It sucks but they chose to not be apart of our lives, so we have to give them that, we stay away, far away, if they want us back into their lives they will contact us. If your ex ended things on a bad note or did something unforgivable then don’t even hope they text you back, let them be miserable. My ex is super suicidal but she did me really dirty and the way she broke up was very selfish. I want to make sure she’s okay but she thought I was batter off not in her life, so whatever happens happens and I hope to god her friends are there for her because I will not
Yeah like I get it, it’s hard especially when you like helping people, I love helping people and making sure people are okay, but my ex broke up with me and abandoned me on my death bed. And then I tried being friendly to her and she told me about the new guy she’s fucking, some people don’t deserve to be I. Your life. Believe me, if this person wasn’t good to you in the end or in general please for your sanity cut them out until they heal
He chose to not be there for me when I got out of the mental hospital. I was in there for 10 days and he disappeared for *months*.
They chose this. Some might consider it petty or immature, to hold a grudge, but it protects us. If they weren’t there for us then why should we show up for them?
We have no obligations to them anymore.
My exes are not like each other so those feelings don’t present or apply to other relationships. I hold a grudge until I move forward, but we all do things differently
I wish you the best in your healing 🫶🏻💓
My ex has had a litany of problems since she blindsided me. I have on multiple occasions, extend the olive branches and offered to help offered to do things offered to pay for things and no you shouldn’t still be there for your ex. Your ex should approach you if there’s going to be any kind of reconciliation, even if that’s just friendship.
Because I love her, and because I love her children. I made a commitment in my heart, and I bonded with her, and I made a promise to her children, and I don’t abandon people. To me, it comes down to human decency and doing the right thing especially as a man. Maybe I am very idealistic.
I did everything with her and constantly did things for her while we were together. She cut all of that off completely when we separated. She is dismissive avoidant.
It sucks but they chose to not be apart of our lives, so we have to give them that, we stay away, far away, if they want us back into their lives they will contact us. If your ex ended things on a bad note or did something unforgivable then don’t even hope they text you back, let them be miserable. My ex is super suicidal but she did me really dirty and the way she broke up was very selfish. I want to make sure she’s okay but she thought I was batter off not in her life, so whatever happens happens and I hope to god her friends are there for her because I will not
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Yeah like I get it, it’s hard especially when you like helping people, I love helping people and making sure people are okay, but my ex broke up with me and abandoned me on my death bed. And then I tried being friendly to her and she told me about the new guy she’s fucking, some people don’t deserve to be I. Your life. Believe me, if this person wasn’t good to you in the end or in general please for your sanity cut them out until they heal
He chose to not be there for me when I got out of the mental hospital. I was in there for 10 days and he disappeared for *months*. They chose this. Some might consider it petty or immature, to hold a grudge, but it protects us. If they weren’t there for us then why should we show up for them? We have no obligations to them anymore.
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My exes are not like each other so those feelings don’t present or apply to other relationships. I hold a grudge until I move forward, but we all do things differently I wish you the best in your healing 🫶🏻💓
My ex has had a litany of problems since she blindsided me. I have on multiple occasions, extend the olive branches and offered to help offered to do things offered to pay for things and no you shouldn’t still be there for your ex. Your ex should approach you if there’s going to be any kind of reconciliation, even if that’s just friendship.
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No, she wouldn’t accept any help
why did you extend the help if you say you shouldn't be there for your ex?
Because I love her, and because I love her children. I made a commitment in my heart, and I bonded with her, and I made a promise to her children, and I don’t abandon people. To me, it comes down to human decency and doing the right thing especially as a man. Maybe I am very idealistic.
I did everything with her and constantly did things for her while we were together. She cut all of that off completely when we separated. She is dismissive avoidant.