I don't know how long it's been for you.
I was with my ex for 21 years.
No kids but still have a dog that we share.
It hurts a lot in the beginning whenever I have to see her to pass the dog over.
But it does get better.
Now I feel hurt when I get an email from her to organise when to pass the dog over.
But when I see her, I do feel a bit uncomfortable, it's a bit of hurt & maybe anxiety.
For me I guess it's because I wanted closure and hear from her why she decided to call it quit because nothing bad happened.
It will get better, the hurt will get lesser.
Its been 3 weeks since she left, we lived together for 8 years and one day out of nothing she decided to move out while i was at work. I had called her in the morning and everything was fine , i get home and her stuff and my sons stuff are gone. When i confronted her to find out why she said she stopped loving me. A while back. I loved her despite all her faults, she made my days happy, to see her face and hear her annoying high pitch voice was happiness to me and she and my son he made me a complete man, made me want to be a better person every day, I’ve could not have asked for more.
I find your answer a bit disappointing, things will get better but never truly go away, i still have 11 years to deal with her until my kid is 18, ill be a hell of a trip!
I appreciate you reaching out to me and sharing your experience.
A few days ago i found out she was seeing an other man at home when i was on a work trips, she wants to be. My friend after this break up, but i cant see her as a friend, its confusing how she talks to me. She talks like she really cared for me.
Asks me if i have already had lunch, if im taking care of my self and things like that and when she does she does it in a way that i can still feel she loves me despite knowing she most likely never did, i guess this makes the whole experience. More painful.
Painfully.. I can't handleit.. And I'm scared she becomes pregnant by someone else, it burns and the whole inside my hearts keeps getting bigger.
My first thought was if you guys have a son. Go for it try to rekindle the feelings. Try become friends again let her laugh, comfort her. Maybe y'all get back together. Y'all have a kid, so the feelings were mutual. The connection was there. You can't fall out of true love, you can only fall out of love if you wasn't in love. But don't go to hard on it otherwise you'll get crushed.
I don't know how long it's been for you. I was with my ex for 21 years. No kids but still have a dog that we share. It hurts a lot in the beginning whenever I have to see her to pass the dog over. But it does get better. Now I feel hurt when I get an email from her to organise when to pass the dog over. But when I see her, I do feel a bit uncomfortable, it's a bit of hurt & maybe anxiety. For me I guess it's because I wanted closure and hear from her why she decided to call it quit because nothing bad happened. It will get better, the hurt will get lesser.
Its been 3 weeks since she left, we lived together for 8 years and one day out of nothing she decided to move out while i was at work. I had called her in the morning and everything was fine , i get home and her stuff and my sons stuff are gone. When i confronted her to find out why she said she stopped loving me. A while back. I loved her despite all her faults, she made my days happy, to see her face and hear her annoying high pitch voice was happiness to me and she and my son he made me a complete man, made me want to be a better person every day, I’ve could not have asked for more. I find your answer a bit disappointing, things will get better but never truly go away, i still have 11 years to deal with her until my kid is 18, ill be a hell of a trip! I appreciate you reaching out to me and sharing your experience. A few days ago i found out she was seeing an other man at home when i was on a work trips, she wants to be. My friend after this break up, but i cant see her as a friend, its confusing how she talks to me. She talks like she really cared for me. Asks me if i have already had lunch, if im taking care of my self and things like that and when she does she does it in a way that i can still feel she loves me despite knowing she most likely never did, i guess this makes the whole experience. More painful.
Buddy of cause she really cares about you your the father of her child you spent a lot of time together and had a very strong bond.
Painfully.. I can't handleit.. And I'm scared she becomes pregnant by someone else, it burns and the whole inside my hearts keeps getting bigger. My first thought was if you guys have a son. Go for it try to rekindle the feelings. Try become friends again let her laugh, comfort her. Maybe y'all get back together. Y'all have a kid, so the feelings were mutual. The connection was there. You can't fall out of true love, you can only fall out of love if you wasn't in love. But don't go to hard on it otherwise you'll get crushed.