Sounds like she is acting jealous, and wants to hurt you. Do you know if this guy is real and she is seeing this guy? Maybe she is just saying these things to get arise out of you, so you get hurt. If she found out you had a rebound date, she will get jealous. Ignore her. She sounds toxic. She broke it off and you have to move on. Don’t let her get to you.
Can’t exactly confirm that he’s real, but she’s been telling her close close friends, that’s how I found out so I don’t think she’d lie about that, plus she knows the guy from HS
I just don’t know why she’s want to hurt me, she knows I still like her, I never treated her wrong in the relationship like idk what I did, she just keeps hurting me
It’s a jealousy revenge thing. She is jealous you went on a date and she is like “why does he still like me and going on dates?” She wants to see if she can hurt you.
Ok when she goes on and on about her sex life you are completely allowed to just shut that down. Interrupt with “I don’t need to know, TMI”
I am so sorry they left you when you were in the middle of a health crisis! So many people are extremely selfish and don’t come through in times of need. I say the trash took itself out, you can find someone better who would actually support you.
Thanks, yeah just very confused why she would go into such detail, I never tried to upset her in anyway like I was such a good bf, her mom even texted me saying how good I was and I deserved better. I was just trying to keep things civil :/
You assume the world and the people in it have the same values as you. They don’t.
This girl sounds like she enjoys being petty. There is no point other than to make you uncomfortable and see if you get jealous.
I recommend looking for traits you have yourself in your future partner. I used to have a similar mindset as you but then I noticed how shitty a lot of people can be. Not everyone, you just need to learn to spot them ASAP so you don’t have to date them to find out.
Sounds like she is acting jealous, and wants to hurt you. Do you know if this guy is real and she is seeing this guy? Maybe she is just saying these things to get arise out of you, so you get hurt. If she found out you had a rebound date, she will get jealous. Ignore her. She sounds toxic. She broke it off and you have to move on. Don’t let her get to you.
Can’t exactly confirm that he’s real, but she’s been telling her close close friends, that’s how I found out so I don’t think she’d lie about that, plus she knows the guy from HS
I just don’t know why she’s want to hurt me, she knows I still like her, I never treated her wrong in the relationship like idk what I did, she just keeps hurting me
It’s a jealousy revenge thing. She is jealous you went on a date and she is like “why does he still like me and going on dates?” She wants to see if she can hurt you.
Ok when she goes on and on about her sex life you are completely allowed to just shut that down. Interrupt with “I don’t need to know, TMI” I am so sorry they left you when you were in the middle of a health crisis! So many people are extremely selfish and don’t come through in times of need. I say the trash took itself out, you can find someone better who would actually support you.
Thanks, yeah just very confused why she would go into such detail, I never tried to upset her in anyway like I was such a good bf, her mom even texted me saying how good I was and I deserved better. I was just trying to keep things civil :/
You assume the world and the people in it have the same values as you. They don’t. This girl sounds like she enjoys being petty. There is no point other than to make you uncomfortable and see if you get jealous. I recommend looking for traits you have yourself in your future partner. I used to have a similar mindset as you but then I noticed how shitty a lot of people can be. Not everyone, you just need to learn to spot them ASAP so you don’t have to date them to find out.