I wonder if he’s maybe not over you yet & just not ready for that friendship? Or maybe he was being polite. Either way his communication seems off like there’s more to his story he’s not sharing with you. Be cautious with your heart. You’re not a clingy freak
Thanks for saying that. The hot and cold communication is very hard on me mentally because I truly don’t understand what sets him off to distance himself suddenly. I have a suspicion he likes being single but wants to keep me on a string for the future. Which is totally unacceptable
Totally unacceptable. And it’s other reasons behind his behavior he still needs to communicate what it is he needs, like why he needs distance etc.
My ex was distancing himself because he wanted to avoid conflict. I think that’s unfair bc it didn’t leave room for us to sort things out and I’m left with little explanation for the breakuo
You weren’t being clingy... there is this pervasive notion of clingyness and people throw that term around for everything, you asked if he is ok and you wanted to understand and communicate with a person who is not communicating, its normal to have these feelings
Thanks this makes me feel better honestly. I’m not calling this man being like “love me!” The most I’ve said over the past year is that I felt like there were a lot of unresolved feelings on both sides and asked if we could meet up in person to discuss. We were both planning moves to different states and selecting between a few with some overlap so it was like well…don’t we want to know now? He just kind of brushed it off like yeah yeah we’ll get to it.
I wonder if he’s maybe not over you yet & just not ready for that friendship? Or maybe he was being polite. Either way his communication seems off like there’s more to his story he’s not sharing with you. Be cautious with your heart. You’re not a clingy freak
Thanks for saying that. The hot and cold communication is very hard on me mentally because I truly don’t understand what sets him off to distance himself suddenly. I have a suspicion he likes being single but wants to keep me on a string for the future. Which is totally unacceptable
Totally unacceptable. And it’s other reasons behind his behavior he still needs to communicate what it is he needs, like why he needs distance etc. My ex was distancing himself because he wanted to avoid conflict. I think that’s unfair bc it didn’t leave room for us to sort things out and I’m left with little explanation for the breakuo
You weren’t being clingy... there is this pervasive notion of clingyness and people throw that term around for everything, you asked if he is ok and you wanted to understand and communicate with a person who is not communicating, its normal to have these feelings
Thanks this makes me feel better honestly. I’m not calling this man being like “love me!” The most I’ve said over the past year is that I felt like there were a lot of unresolved feelings on both sides and asked if we could meet up in person to discuss. We were both planning moves to different states and selecting between a few with some overlap so it was like well…don’t we want to know now? He just kind of brushed it off like yeah yeah we’ll get to it.
Your actions are relatable
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Anxious attachment styles :(