beloved mother in law died recently. And I was crying without tears at her funeral. And was even put on facebook for public viewing due to the big heart she had for her family friends and church. Many thought I was cold. I am not, I just have no tears and more.