Hm, it's always interesting to hear other people's perspectives. Tongue kissing, or deep kissing as you will is one of my top kinks. Strange how different our wants and inks are person to person.
That wouldn't be a different perspective though. That's changing the definition of the word. A sexual kink refers to something non-traditional. Kissing is certainly not non-traditional.
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Last night. My husband and I do every day. I didn’t realize this may not always be the case for people in relationships. But in any event, we both like it so we do it. And we’re old and have been married a long time.
I'm in the same boat as JohannesLorenz1954. While not satisfied with that part of the relationship, the overall relationship is a win. Take the good with the bad.
Ah, I see, I thought they meant it wasn't fair as in their partner was consciously choosing to be unjust in the relationship. It sucks, but there's usually something underlying the change in sexual desire, and it's not fair to either person in the relationship that they have to experience a mis-match in libdo like that.
I had very bad experiences with French kissing about 7 and a half years ago. It ruined it for me and every guy since then who’s tried I stopped because it just grosses me out too much now 😅
My partner and I usually make out to say hello/good bye we’re both in our 40’s. We always find a moment to hold each other and make out. It’s how we communicate if we’re in a good place with each other or not.
A few hours ago. It's not uncommon for he and I to kiss passionately while cooking dinner together each night. Sometimes if something is baking or doesn't need immediate attention, kisses turn into passionate make out sessions or quick sexual encounters. Sometimes though the hubby and I lose track of time until the fire alarm reminds us that we aren't the only thing heating up😅
Abt a month ago. Really creepy tinder date, it was an overall AWFUL experience. He didn’t ask, he just did it. And it was gross, and sad, and made me never wanna do it again lol.
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I haven't really been physically intimate with anyone, including kissing, since I started transitioning 2 years ago, and this is the question that made me realize it lol
So, it's been... 4 or 5 years? But also, I think the next time I fall in love and kiss someone, it's gonna honestly feel like a first kiss all over again.
Last night.
Oooooooooooooooooooooww!!
Ayyyoooooooo! But also same 😏
Over 10 years, dont remember the exact time, i find snogging absolutely repulsive and wont do it, kissing without tongue is awesome though
Probably about the same for me. I really hate someone else tongue in my mouth.
Hm, it's always interesting to hear other people's perspectives. Tongue kissing, or deep kissing as you will is one of my top kinks. Strange how different our wants and inks are person to person.
Honest question, why do you consider kissing a kink?
I’m so glad someone asked. I was like…. kink?!?!?
They just told you, different perspectives
That wouldn't be a different perspective though. That's changing the definition of the word. A sexual kink refers to something non-traditional. Kissing is certainly not non-traditional.
My ex used to cover me in saliva :(.
Labradors don't count.
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Last week in the front seat of his truck. Felt like I was a teenager again.
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Sour huh 🤣🤣
Last night. My husband and I still make out like we did when we first dated.
I love this ❤️ I got married in April and always love hearing about the magic still being there :)
Congrats! I got married in April too…40 years ago! Still going strong and we absolutely love spending time together.
love this i feel this way as my relationship gets more serious and time passes it’s the best
Many moons ago
In my last life, maybe
How many lifes did you have ?
Never… -___- #singlefor30++years
Two days ago. My husband and I make out regularly. I anticipate another tonight.
Last night. My husband and I do every day. I didn’t realize this may not always be the case for people in relationships. But in any event, we both like it so we do it. And we’re old and have been married a long time.
That’s nice to here. :)
Last week. Husband and I still enjoy them from time to time.
How old are you guys?
I’m 44 and my husband and I made out this morning.
Awesome. That is so hot
I’m 50F and French kiss with my fiancé (35M) all the time!
We are in the above 40 age bracket.
Thursday. Love to kiss with someone who kisses well. Can’t put my finger on what it is exactly but it is so sexy.
Oh, crap, 20 plus years ago, my wife of 36 years stopped that years ago. It was like sex, she quit liking that too
My condolences. What does that do to your satisfaction in the relationship? Are you okay with that?
I'm in the same boat as JohannesLorenz1954. While not satisfied with that part of the relationship, the overall relationship is a win. Take the good with the bad.
I have to be, married for better or worse.
That is so sad. Not fair at all
It is what it is
Not fair how?
It is not fair to a partner to just tap out on intimacy. It can be a legitimate deal breaker.
Ah, I see, I thought they meant it wasn't fair as in their partner was consciously choosing to be unjust in the relationship. It sucks, but there's usually something underlying the change in sexual desire, and it's not fair to either person in the relationship that they have to experience a mis-match in libdo like that.
True. But if it is important to one or the other of them then it is time to split up
A year ago before my husband died. We were still madly in love in our 60’s.
I’m so sorry for your loss
A couple of months ago. The great thing about a long-distance relationship is that you’re always on your honeymoon 😭
I’m in this boat
Last night
She said
Years lol
many years ago. i think french kissing is gross (personally i have sensory issues so i have an issue with it💀), so i just don’t
Today
October 2023. These are sad, sad times.
15 minutes ago
6.5-ish/7-ish years
A few days ago.
Last Saturday. He was very cute and a good kisser :)
Last night. I can’t imagine going a day without at least one French kiss from my husband.
2 hours ago. Giggling on a parking lot like an 18 year old. That was a great first date 🥰
Love the giggling feeling so much !! ❤️
I just commented on someone else talking about making out in the car and I said it’s such a giggly feeling, I love it!
Too damn long
Last weekend with my partner :D He wasnt a big tongue guy before me, but I make him crave it
Yesterday? No, wait, it was Thursday.
This morning
Yesterday
I had very bad experiences with French kissing about 7 and a half years ago. It ruined it for me and every guy since then who’s tried I stopped because it just grosses me out too much now 😅
last summer maybe 🥲
64, my husband and I still French kiss.
A few hours ago
Hour or so?
over 3 years for me
Yesterday
Today
16 hours ago give or take
Like 1.5 hours
Bout 3 years ago.
Over 10 years. I’m 31 years old…
December 31st , I'm in an ldr and i haven't met her since
Pre-pandemic. maybe 2019? Went out with friends for a dance party and ended up making out with 3 friends. It was a good night.
Last weekend when I was with my fiancé. He gives the most amazing kisses!🤩🥰
Two nights ago with a hot guy 30 years younger
5 minutes ago 😅 Context: I am on a date with my husband and he is currently in the bathroom
A few days ago? I can’t kiss my husband like that unless I’m ready for things to escalate, he gets too excited the second a tongue is introduced
Yesterday, on a second date with heaps of chemistry! We were at a park sitting on a picnic rug in the afternoon. Pure romance book vibes
At the beginning of november last year
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I think it was 6-7 years or something.
Before he left for work Friday 🥰
Yesterday, hubby and I always have hot make out sessions.
Yesterday with my hubby oOoOoOo
(43F) About 1/2 hour ago with my partner.
What year is it?
It has been 84 years, I can go another 100 without it
3 to 4 years ago, I'm such a good kisser too 😁😁
Last Thursday. Awesome date with a FWB.
Im sorry, but why is there a distinction between kiss and french kiss to english speakers ? What is the difference
Pre-COVID
A longtime ago, in a land far away. Sadly
23 m and no kisses yet..
Last may, unfortunately. I keep finding men that don’t use tongue and I hate it.
About an hour ago. My BF (62) decided to go home instead of spend the night since we both have a lot to do tomorrow. Already miss him!
August 2023 AD
Past live
Couple hours ago. I love it when my husband lays one of those dreamy, "romance movie"-type kisses on me.
My partner and I usually make out to say hello/good bye we’re both in our 40’s. We always find a moment to hold each other and make out. It’s how we communicate if we’re in a good place with each other or not.
I love this
Last year at a very drunken party
Few hours ago before I left for work 😍 had a quickie on my way out the door… love this man
A few hours ago. I love having quick make outs with my girlfriend throughout the day.
A few hours ago. It's not uncommon for he and I to kiss passionately while cooking dinner together each night. Sometimes if something is baking or doesn't need immediate attention, kisses turn into passionate make out sessions or quick sexual encounters. Sometimes though the hubby and I lose track of time until the fire alarm reminds us that we aren't the only thing heating up😅
Last week
A long time. I kiss my husband with a closed mouth frequently but I just find the sensation of someone else's tongue in my mouth so repulsive.
Abt a month ago. Really creepy tinder date, it was an overall AWFUL experience. He didn’t ask, he just did it. And it was gross, and sad, and made me never wanna do it again lol.
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june 3rd 2023, it was my first kiss. he shoved his tongue down my throat, literally had no idea what to do so i just froze
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5 weeks ago
1 month ago
30 minutes
Summer last year
What does this even mean? Like, with tongues?
Yes, with tongues.
A little more than a week ago
last night
Like 4 days ago
2 weeks ago maybe?
5 months ago. Tbh im also 5 months pregnant so the idea of a tongue in my mouth right now makes me sick 🙃
Last year. Couple months
My first and last one was a little over four months ago
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2 nights ago
A week ago or so.
Last night
Last March? About a year ago
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Today!
A couple nights ago. Maybe Tuesday night?
A few seconds ago 🤣
18 years ago. It was gross.
2 minutes ago haha
This morning.
about 24 hours ago
A couple of days ago.
Yesterday 😋
Decades
2021
4 hours ago when I kissed my Fiancé goodbye for a lil weekend getaway
Two days ago. With my husband. It was a mistake. I started to feel sick a few hours later and am now positive with Covid. I feel bad.
14 months.
Last night with my husband.
A couple nights ago 🥰
About 2 hours ago :D
Over two years ago, before I left my ex.
2 days ago💋
This morning. Married 12 years.
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3 days ago
This morning
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A few months ago
Within the last week.
A couple months ago
A decade
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Last week. I don’t like it too much.
Last Wednesday
Yesterday
Like every other day?
20 minutes ago
An hour ago.
2 months ago
Past life.
When was Moby Dick a minnow?
I just vomited in my head at the thought. 💀
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Few days ago when I last saw my boyfriend
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I'm 24, 2 years
A few hours ago.
2 months ago
Couple nights ago at most.
Too long ago
Never, never had an interest in it and never will.
I haven't really been physically intimate with anyone, including kissing, since I started transitioning 2 years ago, and this is the question that made me realize it lol So, it's been... 4 or 5 years? But also, I think the next time I fall in love and kiss someone, it's gonna honestly feel like a first kiss all over again.
About an hour ago
2012. Last anything physical for me. It was when I left my abusive ex.